How would a scorpio man react or feel?

I see a girl leaving flirty messages on his wall (facebook). Me and scorpio man just started going out, we are not in a relationship. I'm not in the position to confront, but I feel like sending him sarcastic messages... am I being childish here?
Scorpio being very private would feel exposed? (that I look at his profile often)
He told me he is jealous of my other guy friend who fancies me, would he feel flattered? or not? if I show my jealousy. could his infamous "double standard" applies here too?

I think he would be flattered. 🙂

thanks sweet, maybe I should just hit send that sour message to him. 😉

He would be defensive unless you did it in a joking manner. He doesn't care how jealous he is about other male admirers of yours, there is always that double standard with them.

I agree with QS. Don't express your "jealousy", unless as a joke and make sure you can pull that off because he can see right through an A-C-T. If you two were in an exclusive relationship, yes, you could tell him. He may still be defensive, but he wouldn't mind too much as long as you weren't crazy with it (like too touchy if he even looks at another woman).

Yes, jealousy is a no-no. They don't mind putting you in a cage- i.e. jealousy. But once you start showing your green side, it might be fun at first, but later it won't be a flattering color on you. Trust me.

don't acknowledge that the other girl exists. you're the only woman there and you should concentrate on how you feel about him and how he feels about you. you have to show him that you're secure. if he brings this up then you joking change the subject.

Keep your sweet side on and the sour in check. Ignore it, because he choose to be with you not the girl who left him messages on facebook. Feel more secure about your relationship and yourself and you won't have anything to worry about.

Oh yes, as AG said. DON'T ACKNOWLEDGE THE OTHER GIRL. When there is another girl and you feel threatened by her and you acknowledge her it really takes you down a level in his eyes, because that shows him you aren't really secure with yourself. You know you are hotter so why need to acknowledge?

isn't it more fun when a man wonders why you're not jealous of other women?😉 i'm kind of territorial and slightly posessive by nature but learned on how to control it.

"isn't it more fun when a man wonders why you're not jealous of other women? i'm kind of territorial and slightly posessive by nature but learned on how to control it."

Ag, girl how ever to you do this? I have tried so hard to control and feel once i get "it" i will feel much more in control. I dont know if it's my Scorpio rising or Mars in Aries that i make him aware that yes i did see him checking out that other gorgeous woman. When you dont bring "some" things to his attention, aren't you really saying that you will except this action from him?

"I'm not in the position to confront"


You know that ^^^^ because you said it ... so why then are you asking if you should do it anyway?

i HATE when men or women openly check out other ppl while they're with their gf or bf!!!! can't stand it. i casually say that i hate when i walk on a street and there is a couple and the guy is smiling and staring at me.( does happen) i say that it made me feel insulted for the other girl. if he doesn't get what you're implying and you catch him staring at some woman then try to jokingly say that what are you trying to make me feel jealous?
just couple of suggestions here.
at some point i realized that there is more important things in a relationship then jealousy based on him looking at someone. i became like that about 2 years ago. before that i'd walk out even on a mention of a woman's name. so stupid

"Ag, girl how ever to you do this? I have tried so hard to control and feel once i get "it" i will feel much more in control. I dont know if it's my Scorpio rising or Mars in Aries that i make him aware that yes i did see him checking out that other gorgeous woman. When you dont bring "some" things to his attention, aren't you really saying that you will except this action from him?"

No.Example, when I and a scorp were at the grocery store, there was a cashier who openly flirted with him, I said nothing, when we left the store he said, "Baby, for you to be so insightful and inquisitive you miss some things." I responded," really? Like the cashier who was openly flirting with you?" If you could see the shocked expression on his face as he stoped in his tracks. I stated, " Look, I am trying to show you that you don't have to fly off the handle when someone is admiring someone you are with or even flirting, especially if they are no threat at all. Did you see her? Now look at me. Get my point?" Then I kissed him on the cheek and we left. Stunned, he didn't say another word as he would have gone balistic if a male even glanced at me longer than 5 seconds.

I felt I taught him something that day. Yes, it was the old scorp.

Queenscorpio, yes that's what I suspected, double standard. But scorp is different from the leo or aqua guys that I've dated. It SEEMS he's not afraid of being underhanded, he shows his insecurities (just the right amount, not huge🙂), which is charming cos it makes me feel that I don't have to play mind games with him, that I can just express exactly how I feel, whenever... or not? I'm not sure the effect when the same thing is done upon him. I don't want him to take advantage of me.

pathfinder, yes I intended to express my jealousy in a joking manner. The message I wanna get acrossed is: I SAW THAT, YES IT MAKES ME JEALOUS. BUT THAT'S ALL, I'M NOT GOING ALL CRAZY ABT THAT, AND WE'LL STILL GO OUT. Great cos I don't have to ACT, as it matches my thoughts 🙂

Xtina - "because he choose to be with you not the girl who left him messages..."
At the moment, I don't know if he only chooses to be with me.

"DON'T ACKNOWLEDGE THE OTHER GIRL. When there is another girl and you feel threatened by her and you acknowledge her it really takes you down a level in his eyes"
agree, but this scorp makes me feel that I don't have to play this game. Though, I'm not sure I can trust this feeling yet

I was rather undemonstrative with my feelings in past relationships, maybe for fear of conflicts. I mostly took the passenger's seat, even adaptable when I was treated nicely. Now, to have a bit more power in my relationship, I want to invest more and take equal responsibility as the guy. It's probably too early to say in this case with the scorp guy but this will be my direction.

ariesgigrl402 - isn't it more fun when a man wonders why you're not jealous of other women?
For sure. But he needs to know I'm aware of the other women's existence. 🙂

P-Angel - I did not intend to confront.

Thanks for your pov nov_scorp

?I think he'd feel (secretly) flattered BUT if you just started dating he may get a "who do you think you are" attitude.?
I suspect this to be his reaction 🙂

"shows his insecurities (just the right amount, not huge), which is charming cos it makes me feel that I don't have to play mind games with him, that I can just express exactly how I feel, whenever... "

This is one of the things that keep us loving them so! They are real with theirs, no matter how stupid or silly we think it is and that makes it attractive in a sick way!

"P-Angel - I did not intend to confront."


Did you anyway, eventhough you knew that your intentions should be not to confront?

Control.


"yes I intended to express my jealousy in a joking manner. The message I wanna get acrossed is: I SAW THAT, YES IT MAKES ME JEALOUS. BUT THAT'S ALL, I'M NOT GOING ALL CRAZY ABT THAT, AND WE'LL STILL GO OUT. Great cos I don't have to ACT, as it matches my thoughts"

This relationship is already doomed before it even starts, so you might as well bounce now before you allow your feelings to be invested in a situation in which causes you to have jealousy, and which causes you to react to your emotions rather than your rational thought.


Jealousy is one of the soul killers ... my advice to you would be to sort out this jealousy issue you have before attempting to have a mature relationship with anybody.