Is this normal for a Scorpio guy?

Hello all Scorpios: I have a question for all of you. I started chatting with a Scorpio male. We met on a dating site and we had started emailing one another for the past 2 weeks and I sent him a pic of me. Once he saw my picture he would say to me that he has high hopes of us being together and that he thinks I am very beautiful and not to fall in love with anyone else because he see's us together. He would also tell me that he can't get me outta his mind and he thinks about me often and that he misses my emails when I don't respond to him.

In the beginning of us conversing thru email he said he would take things slow but wow we haven't even met yet and he's already planning a future together. Don't get me wrong I am very flattered by what he says to me but I had to tell him that I am on guard with my feelings and that I want to take things very "SLOW".

So my ? is....Is this normal for a Scorpio to come on this strong without meeting someone in person or even speaking to them via the phone or is it just some guy who is desperate to be in a relationship— I don't know when his birthday is yet but he has told me numerous times that he is a Scorpio. My birthday is August 22nd and I am a Leo Sun with a Scorpio moon.

Any answers would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your time.

Posted by TheJoeyDoll
Hello all Scorpios: I have a question for all of you. I started chatting with a Scorpio male. We met on a dating site and we had started emailing one another for the past 2 weeks and I sent him a pic of me. Once he saw my picture he would say to me that he has high hopes of us being together and that he thinks I am very beautiful and not to fall in love with anyone else because he see's us together. He would also tell me that he can't get me outta his mind and he thinks about me often and that he misses my emails when I don't respond to him.

In the beginning of us conversing thru email he said he would take things slow but wow we haven't even met yet and he's already planning a future together. Don't get me wrong I am very flattered by what he says to me but I had to tell him that I am on guard with my feelings and that I want to take things very "SLOW".

So my ? is....Is this normal for a Scorpio to come on this strong without meeting someone in person or even speaking to them via the phone or is it just some guy who is desperate to be in a relationship— I don't know when his birthday is yet but he has told me numerous times that he is a Scorpio. My birthday is August 22nd and I am a Leo Sun with a Scorpio moon.

Any answers would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your time.

There is no such thing as "what is normal" for a water sign truthfully when it comes to feelings. Especially a Scorp.

I personally wouldn't profess feelings, start fantasizing about anything beyond what naughty positions I'd like to put you in unless we have established something worthwhile. This would go for online as well as in person, but I don't trust, open up or even warm to most people easily. So take what I wrote with a grain of salt.

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Posted by TheJoeyDoll
Hello all Scorpios: I have a question for all of you. I started chatting with a Scorpio male. We met on a dating site and we had started emailing one another for the past 2 weeks and I sent him a pic of me. Once he saw my picture he would say to me that he has high hopes of us being together and that he thinks I am very beautiful and not to fall in love with anyone else because he see's us together. He would also tell me that he can't get me outta his mind and he thinks about me often and that he misses my emails when I don't respond to him.

In the beginning of us conversing thru email he said he would take things slow but wow we haven't even met yet and he's already planning a future together. Don't get me wrong I am very flattered by what he says to me but I had to tell him that I am on guard with my feelings and that I want to take things very "SLOW".

So my ? is....Is this normal for a Scorpio to come on this strong without meeting someone in person or even speaking to them via the phone or is it just some guy who is desperate to be in a relationship— I don't know when his birthday is yet but he has told me numerous times that he is a Scorpio. My birthday is August 22nd and I am a Leo Sun with a Scorpio moon.

Any answers would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your time.

There is no such thing as "what is normal" for a water sign truthfully when it comes to feelings. Especially a Scorp.

I personally wouldn't profess feelings, start fantasizing about anything beyond what naughty positions I'd like to put you in unless we have established something worthwhile. This would go for online as well as in person, but I don't trust, open up or even warm to most people easily. So take what I wrote with a grain of salt.

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*giggles PR* (-sorry, thats the limit of my intellectual capacity today!)

Good luck OP... Scorp and Leo... sigh! 😉

Posted by LilliLou

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Posted by TheJoeyDoll
Hello all Scorpios: I have a question for all of you. I started chatting with a Scorpio male. We met on a dating site and we had started emailing one another for the past 2 weeks and I sent him a pic of me. Once he saw my picture he would say to me that he has high hopes of us being together and that he thinks I am very beautiful and not to fall in love with anyone else because he see's us together. He would also tell me that he can't get me outta his mind and he thinks about me often and that he misses my emails when I don't respond to him.

