@balsley
20 Years
Anyone for a threesome?
I have been invited. But the closest I have come to actually participating in one is "performing" for a third person.
Never been asked. I am waaaaay to possesive! Someone will have to be kicked OUT of the room. lol
grr *too possessive I meant.
Never type when you are tired people.
Never type when you are tired people.
"grr *too possessive I meant.
Never type when you are tired people."
I totally agree with you, purrrfect. LOL
Never type when you are tired people."
I totally agree with you, purrrfect. LOL
No, I'm not into threesomes either. It's enough concentrating on one partner let alone two. Hey, it works for some people, but I couldn't go through with it. I do have a Leo moon also so that might have something to do with it as I'd want my partner to only focus on me and vice verse. I do have to say it does sound like fun, but no thanks.
A whole other language can be formed Mystical. One that only I understand lol! Are you Aquarius with a Leo moon?
How nice that someone also has Leo Moon, Chocolate'. I've realized my emotions for someone I truly like run very deep which sometimes scares me as I can also be detached. If a guy catches my attention and after a while I fall for him, I fall hard. Going through that now with a guy who is no good for me but for some reason I've been having trouble letting him go. I'm doing it but it hasn't been easy. Also I love to be showered with attention but then again who doesn't.
purrrfect,
You are absolutely right. I am an Aquarius with a Leo moon. How did you guess?
You are absolutely right. I am an Aquarius with a Leo moon. How did you guess?
..How did you guess?..
I just checked past posts for your sun sign. Just wanted to confirm. And well, as for your moon...I'm psychic 😉
I was asking because I am the opposite. I'm a Leo sun with Aqua moon. I thought it was interesting. You guys have a good one 🙂
I just checked past posts for your sun sign. Just wanted to confirm. And well, as for your moon...I'm psychic 😉
I was asking because I am the opposite. I'm a Leo sun with Aqua moon. I thought it was interesting. You guys have a good one 🙂
Chocolate,
Nice to meet you, too. 🙂
Wow, I'm the same as you regarding guys. I give so much attention, they like to talk to me, I give them space because I like my own. What you wrote is just like me.
Yes, I'm sure my Leo moon is shining through regarding that darn Virgo guy. Oh, he's so hard to forget. I don't think I'll ever truly forget him even though I want to. He opened up apart of me that had been sleeping for awhile. It's not easy to put that part away to sleep yet for someone else. If I only understood why he's acting the way he is, it could make more sense. I don't like being ignored which he fully knows. The games he's playing are so immature. He's even told me he's immature and acts more like a 15 year old. It'll more than likely be left as a mystery since he's giving me the silent treatment. I can't chase him anymore. Whether he ever comes around again (however, he has said he always come back) remains to be seen but how I'll react to it, I truly don't know. Then my Aquarian coldness will probably kick in just to prove a point.
Nice to meet you, too. 🙂
Wow, I'm the same as you regarding guys. I give so much attention, they like to talk to me, I give them space because I like my own. What you wrote is just like me.
Yes, I'm sure my Leo moon is shining through regarding that darn Virgo guy. Oh, he's so hard to forget. I don't think I'll ever truly forget him even though I want to. He opened up apart of me that had been sleeping for awhile. It's not easy to put that part away to sleep yet for someone else. If I only understood why he's acting the way he is, it could make more sense. I don't like being ignored which he fully knows. The games he's playing are so immature. He's even told me he's immature and acts more like a 15 year old. It'll more than likely be left as a mystery since he's giving me the silent treatment. I can't chase him anymore. Whether he ever comes around again (however, he has said he always come back) remains to be seen but how I'll react to it, I truly don't know. Then my Aquarian coldness will probably kick in just to prove a point.
purrrfect,
So you are the opposite? Well, I've always wondered about having an Aqua moon. I've understood that the moon is how we feel. Well, I have a Leo mom and she loves to be the center of attention. She and I think differently since we are opposites regarding horoscope. We get along fabulous. I have liked a Leo guy though last year. We are friends now because we were both too shy to take it further. Also my heart has been with that Virgo guy. However, he always like my sunny positivity and how I'm not clingy. I always have something to talk about. Now I don't always mean to be funny but he seemed to laugh a lot. Just like this Virgo guy also. He also seemed to laugh or chuckle at things I said. Yeah, I know us Aquarians can be quite nutty but in a good way. Attracting and keeping guys has never been a problem. I wonder if that is because of my Leo moon. People do like how Leos are.
