Leo or Libra? Help a Scorpio gal out!

Hello my fellow Scorpios! (And everyone else as well. 😄)

I'm not sure if it's the planets or me being a snake in the Year of the Snake, but the past few months in my love life have been so chaotic that I've barely been able to keep up with it all. I've literally gone 22 years with bare minimum dating experience to being thrown from one thing to another since the new year.

This past week I've found myself the object of interest of two men, both of whom I am interested in as well. Neither situation has gone smoothly or normally from the start and I've posted good chunk of text on both the Leo and Libra boards respectively. Hoping to get some insight from people more experienced with those signs (Thanks to all who took the time to read and respond!

*clear my head.

Thanks in advance to all you lovely people. 😄

Posted by leoliza
leo. libra will be quick in quick out.

That seems to be something that I keep hearing and I'm concerned about it. My Libra guy just brushes it off and says that he's not going anywhere and that he's "as stubborn as a mule".

@Jynja

Hello! I recognized your picture. This is the same Leo that you wanted to beat me with an oar to get over. XP

I did give it an honest try. Both alone and then with the Libra. But now that he claims to want to make it real I'm right back where I started.

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Posted by Scorpiogrl62
@Jynja

Hello! I recognized your picture. This is the same Leo that you wanted to beat me with an oar to get over. XP

I did give it an honest try. Both alone and then with the Libra. But now that he claims to want to make it real I'm right back where I started.

Awwww Shiiiiiiiiiiiit

The Leo's not a bad choice if he's being real. Ask him to prove it if he wants to move on and we'll see how that goes. Otherwise, now remembering the situation, I'd say drop the Leo for the Libra.

But your heart's with the Leo so... Just don't let him take you for granted - him and his stupid Leo ass hee hee hee Because you're too beautiful to be oar-ssulted. 😛

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First of all....oar-ssulted. I seriously just about died laughing.

Both signs not good for long term, better keep it as it is now "friends with benefits". Good choice for you is a Pisces man, you both drawn to each other and enter into a fantasie world that no one can understand.

@Jynja - That actually feels pretty spot on. I'm rather afraid that if I choose Leo that I'll end up on my ass. But as you've read my gut feeling about him had me sticking around through some not fun times. I don't want to choice Libra though just because he's a "safe" option. It wouldn't be fair to him or me in the long run.

Posted by Jynja
Well, the truth is that, if you look at it astrologically, you could end up on your ass with both men.

However, The Libra seems one to watch out for. I'm a fire sign and all, but if someone declared love for me that quickly, I'd turn tail and run simply because I'd imagine the pressure to love that person back and how draining it will be to be a girlfriend before learning what you need to learn to find harmony in such an intimate relationship. That is all the reason I would need to run from the Libra.

Truth, but at least astrologically my chances are pretty equal with either.

It really did freak me out, but he was such a charmer and I'm a sucker someone saying sweet things. He said that he understood that I needed time to think and that he'd be there when I was done, but I've gotten some serious cold-shoulder in our communications since.

He was wonderful. And he swore up and down that he was being honest. But he's also claimed to be a damn good actor and I've seen him lie well on his feet.

Yep, I would agree that my Leo is wounded. He even said during our discussion after he declared that he wanted to date me, that he was broken and I knew it. It would be nice to think that I helped to heal him, even if he didn't end up with me.

One other thing I'm worried about in regards to him is that he knows about Libra. In fact, at the beginning of last week he told me to "drop him like a brick" and give the other guy a chance. That he could "make you happy in a way that I can't". Now there's suddenly a 180. What if it's just him afraid of being along again and losing the affection that he was receiving from me?

Posted by Jynja
😕

What was your response to that statement?

To the brick dropping and his inability to make me happy?

I wish I could say that I made a snarky as hell come-back about how he had all the potential he needed to make me happy if he'd just get off his ass and stop mopping around after some woman who was obviously keeping him on the back-burner.

But I didn't. Instead I just let him have his moment of unselfish (since he was giving up on pretty much all physical contact) generosity. Just let him establish that he cared about me, wanted me to be happy, and that he would still be around as my friend.

😆. I bet that just made him all the more determined to prove you wrong. Challenge issued and accepted.

I've been reading everything I could find on both compatabilities. With Lions it seems to be a either love it or hate it sort of affair for us Scorps. One that I read called it a "deadly attraction" or "Like a moth to a flame". What can I say, we love to play with fire.