In the beginning of us conversing thru email he said he would take things slow but wow we haven't even met yet and he's already planning a future together. Don't get me wrong I am very flattered by what he says to me but I had to tell him that I am on guard with my feelings and that I want to take things very "SLOW".

So my ? is....Is this normal for a Scorpio to come on this strong without meeting someone in person or even speaking to them via the phone or is it just some guy who is desperate to be in a relationship— I don't know when his birthday is yet but he has told me numerous times that he is a Scorpio. My birthday is August 22nd and I am a Leo Sun with a Scorpio moon.

Any answers would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your time.

There is no such thing as "what is normal" for a water sign truthfully when it comes to feelings. Especially a Scorp.

I personally wouldn't profess feelings, start fantasizing about anything beyond what naughty positions I'd like to put you in unless we have established something worthwhile. This would go for online as well as in person, but I don't trust, open up or even warm to most people easily. So take what I wrote with a grain of salt.

*giggles PR* (-sorry, that's the limit of my intellectual capacity today!)

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It's funny how that happens sometimes huh? I really want to comment on Pineapple's "Do you *Need* Anyone" thread, but I truly do not have the mental capacity to to add anything worthwhile right now. I need my mind to be quiet for a few days.

I can't lie I used to come on strong to a woman without even realizing it until the day after, probably why i end up getting friendzoned so much or avoided. When someone catches my interest sometimes I just don't know how to act lol

@PR-

Mines self inflicted... Sunday session with margaritas (start of summer down under!) and now very very jaded.
Only about a 50% fire rate on the synapses today

At least I think I am usually a lot faster/ funnier/ smarter... meh...

Posted by Jynja
Oh gosh, JoeyDoll, another Scorp? 😐

Yes Jynja....can you believe it. Seem's like all I have been doing is attracting Scorpio's. What's a girl gonna do— lol

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Posted by LilliLou
@PR-

Mines self inflicted... Sunday session with margaritas (start of summer down under!) and now very very jaded.
Only about a 50% fire rate on the synapses today

At least I think I am usually a lot faster/ funnier/ smarter... meh...

The skies are Scorpio saturated. It must feel like being on Pluto or something. 😛

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Well, everything is on a massive go slow/ backwards/ nowhere so sounds about right Jynga! 😛

Congrats on your 1 year mark! That is wonderful news —

Posted by Rabbit
I never understood what's up with these scorp guys that play these little games and make women follow then around like puppies and string them along forever and ever.

I'm really beginning to think Vedic is right and I'm not a scorp.

I'm not convinced it's always the guys playing games.....This is not Scorp specific, just generally speaking.

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Posted by Rabbit
I never understood what's up with these scorp guys that play these little games and make women follow then around like puppies and string them along forever and ever.

I'm really beginning to think Vedic is right and I'm not a scorp.

Sometimes, I wonder if they are aware they are playing games themselves. And, really, since a lot of women come on to ask advice, we only get one part of the stories.

Who knows, maybe miscommunication makes most of it seem like games.

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Or women simply refusing to accept what is/listen to what it clearly being said. I can think of a handful of threads like that.

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Posted by Rabbit
I never understood what's up with these scorp guys that play these little games and make women follow then around like puppies and string them along forever and ever.

I'm really beginning to think Vedic is right and I'm not a scorp.

Sometimes, I wonder if they are aware they are playing games themselves. And, really, since a lot of women come on to ask advice, we only get one part of the stories.

Who knows, maybe miscommunication makes most of it seem like games.

Or women simply refusing to accept what is/listen to what it clearly being said. I can think of a handful of threads like that.

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Oh gosh, JoeyDoll, another Scorp? 😐

Yes Jynja....can you believe it. Seem's like all I have been doing is attracting Scorpio's. What's a girl gonna do— lol

Wait, Joey.

If you really like this man, then you're gonna need to take a deep breathe and wait patiently for him to get over this stage and come back to you - otherwise, you risk getting caught in the whirlwind and getting disappointed or disillusioned when he takes that step back that they all do to think through taking what you have to the next stage.

You might think you're going slow, but I'd advice you to stand still altogether and wait till he's more serious.

I think all Scorp men come on strong, but it is only after they've satisfied that initial need to know that they begin to weigh it with who they are and if it will work with you.

Don't give all away just yet.