So you are the opposite? Well, I've always wondered about having an Aqua moon. I've understood that the moon is how we feel. Well, I have a Leo mom and she loves to be the center of attention. She and I think differently since we are opposites regarding horoscope. We get along fabulous. I have liked a Leo guy though last year. We are friends now because we were both too shy to take it further. Also my heart has been with that Virgo guy. However, he always like my sunny positivity and how I'm not clingy. I always have something to talk about. Now I don't always mean to be funny but he seemed to laugh a lot. Just like this Virgo guy also. He also seemed to laugh or chuckle at things I said. Yeah, I know us Aquarians can be quite nutty but in a good way. Attracting and keeping guys has never been a problem. I wonder if that is because of my Leo moon. People do like how Leos are.
Mystical
I am a leo moon as well.
Never chase Virgo men. When you do, they run away.
(((Mystical)))
I think this guy is a crazymaker. That isn't good for us women folk. There is plenty of fish in the sea. Find yourself one worth catching. I don't think this one is.
I am a leo moon as well.
Never chase Virgo men. When you do, they run away.
(((Mystical)))
I think this guy is a crazymaker. That isn't good for us women folk. There is plenty of fish in the sea. Find yourself one worth catching. I don't think this one is.
Chocolate,
He opened up emotions I keep hidden very well and only show to certain people. He reached out to me when he was down and showed his vulnerability. However, whenever he realized he did that, then he'd close up again. Feelings are very hard for me to show. However, with him after 5 months, I finally showed them to him. That was the beginning of the end it seems like. He told me within 2 weeks how much he cared for me. I acted like I didn't hear it. He told me a few more times and I just laughed thinking he was crazy. Then as the months rolled on by, I went deeper and deeper until I finally had to tell him. I thought 5 months was long enough. However, I told him I'm always his friend. He knows he can rely on me. Darn him. He also knows I can't reject him as I'd feel guilty if I did. However, I'm pretty darn mad at him now so who knows how I'd react if he came back.
Virgo guy showed me that I could trust him as I told him I had trust issues. I made him promise to never ignore me as I wouldn't ignore him. We had made a pact to always be friends. What does he do? He breaks it without warning and I have no idea. Being told there are a lot of things sick about him makes no sense to me. Sure everyone has problems in life but you don't push your friends away when you need them. I've been a fool regarding him and I know that now. That is what hurts because I should have been smarter. It's a bitter pill to swallow. I will move on. I have to look at it as I'm being saved from more heartache. However, I'd like to get closure. The not knowing is what has bothered me. I don't think I'll ever get the answer though.
He opened up emotions I keep hidden very well and only show to certain people. He reached out to me when he was down and showed his vulnerability. However, whenever he realized he did that, then he'd close up again. Feelings are very hard for me to show. However, with him after 5 months, I finally showed them to him. That was the beginning of the end it seems like. He told me within 2 weeks how much he cared for me. I acted like I didn't hear it. He told me a few more times and I just laughed thinking he was crazy. Then as the months rolled on by, I went deeper and deeper until I finally had to tell him. I thought 5 months was long enough. However, I told him I'm always his friend. He knows he can rely on me. Darn him. He also knows I can't reject him as I'd feel guilty if I did. However, I'm pretty darn mad at him now so who knows how I'd react if he came back.
