@DanitheV
12 YearsVirgo
Are there any Scorpio men in happy marriages?
Posted by DanitheV
Seems to me that Scorpio men love staying single or that they have a hard time being committed. My Scorpio ex whom I've broken up with several times switches from fantasizing about marriage to totally despising it. So confused. Speaking of switching, it is also seems to me that they go back and forth about how they feel. For instance my Scorpio told me he loved me and wanted to be with me then he didn't. He didn't want to move in with me then he did and now he doesn't again. And again and so on and so on.
hahaha U just described me.....I want both BTW, I wanna be married AND single at the same damn time *shruggs*
i think because scorpios sit between libra (indecisive) and sag (freedom) the planets in the chart may confuse them.
Posted by cunninglinguist
yea, if he's around your age, it's because u are both too young to be thinking marriage. Ur brain isn't even fully developed yet. He's actually doing u a favor bc if u rush into marriage, esp this young, you're prolly gonna be looking at a nasty divorce a few years down the road - very possibly with kids in tow. ouch.Give it a few years. My Scorp can't wait for us to marry, and he recently gave me the ring - but guess what? We're much older than u. I'm 24 ...
lol
Posted by djbuck1
And dear God, you're only 20! Live some of your life first young lady. I'm being serious. Go have fun!
+100
A good friend of mine whom I once dated we share the same birthday Nov 7th but we are a year apart in age. he is was married and divorced from his olderst daughter mom. and is now married to a chinese woman with a daughter in this marriage, and they are still together now 2006.
Some scorp men do believe in marriage
oh and another scorp male friend has been with his wife since 2000 they are both in law enforcement
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Posted by DanitheV
Seems to me that Scorpio men love staying single or that they have a hard time being committed. My Scorpio ex whom I've broken up with several times switches from fantasizing about marriage to totally despising it. So confused. Speaking of switching, it is also seems to me that they go back and forth about how they feel. For instance my Scorpio told me he loved me and wanted to be with me then he didn't. He didn't want to move in with me then he did and now he doesn't again. And again and so on and so on.
hahaha U just described me.....I want both BTW, I wanna be married AND single at the same damn time *shruggs*
Have u considered an open relationship?
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An open relationship— Share my wife or girlfriend with another guy?!? NO.F'ING.WAY.....
Posted by nov13thscorp
Posted by cunninglinguist
Posted by nov13thscorp
Posted by DanitheV
Seems to me that Scorpio men love staying single or that they have a hard time being committed. My Scorpio ex whom I've broken up with several times switches from fantasizing about marriage to totally despising it. So confused. Speaking of switching, it is also seems to me that they go back and forth about how they feel. For instance my Scorpio told me he loved me and wanted to be with me then he didn't. He didn't want to move in with me then he did and now he doesn't again. And again and so on and so on.
hahaha U just described me.....I want both BTW, I wanna be married AND single at the same damn time *shruggs*
Have u considered an open relationship?
An open relationship— Share my wife or girlfriend with another guy?!? NO.F'ING.WAY.....
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ahh, but you want to share yourself? why do you want both?
Posted by DanitheV
Seems to me that Scorpio men love staying single or that they have a hard time being committed. My Scorpio ex whom I've broken up with several times switches from fantasizing about marriage to totally despising it.
I don't think this is Sun sign only related issue. His chart, personal experience, culture even and age all play a role I am sure.
Posted by DanitheV
...they go back and forth about how they feel. For instance my Scorpio told me he loved me and wanted to be with me then he didn't. He didn't want to move in with me then he did and now he doesn't again. And again and so on and so on.click to expand
Are we talking about one or many?
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Posted by cunninglinguist
yea, if he's around your age, it's because u are both too young to be thinking marriage. Ur brain isn't even fully developed yet. He's actually doing u a favor bc if u rush into marriage, esp this young, you're prolly gonna be looking at a nasty divorce a few years down the road - very possibly with kids in tow. ouch.Give it a few years. My Scorp can't wait for us to marry, and he recently gave me the ring - but guess what? We're much older than u. I'm 24 ...
lol
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*giggle*
Posted by DanitheV
Seems to me that Scorpio men love staying single or that they have a hard time being committed.
Based on what? How many Scorps have you actually dated?
No no you guys! I don't want to get married now! I just v wanted to know what married scorpio men are like! Lol
I've only dated one scorpio but I'm friends with a lot of scorpio guys including the one I dated.
Wow. An open relationship. Are those even successful?
Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by DanitheV
Seems to me that Scorpio men love staying single or that they have a hard time being committed. My Scorpio ex whom I've broken up with several times switches from fantasizing about marriage to totally despising it.
I don't think this is Sun sign only related issue. His chart, personal experience, culture even and age all play a role I am sure.
