Mars in Scorpio men

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by bloodflood on Sunday, March 30, 2014 and has 22 replies.

Understanding Mars in Scorpio Men

Mars in Scorpio men are intense and determined in their pursuits, often passionate and private. They approach relationships with depth and loyalty, seeking meaningful connections. Their behavior can be magnetic both inside and outside the bedroom, influenced by their emotional intensity and desire for control. Compatibility depends on individual Venus placements and shared emotional depths.

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what are your experiences with mars in scorpio men, inside and outside the bedroom? how they pursued you, how they treated you, etc. what was your venus and how did that mesh with their scorpio mars?

if you have a scorpio mars, tell me about it. πŸ™‚

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Surprisingly they have small d*cks and finish quick. I think that placement is quite overrated.
Oh and please, don't say I'm being cruel. I'm a cap.
And I talk about real experiences.

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Posted by ShyCapLady
Surprisingly they have small d*cks and finish quick. I think that placement is quite overrated.
Oh and please, don't say I'm being cruel. I'm a cap.
And I talk about real experiences.

lol HMMMM.... sorry for your experiences 😒 i appreciate the realness!

any scorpio mars men want to defend themselves here?

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Posted by bloodflood

Posted by ShyCapLady
Surprisingly they have small d*cks and finish quick. I think that placement is quite overrated.
Oh and please, don't say I'm being cruel. I'm a cap.
And I talk about real experiences.

lol HMMMM.... sorry for your experiences 😒 i appreciate the realness!

any scorpio mars men want to defend themselves here?

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No need to really defend as we're all individuals. I will agree that the placement does bring a lot of sexual energy or passion. But I can only speak for myself as I have a lot of fire in my chart. Moon/Leo, Venus/Sag, Sag Sun, Asc/Uranus/Mars all in Scorp.

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Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by bloodflood

Posted by ShyCapLady
Surprisingly they have small d*cks and finish quick. I think that placement is quite overrated.
Oh and please, don't say I'm being cruel. I'm a cap.
And I talk about real experiences.

lol HMMMM.... sorry for your experiences 😒 i appreciate the realness!

any scorpio mars men want to defend themselves here?

No need to really defend as we're all individuals. I will agree that the placement does bring a lot of sexual energy or passion. But I can only speak for myself as I have a lot of fire in my chart. Moon/Leo, Venus/Sag, Sag Sun, Asc/Uranus/Mars all in Scorp.

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i'm a big fan of scorpionic energy, no matter what. must be my scorp rising. but i'm more so a fan in the silent power of that energy, not so much the sexuality of it... it's really scary, which actually makes it really sexy.

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i've read scorpio mars men... even though scorpio-influenced, actually can withhold on sex for long periods of time (for whatever reason, mainly to find the right connection) and in turn can delve into other realms for escapism like drugs, alcohol, exercise, etc. true or nayβ€”

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My dad is a Mars in Scorpio and he is very driven to do what he wants to do and he knows how to make money and keep it.

I know another Mars in Scorpio and he had like 5 baby mamas. Quirky. Good use of fingering but overall sex was bland.

I know another Mars in Scorpio and he is well endowed and very freaky in bed. he uses me like a blow up doll and my mars in virgo happily obliges. πŸ™‚

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from an encounter with a mars scorp man, i can attest to everything that has been said EXCEPT for how he is in bed. i guess i didn't make the cut for this "highly" selective man.

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Posted by Ulalume
Bad:

-cocksure and drama-wracked.
-slow to anger and too stoic.
-can suffer from sexual frustrations and weird hang-ups.
-can be completely inconsiderate, get off on mindfuckery, silent treatment.

Good:

-strong silent types.
-obsessively attentive lovers and partners.
-majority of their actions are preemptive.
-sex holds a deeper meaning than just body parts bumping together.
-loyal. rocks of Gibraltar.
-great cooks.
-they have a borderline "creepy" method of pursing someone of interest.