Like the first bit of advice I got when I first came here, I'd also say to you - wait. 🙂

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Thanks Jynja: Honestly I really don't know if I like this guy considering I haven't even spoken on the phone or met him yet. I know when we email each other its like I am talking to a good friend. We have a great connection while writing to each other but I did tell him that I need to take things slow because I have my feelings very guarded. Considering I am finally getting over the other Scorpio male that I dated a year ago. (Boy that was tough) I also learned a lot about myself during this time being single and I do not want to repeat my mistakes with this one if we ever do meet. I am going to still converse with him via email and hopefully we will graduate to speaking on the phone and go from there.

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@PR-

Mines self inflicted... Sunday session with margaritas (start of summer down under!) and now very very jaded.
Only about a 50% fire rate on the synapses today

At least I think I am usually a lot faster/ funnier/ smarter... meh...

The skies are Scorpio saturated. It must feel like being on Pluto or something. 😛

Well, everything is on a massive go slow/ backwards/ nowhere so sounds about right Jynga! 😛

Congrats on your 1 year mark! That is wonderful news —

lol - That was way back in March, but thank you 🙂

And, hopefully, the Sag moon will bring a light step to the drag. Hang in there, LadyLou 🙂

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Yeah! I love sag energy... Mars super boost!

Still congrats!

I should update you on my ex and get your take, but I simply don't know where and how to start... Men!!!

Posted by Jynja
...from my experience, Scorp fantasies are normal. I just don't know about sharing it when they haven't even met the potential "leading" lady 🙂

Hmmm, I guess it's a gender thing. I don't recall ever discussing a fantasy with anyone. Rabbit, KIWI Fruit what say you? Have you two ever discuss a fantasy with a partner before (or after) you've had sexual relations?

Jynja, if you don't mind sharing, did your Scorp share his fantasies with you?

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...from my experience, Scorp fantasies are normal. I just don't know about sharing it when they haven't even met the potential "leading" lady 🙂

Hmmm, I guess it's a gender thing. I don't recall ever discussing a fantasy with anyone. Rabbit, KIWI Fruit what say you? Have you two ever discuss a fantasy with a partner before (or after) you've had sexual relations?

I thought you were implying I had sexual fantasies about tropical fruits for a sec...

And yes but only if it involved them.

I don't discuss those little thoughts I have about Diane Kruger with my wife...ya know?

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Lol @ tropical fruit.

I understand that. I meant in general though, like "I like to be spanked like a school girl" type of disclosure, not thoughts involving a specific person.

hahaha at KIWI fruit!

I don't really share my fantasies unless asked and am a little hesitant even then? But I guess it's because they're MY fantasies, and like a wish I kinda feel that they lose their gloss when shared aloud...?
Mind you men seem to like telling me what they want to do...??!

Actually, yeah, I do when I am confident with the guy and feeling a little frisky! I also like cheeky snaps (TMI? 😛) not the whole shooting match but something a little tantalizing.

Haha... Hungover + Merc RX in scorp- I don't know what the hell I'm talking about!!! 😕

What are cheeky snaps?

bahahaha... secrets out now Wascally Wabbit!

(p.s. who doesn't like a little spanking?!)

Flirty little half clothed photos... specific angles that have been known to be rather appreciated... possibly?!

Oh, god... I'm losing my tiny little mind- this thread is cracking me up!!!

@Joey, it may be a gender thing.

We are intense signs, but it appears to present itself differently.

Posted by Rabbit
Specific angles?

Like Pythagorean Theorem type stuff?

A squared plus B squared equals You walking funny tomorrow type geometry?

hahaha... ummm, I think I've already said enough about my proclivities!

Posted by LilliLou
bahahaha... secrets out now Wascally Wabbit!

(p.s. who doesn't like a little spanking?!)

LOL PR! perfect GIF... I'm sitting here doing much the same thing.

Impulsv- I just use the ones with the

opps- thought it was full HTML code etc in already

😕 haha... sunday night nookie for rabbit!

Impulsv go to http://www.hilariousgifs.com/displeased-cat/ and I use the HTML format... should hopefully make sense now.
Damn mercury!!! -_-

Posted by LilliLou
Flirty little half clothed photos... specific angles that have been known to be rather appreciated... possibly?!

^^hehe^^

What can I say? I'm a flirt??!

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...from my experience, Scorp fantasies are normal. I just don't know about sharing it when they haven't even met the potential "leading" lady 🙂

Hmmm, I guess it's a gender thing. I don't recall ever discussing a fantasy with anyone. Rabbit, KIWI Fruit what say you? Have you two ever discuss a fantasy with a partner before (or after) you've had sexual relations?

I thought you were implying I had sexual fantasies about tropical fruits for a sec...

And yes but only if it involved them.