Virgo guy showed me that I could trust him as I told him I had trust issues. I made him promise to never ignore me as I wouldn't ignore him. We had made a pact to always be friends. What does he do? He breaks it without warning and I have no idea. Being told there are a lot of things sick about him makes no sense to me. Sure everyone has problems in life but you don't push your friends away when you need them. I've been a fool regarding him and I know that now. That is what hurts because I should have been smarter. It's a bitter pill to swallow. I will move on. I have to look at it as I'm being saved from more heartache. However, I'd like to get closure. The not knowing is what has bothered me. I don't think I'll ever get the answer though.
LS,
Yay, you too have a Leo moon. How nice. No wonder you've understood me. Gosh, I wonder how many have Leo moon.
Yes, I've understood very well not to chase a Virgo guy. I didn't until I felt him slipping away. Then I stepped it up a little which was my downfall. I don't understand why they run either. I've learnt my lesson very well. I gather you've read on the Virgo board regarding the situation. If you go on the Scorpio board under the X factor there was someone called pluto''s muse who asked for his and mine horoscopes. I found them and she was able to see that he has a lot of negativity in his chart. He isn't good for me at all. I was astonished she was able to see that through the degrees and whatnot. I have no idea how to read charts at all. However, it's very interesting.
Yay, you too have a Leo moon. How nice. No wonder you've understood me. Gosh, I wonder how many have Leo moon.
Yes, I've understood very well not to chase a Virgo guy. I didn't until I felt him slipping away. Then I stepped it up a little which was my downfall. I don't understand why they run either. I've learnt my lesson very well. I gather you've read on the Virgo board regarding the situation. If you go on the Scorpio board under the X factor there was someone called pluto''s muse who asked for his and mine horoscopes. I found them and she was able to see that he has a lot of negativity in his chart. He isn't good for me at all. I was astonished she was able to see that through the degrees and whatnot. I have no idea how to read charts at all. However, it's very interesting.
Grab a cup of joe and I will tell you. I am a bit of an expert on the subject of the virgoman.
I just posted on the libra board why I think in general it is better for boys to chase girls. My theory has to do with the very nature of what it is to be feminine and what it is to be masculine.
But Virgos are a bit tricky because they are the bachelor sign. (Libra being the partner sign which leads to Scorpio which is the sexual union sign.) It is the last of the self focused signs. This is why there are SOOOO many unmarried, uncommitted Virgos. They have a much harder time with it.
Virgos live to please people. They are very hard on themselves. When you chase them or are unhappy with them in anyway, they take it to heart. They hear it as they aren't good enough and don't make you happy. They hear you need more than they can give.
Then they shut you out. You can tell them how much you love them ect but they will read your actions as they aren't good enough.
I just posted on the libra board why I think in general it is better for boys to chase girls. My theory has to do with the very nature of what it is to be feminine and what it is to be masculine.
But Virgos are a bit tricky because they are the bachelor sign. (Libra being the partner sign which leads to Scorpio which is the sexual union sign.) It is the last of the self focused signs. This is why there are SOOOO many unmarried, uncommitted Virgos. They have a much harder time with it.
Virgos live to please people. They are very hard on themselves. When you chase them or are unhappy with them in anyway, they take it to heart. They hear it as they aren't good enough and don't make you happy. They hear you need more than they can give.
Then they shut you out. You can tell them how much you love them ect but they will read your actions as they aren't good enough.
LS,
Just curious then. Do they eventually come back? I've been told by the Virgo guy I know he always comes back. Do they suddenly pop up again, or once they're gone, they're gone for good? Would like a little feedback just in case I have to prepare myself for him coming around again.
Just curious then. Do they eventually come back? I've been told by the Virgo guy I know he always comes back. Do they suddenly pop up again, or once they're gone, they're gone for good? Would like a little feedback just in case I have to prepare myself for him coming around again.
They come back if they love you. My virgo-virgo rising will call me the night of his wedding. That is just the way it is. The other virgo, the one I lived with, sends a birthday greeting or a Christmas greeting and that is it. He has moved on and is very loyal to new girl, which I am very happy about.
