Living with a Scorpio

So what are the benefits and advantages of living with a Scorpio?

My Scorpio and I have been talking and are planning to live together. We've set a 3 month deadline.


I'm nervous but he seems excited and happy about it. I know I will be raped every night, but other than that.....I am looking forward to settling down with the baby daddy.


Hopefully all goes well.

Raped?! every night?! does that really happen? if scorp gets bored with sex he will push you to extreme limits. so beware.

I have no idea about your history with this man. But as long as you have good communciation, and I mean direct communciation you should be great.
Say what you want from him upfront, and make sure you understand what he is 'meaning' with his weird innuendos, and if you don't know then just ask him.

I don't know how much space you like to yourself, or if you like to go out with the girls, if so don't let him posess you too much. They can get possessive and jealous.

I was a great person to live with. lol well I thought I was, and Im female. Im sure that makes a difference. But I think I got moody and wouldn't say much, but I didn't really know I was not saying much. Im sure of a remedy for things like that, except really good communication. Ask about it, but don't push for the person to be what you expect.

i live with a scorp for five years...he was very supportive..but he was possessive...after a while i couldnt stand it....one thing i did love about him....he was very protective of me...that turned me on so much..

Ashleysagstar: "WTF NO!!! JUST GET ME MY FUCKING ADVIL AND WATER!!!!!!!!!" "

LOL.hahaa...that's hillarious...been guilty of it myself..It's like dude, stop asking me stupid questions and get me what I need..if I wanted ice patches I would've asked for them..lol..oh man..

And Nov_scorp..I too hate bright lights...I seriously love the dark..my best friend gets so annoyed when she stays over and can't find her way around..The dimmer switch indeed is brilliant..or else just have candles...ahhh love the dark 🙂

MM you are so funny

When I was living with my sons father (pisces)his job was to keep the trash out of the house. He was so bad at doing it that I would take the trash and leave it by the door and he still would not pick it up that urked me so much.

Then he would not clean behind himself. He had stinky feet and shoes and I would put his addidas outside on the balcony and he could not find them. His shoes smelt so bad I washed him and he basically cursed me out but I did not care cuz all I said to him after he was finish cursing me out was "Your feet should not stink" 🙂

I like everything to be in order I believe there is a place for everything, bed should be made up in the morning and you should clean up your mess before you leave for work.

My son (Libra) can't stand living with me. There are rules that he must live by, he is to keep the trash out, One time I asked him like 3 times to take the trash out. I came home one day and the trash was still there. I picked it up and put it in his room and as soon as he opened his door he stepped right in it. He was heated. He is to keep clean the kitchen when he is finish cooking, he is to clean his mess up in the bathroom. And if it is not done I will make him stop what he is doing and clean it up that blows him everytime.

When I come home the house had better not be to hot, he is not to say anything to me until I have taken off my clothes and put something comfortable on. When I am trying to sleep he is not to keep bothering me or he will get cursed out. He is to make sure the house is always locked.

When my Gem used to come over to spend the night, When he would shower he just throws his towel down and never hangs it up. He leaves his wash towel on the tub that is just unsanitary to me and dirty because people use the bathroom and I just don't trust the sanitary of other people. He is to eat on a tray if he eats in the room. I lay the lotion and deodorant out for him and give him the soap to use. And I have to go behind him and clean up all that he has left out. He would leave his dirty clothes on the floor

One thing you can count on you will get a kiss every night and every morning and evening when he comes home. He will probably ask you how was your day and he might talk about his day.

Oh I totally hear you!. I can't stand mess..the biggest arguments my leo ex and I used to have were over domestics..lol..he was so messy...and I would literally be tearing my hair out...admittedly when he did get around to cleaning up he did an even thorough job than me..I can't stand domestics..but I am a perfectionist..everything has to be in order...not a thing moved out of place..or I will not sleep..lol..

Good on you..you have to teach your kids when they are young otherwise how will they ever learn..lol..my mum made that mistake of wrapping the boys up in cotton wool...apart from the leo brother, the other two are a waste of valuable oxygen..the leo one is soo self sufficient..I love people like that

I know I will be raped every night

Ugh, your ugly ass is not even worth Raping.

And as for everyone else here in this thread, quit speaking for Scorpios as if you all are experts on us (ahem ashleysagstar...cunt!)

