@bella70777
14 Years
Any Scorpio men out there who cheated?
How Scorpio Men Typically React to Cheating
Scorpio men are known for their intense emotions and loyalty. When they cheat, they often hide it deeply and may become secretive or distant. Some may confess, while others keep their actions hidden. Their reaction depends on personal values and circumstances, but generally they are driven by passion and can be unforgiving if betrayed.
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Posted by bella70777
I just wanted to know how you would act if you cheat? And if you ever made the Scorpions famous disappearing act... were you out cheating during those times? Have you ever cheated accidentally. Like, you were drunk and a woman seduced you? Did you fess up? or are you still living with this secret? Just, how would you act if you cheated or are cheating?? Any advice would be helpful, thank you.
I've cheated once, I guess you could consider it somewhat an accident. Turning down one chick is tough enough but two...I had no chance. However, I didn't disappear nor did my conscience eat me alive. I felt slightly bad but I brushed it off and came to the conclusion...If she gives me any hint she knows anything, I'll come clean and get it over with..if not, I'm going down with the ship. Until this day, I never told anyone..and only a couple of friends...the ones I grew up with but other than that..No one knows.
Posted by bella70777
I just wanted to know how you would act if you cheat? And if you ever made the Scorpions famous disappearing act... were you out cheating during those times? Have you ever cheated accidentally. Like, you were drunk and a woman seduced you? Did you fess up? or are you still living with this secret? Just, how would you act if you cheated or are cheating?? Any advice would be helpful, thank you.
my scorp friend cheats all the time. flirts endlessly, yes but also fucks other women. his girlfriend is an aqua and she knows all about it. things is, i don't think he'd ever leave her. their relationship isn't open...because from what i know, his gf doesn't cheat. it's all on his side. his previous ex messed him up, he has zero trust for females...except the aqua. he's heartless now, and he revels in it.
i just see him as a little boy whose favourite cartoon stopped airing and he's still sulking over it. he's young, though. i'll bet by the time he's ready to grow up and take a committed realtionship seriously, he will.
the scorp i messed with was sleeping around on his virgo gf and she knew all about it.
Posted by bella70777
I just wanted to know how you would act if you cheat? And if you ever made the Scorpions famous disappearing act... were you out cheating during those times? Have you ever cheated accidentally. Like, you were drunk and a woman seduced you? Did you fess up? or are you still living with this secret? Just, how would you act if you cheated or are cheating?? Any advice would be helpful, thank you.
dish the details 🙂
your holding out on something juicy!
Have you ever cheated accidentally. Like, you were drunk and a woman seduced you?
So, a guy fucking a woman if he has the excuse of being drunk is an accidental fuck?
I'll bet guys are standing in line with thier wallets out ready to pay for your cooking and laundry classes, to prepare you for being the perfect wife.
Have you ever cheated accidentally. Like, you were drunk and a woman seduced you?
So, a guy fucking a woman if he has the excuse of being drunk is an accidental fuck?
I'll bet guys are standing in line with thier wallets out ready to pay for your cooking and laundry classes, to prepare you for being the perfect wife.
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i feel like thats the excuse he gave her and she almost ate it up.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
You can't cheat accidently imo.
That's about it really.
Posted by GemFiregirl33
I am currently probing my Scorpio ex bf about still talking to me,and still dating this other girl.I think sadly,Scorpios are prone to "cheat" with their ex!
I am trying to give him guilt,trying to ask his motives,etc...but I am not getting very far.He always says that it's none of my business what happends with other girls.Fine.
I just don't think that the girl he is currently dating,has a clue!She is a Taurus,btw.He doesn't seem too concerned about it though.I think Scorpio who decides to cheat is definitely not getting his needs met in the current relationships and doesn't care about being discovered.Like my Scorp said we can only talk at certain times (while she is at school,work) and that evenings and nights are not good for him.But it seems like he misses me more,and now he has been coming around at evenings and nights.
Basically,he does what he wants.Period.
You Nailed it! He doesn't care about getting caught..Its obvious that if the shit hits the fan..he'll still have one of you GUARANTEED..whats he got to lose? But I will say it seems you're moving into first place which means the Taurus is about to get hurt. And personally, Taurus suck in the bed so I can see why he's messing with you.
