I'm Leo, trying get ahold of a Scorpio guurl

Hello everyone, I'm new around here but I will try to keep the story not too long.

So basically: I am Leo and I met a Scorpio girl approximately two weeks ago.

And as maybe some of you people know how Leo works (atleast I do), I got kinda in love with her already lol. Now I'm looking for some kind advices what I should and should not do towards her... Good ways to act and so on, all kind of information would be appreciated.

We have met in group with some other people around us and we've been poking each other with words on the latest time and a few days ago I decided to get her number and so on, so we started to hangout a little bit private just me and her.. We did not like kiss eachother or something like that, we respected eachother and just spoke about all kind of things, a couple of hugs and thats pretty much it. We have met like 2-3 times. We're not from the same city, she is studying in the city I grew up in but I'm not there anymore but I do have my freinds there. So Its maybe a little bit harder to know what she is doing, ask for hangouts and so on.. Anyway, About her; She doesnt speak too much private about herself and she thinks VERY much of her image and what people will think about her, She have admitted that Im funny. A problem is that she have fucking called me bro sometimes, I realize that she uses that word quite often to everyone but like.. is it already too late to even try or is that someway that she is testing me or something?

A situation that happened: After we hanged out the last couple of days, yesterday I went home to my city so I left my old town (where she is now), she was kind with texting and said like hey drive safe slowly etc, I will wait until you get home and so on, we spoke a lil bit and she was sleepy and at the end she was like: hey bro dont forget to check which time you have an appointment tomorrow and she is giving me mixed signals when chatting,. Then I answered like dude you have said bro to me a couple of times now its enough , it doesnt feel so good when you say it all the time, she was like why: I told her, I opened up myself to you a little bit because it felt good to do it with you and I have alot of bros I can do it to but I dont, and she was like what kind of relation do we have? I told her I dont know because we do not know eachtoher so good yet and she was so tired so she asked if she could save the text that i wrote and i was like no just forget it and then she fellasleep and we havent spoke since then.

No lies or something, I simply want the girl and I'm ready to fight for her because I already like her. Feel free to chat with anything related to it here. Everything is appreciated

Help a mate out. How am I supposed to get this Scorpio girl, we havent spoke for almost 2 days now. Should I play hard or what... I love her already lol, any tips?

Call her.

No no, I'm not in love this early but I do like her.

Update: Guys...

We are "friends" according to her and she sometimes likes to mark with calling me bro or some shit like that lol but I seriously doubt that it is just freindship. I dont know if she is afraid or something but I do know that this girl thinks very much about her reputation.. but I Also know that she wants a freindship with someone before she goes into a relationship and a note; according to her she have never been in a relationship.

I know I have to be very careful but give me some tips how to win her heart more, how to give her signals that I want her, how should I behave? Like a boss to her ,a dog, or just neutral and be myself? Because i dont know how scorpio girls are and what turn them on? these latest day we have been hanging out but now I went back to my town and we just snapchat sometimes etc. but when we hang out we really like hugged eachother, chilled close to the water and stuff like that dude.. cmon it doesnt feel like we are just in a friendly zone? heeeelp

Ty for response!

Well the thing is she is hard to read.

Should I tell her stragiht up? I think it will scary her.

Should I disapear for a while that might make her a little bit interesting as they like mystic things dont they??

I got no clue what to do.. Ive seen how she is with her other freinds and she isnt like that as the way she is to me.

We hang out alone but we used to be in a group before and we sit now together at the sea next to the water, a couple of days ago we watched the sunset go down while eating and all that stuff, and she was like joking is this a date blabla? She kinda gives me these vibes but hard to read as I said.. I know that she have told to her freind if she is going to get in a relationship she wants first to be freind with that guy so the chances are still there for me, yea?

we used to hangout 4 ppl together but nowadays its more just me and her? My freind introducted me to the group but the focus went mostly on her lol. Ive also opened upmyself a lil bit to her as I barely do that to ppl.

Sometimes she just sends me a text like how are u feeling? how should i even react? im overthinking this whole situation but all kind of help would be appreciated.

And one more thing; I do actually not pursue her in that way, im just sending some signals to her.