If a Scorpio has a family you can bet that he will do anything to provide them with all the necessities they need no matter what the obstacle. If you earn a Scorpio's trust he will provide you with his security for you to feel safe. We are some of the most protective people when it comes to loved ones, provided you endure the smothering on occasions which I have a tendency to do with my children.

Great Sex 🙂

"He'll want to know everytime you walk out the door the exact time you'll be back but he is free to come and go as he pleases and you WILL NOT question him or you're being "paranoid". He'll want time to himself and you are to leave him alone but if his mood requires you to be there for him ... to hell with YOUR alone time."

This is true. We need our space. Just go with the flow and follow his moods. Don't let him run over you though. Pick your battles but when you do stand your ground. It sucks but we can be very self absorbed. I hate artificial light but love sunlight and light curtains and fresh air...let the sun in!!!! Candles are nice too. Yes, the clean thing is mostly true. We're not all obsessive about it though. I can get sloppy ie:clean clothes all over the bed but I don't do dirty ie: dishes piled up, etc. Oh and sex before going to sleep and especially first thing in the morning!

my scorp bf and i spend almost every night together and i'm the one who turns off the lights and likes to be in the dark. he's not possessive or smothering at all and doesn't ask me where/when i'm going to be home unless for a reason. sometimes i wish he'd be a little more "smothering". he's kind of messy and i'm the one who picks up and cleans after him. he loves to cook and i'm not allowed in the kitchen area unless asked by him🙂 yes, hey loves when everything that makes his existence just "appears" and he doesn't have to think about it. i guess my scorp is different then most and maybe because it's his sagi moon talking🙂

ps: how's the baby—?? 🙂🙂🙂

Right on target with Scorps (except ariesgirl!)

sophie68: my point exactly - that my scorp behaves differently. so, my experience with him is different.

hey am5. i took a break from dxp. yes, everything is pretty good🙂 how's everything with you? scorps do like their comfort and like to be comfortable. isn't it nice when they get protective sometimes. cute😉

yes, the treads bring up the feelings of the past. i miss "old dxp ppl". my scorp constantly tells me that communication is the key and he's making me communicate with him. he loves to cook and he's good at it too. i'm not a fan of cooking but love to eat so it works out well there. sometimes i wish we'd make things permanently so i woulndn't have to wonder about the future. i know that talking about it all blah blah blah and he can tell me what i want or don't want to hear. but i told him that i'm looking for stability and a ltr at this point of my life and i guess he's still here. so, unless he's down on a knee proposing i'm left to wonder 😉 pls, don't suggest i'll do the proposing myself lol

Angy Scorpio. I heard your mom works the corner at night.

True or False

I pick true.



















Thanks for the advice guys. I love him. I really do.

The other day he grabbed me and hugged me real tight and asked me what I would say if he were to ask me to marry him.

I hope it goes well like it has these past 3 years.

Things might change. You never know.

I'm a Gemini but I do have a Taurus Moon and Venus.

He has a Taurus Moon too.




It's okay laydbak.......AngryScorp needs some hot sex.

Hey Aries...you are one lucky chickie! Enjoy your Scorp! :-)

Mystic don't you wanna get married? You have a baby so wouldn't it be in her best interest as well. Do you have a plan if this guy doesn't want to marry you? Plan B maybe?

tread carefully, living together with no clear plans to get married but secretly yearn and hoping for it is like walking on a tight rope.

Good luck and let us know how your adjusting to your new life, I feel giddy inside hehe

Tiki,

I would love to marry him. But it isn't important to me right now. I'm an atheist and he's catholic so don't know what type of ceremony we would have LOL.

I've always been told by many people....live with someone first before you get married so you can know what you're getting into.

My family isn't big on that marriage stuff. Times have changed.

I don't want a man to marry me just because I had his baby. I want him to marry me because he really wants to.

The scorpio has to be the male for it to work and I have seen numerous scorpio male/gem female couples...female scorpios and gemini men..no way!!

"I'm an atheist and he's catholic so don't know what type of ceremony we would have LOL."

LOL!!

Good luck, make sure you have a plan B, put money away JUST IN CASE, look out for yourself and your baby FIRST in all ways and have fun, it really is a great experience...

Female scorp loves gem males provided that they're sane

LOL@sane

Gemini's are never boring, my dad is Gemini, not sane but was very fun and funny.

It's one of my biggest fears too but I would rather be bored with a mentally stable individual than a fickle one..Sorry can't stand them..