Posted by GemFiregirl33
But it seems like he misses me more,and now he has been coming around at evenings and nights.
Basically,he does what he wants.Period.
hmmmm
i dont wanna hijack this girls thread but....are we going to start THIS again?
Posted by GemFiregirl33
I am currently probing my Scorpio ex bf about still talking to me,and still dating this other girl.I think sadly,Scorpios are prone to "cheat" with their ex!
I am trying to give him guilt,trying to ask his motives,etc...but I am not getting very far.He always says that it's none of my business what happends with other girls.Fine.
I just don't think that the girl he is currently dating,has a clue!She is a Taurus,btw.He doesn't seem too concerned about it though.I think Scorpio who decides to cheat is definitely not getting his needs met in the current relationships and doesn't care about being discovered.Like my Scorp said we can only talk at certain times (while she is at school,work) and that evenings and nights are not good for him.But it seems like he misses me more,and now he has been coming around at evenings and nights.
Basically,he does what he wants.Period.You Nailed it! He doesn't care about getting caught..Its obvious that if the shit hits the fan..he'll still have one of you GUARANTEED..whats he got to lose? But I will say it seems you're moving into first place which means the Taurus is about to get hurt. And personally, Taurus suck in the bed so I can see why he's messing with you.
Yep,I read him like a book.I know this Scorpio for 7-8 years.I just keep hoping that this girl didn't develop any feelings for him,or substantial feelings.I think sexual side of their relationship sucks for some reason:/
I think the relationship is over,but no one has broken up yet officially.I bet when she discovers something,he will blame her and do the ice treatment on her.click to expand
Yup, its definitely going to be her fault. She probly won't let him do what he wants sexually..That was the issue with my Taurus who is now a stalker....I think I looked her in the eyes or some shit while we were getting it in cause she says she "felt" something O_o Anyhow..My Taurus was restrictive when it came to different positions...she thought doggy style was degrading but I like it. So I left her and found someone else who liked it as well...But yea..its her fault for sure lol
Posted by DMV
i dont wanna hijack this girls thread but....are we going to start THIS again?Hi DMV,not at all!She asked a question and I feel like I can help her.Shed some light on it.Who will know better about cheating pattern,than the girl he "cheats" with?By the way,ours is emotional cheating.We are still debating getting back on.
But all the time and energy he spends with me,is not being invested in their relationship.click to expand
dully noted. i actually agree with "the other side" pov
i definitly dont agree that it will be her fault that he cheats because she's not sexually opened to new experiences. thats rationalization at its best.
Posted by Nights22
Cheaters trying to justify why is always hilarious.
and a way to opt out of responsibility and accountability.
Have you ever cheated accidentally. Like, you were drunk and a woman seduced you?
So, a guy fucking a woman if he has the excuse of being drunk is an accidental fuck?
I'll bet guys are standing in line with thier wallets out ready to pay for your cooking and laundry classes, to prepare you for being the perfect wife.
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YOU ARE SUCH A HYPOCRITE!!!
Seriously, was it not just last week that you were bashing on that Libra chick, because she was upset that her boyfriend had kissed another girl while drunk. You said that was not a form of cheating because he was drunk- am I missing something? I think not.
Posted by DMV
i definitly dont agree that it will be her fault that he cheats because she's not sexually opened to new experiences. thats rationalization at its best.
My general point was...we'll cheat if we're not getting what we want. That's how it works for me..I won't go out and cheat just for the fuck of it but if something is lacking and I bring it to your attention and it doesn't get fixed..what do you expect? And the Taurus wasn't my girl to begin with so I know I didn't cheat on her..We had an arrangement and she fell in love..her bad not mines O_o
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Posted by DMV
i definitly dont agree that it will be her fault that he cheats because she's not sexually opened to new experiences. thats rationalization at its best.My general point was...we'll cheat if we're not getting what we want. That's how it works for me..I won't go out and cheat just for the fuck of it but if something is lacking and I bring it to your attention and it doesn't get fixed..what do you expect? And the Taurus wasn't my girl to begin with so I know I didn't cheat on her..We had an arrangement and she fell in love..her bad not mines O_o
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id kinda expect you to weigh the pros and cons of your relationship. if a happy sex life outweighs all of the other things your partner does for you, than just leave. why be labeled a cheater if you dont have to be?
i wasnt talking about a tauri girl, what about this other girl?