A short update as well: We were in a discussion about some stuff and she constantly like asks me about my reputation, a day ago she went through my instagram lol and its like.. these kind of stuff freinds dont do? i told her this kind of things, would a girl that is interested in me do... however, long story short, back and forth it ended up she cried about some stuff and that was actually also brave of her that she did it infront of me and kinda openned up a lil bit, not too much talking but i saw the tears and its enough for such an early freindship or whatever to call it. She constantly rubs my back and she knows i like it, when im driving the car she also does it, sometimes massage when we out walking and stuff like that? srsly she doesnt do that to everyone

When she asked you what she is to you that was your chance to step up and be a man and tell her you are pursuing her. Instead you pussied out and she friend zoned you.

If I use bro with a guy, you have been friend zoned and you aren't getting out of it.

But she friendzoned me from the beginning and also she always does that to all of her friends? Ive seen how she is with her rael freinds and she dont act the way she does with me. Dont forget she have never had a boyfriend before...

update: I heard from a freind that she belivies im a good guy and she likes me but the problem is we are not from the same country, a hard nut to crack yeah? still not over tho..

and when she writes hearts and all that stuff to her friends, she doesnt to me? its more like carefull writing and a few times roses and stuff? sometimes she writes out of nowhere like hey how are u... we kinda deep sometimes too

i can no problem at all, be honest and say that i like her but it was a situation, early in the friendship where she thouught that i liked her alraedy and she thought that it would be wierd and too fast, so she wanted to mark it as we are just friends atm and i played cool because i didnt want to look as a wierdo getting feelings so fast. I think if we just get to know each other more it feels like we are getting more connected? the way the hangout together it feels deep and more than just a freindship and she have said it by her own, she wants a freindship before it goes into a relationship...

Man, be a Leo. Stop all this pussyfooting around. Man up and tell her that you don't want just friendship with her. Ask her out, straight up. You'll never get her with this weak attitude

Okay straight up now:

I can easily call her right off, tell her to get out and explain to her that I really like her. BUT

When I look at all these god damn horoscope shit it makes me crazy... and a freind of mine is a Scorpio and he is saying he knows how to get this girl and he is going to help me, and im also afraid that it might be too early to say that i like her, it might scare her off? Because I know for me its never too early and i hate to wait, im spontainuus and all that stuff but im afraid she is not? therefor im not sure if i should just blow it all and give it a shot, its like 50% 50 percent chance ? please give me all kind of suggestions guys........

Have this website died a lil bit on lately? you guys know any other place if im allowed to ask?

bump 😢

Just flirt with her. see if she flirts back. If she doesn't, she's not that into you.

I know she is.

How is the compability between Leo male and Scorpio girl? Seriously, the wayy she is with me when we are alone together no freinds are!! She make my heart warm seriously im dying for this girl but i dont want to show it too much and look like a desperate shit :/ dunno what to do

She have tried to call me today, should I atleast reply with a text like i will contact u soon again or just fully dissapear? i have not been feeling so good the latest day my feelings are up and down :/

or should i express myself to her and say like im not feeling good etc should i open up myself

Posted by fireInTheBooth
Have this website died a lil bit on lately? you guys know any other place if im allowed to ask?

bump 😢

hahahhah Hello there, for me if I have a spark for you and if you are a typical Leo like good looking (so shallow I know), confident , have strong leadership and have a passion in doing things then I wouldn't mind at all if you straight up being a man and confess to me. I will love how you confident about your feeling and even if I'm not ready and I would want you to be my friend, you will still have a chance if you stick around with me for quite sometimes until I feel like I can trust you( I think this would happen to you after you confess to her but I'm sure you will still have a high chance of getting her if you stick around long enough because this is how I test people hahah)

Tips: if you get friend zone and the "I'm not ready for relationship" card from her after you confessed to her then you should be a good friend to her and support her in everything. Also, have passion in doing things and let her see that you have strong determination for you success and you aren't a chicken(you need to be consistent about this) soon or later she will come back to you and beg you to be her man ;D.

Posted by fireInTheBooth
Help a mate out. How am I supposed to get this Scorpio girl, we havent spoke for almost 2 days now. Should I play hard or what... I love her already lol, any tips?

Well this is right up my alley, I've had a few run ins with Scorpio women. For example I dated a Scorpio woman for 1.5 years right after she attempted to "friend zone" me. It's possible to get out of the "friend zone", but only if the woman was/is attracted to you in the first place. It's also best to not land yourself there at all by simply being direct in the very beginning. I'll run through what I did and what you could do to potentially change things.