I'm going to make it very clear to both of them, whichever way it goes. I was trying to take each situation separately but they've just become too entangled for me to do so.

Have I thanked you for all the wonderful words and insight? If not....THANKS!!!!

I have dated two Libra men back to back, both extremely long relationships. Libra men are absolutely fantastic for romantic love! They are intelligent, funny, sincere, and loving. However, as a fellow female air sign I can tell you right now, emotionally Libras aren't worth the time. Both of my Libras are still incredibly in love with me...it takes them a long time to fall out of love, because they like the idea of it, but when things get tough...expect them to instantly check-out emotionally. They always will. At least from my experience mine always did.

Both Libra men I dated were like children. They needed constant direction and if a slip of negativity came out of my mouth, they were the quickest to run for the hills. Don't get me wrong, Libras are fantastic if you are looking to be treated like a queen, but do not expect them to be reliable in the emotional department. They will usually disappoint. And if this guy has already told you to drop him for the Leo, take his advice because it is the truth! They always give forewarning...always.

My choice is Leo. The few Leo men I have been with didn't always get along with me, but they weren't afraid of the hard stuff. They could take my emotions and give it back! I loved their passion and ambition. Seeing as you are a Scorpio, I have to say stay away from us Air signs. We detach just as quick as we attach and it's so YOU can never hurt us. Not really effective in the love department if you ask me. But that's just my two cents.

Excuse me, I read the "drop like a brick" wrong. I thought you meant the Libra had said that, which if it had been him I still will stand by my statement. Libras always give hints away that they are not right if you listen hard enough.

However since the Leo said it, I have to wonder if it wasn't just part of the drama they are known for, or if he is beating himself up because he doesn't feel worthy of you? I might be completely off base on that one.

Leo. Seems more of a "normal" situation to me.

The libra guy would annoy the shit out of me. He seems weird 😄

LEO!

Leo.
My guy is a Leo and he's great.

Wow, the consensus so far seems to point overwhelmingly in the Leo's favor. If he knew I'm sure he'd be preening. 😆

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Posted by Scorpiogrl62

Posted by leoliza
leo. libra will be quick in quick out.

That seems to be something that I keep hearing and I'm concerned about it. My Libra guy just brushes it off and says that he's not going anywhere and that he's "as stubborn as a mule".

If there's anything I've learned about Libras it's that they will SAY ANYTHING.
Watch only what he does.

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I've heard that about them before as well. His actions have been pretty consistent with his words. He seems like the type to spoil his lady, but in my opinion throwing money around doesn't say much to me. He's also very physically affectionate though, was touching me almost constantly(no gutter mind XP). Holding my hand in the car, and cuddling on the couch, that sort of thing.

Well guys, I've got a date with the Libra tomorrow (spend a good portion of the week off and on with the Leo) and I think it's probably gonna be choosing day one way or the other. I'd still appreciate any opinions and insight though. 😄

NONE , just have your fun but dont take it serious

I would personally say neither luv. The Libra seems to be confused/naive about his feelings- moving too quickly and constantly changing. And if there is any chance that the Leo is still hung up on his ex it may bring all kinds of drama and hurt into your life. If either of them were the right choice you would have known instantly- it wouldn't have even been a decision. However, you know what they say- if you are in love with two people, go for the second one because if you and the first one were truly meant to be you wouldn't have considered the second one.

You could defiantly try your luck with the Libra man, but I have a feeling that his passion would run cold as quickly as it was hot. From personal experience, I can say Leo's are not a good choice to hold your heart when they're still hung up on past resentments or relationships. Be careful, be cautious and guard yourself until you meet someone that knocks all other choices and options out of the picture.

It's great that you are testing the waters on both , and take your time .Just go with your pace and not theirs. Obviously I would encourage you to give the Libra a real consideration - that is , if you are interested in love and romance ! Libra men can be pretty wonderful in that department 😉

Okay guys! I really wanna thank everyone for their input. It was a rather hectic time for me but I eventually was able to come to a decision.

After spending the day with the Libra I learned during conversation that we have a pretty substantial difference in beliefs that would take much more time then we had to work through right now. That and some other occurrences throughout the day led me to decide against him.

On the other hand things with the Leo had been going really well, he'd started letting me see some of the more emotional sides of him.

So I've picked the Leo.

I'm also a snake 🙂 Leo definately. In my experience Libra will be too boring