Have you ever cheated accidentally. Like, you were drunk and a woman seduced you?
So, a guy fucking a woman if he has the excuse of being drunk is an accidental fuck?
I'll bet guys are standing in line with thier wallets out ready to pay for your cooking and laundry classes, to prepare you for being the perfect wife.
YOU ARE SUCH A HYPOCRITE!!!
Seriously, was it not just last week that you were bashing on that Libra chick, because she was upset that her boyfriend had kissed another girl while drunk. You said that was not a form of cheating because he was drunk- am I missing something? I think not.click to expand
No, you don't miss "something" .. you miss every tongue-in-cheek and/or sarcasm
Just flies right over your head
Posted by Nights22
Well they could just end the relationship and not cheat but thats too logical for cheaters and people who enable cheaters.
I've broken up with chicks just because I wanted to F someone else..And some chicks, I just do what I do. It depends on how much respect you earned from me and how much I care about you and your feelings...And how much effort you put into fixing what I asked for also plays apart..If you don't give a fuck..neither will I. And honestly..anyone I cheated on deserved it because I didn't exactly hide it...they accepted it. Again..my fault or theirs?
Posted by DMV
i definitly dont agree that it will be her fault that he cheats because she's not sexually opened to new experiences. thats rationalization at its best.My general point was...we'll cheat if we're not getting what we want. That's how it works for me..I won't go out and cheat just for the fuck of it but if something is lacking and I bring it to your attention and it doesn't get fixed..what do you expect? And the Taurus wasn't my girl to begin with so I know I didn't cheat on her..We had an arrangement and she fell in love..her bad not mines O_o
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its nice to get into the mind of a scorpio. do u have a mercury in fire sign?
quick question, im assuming this tauri girl told u that she had feelings for her, she was in love? but you didnt feel the same way about her. did u still continue to hit that?
another question, you said that guranteed, even if the girl finds out that the scorps been dippin with another girl, one girl decides that it isnt a big deal and brushes it off and still continues to have dealings? ive seen this happen on numerous occasions. how do you feel about the girl who chooses to brush it off and stick around?
WEAK Scorpions cheat.
STRONG Scorpions do not.
Of course, that can be said of any sign.
Why? Because it is more about self-discipline and self-control than a astrological sign.
Self-discipline and self-control are signs of maturity and the lack thereof are the signs
of immaturity.
A man worth having and worth keeping, is a man who has the wisdom to discern the folly of
the foolish and exercise discretion when confronted with the carnal lusts and temptations
presented to him. He will not be vain in the worthless materialisms of a passing fancy.
Some men learn these codes of conduct early in life, others later in life and yet others
never learn them at all.
Posted by Nights22
Well they could just end the relationship and not cheat but thats too logical for cheaters and people who enable cheaters.I've broken up with chicks just because I wanted to F someone else..And some chicks, I just do what I do. It depends on how much respect you earned from me and how much I care about you and your feelings...And how much effort you put into fixing what I asked for also plays apart..If you don't give a fuck..neither will I. And honestly..anyone I cheated on deserved it because I didn't exactly hide it...they accepted it. Again..my fault or theirs?
Youre still at fault but whatever helps u sleep at night!
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I won't lose sleep regardless...So, if you're sitting on a couch and I keep throwing shit at you and you sit there although you don't like being hit with objects..Thats my fault to? Ok...I get it now, I think O_o
Posted by Nights22
Well they could just end the relationship and not cheat but thats too logical for cheaters and people who enable cheaters.I've broken up with chicks just because I wanted to F someone else..And some chicks, I just do what I do. It depends on how much respect you earned from me and how much I care about you and your feelings...And how much effort you put into fixing what I asked for also plays apart..If you don't give a fuck..neither will I. And honestly..anyone I cheated on deserved it because I didn't exactly hide it...they accepted it. Again..my fault or theirs?
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Dayum....Well at least he's honest right?
But its his fault for being a player and their fault for being played.
Cliche quote: Don't hate the player, hate the game.