As for the bad, a good Venus and moon placement can temper a couple of those on the list. Mainly, drama eacked, sexual frustrations, the silent treatment, and mind fucking lol. But I actually think being slow to anger is a good thing and in a lot of ways negates the bad about the placement.

As for needing an emotional connection in order to have sex, for me personally it is true. I can have casual sex but an emotional bond must be established first and admittedly, I won't even get turned on with out it.

Great cooks? Yes, and I am in more ways than one

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As for the bad, a good Venus and moon placement can temper a couple of those on the list. Mainly, drama eacked, sexual frustrations, the silent treatment, and mind fucking lol. But I actually think being slow to anger is a good thing and in a lot of ways negates the bad about the placement.

As for needing an emotional connection in order to have sex, for me personally it is true. I can have casual sex but an emotional bond must be established first and admittedly, I won't even get turned on with out it.

Great cooks? Yes, and I am in more ways than one

hm yeah not so sure if someone with a leo moon (drama!!) and an aqua venus (detached, unemotional) would make a mars scorpio any better... i think the mindfuckery was definitely amplified.

i wonder though.. would you also repress your sexual urges if say you WERE physically/emotionally attracted to this person, but at the same time also emotionally attached to someone else.. like for example an ex?

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Posted by Ulalume
Bad:

-cocksure and drama-wracked.
-slow to anger and too stoic.
-can suffer from sexual frustrations and weird hang-ups.
-can be completely inconsiderate, get off on mindfuckery, silent treatment.

Good:

-strong silent types.
-obsessively attentive lovers and partners.
-majority of their actions are preemptive.
-sex holds a deeper meaning than just body parts bumping together.
-loyal. rocks of Gibraltar.
-great cooks.
-they have a borderline "creepy" method of pursing someone of interest.

Overall that sounds accurate.

A few points though.

I hate drama and while I will make love to your mind I'm not into mind fucking either.

Define weird hangup... I mean it can't be that weird if she wants to do it again. 😱

I'll admit I'm adventurous and open minded in the bedroom. Weird is too vague.

Obsessive, pre-thought through, no casual sex, loyal, great cook... and I have been called creepy before.

Yeah its good overall.

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Posted by ShyCapLady
Surprisingly they have small d*cks and finish quick. I think that placement is quite overrated.
Oh and please, don't say I'm being cruel. I'm a cap.
And I talk about real experiences.

Size wise, each guy is different and sounds like you just had bad luck. It ain't from the placement though. As for the quick finish, you ain't a spit and quit girl are ya (that could mean a lot of things and I'm pretty sure they all work)? I can go several rounds, generally speaking each round is longer than the last. I have literally fucked for hours. Even if he couldn't get it back/ keep it up, I can make you walk crooked without taking my pants off.

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ulalume, the traits you described seem to fit the mars in scorpio guy i had been talking to, even though we've never been sexually intimate. but i think those traits are also reasons WHY he could not be sexual with me even when we were highly attracted to each other.

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Posted by Ulalume

Posted by bloodflood
ulalume, the traits you described seem to fit the mars in scorpio guy i had been talking to, even though we've never been sexually intimate. but i think those traits are also reasons WHY he could not be sexual with me even when we were highly attracted to each other.

Bummer you got a dud and things didn't work

out. My experience has been hit or miss with

guys having this Mars placement. Those sexual

hang-ups can be frustrating and ruin a relationship.

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i have a serious love hate relationship with anything scorpio related, just like my ascendant. love/hate it.

i'm still deeply attached to him emotionally too... but as i do have scorpio tendencies as well, i can see where he's coming from... if he consummates this already emotional relationship, there'd be no going back for him and we're both in temporary living situations that would make it difficult to continue a relationship in the future.... hence his sexual repression towards me, which in turn has driven me up the wall with desire for him. ugh have any mars scorpio people been in this kind of situation?!