Making progress with my scorp guy!!! or not : (

Met scorp a year ago and developed feelings quickly. I showed little interest and after about 8 months he became interested in another girl. He doesnt date but he invited her to the community center he works at (I volunter)and to church a couple of times (approx 5) and over his house once with a group of people but it didnt work out (Nov).

Im Aqua so I tried to take it slow but in January I gave up an asked him did he think there was a connection to which his reply was that no matter how he felt, he wasnt ready for a relationship.

Last month I got ordered to active duty 19 April. After 3 weeks they told me I didnt have to go (Apr 2)but while I waited for a response, I guess it bothered him because he started text messaging me asking if I had heard back from the Army, when I would find out their answer etc. Then he told me we have to hang out before I leave. I ask him if I dont leave, then what? He said we would still hang out.

I went out of town last week and he go hurt really bad. I told him that I would bring him salts and rubs and a heating pad for his back if I wasnt away. The next day I got back and bought him a boat load of stuff to make him feel better and left it on the porch and text him to let him when I got home. This was Tuesday. Finally on Friday after a year of knowing each other he asked me to come over to watch a movie.

The evening was fun, we sat on opposite couches but had good conversation. He talked the whole time but he wouldnt look at me LOL. I stared him down the whole time smiling and when he would try to look at me he would blush. 🙂

On the way home I text him saying that he made me nervous. He asked why. I told him that I know he knows I'm crazy about him and I know that he doesnt want a relationship right now but that its hard not expressing myself and wanting to so much at the same time. So I get nervous cause I dont want to make things uncomfortable. To which he replies, "Oh I c"

The next morning at church we didnt even speak!!! I didnt approach him cause he "makes me nervous" but I saw him watching me. There is a man who visited Sunday that I hugged and right after that scorp instantly left! :O I text him that he is "supposed to say hi to me", he text back "hi". I text him he needs to "let me interrogate" him "LOL", trying to make a lite conversation, NO RESPONSE.

Did I mess things up? What did I do? should I do? How does he feel? HELP!

A scorpio man "blush"? He must be very young....

"Did I mess things up? "
No, you told him honestly how you feel and he respects honesty and you for saying it. He just doesn't feel the same.

"What did I do? "
Nothing wrong. He appreciated your "care package" and wanted to thank you. He is being polite and he likes you (as a person), but not romantically.

"should I do?"
Leave it be, AquaLady. You've already told him how you feel and he knows it now.

"How does he feel?"
When a scorpio man is interested in you romantically, he will pursue you. He's not "feeling" you romantically.

It's hard when you are so attracted to someone and they are not feeling the same. But it appears he likes and respects you. Just don't read more into than it really is.

Just rape him

I blush alot if I like someone. I HATE it because it gives me away but I can't control it 🙂

Boo! No fair! I seriously can't help it.
But for some reason guys get a huge kick out of it. I suppose because they know they got to me.
I've had a couple guys tell me it's charming and extreamly cute as they're laughing at me. I swear my face turns as red as my hair. 🙂
Blah! Whatever! It's horrible!

I think he is adorable! He's this 6'6 big ol masculine man but he blushes. So cute 🙂

Anyway, the night was great but now we havent talked all week. I text him good morning Wed and he responded good afternoon. But when I asked him if he wanted to go to the movies this weekend, he stopped responding. Its so confusing. Maybe he wasnt interested after all.

"A scorpio man "blush"? He must be very young...."

Uhhm the two I was involved with always either blushed or constantly smiled in my presence. Love it!!!!

I guess the other comments I made were true then.

But from the comments, I'll say there must be more than one type of "blush" for scorpio men. The comments say that you guys actually LIKED the people who made you blush, and if they were scorpios, they were probably digging you, too. I don't believe AquaLady's guy was blushing because he wanted to get with her. It may have been because he didn't know how to gently handle the situation since he isn't "feeling" her.

I've never seen a scorpio "Man" blush undeliberately. Younger ones, yes, because they haven't learn how to control their honest feelings. Older (40+) are much more controlled unless they feel really comfortable with you and KNOW that you KNOW what they are thinking about and wondering if you are willing. And the blush is just a glimpse, because if he knows you know, that blush turns into his seductive stare in an instant.

Seductive stare says: "(ok, since you know what I'm thinking,) are you ready for me? Don't play."

😉