Posted by Nights22
Well they could just end the relationship and not cheat but thats too logical for cheaters and people who enable cheaters.I've broken up with chicks just because I wanted to F someone else..And some chicks, I just do what I do. It depends on how much respect you earned from me and how much I care about you and your feelings...And how much effort you put into fixing what I asked for also plays apart..If you don't give a fuck..neither will I. And honestly..anyone I cheated on deserved it because I didn't exactly hide it...they accepted it. Again..my fault or theirs?
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this is refreshing to hear. some straight forwardness. no beating around the bush.
can i see your birth chart? i like your honesty. as much as i disagree with some of the things youve said, you still win points in my book for speaking your mind regardless of how it will be received. although, i dont even think you need any points from me. you seem to know what you want and do whatever to get it.
Posted by Nights22
Well they could just end the relationship and not cheat but thats too logical for cheaters and people who enable cheaters.I've broken up with chicks just because I wanted to F someone else..And some chicks, I just do what I do. It depends on how much respect you earned from me and how much I care about you and your feelings...And how much effort you put into fixing what I asked for also plays apart..If you don't give a fuck..neither will I. And honestly..anyone I cheated on deserved it because I didn't exactly hide it...they accepted it. Again..my fault or theirs?
Dayum....Well at least he's honest right?
But its his fault for being a player and their fault for being played.
Cliche quote: Don't hate the player, hate the game.click to expand
IF they knew, yes that would be the case. i assume he is as much upfront and honest with them as he is on DXP.
Why is that anyways? Why can't people just dump the other person to go get their booty? Why do you have to keep girl/guy A on the string while you get it on with girl/guy B? What's the problem? Obviously you don't like them that much, so just dump them. I don't get why that's so hard for people.
Posted by Nights22
Well they could just end the relationship and not cheat but thats too logical for cheaters and people who enable cheaters.I've broken up with chicks just because I wanted to F someone else..And some chicks, I just do what I do. It depends on how much respect you earned from me and how much I care about you and your feelings...And how much effort you put into fixing what I asked for also plays apart..If you don't give a fuck..neither will I. And honestly..anyone I cheated on deserved it because I didn't exactly hide it...they accepted it. Again..my fault or theirs?
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Your fault for being so weak you can't control a few inches of flesh. Their fault for not putting your butt on the curb with a 'for free' sign on it.
Have you ever cheated accidentally. Like, you were drunk and a woman seduced you?
So, a guy fucking a woman if he has the excuse of being drunk is an accidental fuck?
I'll bet guys are standing in line with thier wallets out ready to pay for your cooking and laundry classes, to prepare you for being the perfect wife.
YOU ARE SUCH A HYPOCRITE!!!
Seriously, was it not just last week that you were bashing on that Libra chick, because she was upset that her boyfriend had kissed another girl while drunk. You said that was not a form of cheating because he was drunk- am I missing something? I think not.No, you don't miss "something" .. you miss every tongue-in-cheek and/or sarcasm
Just flies right over your head
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Oh, good come back. I laid bare your hypocrisy and that left you hanging didn't it?
Posted by Nights22
Well they could just end the relationship and not cheat but thats too logical for cheaters and people who enable cheaters.I've broken up with chicks just because I wanted to F someone else..And some chicks, I just do what I do. It depends on how much respect you earned from me and how much I care about you and your feelings...And how much effort you put into fixing what I asked for also plays apart..If you don't give a fuck..neither will I. And honestly..anyone I cheated on deserved it because I didn't exactly hide it...they accepted it. Again..my fault or theirs?
Youre still at fault but whatever helps u sleep at night!
I won't lose sleep regardless...So, if you're sitting on a couch and I keep throwing shit at you and you sit there although you don't like being hit with objects..Thats my fault to? Ok...I get it now, I think O_o
You win points because you sound like my Scorpio.Me being an air sign,I need a lot of convincing and good argument and he always gives it to me.
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just a tad?
Posted by Nights22
Well they could just end the relationship and not cheat but thats too logical for cheaters and people who enable cheaters.I've broken up with chicks just because I wanted to F someone else..And some chicks, I just do what I do. It depends on how much respect you earned from me and how much I care about you and your feelings...And how much effort you put into fixing what I asked for also plays apart..If you don't give a fuck..neither will I. And honestly..anyone I cheated on deserved it because I didn't exactly hide it...they accepted it. Again..my fault or theirs?
