Life with a male scorpio

1. 'Jeckel and Hyde behavior': Your partner is wonderful and caring for a while and then will do an about face and be angry about things that they thought were fine at an earlier time. They switch back and forth between behaviors for no apparent reason.

2. 'Life Would be so Good If': You frequently think that your relationship would be perfect if not for his or her emotional storms. The storms seem to be coming more and more frequently. Between times, life is wonderful, but when a storm is coming you can often tell by that 'Walking on Eggs Feeling'.

3. 'That Walking On Eggs Feeling': You feel at times that any action on your part will cause your partner to erupt into anger. You try to do everything you can think of to avoid it, but the longer the feeling goes on, the more likely the blowup will happen, no matter what you do.

4. 'I Can't Stand You, But You Better Not Leave': Your partner keeps telling you that you aren't worth having a relationship with, but will not consider breaking off the relationship. Acts more outrageously when he or she finds out you are attempting to leave the relationship.

5. 'So Much, So Fast': Your partner just met you and doesn't know much about you, but he or she has to have you, so you must commit now.

6. 'It's You That's the Problem': Your partner never seems to consider his or her own part in your domestic disputes. You get blamed for all problems because of the most ridiculous things.

7. 'This Happened to Me and It's All Your Fault': You are blamed for your partners problems even when it was his or her responsibility to not make mistakes. This could be things like him or her not getting to work on time and getting in trouble, not getting a job, not paying the bills in a timely manner, etc.

8. 'It's Their Fault': Your partner is never the cause of his own problems, if it's not your fault, it was somebody else's.

9. 'Overreacting': Your partner way overreacts to little irritations. Small offenses like leaving the cap off the toothpaste cause him or her to have huge anger scenes or act out in an outrageous manner.

10. 'I Will Get You for That': Your partner doesn't try to negotiate a better relationship, but retaliates by doing something to you that he or she knows will hurt you emotionally.

11. 'All the Fights are about What I Do Wrong': You never seem to be able to talk about his or her wrong actions, the discussion seems to always be about what you did wrong and there seems to be always something new that you did wrong.

12. 'You are Worthless': Your partner keeps telling you that all your problems are because you can't manage to do anything right.

13. 'Unrealistic Expectations': Your partner is dependent on you for all his/her needs and expects you to be the perfect mate, lover and friend. You are expected to meet all of his/her needs.

14. 'Blames Others for His/Her Feelings': You are told, "You make me mad," "you're hurting me by not doing what I ask,: or "I can't help being angry".

15. 'Intense Jealousy': Your partner tells you that expressing jealousy is a sign of love. Jealousy is a sign of insecurity not love. You are questioned about who you talk to and you may frequently receive calls or unexpected visits during the day.

16. 'Isolation': He or She have attempted to cut off your family, friends, and independent financial resources. Your friends and family are put down and you are put down for socializing with them. You or they are accused of ridiculous motives.

What are you even doing with such a tool?

His evil side exploded after I moved across the country. F me. Oh well, at least I made sure I moved for more than one reason. The area is gorgeous & my job is wayyyyyyyyy better, totally appreciated here & got a bonus on fri! 🙂

Now, the escaping part, hmmmmmmmmmmmm

your scorp is everything mine isn't. can't relate to the description at all. so maybe it's not a scorp but an idiot thing. 😛

just commenting on a few of your statement(commenting on all of them would take 3 pages):
3. 'That Walking On Eggs Feeling': that's very destructive, you're holding back your real thoughts because you're afraid of your partner's reaction. good for him, he doesn't have to handle your feelings. really bad for you, you can never be the way you really are in front of him. i think this the fundament of every relationship, to be able to show your true self, even if your true self can be irritating and pathetic at times. someone who loves you will have to be able to handle that and still love you, despite of your flaws.

6. 'It's You That's the Problem': never let anyone tell you you're the problem unless you know yourself you did wrong. only in that case apologize. otherwise let him dwell in his minority complex and don't bother.