Virgo-Virgo rising will always be in the background and will always pop up, because he needs my approval and love. Knowing I am unhappy with him or unhappy in anyway, would wound him deeply. I can't really explain it better than that.
So yes. They sometimes do pop up. It really depends on the depth of their bond to you.
Virgo-Virgo rising will always be in the background and will always pop up, because he needs my approval and love. Knowing I am unhappy with him or unhappy in anyway, would wound him deeply. I can't really explain it better than that.
So yes. They sometimes do pop up. It really depends on the depth of their bond to you.
LS,
Well, then I have no idea of what he'll do. The Virgo guy in my case has a Scorpio rising so he's secretive with his intentions. He always has two thoughts going on he's said. The whole thing will be a mystery, at least for time. I know it was him calling me on the 9th at 4.27. That was after over 5 weeks with no contact from him. No one else would be so rude to call at such an hour. I wonder if he'll pop up again when I least expect it. I'm not sure of what to do if that happens.
Well, then I have no idea of what he'll do. The Virgo guy in my case has a Scorpio rising so he's secretive with his intentions. He always has two thoughts going on he's said. The whole thing will be a mystery, at least for time. I know it was him calling me on the 9th at 4.27. That was after over 5 weeks with no contact from him. No one else would be so rude to call at such an hour. I wonder if he'll pop up again when I least expect it. I'm not sure of what to do if that happens.
Chocolate,
No, I'm not hanging out with any other guy at the moment. I've been fully focused on this Virgo guy. I know, not the smartest thing in the world to do. It's just when I really like someone, I don't look at other guys. However, in the recent when I've been at the hospital (I'm a nursing student and will be finished next year as an RN), there was one med.student who caught my eye. He was mirroring me. If I was reading something, he picked up a book to read. If I sat down, he sat down too. I only saw him for 2 days. Then he was moved to do his med.student internship to the psychiatrics department. I did see him once again as he came up to the children's department where I am. He was looking for a cassette to talk into. He could have asked anyone to help him but he came to me. I asked him how he was and he said fine. We did normal chit chat. Then I haven't seen him again. He knows I also work part-time in a food store as I have to make money. I thought I'd have more days with him so I never got the chance to tell him to visit me. He is absolutely adorable. If he is single I don't know either. He knows I'm a go-getter though. He was teasing me (in a good way) every time he saw me.
Then there was this adorable guy who ususally goes on my line at the register. I was always curious as to how old he was. So one time when he was going to pay with his mini bank card I asked to see the picture. He's a Cancer. I could have cared less about the picture, I wanted to see when he was born. Boy, was I gutted when he turned out to be younger than me.
Other than that, I get quite a number a guy's talking to me at the register who also flirt. I'll talk with them as I love to meet new people. Attracting and keeping guys has never really been a problem for me. I'm mostly a friends first kind of gal so jumping in the sack quickly is not my style . Any guy that gets with me knows they have to stimulate me mentally (get my attention) and be my friend. Not an easy task but it can be done.
No, I'm not hanging out with any other guy at the moment. I've been fully focused on this Virgo guy. I know, not the smartest thing in the world to do. It's just when I really like someone, I don't look at other guys. However, in the recent when I've been at the hospital (I'm a nursing student and will be finished next year as an RN), there was one med.student who caught my eye. He was mirroring me. If I was reading something, he picked up a book to read. If I sat down, he sat down too. I only saw him for 2 days. Then he was moved to do his med.student internship to the psychiatrics department. I did see him once again as he came up to the children's department where I am. He was looking for a cassette to talk into. He could have asked anyone to help him but he came to me. I asked him how he was and he said fine. We did normal chit chat. Then I haven't seen him again. He knows I also work part-time in a food store as I have to make money. I thought I'd have more days with him so I never got the chance to tell him to visit me. He is absolutely adorable. If he is single I don't know either. He knows I'm a go-getter though. He was teasing me (in a good way) every time he saw me.