You need the tables turned on you. Where someday you fall in love with a girl and she ends up cheating on you. Then she tells you it was because you just weren't doing it for her sexually.
But if they accepted it, knowing you were cheating on them.. then they're just weak.
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yeah thats going to happen unfortunately. if it hasnt happened already and this is just him paying ol girl back through these other women. misdirected anger.
its nice to get into the mind of a scorpio. do u have a mercury in fire sign? I don't know...My astrology stats are on my page if u want to see...
quick question, im assuming this tauri girl told u that she had feelings for her, she was in love? but you didnt feel the same way about her. did u still continue to hit that? No, I stopped immediately...My attentions wasn't to hurt her. I seriously thought she could handle the arrangement..I quickly tried to down grade to a regular friendship which didn't work..As a matter a fact, she just sent me a text asking for a D!ck pic for lunch..she's crazy
another question, you said that guaranteed, even if the girl finds out that the scorps been dippin with another girl, one girl decides that it isnt a big deal and brushes it off and still continues to have dealings? Ive seen this happen on numerous occasions. how do you feel about the girl who chooses to brush it off and stick around? it depends, if we got history (maybe a previous Ex I really liked) I'll give her a pass because I probably want her bad myself. But to any other chick that doesn't fall under that category...You better be amazing because you're probably not gonna make it neither. If you cheated with us, you'll cheat on us...We'll enjoy it why we can but we won't trust you. That and highly at risk of being cheated on..not because of something you can't do but the fact that you probably won't do nothing will be enough for us to take advantage.
My sag/scorp cusper cheated on me with his cap ex all the time.
Cause I was a virgin and wouldn't fuck him.
He'd fuck her every sunday.
So you know what? You just realize your boundaries don't match up and move on.
Oh yeah P-Devil, this went right over my head- DIRECT QUOTE FROM YOU
" Three weeks ago at poker, a drunk male friend of ours leaned over and kissed my husband on the head .. he was fucked up and didn't even know he was doing it until he did it, and then laughed his ass off. why the fuck would you attempt to place such a heavy guilty verdict on him as if he's some kind of unfaithful cheater ... when alls he did was get drunk and kiss someone —?? that's crazy .. you sound crazy for taking to heart .. nothing"
Posted by Nights22
Well they could just end the relationship and not cheat but thats too logical for cheaters and people who enable cheaters.I've broken up with chicks just because I wanted to F someone else..And some chicks, I just do what I do. It depends on how much respect you earned from me and how much I care about you and your feelings...And how much effort you put into fixing what I asked for also plays apart..If you don't give a fuck..neither will I. And honestly..anyone I cheated on deserved it because I didn't exactly hide it...they accepted it. Again..my fault or theirs?
You need the tables turned on you. Where someday you fall in love with a girl and she ends up cheating on you. Then she tells you it was because you just weren't doing it for her sexually.
But if they accepted it, knowing you were cheating on them.. then they're just weak.
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I can take the truth..I may not like it, but I can take it. If I ain't ringing that bell..tell me, I'll get the F out the way if that's what u want..
Posted by ScorpioMackin
its nice to get into the mind of a scorpio. do u have a mercury in fire sign? I don't know...My astrology stats are on my page if u want to see...quick question, im assuming this tauri girl told u that she had feelings for her, she was in love? but you didnt feel the same way about her. did u still continue to hit that? No, I stopped immediately...My attentions wasn't to hurt her. I seriously thought she could handle the arrangement..I quickly tried to down grade to a regular friendship which didn't work..As a matter a fact, she just sent me a text asking for a D!ck pic for lunch..she's crazy
another question, you said that guaranteed, even if the girl finds out that the scorps been dippin with another girl, one girl decides that it isnt a big deal and brushes it off and still continues to have dealings? Ive seen this happen on numerous occasions. how do you feel about the girl who chooses to brush it off and stick around? it depends, if we got history (maybe a previous Ex I really liked) I'll give her a pass because I probably want her bad myself. But to any other chick that doesn't fall under that category...You better be amazing because you're probably not gonna make it neither. If you cheated with us, you'll cheat on us...We'll enjoy it why we can but we won't trust you. That and highly at risk of being cheated on..not because of something you can't do but the fact that you probably won't do nothing will be enough for us to take advantage.
thanks 🙂
awesomeness. i love the straight forwardness. no flowerly code language that some of these scorps talk. thanks..