First know that you're definitely in the "friend zone" because you put yourself there. If I'm not mistaken, it sounds like there was some casual flirting between you two before you became "friends". That was the perfect time to ask this girl out. (It's also possible she's simply not interested in you, we'll get to that). Scorpio women can be diligent and very skeptical, therefore you never want to rush them into a decision. However they are a fixed sign and respect the direct approach. They also respond to honesty and intensity.

In my situation, I got to know my Scorpio ex when she persuaded me to stop pursuing a friend of hers (out of jealousy). She wanted me for herself instead. I was young at the time and didn't see the OBVIOUS clues she was interested in me, so I decided to hang out and be her friend for several months instead. I of course developed feelings for her over time. At one point she made a comment that I was "like a brother" to her and I walked out on her. She said that's when she knew I had feelings for her too.

I started acting funny around her and avoiding her because I didn't want to deal with a potentially awkward situation (again I was young). She caught on and started pestering me about it. I eventually gave in and told her that I wanted to date her, but by then she had gotten used to our friendship and didn't want to risk jeopardizing it.I of course was confused, annoyed, and embarrassed by her response so I immediately backed off and told her that it was cool and we never needed to see each other again.

I DIDN'T accept the friendship because I couldn't. My feelings were too strong for this Scorpio, so I instead I told her that it would be best to BURN the whole thing since I liked her too much and couldn't go back (honesty & intensity). I told her if she changed her mind to let me know, but she wouldn't hear from me again. At that point I was DONE. I was done feeling emotions for her, I was done holding things in, and I was DONE with her. I cared about her, but I just didn't want to feel crazy anymore.

Well it took her all of 1 or 2 days to call me and tell me that she wanted to be my girlfriend, so we dated for a year and a half. The sexual chemistry between a Leo man and a Scorpio woman is insane.

Now I can't guarantee you'll wind up getting together with this girl. There are a few factors that worked in my favor that you may not have at your disposal. First, the Scorpio woman was interested in me and pursued me in the beginning (I was just too dumb to see it). Second we did have a friendship that was founded in mutual attraction, trust and loyalty by that point. You've only known this girl for two weeks, so she probably doesn't feel like she knows you well enough to get into anything serious with you. Third I was seriously ready to burn the bridge just for my own peace of mind. She understood my conviction and found it sexy. While you don't need to be dramatic, if the Scorpio woman says "No" you need to be prepared to walk away.

So at this point there isn't anything for you TO do. A woman will "friend zone" you for one of two reasons. Either she's not attracted to you (and possible never was) OR she's keeping you as a potential option for the future, but doesn't want to risk anything at the moment (this could be for a variety of reasons). Either way the only thing you can do is leave her alone. When/if she contacts you, let her know that you like her and want to pursue something beyond a friendship. However if she's not interested, you're fine to back off entirely. If she changes her mind, she can give you a call. Definitely only contact her if she reaches out first though, otherwise you'll come across as needy/clingy.

She friendzoned me from the beginning but she still flirts with me. Even my friend said by himself that she is really trying so hard to hide that she likes me. She really likes to hang out with me and also thinks that it's fun.. we are kinda special when we hang out, anyway

From the beginning she was like bro bro to everyone, She always uses that word and we got to know each other through two other freinds that she doesnt know SO GOOD, but quite ok through school.

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quick facts about her: She likes to do things that no one knows, for example when she is going out with me, she doesnt want anyone to know it etc.

A couple of days ago I went back to my city (as we're not in the same city)... And I asked her if we could meet before I leave, it was around 22:00 and she was like naah I dont really go out that late but somehow she said okay then fine but not too long. We were out to 01:00 and we really enjoyed the time with eachother...

Another situation it was like, we were sitting eating close to the water and it was quite a romantic time and she was like... is this a date blablaaaa and we laughed, she is like constantly testing me and another thing some days ago she started to like ask me how many girls ive been with before and stuff like that..? srsly

friends dont do that. I THINK she wants to give our "freindship" some time, get to know each other and then slowly see where it will go, i think she is thinking if she should try or not with me because dont forget, she have never been in a relationship and is very careful when it comes to her reputation and all that stuff.

Latest thing that happened yesterday: We hadn't spoke for the whole day ok.. so she wrote to me laate around 23:30 and was like hey how are you

I didnt answer,

She called me 3 times,

After some hours around 02 I called her and we spoke a little bit and I was like hey its nice to see and i appreciate that you check on me even tho that we havent spoke so much and she was like wtf we have spoke? and i said no no i just mean for today... and she said like, i know that sometimes when you are down you dont answer the phone even tho if someone calls u... damn

so I answered with that i was sleeping and just woke up.