7. 'This Happened to Me and It's All Your Fault': no, this happened to you and it's your fault

10. 'I Will Get You for That': that's the worst, if someone hurts you to take revenge.

so, if i had to give 1 out of 10 to your bf...i'd give him -5. stop taking that shit, you don't need it. that man has problems and isn't happy with what he is. no big deal, but don't let yourself be put down by his inadequacies.

holy crap

sorry TG - ignore my post on your other thread. didn't read this beforehand.

need to plan The Great Escape. seriously.

My Scorp is nothing like that...

I think he may not be dealing with this move too well...He's saying all things horrid to see how long you last..cos they do test like that..but the fact that you've gone over there (shows strength and independence) and have settled in a good area and job (stability) may be making him feel insecure knowing that you can do that whenever you wish..do you get what i am trying to say?

Hey guys, well my week is good cuz he's outta town for the week! Then when he comes home friday he misses me, then I don't know, he freaks about something. He's already broken my cell phone, I had to buy a new one. 😢 Oh, and that was cuz he was jealous cuz a CHICK was flirting with me! Fffffffff how pathetic.

Pathetic I's am for not realizing his bad temper could turn into this! I wonder if mentioning his issues to him might cause a tatrum or if he might pay attention. I guess I'll have to try that when he is level headed. If he can't talk - I walk.

And my apologies for the scorpios out there - I just know that a lot of these traits are VERY scopio, but in the bad way. eg. passionate (loving) or psycho! lol, get what I'm saying?

Yes it is normal. I have come across a scorp like that..he didn't get physically violent with anyone..just had an awful temper..I have one too..But I can get physical...Like I said, I think he maybe taking a while to adjust to living together etc..

My Scorp said to me the other day that he was worried why some women were even looking at me..lol..

They do calm down as they get older..They are possessive and intense..

Ya, I don't think he would ever get physical - although I have! I punched him cuz he was tickling me sooooooooo bad, and opps! It was his face! lol

We both grew up in physically abusive homes though, and are very passionate people, with deep feelings, and are horrible at communication. We have so much to learn but love each other, but how much torture do we put each other through to make it work?!! Our combination is just plain hard. So is it worth it? Would other people compliment us better? Would it be real? How does a person decide when to move on, or tell themselves to work harder and not give up.

Stubborn bulls, eh? lol

Only you would know the answer to that question..how far do you take it, when is the green light to actually go...you should know..

How long have you guys been together? It hasn't been that long has it..

"although I have! I punched him cuz he was tickling me sooooooooo bad, and opps! It was his face! lol"

LOL But that's lovvvvvvve 🙂

``I also received some lovely death threats when I broke up with him``

Thanks for the warning.

I feel like I have given birth to a scorpio child. Not sure where my boyfriend went...but now I have a child. hmmmmmmmmmm can I say accident? lol

Omg.. I'm living that same nightmare since June, it started out that he was moving way to fast and then when I caught up, "The bastard" told me we need to take it slow, I wanted to leave then, but didn't so we took things slow and they started to get better, and we were back at seeing each other just as often, but he is always in a suspecious kind of mood I can't explain it, like he is worried I'm getting to serious or something the funny thing is he calls me to come over all the time, "The turd" and no I don't talk to him like this, I watch every p and q so I don't send him on a dragon trip. Then one day came a text message "I don't think your what I'm looking for"... "the ass" so it was over and I was done, Then a week later came the text "you make me so mad" and things were back to normal. Now just recently he text me "changing my number" well with his past record I went balistic and told him to take a hike and then came the phone call " of... no and its not you and I'll call you as soon as I have the new number" so I felt like an overreacting ass!! Only for him to give his ex wife his cell phone two days later so she could tell me he doesn't feel like talking to anyone you (I) included" so now I was in tears again and totally confused and it never makes any sense and when I think I'm over it comes the next text message always text messages " be here E. Be here!! and so I went and he comes at me with we need to take it slow he feels confused about us... da!!!! phsychotic, is an understatement and if I didn't like his evil psychotic self I would have gone along time ago. The only thing now is I don't take him seriously at all and I will beat the crap out of him with a damn pillow until this boy loosens up because he is making me crazy. I'm uptight enough as it is I'm a virgo!!!