Posted by DanitheV
...they go back and forth about how they feel. For instance my Scorpio told me he loved me and wanted to be with me then he didn't. He didn't want to move in with me then he did and now he doesn't again. And again and so on and so on.
Are we talking about one or many?
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But the sun plays a BIG part though....I've known/read abt a lot of scorp men & we r all the same for the most part, we just use our 'talents' in different ways.....that's when the our personal chart comes into play...whether a scorp male is loud or reserved, good or evil, its basically the same thing just expressed differently
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Posted by nov13thscorp
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Posted by DanitheV
Seems to me that Scorpio men love staying single or that they have a hard time being committed. My Scorpio ex whom I've broken up with several times switches from fantasizing about marriage to totally despising it. So confused. Speaking of switching, it is also seems to me that they go back and forth about how they feel. For instance my Scorpio told me he loved me and wanted to be with me then he didn't. He didn't want to move in with me then he did and now he doesn't again. And again and so on and so on.
hahaha U just described me.....I want both BTW, I wanna be married AND single at the same damn time *shruggs*
Have u considered an open relationship?
An open relationship— Share my wife or girlfriend with another guy?!? NO.F'ING.WAY.....
ahh, but you want to share yourself? why do you want both?
yea, it's not fair if he wants his cake and to eat it too.
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That's not true..I would much rather have one partner, but I just can't put 100% faith in a female..I'm ultra sensitive..I gotta protect myself somehow.......so....I stray..... just in case she betrays me....
Posted by nov13thscorp
Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by DanitheV
Seems to me that Scorpio men love staying single or that they have a hard time being committed. My Scorpio ex whom I've broken up with several times switches from fantasizing about marriage to totally despising it.
I don't think this is Sun sign only related issue. His chart, personal experience, culture even and age all play a role I am sure.
Posted by DanitheV
...they go back and forth about how they feel. For instance my Scorpio told me he loved me and wanted to be with me then he didn't. He didn't want to move in with me then he did and now he doesn't again. And again and so on and so on.
Are we talking about one or many?
But the sun plays a BIG part though....I've known/read abt a lot of scorp men & we r all the same for the most part, we just use our 'talents' in different ways.....that's when the our personal chart comes into play...whether a scorp male is loud or reserved, good or evil, its basically the same thing just expressed differently
This^^^I would agree with. And I don't see where I wrote it didn't play a role. A "big" role? That's debatable, especially since Scorps live, breathe, dream about the chance to have the deeper than life soul connection with another person. To suggest that Scorp men (based on their Sun sign alone) determine whether or not you can be happily married is a big leap given the true desires of a Scorp. If anything I would say its all the other bits (chart, environment, upbringing, culture, age, etc) that get in the way the make this the issue.
She clearly wrote:
Posted by DanitheV
Seems to me that Scorpio men love staying single or that they have a hard time being committed. My Scorpio ex whom I've broken up with several times switches from fantasizing about marriage to totally despising it.click to expand
Using a single (and a bunch of friends) as an example. A very young Scorp at that. These friends are probably around the same age. Yet, they are the example supporting this statement.
con't...
con't...
Rabbit was happily married for a number of years. Is he not a Scorp man? What makes him different from any other Scorp man? Or even the men she is referencing? Ah, yes, his "chart, personal experience and his age" as I stated. I didn't say the Sun sign wasn't important in respect to the challenges a woman may experience with a particular man, but the Sun sign alone does not determine this.
I'm not a Scorp man, but I honestly find it hard to believe that a sign that looooongs to connect with another being and can spends hours thinking/reflecting, about someone , sorting out his emotions to the point of self-sabotage, pulling away due to fear, would not desire to be in a committed relationship unless other factors were at play preventing this.
There is always a reason a Scorp does something and running from commitment is too simple an explanation. It does sit well with me. Do they have challenging relationship?--hell yes. We are difficult, but this is not the same as saying they love to be single.
Posted by nov13thscorpThat's not true..I would much rather have one partner, but I just can't put 100% faith in a female..I'm ultra sensitive..I gotta protect myself somehow.......so....I stray..... just in case she betrays me....
This.
Fear =/= "love being single". It's simply fear.
Perhaps the thread should be titled, "Are Scorp men afraid being hurt?" That would be accurate.
Posted by PhoenixRising
con't...Rabbit was happily married for a number of years. Is he not a Scorp man? What makes him different from any other Scorp man? Or even the men she is referencing? Ah, yes, his "chart, personal experience and his age" as I stated. I didn't say the Sun sign wasn't important in respect to the challenges a woman may experience with a particular man, but the Sun sign alone does not determine this.
I'm not a Scorp man, but I honestly find it hard to believe that a sign that looooongs to connect with another being and can spends hours thinking/reflecting, about someone , sorting out his emotions to the point of self-sabotage, pulling away due to fear, would not desire to be in a committed relationship unless other factors were at play preventing this.