I don't discuss those little thoughts I have about Diane Kruger with my wife...ya know?

Lol @ tropical fruit.

I understand that. I meant in general though, like "I like to be spanked like a school girl" type of disclosure, not thoughts involving a specific person.

Actually, those came on a list much much later 😉

OP must be 😕 right now lol

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It usually does. The atypical stuff require trust.

Posted by LilliLou
^^hehe^^

What can I say? I'm a flirt??!

Haha. You're so cute. I'm realizing that if I heard you say "cheeky snaps" I would have understood immediately. I'm not sure what that's about, but when I hear people speak I can connect the dots much better.

😄 Although I have that silly kiwi accent to cut through!

Jynga- Miss Pineapples posted this a while ago
Mercury in Scorpio Datebook
September 29: Mercury enters Scorpio
October 1: Beginning of Mercury retrograde shadow period
October 8: Mercury is at the degree of the Scorpio Solar Eclipse
October 21: Mercury retrograde period begins
October 31: Mercury retrograde is at the degree of the Scorpio Solar Eclipse
November 1: Mercury conjoins the Sun
November 10: Mercury goes direct, the retrograde period ends
November 21: Mercury is at the degree of the Scorpio Solar Eclipse
November 27: End of Mercury retrograde shadow period
December 4: Mercury leaves Scorpio and enters Sagittarius

Posted by TheJoeyDoll


Thanks Jynja: Honestly I really don't know if I like this guy considering I haven't even spoken on the phone or met him yet. I know when we email each other its like I am talking to a good friend. We have a great connection while writing to each other but I did tell him that I need to take things slow because I have my feelings very guarded. Considering I am finally getting over the other Scorpio male that I dated a year ago. (Boy that was tough) I also learned a lot about myself during this time being single and I do not want to repeat my mistakes with this one if we ever do meet. I am going to still converse with him via email and hopefully we will graduate to speaking on the phone and go from there.

Back in 2005 I met a scorpio man online. He lived in a different state (I don't remember) and he said similar things to me very early in our online communication. I couldn't take him seriously because I knew I would never move to his state and didn't really believe he would move to mine, maybe, I don't know. I cancelled my subscription and never renewed so that was that. I met another one, who made all sorts of love declarations and we even spoke on the phone. However, he was after money, so I never spoke with him again. I guess it could be possible that your guy is geniune, but in my experience, scorpio men like to have that personal encounter to really know anything.

Posted by TheJoeyDoll


Honestly I really don't know if I like this guy considering I haven't even spoken on the phone or met him yet. I know when we email each other its like I am talking to a good friend.

I am going to still converse with him via email and hopefully we will graduate to speaking on the phone and go from there.

Until you meet face to face THIS IS NOT REAL.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
What about face to face but they still can't do the conversation thing?:-?

...confirmation in the real world?

Posted by TheJoeyDoll
Hello all Scorpios: I have a question for all of you. I started chatting with a Scorpio male. We met on a dating site and we had started emailing one another for the past 2 weeks and I sent him a pic of me. Once he saw my picture he would say to me that he has high hopes of us being together and that he thinks I am very beautiful and not to fall in love with anyone else because he see's us together. He would also tell me that he can't get me outta his mind and he thinks about me often and that he misses my emails when I don't respond to him.

In the beginning of us conversing thru email he said he would take things slow but wow we haven't even met yet and he's already planning a future together. Don't get me wrong I am very flattered by what he says to me but I had to tell him that I am on guard with my feelings and that I want to take things very "SLOW".

So my ? is....Is this normal for a Scorpio to come on this strong without meeting someone in person or even speaking to them via the phone or is it just some guy who is desperate to be in a relationship— I don't know when his birthday is yet but he has told me numerous times that he is a Scorpio. My birthday is August 22nd and I am a Leo Sun with a Scorpio moon.

Any answers would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your time.

Yes! I met a Scorpio online and before we even had a phone conversation or video cam session he was saying he wanted to be my boyfriend. He only saw a few pics. We went out on a few dates but that was it. Men are such talkers regardless of signs. It could just be an internet dating thing. I found it to be very fake, so I deleted all my profiles.

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Posted by TheJoeyDoll


Honestly I really don't know if I like this guy considering I haven't even spoken on the phone or met him yet. I know when we email each other its like I am talking to a good friend.

I am going to still converse with him via email and hopefully we will graduate to speaking on the phone and go from there.

Until you meet face to face THIS IS NOT REAL.

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True... he could be an alien too...

Posted by LetltB

LMAO