Then there was this adorable guy who ususally goes on my line at the register. I was always curious as to how old he was. So one time when he was going to pay with his mini bank card I asked to see the picture. He's a Cancer. I could have cared less about the picture, I wanted to see when he was born. Boy, was I gutted when he turned out to be younger than me.
Other than that, I get quite a number a guy's talking to me at the register who also flirt. I'll talk with them as I love to meet new people. Attracting and keeping guys has never really been a problem for me. I'm mostly a friends first kind of gal so jumping in the sack quickly is not my style . Any guy that gets with me knows they have to stimulate me mentally (get my attention) and be my friend. Not an easy task but it can be done.
Chocolate,
Flirting is not my style at all. Sure, I'll laugh and talk with the guys. My problem is I don't really know when a guy likes me. He has to show me he's interested in me. Then I observe and see how he is. If I feel comfortabel enough around them, then there is no stopping me. However, I think way too much before I do things. Life is for living but I hesitate a little. When I make my mind up, there is no stopping me because then I'm sure. Yes, this Virgo guy has drained me emotionally and spiritually because I really felt I had a connection with him. It looks like I didn't and this has really stunned me that I could be so wrong. Usually, when I'm right about a situation, it goes fine. Somehow something went wrong and I don't even know what. This Virgo guy is so embedded into my heart and soul because he was so real and honest (at least I thought so). He seemed to be the real deal. He'd gone through break-ups and wasn't into playing games. It seems like he's been playing me. To need a man, I don't, but they are nice to have around. I just get so disappointed when I've been wronged, like anyone would be. This Virgo has taught me a valuable lesson which is don't jump too fast. He was the first guy I threw caution to the wind and just went with my heart and not my head. Never again. Too much pain in a short amount of time.
Flirting is not my style at all. Sure, I'll laugh and talk with the guys. My problem is I don't really know when a guy likes me. He has to show me he's interested in me. Then I observe and see how he is. If I feel comfortabel enough around them, then there is no stopping me. However, I think way too much before I do things. Life is for living but I hesitate a little. When I make my mind up, there is no stopping me because then I'm sure. Yes, this Virgo guy has drained me emotionally and spiritually because I really felt I had a connection with him. It looks like I didn't and this has really stunned me that I could be so wrong. Usually, when I'm right about a situation, it goes fine. Somehow something went wrong and I don't even know what. This Virgo guy is so embedded into my heart and soul because he was so real and honest (at least I thought so). He seemed to be the real deal. He'd gone through break-ups and wasn't into playing games. It seems like he's been playing me. To need a man, I don't, but they are nice to have around. I just get so disappointed when I've been wronged, like anyone would be. This Virgo has taught me a valuable lesson which is don't jump too fast. He was the first guy I threw caution to the wind and just went with my heart and not my head. Never again. Too much pain in a short amount of time.
You are absolutely right, Chocolate. People do come and go in our lives. Some are positive and others are not so. Virgo guy looks like the not so positive one. I have had blinders on when I shouldn't have. Shame on me, and I'm paying for it today. This is another lesson Virgo guy taught me. I will never fall too hard fast ever again. I just can't do that because it hurts too much. I've been miserable for weeks on end. I doubt Virgo has even really had me on his mind at all. He knows he got to me. This is why it's been hard to let go of him. I'd like for there to be closure but he's refusing to give that to me. This is why I have to make my own closure as hard as it's been. When I look on the positive side, I'm glad to have learned and experience a heartbreak like this. I've been the one who broke hearts or walked away. Now I'm experiencing how it feels on the other side. However, I was never mean ever like this Virgo guy has been with me.
Yeah, I know flirting is important but for some reason I'm not very good at it. My grandma tried to show me how to flirt when I was younger but I thought it looked stupid. I'm just myself and I never put on an act. With me what you see is what you get. My spirit has never been broken before but it will be repaired because it has to. Yes, I do want someone who will love me mind, body, soul and feed off of my energy (I've got plenty of it). Just finding him has been at times a little difficult.