There is always a reason a Scorp does something and running from commitment is too simple an explanation. It does sit well with me. Do they have challenging relationship?--hell yes. We are difficult, but this is not the same as saying they love to be single.
Sorry *is happily married....
Posted by cunninglinguist
Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by cunninglinguist
yea, if he's around your age, it's because u are both too young to be thinking marriage. Ur brain isn't even fully developed yet. He's actually doing u a favor bc if u rush into marriage, esp this young, you're prolly gonna be looking at a nasty divorce a few years down the road - very possibly with kids in tow. ouch.Give it a few years. My Scorp can't wait for us to marry, and he recently gave me the ring - but guess what? We're much older than u. I'm 24 ...
lol
*giggle*
Lol shaddup! all of u!! I certainly *feel* old nowadays. 😛
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Scorp is throwing out that back huh?
I kid. I kid. (none of my business.)
Posted by PhoenixRising
con't...Rabbit was happily married for a number of years. Is he not a Scorp man? What makes him different from any other Scorp man? Or even the men she is referencing? Ah, yes, his "chart, personal experience and his age" as I stated. I didn't say the Sun sign wasn't important in respect to the challenges a woman may experience with a particular man, but the Sun sign alone does not determine this.
I'm not a Scorp man, but I honestly find it hard to believe that a sign that looooongs to connect with another being and can spends hours thinking/reflecting, about someone , sorting out his emotions to the point of self-sabotage, pulling away due to fear, would not desire to be in a committed relationship unless other factors were at play preventing this.
There is always a reason a Scorp does something and running from commitment is too simple an explanation. It does sit well with me. Do they have challenging relationships?--hell yes. We are difficult, but this is not the same as saying they love to be single.
*sigh* it does not sit well with me
Posted by cunninglinguist
Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by nov13thscorpThat's not true..I would much rather have one partner, but I just can't put 100% faith in a female..I'm ultra sensitive..I gotta protect myself somehow.......so....I stray..... just in case she betrays me....
This.
Fear =/= "love being single". It's simply fear.
Perhaps the thread should be titled, "Are Scorp men afraid *of being hurt?" That would be accurate.
@nov13scorp - Well, at least ur honest with urself about things. Is it something u think u can ever overcome? If so, what would it take?
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My typos are crazy today.....*fixed
^^^Oh yes and +1 with the honesty Nov13.
I do believe that Scorpios walk away when they become really close to someone or when they are afraid of being hurt. Scorpios really are sensitive creatures.Being a Virgo, it's hard for me to remember sometimes though.
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Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by nov13thscorpThat's not true..I would much rather have one partner, but I just can't put 100% faith in a female..I'm ultra sensitive..I gotta protect myself somehow.......so....I stray..... just in case she betrays me....
This.
Fear =/= "love being single". It's simply fear.
Perhaps the thread should be titled, "Are Scorp men afraid being hurt?" That would be accurate.
@nov13scorp - Well, at least ur honest with urself about things. Is it something u think u can ever overcome? If so, what would it take?
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I hope I can overcome it, I literally have no idea what it would take though...... Lol I like the way u think phxrising
Posted by Rabbit
What's this about me being happily married?-_-
Rabbit? I need proof!
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Posted by Rabbit
What's this about me being happily married?-_-
Rabbit? I need proof!
FFS...
God damn Geminis?
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Welcome back sir. You were missed. *awaiting the invasion of Gems to the Scorp board*
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Posted by Rabbit
What's this about me being happily married?-_-
Rabbit? I need proof!
FFS...
God damn Geminis?
Welcome back sir. You were missed. *awaiting the invasion of Gems to the Scorp board*
It's amazing what a transiting Merc can do to a Scorpio mind.
It's like a white hot sun burning away the fog.
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really?! its just started messing with me...
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Posted by Rabbit
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Posted by Rabbit
What's this about me being happily married?-_-
Rabbit? I need proof!
FFS...
God damn Geminis?
Welcome back sir. You were missed. *awaiting the invasion of Gems to the Scorp board*
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hehehe... who will be first?!
^^ good philosophy bunnykins ^^
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Posted by PhoenixRising
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Posted by Rabbit
What's this about me being happily married?-_-
Rabbit? I need proof!
FFS...
God damn Geminis?
Welcome back sir. You were missed. *awaiting the invasion of Gems to the Scorp board*
It's amazing what a transiting Merc can do to a Scorpio mind.
It's like a white hot sun burning away the fog.
really?! its just started messing with me...
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I think the Merc in combination with my Mars placement has made me a lot more aggressive. I've already tore into 4 people and it's only Wednesday EST for you KIWI (). I had to leave work early and work from home I was so pissed.
