Mars in Scorpio... what would you do?

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I'm burning with curiosity and thought you might play hypothetical revenge with me?

My Pisces made good on a threat he made years ago. His warning was tested last year... and he whispered to me a few weeks ago that he made good on it... but HE WON??T TELL ME WHAT HE DID!!! Usually I can let stuff like this go or my Mars/Pluto comes up with satisfying images but my imagination won't go there. Perhaps I'm too close to it?

Situation: His ex gf hates me... whatever, I understand her contempt. However, she made a few attempts at contacting/interacting with me personally that crossed a line. The last time, the fish sent her a very creative warning to stay away from me. She disappeared for awhile but last year posted public pics of herself sitting on a restaurant patio... 2 blocks from my house. Please note, these are the only pics she has publicly posted and tagged a mutual friend in them so they would show up on my feed. The intent was not lost and her proverbial finger was flipped.

I ranted at the time and let it go, it was a year ago!... he obviously didn't. When he told me, all he did was smile and say it was effortless and word gets around in small circles.

What do you think happened?

*I got revenge on my crazy neighbour and it still warms my heart on chilly nights ๐Ÿ˜„*
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Glad I'm not the only one who gets warm and fuzzies from revenge.

#noshame



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Ohhh thank god I'm not alone! Then the ones who got pwned call me cold, cruel, vindictive and vicious like it's a bad thing. The way I see it is I have a huge amount of warm, loving, nurturing and nonjudgmental in me, but I completely draw the line at betrayal. Go down that road and you'll see the other side of that lovely coin and it's very dark and cold.

So, onto Shellshocker's fun puzzle....Fish may have ruined reputation for the ex or, if she's in a relationship, set her up to get dumped. Maybe sabotaged her vehicle? Fish are more slippery than Cancer, though, so I'm trying to wrack my brain on what could be done that wouldn't be the usual blaze of glory type revenge (Cardinal energy: explosive, not subtle).
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Let me ask you this...

Why do you reflect on your past relationship with an Aquarius on these boards? Are you not living well with your man? DOn't you have better things to occupy your mind? WHY? Why do you care so much?

I got revenge on my neighbour because an opportunity presented itself and I took it. It had/has nothing to do with obsession. Revenge is an action and with a heavy Martian placements and memory.... it is easy to go there. effortless

You can justify your thoughts and actions by your own standards and consider yourself evolved... I just consider myself human.

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Posted by IrresistableScorp

Also, revenge is an act of PASSION. It's not an act of someone who doesn't give a fuck. The big ice is someone who doesn't give a fuck. Like I said, living well is the best revenge. Just an observation. Honestly not being judgmental. But in truth, if my man plotted and schemed about revenge with an ex-lover--my radar would be WAY up, even if felt good at the time seeing her get her "what for.."

my two cents. Don't agree. That's fine.



Mars is a PASSIONATE planet. It enters everything especially when it's in it's ruler. This is not a bad thing, this is Mars in it's natural expression.

Plotting and scheming is YOU exaggerating words

And this is more about your personal views on my relationship and my choice of man...

which I don't give a fuck about, passionately
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Posted by IrresistableScorp

I don't want you even thinking about your ex let alone sitting back for a year before you can get revenge. You can't get revenge on someone WHO DOESN'T EXIST and your ex had better not exist. #ScoprSunProblems



Double standard? You think about your ex quite often. What makes it different is your JUSTIFICATION for thinking about your ex. You say it helps you in your current relationship. You are with your man.... but you think about other men. Your ex.... who still exists to you. ๐Ÿ˜

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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Posted by Damnata
I'm way too lazy for revenge.

I just run scenarios in my mind til I get exhausted so nothing ever happens.



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i was just going to say the same thing and agree w/Damnie. I never took revenge on my ex. Wanted him to leave me alone and him to live his life. but he died mysteriously and i thought that was just karma working (morbid, but it's what crossed my mind)
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Posted by LadyOfRebirth

I can see why the Pisces would plot revenge if the Scorpio tried to get at you personally, in order to protect you. However if it's only over that picture or talking smack behind your back it would make me personally wonder *why* he's so fussed over that. It would make me personally think he's still not over her betrayal.



I see what you're saying, and honestly I do see what IS is saying as well. I was hoping for a more realistic/humanistic stand point.

Why does taking an opportunity when it presents itself equate to deep harbouring resentment and red flags? With my crazy neighbour, my revenge came out with an action and a few words in a 20min time frame. There's no plotting or scheming... it is about timing and opportunity.

That energy of Mars comes through in creative endeavours, music, art work, business.

I think I'm the only one is seeing this with an astrological take, however.

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Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
truly being over the past means you're indifferent.



source : Mars in Scorpio

you two like your drama. end of story.
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thank you mars in scorpio.

no he is not over the betrayal. not by his friend, not his father, either. I'm not over by bff's betrayal, nor my brother (who I have compassion for) and act indifferent as hell... but it is what it is.

I think the only reason he acted was because she got in my face again and he said he would do something. He promised me he would always keep his word.

what do you think he did?
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Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
the thing that would bother me about this entire situation is the fact she is a scorpio.

scorpio and pisces play some sick sadistic games with each other and it stems from our twisted fascination with each other.

it would also bother me that I've (you) been put in the middle like a rag doll.

your goal should be for him to be indifferent and not advocating these games.

his word should be to leave it alone....not to try to avenge you. avenging you just gives him fuel to keep the game alive.



I'm in this kind of situation often, in many different kinds of relationships. My neighbour 3some was me, Scorpio & Taurus. A family related one was Cancer & Leo.

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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Posted by Damnata
I'm way too lazy for revenge.

I just run scenarios in my mind til I get exhausted so nothing ever happens.



Are you my long lost twin? ๐Ÿ˜
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I think I am yes ๐Ÿ˜

Thank you gods of dxp for reuniting us.

But really it's a good thing I don't apply anything and let it go really easy. The kind of sadistic shit I conjured in my head..dear god.