But hey, I really have to thank you for this text you made my day! Please just reply a few times more lol

😆. Tell me more about it will ya 😄

Oh this is easy. Just let her come to you. Sounds like she is still keeping herself around you, even after you blurted out your feelings to her. If she was completely done with you, she wouldn't reopen the communication. She definitely would not have called you three times to "check" on you.

Also good job on diffusing any potential drama between you two by saying you were sleeping. You don't want her to think that you were purposefully ignoring her, that will only make you look childish. The next time she contacts you, invite her out.

But wait, I think you missunderstood me... I maybe have gave her some mixed signals, but I have not said: hey i want you in that way because i think its too early for that. i dont wanna look like desperate or some stuff like that. But yea, sometimes she writes out of nowhere like hey how u doin... sometimes she just opens my snap and doesnt even answer to it.. then a few hours later she resend 1-2 snaps and then Im like should i really answer or just do like she does?

is there any good way to threat and behave in order to get this woman, any tip? play hard, play easy or what

And she is currently busy with school in her city and im going to visit her city in a few days so I guess we will hang out then but not in the coming 2-3 days atleast. Should i like try a freind tactic and tell her about a girl whos into me or?

I have blurted my feelings to her but not my feelings ABOUT HER. just about life and shit, ive opened up myself..

Posted by fireInTheBooth
But wait, I think you missunderstood me... I maybe have gave her some mixed signals, but I have not said: hey i want you in that way because i think its too early for that. i dont wanna look like desperate or some stuff like that. But yea, sometimes she writes out of nowhere like hey how u doin... sometimes she just opens my snap and doesnt even answer to it.. then a few hours later she resend 1-2 snaps and then Im like should i really answer or just do like she does?

is there any good way to threat and behave in order to get this woman, any tip? play hard, play easy or what

And she is currently busy with school in her city and im going to visit her city in a few days so I guess we will hang out then but not in the coming 2-3 days atleast. Should i like try a freind tactic and tell her about a girl whos into me or?

I have blurted my feelings to her but not my feelings ABOUT HER. just about life and shit, ive opened up myself..

That makes more sense now that I'm rereading your first post. It's still an easy situation. Here's what you know in that case. She just recently met you, but seems interested in hanging out and talking to you a considerable amount. She calls everyone "bro" including the other people she's met recently. She's never been in a relationship before either, so you're definitely going to have to make all of the first moves.

Don't focus on a relationship, locking her down, or making her your girlfriend. With it being so early, that will only freak her out. Just invite her out.

Yeah exactly, thank you for taking your time mate and reading it. so Basically, the best thing is to do.. ?

Like you mean ask her out; just to hang out and do some random stuff? or you mean ask her out like an actual date

as now, we are speaking sometimes on snapchat but i will visit her town in a few days and i guess we will hangout together then and have fun etc. Its like, it happens more when we are together... she is maybe a little bit careful or playhard when talking to me at distance through snap etc or she simply isnt that type of person that is very active dunno.

a note: i remember when we were in a school together studying, but it wasnt really studying it was more like hanging out and talking xD. anyway, she like went through my insta and started to ask me things about whos this and that.. she asked types of questions regarding my reputation and future etc.



btw mate, good tactics? just act normal? write much, play hard or how should i behave? should i try in the future talk about a girl who is writing to me and see how her react is, if she maybe gets jelous or smth?

Yeah just ask her out. You don't need to sound overly official, but letting her know that you're interested in her and want to take her out is harmless. It already sounds like she likes to keep it just the two of you, so that shouldn't really be difficult to do. Also yes act normal and don't try to make her jealous, that can only backfire. If she gets jealous on her own that's one thing, but don't try to invoke it.

Hmm. I don't know she gets me moody, ups and down. I am still thinking if I should tell her or not? that im into her in more than a friendly way.. will she think it is way too early or what? based on what you guys have read these things I have wrote above.