Posted by Rabbit
Merc has made me look deeper into things to see what's really in there.It's made me more agressive, but that in turn has made me step back an examine exactly WHY and WHAT is pushing me to that extreme.
This.
Thank the heavens it is Thursday arvo here!! Bring on the weekend.
I have a flatmate free zone and I'm going to tuck myself away from people and sharp objects -_-
Well *ahem* I must admit to a massive backwards step with my ex last night. I refuse to believe I'm still such a silly jellyfish so I'm blaming the merc in scorp.
And OMG yes! Agressive... Playfights and broken wine glasses?! Just the need to stomp something...
Posted by May31Baby
*invades the scorp board*Gemini comments already? My goodness its been 10 minutes
Yuss! My money was on you M31B 😛
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Posted by May31Baby
*invades the scorp board*Gemini comments already? My goodness its been 10 minutes
Yuss! My money was on you M31B 😛
Lol really? So i win another prize? Cuz i dont really like skittles
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I get the pot- you get the skittles kiddo 😄
Posted by piggytoo240
A good friend of mine whom I once dated we share the same birthday Nov 7th but we are a year apart in age. he is was married and divorced from his olderst daughter mom. and is now married to a chinese woman with a daughter in this marriage, and they are still together now 2006.Some scorp men do believe in marriage
oh and another scorp male friend has been with his wife since 2000 they are both in law enforcement
What are the signs of their wives?
Posted by DanitheV
I've only dated one scorpio but I'm friends with a lot of scorpio guys including the one I dated.
How old are these guys?
Posted by nov13thscorp
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Posted by DanitheV
Seems to me that Scorpio men love staying single or that they have a hard time being committed. My Scorpio ex whom I've broken up with several times switches from fantasizing about marriage to totally despising it. So confused. Speaking of switching, it is also seems to me that they go back and forth about how they feel. For instance my Scorpio told me he loved me and wanted to be with me then he didn't. He didn't want to move in with me then he did and now he doesn't again. And again and so on and so on.
hahaha U just described me.....I want both BTW, I wanna be married AND single at the same damn time *shruggs*
Have u considered an open relationship?
An open relationship— Share my wife or girlfriend with another guy?!? NO.F'ING.WAY.....
ahh, but you want to share yourself? why do you want both?
yea, it's not fair if he wants his cake and to eat it too.
That's not true..I would much rather have one partner, but I just can't put 100% faith in a female..I'm ultra sensitive..I gotta protect myself somehow.......so....I stray..... just in case she betrays me....
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So you don't trust yourself enough to be able to find a faithful woman?
@LunarMaiden: All of them range from 20 to 29. Still young, I know.
@everyone: So I guess this means that there are not too many happy Scorpio marriages? lol
I never wanted to be single. I wanted to be married to my best friend and have lots of kids.
I got exactly what I wanted 😉 and can't imagine any other possible way my life could have played out.
We're so disgustingly in love that I hate her. That's her on the left with Pisces eyes like the deep ocean.
Posted by sefflee
Falling in love is the ultimate revenge on the world.
Quote worthy.
Yes, that is very quote worthy. Honestly I'm just making assumptions. It just appears that there are a lot of threads concerning Scorpio men that I just had to ask. I would like to hope that there are a lot of happy marriages (scorpio or not), but at the same time, it's hard to fully believe since all you hear about are unhappy marriages or divorces. It also doesn't help that my parents are in the same situation. 😢
What generation, who in their 20s, wasn't self-absorbed? It's not a millenial thing, it's life. 😉
Mine.
Posted by JennGem
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Posted by May31Baby
*invades the scorp board*Gemini comments already? My goodness its been 10 minutes
Yuss! My money was on you M31B 😛
I saw Tw1nkles post but didn't comment. Which is pretty normal, so why change it up!! 🙂
Welcome back Rabbit!! 🙂
Hello wonderful Scorp ladies and Gents.
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JennGem- TBH I had a $ each way
Posted by Rabbit
All generations screw something up. My generation completely blew their chances of creating real, lasting wealth and security for ourselves in the economic boom of the 90s, so...
The 90s had to pay for the debauchery of the 80s, so you didnt miss much. It was the 80's (Reagan years) where money was flowing out the wazoo. By the end of the 90s, things started to pick up, but then there was 911. But the web has made the world alot smaller and more accessible, you'll have your opportunity again :-)
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Seems to me that Scorpio men love staying single or that they have a hard time being committed. My Scorpio ex whom I've broken up with several times switches from fantasizing about marriage to totally despising it. So confused. Speaking of switching, it is also seems to me that they go back and forth about how they feel. For instance my Scorpio told me he loved me and wanted to be with me then he didn't. He didn't want to move in with me then he did and now he doesn't again. And again and so on and so on.