I'm going to let Virgo guy go because I have to. I can't keep going on with insanity of the situation. It's been getting easier. Haven't spoken to him in 6 weeks now so in this time I've been letting him go. I have sent him text messages asking how he was. He doesn't respond. I'm getting use to that now. Therefore I don't try anymore. I'm worth more than a guy ignoring me for no reason.
Very true with I could be letting Mr. Right go right by because I've been so wrapped up with Virgo guy. My goal is to get a doctor, since I'm going to be a nurse. We'd make a great pair. My sights are on male med.students now. There are so many guys that smile at me and I smile back but my mind was with Virgo guy. No more now. I've trained my brain to stop thinking of Virgo guy and let go of all the negativity. It has been working. Eventually, I won't think much of him which scares me a little because when I get to the point of cutting someone out of my life, I become like ice and never let them in ever again. It hasn't happened often.
Yeah, I know flirting is important but for some reason I'm not very good at it. My grandma tried to show me how to flirt when I was younger but I thought it looked stupid. I'm just myself and I never put on an act. With me what you see is what you get. My spirit has never been broken before but it will be repaired because it has to. Yes, I do want someone who will love me mind, body, soul and feed off of my energy (I've got plenty of it). Just finding him has been at times a little difficult.
I'm going to let Virgo guy go because I have to. I can't keep going on with insanity of the situation. It's been getting easier. Haven't spoken to him in 6 weeks now so in this time I've been letting him go. I have sent him text messages asking how he was. He doesn't respond. I'm getting use to that now. Therefore I don't try anymore. I'm worth more than a guy ignoring me for no reason.
Very true with I could be letting Mr. Right go right by because I've been so wrapped up with Virgo guy. My goal is to get a doctor, since I'm going to be a nurse. We'd make a great pair. My sights are on male med.students now. There are so many guys that smile at me and I smile back but my mind was with Virgo guy. No more now. I've trained my brain to stop thinking of Virgo guy and let go of all the negativity. It has been working. Eventually, I won't think much of him which scares me a little because when I get to the point of cutting someone out of my life, I become like ice and never let them in ever again. It hasn't happened often.
Yes, I am walking away with my dignity intact. I will smile at other guys but what I usually do is say hi and then they smile to me and then I smile back. Oh, I can't put on an act. It takes too much energy to keep that up. Eye contact is fine by me so that is no problem at all. However, when I really like someone I'll look and then look away, then take a subtle glance to see if they are looking in my direction. Most times they are unless they have a girlfriend. Then I completely understand.
My game is a little rusty so I do have to step it up. I'm going to have to speed it up for lost time. I've had 2 true loves in my life. One was a Taurean (still think of him to this day as he was my first love) and a Pisces. I'm a little slow when it comes to dating. I don't even drink alcohol as I've seen so many drunk people in my life. Even this Virgo would call me up numerous times drunk which made no sense to me. Basically, I'm very much like the girl next door. But I do have a wild side when I feel comfortabel as then most anything goes then.
Yes, I will be focusing my attention on new opportunities as I have to. Things will get better. I know it will. 🙂
My game is a little rusty so I do have to step it up. I'm going to have to speed it up for lost time. I've had 2 true loves in my life. One was a Taurean (still think of him to this day as he was my first love) and a Pisces. I'm a little slow when it comes to dating. I don't even drink alcohol as I've seen so many drunk people in my life. Even this Virgo would call me up numerous times drunk which made no sense to me. Basically, I'm very much like the girl next door. But I do have a wild side when I feel comfortabel as then most anything goes then.
Yes, I will be focusing my attention on new opportunities as I have to. Things will get better. I know it will. 🙂
You know I'm up for it, Time/date?
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How many of you Leos have been invited to a threesome? They just can't get enough of us can they?