These latest two days Ive sent her some snaps but she have been a little bit defensive or playhard to get or something? I suspect that she is thinking

a) she have been too much forward or open to me and realized it and kinda want to stop for a little bit and stay on her feets or smth like that, like she doesnt want me give me too much air or how u say it...

b) she wanna act hard cold or some reason , is it a test to see if im still going to be there still or not? like whats up

c) i dont know lol

Ive heard different things when it comes to scorpio girls.. some ppl says show that you are confident, maskulin, got the power etc etc etc. some other say, act like a victim, speak about your feelings and things like that?

Hate to say this but you've been friend zoned.

I say Dude a lot, and it'll slip out once in awhile while talking to a guy a like. Reminded myself not to say DUDE again, bc I wanted to show that I was interested.

But in this case, she def only see's you as just a friend.

My advice is DON'T TRY SO HARD.

You just met. Be cool. MAYBE she'll start liking you more than friends.

If you start confessing your feelings, she's going to run the other direction.

Not gonna lie, most of us scorpio ladies take initiative and let that person know we like them. Or at least show obvious signs that she does.

If she's not doing that, well you'll just have to be patient.

Just get to know her, be her friend.

Yeah these latest days I've been chilling a little bit more normally and I dont wanna hang on her too much yknow. But I still wonder,

Do friends really rub eachothers back, sitting at the lake just us two, and all that stuff? It feels like she somehow shows more than friends but still doesnt want to make it too obvious and she probably want me to work for it than just making it too easy by letting me know it. And she have said by herself that before she gets into something with someone, she wants to be friend with that person first and in order to that, u basiclly must be her freind for a while first yea? And like our friends always peak and joke about me and her that we're attached to eachother and stuff like that... Do u guys really think its over?



yesterday: We were a group of people together and at the end of the night when we all got home, she havent texted me the whole day, then suddenly when we were all home like 4 in the morning or smth, she writes like, hey are u home yet... and I was like yea blabla u... etc and the way she writes she is much more careful than to her other freinds... anyway after we both were home and all that, we stopped talk. then after like 20min she wrote to me again like sleep good or smth ? dude ............ im so fucking confused

Bump :/

Im drowning in my feelings and this is getting bad.

Im thinking about just do as the guy did that posted in my topic i think at page 2...



I was thinking to just contact her and tell her. Dude either we just drop the contact and we never talk again because I am not in need of freinds and all taht shit etc or you contact me if you feel that I have a chance with you at all, but I will write it in a good way.. or should I meet her and say it? thoughts about that? srsly i dont wanna waste time as friends, i dont want freinds, i want a lifepartner..

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Posted by fireInTheBooth
Yeah these latest days I've been chilling a little bit more normally and I dont wanna hang on her too much yknow. But I still wonder,

Do friends really rub eachothers back, sitting at the lake just us two, and all that stuff? It feels like she somehow shows more than friends but still doesnt want to make it too obvious and she probably want me to work for it than just making it too easy by letting me know it. And she have said by herself that before she gets into something with someone, she wants to be friend with that person first and in order to that, u basiclly must be her freind for a while first yea? And like our friends always peak and joke about me and her that we're attached to eachother and stuff like that... Do u guys really think its over?



yesterday: We were a group of people together and at the end of the night when we all got home, she havent texted me the whole day, then suddenly when we were all home like 4 in the morning or smth, she writes like, hey are u home yet... and I was like yea blabla u... etc and the way she writes she is much more careful than to her other freinds... anyway after we both were home and all that, we stopped talk. then after like 20min she wrote to me again like sleep good or smth ? dude ............ im so fucking confused

Are you doting around her?

Your energy seems a bit desperate, I hope that's not the energy you bring around her, if so... she's definitely friend-zoned you.

You need to chill out. Let her get to know YOU from afar. That's easy to do, if you have friends in common and hang around the same circles.

Don't give her so much attention. Just let her see and observe you. If she's interested, she'll come towards you.

You've already told her how you feel about her. Let her make the next move. For now, you just do YOU.

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Mate you have misunderstood. I havent told her that I want to pursue or escalate something between me and her, I havent said that yet. And I havent been pursuing her so much. But a thing that i noticed is that she on the latest days turned a little bit cold or something ? I think she realized that she were giving me too much or something i dont know? and yea we have just been hanging out together alone and also with freinds, no biggies. I bring good energy around her.

btw should I like open up myself that I dont feel good or something, does that make a scorpio woman want to know more about you and get closer to you ? should i do something special any tips like things that helps me out in this situation and last question, should i just write a long message about how i feel and what i would like to do with her like date etc

Dunno might be a old one or smth bugg? but please tell me help me out