Posted by Sagittarius89
My sag/scorp cusper cheated on me with his cap ex all the time.Cause I was a virgin and wouldn't fuck him.
He'd fuck her every sunday.
So you know what? You just realize your boundaries don't match up and move on.
thats unfortunate or fortunate, looking back at it all ?
@scorpmack,
your a sag rising, i totally pegged you for a sag mercury, geez u come off as a sag. thats where your straightforwadness comes from. i genuinely believe that you are this straightforward in real life. i also believe that maybe you dont always use the most tact lol. very blunt.
yeah, id def call you an honorary sag.
Have you ever cheated accidentally. Like, you were drunk and a woman seduced you?
So, a guy fucking a woman if he has the excuse of being drunk is an accidental fuck?
I'll bet guys are standing in line with thier wallets out ready to pay for your cooking and laundry classes, to prepare you for being the perfect wife.
YOU ARE SUCH A HYPOCRITE!!!
Seriously, was it not just last week that you were bashing on that Libra chick, because she was upset that her boyfriend had kissed another girl while drunk. You said that was not a form of cheating because he was drunk- am I missing something? I think not.No, you don't miss "something" .. you miss every tongue-in-cheek and/or sarcasm
Just flies right over your head
Oh, good come back. I laid bare your hypocrisy and that left you hanging didn't it?
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i think you make a valid point actually. something's being lost in translation, that's for sure. but if you're looking for clarity, forget it. this is dxp after all 😛
Posted by Sagittarius89
My sag/scorp cusper cheated on me with his cap ex all the time.Cause I was a virgin and wouldn't fuck him.
He'd fuck her every sunday.
So you know what? You just realize your boundaries don't match up and move on.
thats unfortunate or fortunate, looking back at it all ?
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Well I think it was naive of me to think guys care about more then sex 😉
Posted by Sagittarius89
My sag/scorp cusper cheated on me with his cap ex all the time.Cause I was a virgin and wouldn't fuck him.
He'd fuck her every sunday.
So you know what? You just realize your boundaries don't match up and move on.
that's the best thing i've read in this thread, next to nights and vb's input.
Posted by Sagittarius89
My sag/scorp cusper cheated on me with his cap ex all the time.Cause I was a virgin and wouldn't fuck him.
He'd fuck her every sunday.
So you know what? You just realize your boundaries don't match up and move on.
thats unfortunate or fortunate, looking back at it all ?
Well I think it was naive of me to think guys care about more then sex 😉
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well i like you. id punch him in the face for you if u want me 2.
Posted by ScorpioMackin
its nice to get into the mind of a scorpio. do u have a mercury in fire sign? I don't know...My astrology stats are on my page if u want to see...quick question, im assuming this tauri girl told u that she had feelings for her, she was in love? but you didnt feel the same way about her. did u still continue to hit that? No, I stopped immediately...My attentions wasn't to hurt her. I seriously thought she could handle the arrangement..I quickly tried to down grade to a regular friendship which didn't work..As a matter a fact, she just sent me a text asking for a D!ck pic for lunch..she's crazy
another question, you said that guaranteed, even if the girl finds out that the scorps been dippin with another girl, one girl decides that it isnt a big deal and brushes it off and still continues to have dealings? Ive seen this happen on numerous occasions. how do you feel about the girl who chooses to brush it off and stick around? it depends, if we got history (maybe a previous Ex I really liked) I'll give her a pass because I probably want her bad myself. But to any other chick that doesn't fall under that category...You better be amazing because you're probably not gonna make it neither. If you cheated with us, you'll cheat on us...We'll enjoy it why we can but we won't trust you. That and highly at risk of being cheated on..not because of something you can't do but the fact that you probably won't do nothing will be enough for us to take advantage.
Question for you ScorpMackin:
Why do some Scorp men continuosly go to some of their ex?Is it because sex was THAT amazing?click to expand
Either the Sex is good or he really really really liked her and can't let go. I'm still attached to my ex even though we don't speak anymore..if i rode down a street and see her catching a beat down..I'd still stop and F her enemies up for her and this is after I decided i hate her for hurting me. We're clingy...
