im so confused about this

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hi,

i met this scorpio male at a party about three months ago. i felt a connection and i'm sure he did too because he pulled me over to dance with him. we started making out and ended up hooking up. we were both drunk, but we've continued to hook up for the past three months. at first, we were just hookup buddies with no strings attached, but we've slowly become better and better friends. i know that it's inevitable not to develop feelings in a friends with benefits relationship, and i have started to like him. i thought he reciprocated, and i was getting ready to talk to him about our relationship. but he suddenly started becoming very mean (to me) and teasing me. he criticizes me and my personality and how i talk. he told me that he will change me for the better. he likes to play pranks on me. when we were hanging out with another guy friend of ours, and i started to wrap my arm around our friend (in a completely platonic way), he started calling me stupid and pushed me (literally, he pushed my hips away) away from them. i don't know how he feels now, and he's giving me completely mixed signals. i know that it's not a big deal, and my other friends say that he's just playing around, but it hurts when he chooses to isolate and criticize only me. should i just break everything off? i don't understand where he's coming from.
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I have no clue what you are confused about ... and I don't see any mixed signals.


You are his easy piece of ass, and the reason why he reacts to when you are near other guys is because he knows you're easy, and he wants to make sure that other guys aren't taking their share.


That ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ seems perfectly obvious, why aren't you able to get obvious?
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I know I don't deserve this, and I know that I do not put up with this BS. But he has gotten under my skin as well; I can't stop thinking about him. It's hard to change your feelings for someone, and it's hard to just suddenly not like someone emotionally. However, his actions are starting to override any like that I've had for him. I just can't believe why he would do this. We have been becoming good friends. He was a great guy, and then he started to screw around with my head and play games with me.

He started initiating debates and arguments about completely consequential topics with me to gauge my reaction. I know, because he would stare at me with a smirk as I continued to argue with him. I played into it because i thought that he was simply testing me and my intelligence. Obviously, I was dumb because he didn't stop at this debates and started to make fun of me. The reason why I started to like him was because I thought he was sensitive and understanding. He was a great friend to have.

It is hard (at this point--where I'm still on the edge of having feelings for him) to leave. I do leave, but I keep coming back; however, I have been coming back less. Is he being mean because to tell me that he doesn't like me at all? I just want an explanation for his being a little b*tch. I don't think I've done anything to deserve his wrath. He knew that I had another friend with benefits, but as I started developing feelings for him (and him teasing me about it because he doesn't like to share), I broke it off with the other guy for him. That's the only thing that might have invoked his rage, but I ended it a couple of weeks ago.

However, I don't have the time to waste and energy to spend it playing his games. I don't want to lose to him, but he's being way too immature. I'm think I'm going to start spending time with other people and see if my feelings for him change so that he knows that he can't just walk over me like that.
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Posted by nothappy

The sex has been great though, and I kinda want to play with him just for it. Oh wait, I already do.






You make a joke out of it .. which means how you feel is a joke.

Posted by nothappy

If he does like me, why is he ruining his chances by being mean to me?

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He doens't like you

he's not ruining any chances .. because he doesn't like you

you really think your'e worth somethign to him?

to even say such thing is suggesting you are important enough that he should take notice of your presense and try to win you over.




You're his fucking whore .. you really are that stupid aren't you?
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Posted by nothappy

... we've continued to hook up for the past three months. at first, we were just hookup buddies with no strings attached ....


... i know that it's inevitable not to develop feelings in a friends with benefits relationship, and i have started to like him. i thought he reciprocated







No, it's not inevitable for a guy to develop feelings for his whore.

You thought wrong if you thought he started to like you back.


Be a big girl, if you think you can, and pull up your fucking panties and walk away with what pride you have left.