@scorpmack
Honestly I applaud your honesty even if it is morally wrong for most people to agree with. Most guys wouldn't step foot into this lion's den. I mean there could be so many guys on this thread who cheated yet act like they didn't do anything whistling in the corner. I think you knew you were going to get some butter for saying what you did. But high five for coming forward.
Now im not saying what you did was right but at least you were honest. Did you even tell that person you ended up cheating on them?
Posted by DMV
@scorpmack,your a sag rising, i totally pegged you for a sag mercury, geez u come off as a sag. thats where your straightforwadness comes from. i genuinely believe that you are this straightforward in real life. i also believe that maybe you dont always use the most tact lol. very blunt.
yeah, id def call you an honorary sag.
Yeah, being tactful isn't my strong suit. I honestly believe if you have something to say, even if you know its going to piss you and the other person off, you should say it because by the end of that convo..You gain Truth and Understanding and everyone knows their role.
Posted by Xin
@scorpmackHonestly I applaud your honesty even if it is morally wrong for most people to agree with. Most guys wouldn't step foot into this lion's den. I mean there could be so many guys on this thread who cheated yet act like they didn't do anything whistling in the corner. I think you knew you were going to get some butter for saying what you did. But high five for coming forward.
Now im not saying what you did was right but at least you were honest. Did you even tell that person you ended up cheating on them?
Thank you for the compliment. And to answer your question No, I did not. My thought process for that was "Ok I feel bad..probably won't do that to her again...But I'm definitely not telling on myself. Now if she asks a question to make me think she suspects something, I'll come clean but until then..I ain't say shit!" And yes, talking on this board has made me realize I may be a lil off upstairs but in all honesty, I'm a genuine good guy who avoids hurting people when possible. I'm too empathetic, I can put myself in their shoes too easy to do anything seriously hurtful on purpose...
Yes,that makes sense.Thanks for clarifying.Also,would you ever admit this to your ex?Or you still wouldn't trust her?My Scorp and I are still talking about getting back together...there seems to be a lot of mistrust.How can relation
No i wouldn't admit it, I'd feel weak. And if you can sense mistrust then he still doesn't quite trust you again no matter if he says he does or not (we'll project an image of being over something just for the sake of not looking or feeling weak)
Posted by MrFirebird
WEAK Scorpions cheat.
STRONG Scorpions do not.Of course, that can be said of any sign.
Why? Because it is more about self-discipline and self-control than a astrological sign.
Self-discipline and self-control are signs of maturity and the lack thereof are the signs
of immaturity.
A man worth having and worth keeping, is a man who has the wisdom to discern the folly of
the foolish and exercise discretion when confronted with the carnal lusts and temptations
presented to him. He will not be vain in the worthless materialisms of a passing fancy.
Some men learn these codes of conduct early in life, others later in life and yet others
never learn them at all.
HALLELUJAH!! Preach brethren.
Posted by MrFirebird
WEAK Scorpions cheat.
STRONG Scorpions do not.Of course, that can be said of any sign.
Why? Because it is more about self-discipline and self-control than a astrological sign.
Self-discipline and self-control are signs of maturity and the lack thereof are the signs
of immaturity.
A man worth having and worth keeping, is a man who has the wisdom to discern the folly of
the foolish and exercise discretion when confronted with the carnal lusts and temptations
presented to him. He will not be vain in the worthless materialisms of a passing fancy.
Some men learn these codes of conduct early in life, others later in life and yet others
never learn them at all.Does this apply if you're being approached by more than one chick at a time? I can turn down one woman by herself..No problem. 2..ummm, Idk well maybe now since I'm over the threesome thing now but back in the day..that was my Kryptonite...
HALLELUJAH!! Preach brethren.
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I just wanted to know how you would act if you cheat? And if you ever made the Scorpions famous disappearing act... were you out cheating during those times? Have you ever cheated accidentally. Like, you were drunk and a woman seduced you? Did you fess up? or are you still living with this secret? Just, how would you act if you cheated or are cheating?? Any advice would be helpful, thank you.