Need input on Scorpio woman/Aries man compatibilit

I'm the Scorpio woman in question. The guy is very cool, fun to be with and talk to. . . sounds like we agree on a lot of the "biggie" issues, including the need to have alone time, and a shared pet peeve. . . when people you date have to have their thumb on you all the time. So far, so good.

I am sensing that we are probably both equally stubborn, and need to have our own way. So far, this hasn't been a problem, probably due to the fact that we live in different towns, are both very busy and have limited time to spend with each other, so we try to make the time we are together special.

From what I've read though, we are pretty much destined to incinerate each other verbally when we do get to a situation where neither of our stubborn selves wants to back down.

Anyone ever have this combination? What was your experience?

Hi sharpchick and welcome my friend!

Not sure how much I can help you here but I will offer some thoughts for you to ponder. I am an Aries female and yes, I do know that the Aries male and female are a bit different however, we do have some of the same qualities.

I have a scorpio son and the difference with us is he is a FIXED sign - I am cardinal. We enjoy debating and neither one of us gives up because we both think we are correct and in most cases we are - we make it fun and we have learned to understand each other. He has had to learn to open his mind more to know that there are other possibilities - more than one way to look at something and to not be so serious. Yep, us Aries love to have fun and we sure enjoy living in the moment - what else is there?

Create your relationship to how you desire it and then it will happen that way. Best wishes and please keep us posted if you so desire...curious minds need to know 😉

Sharpchick,
You got to follow your heart. You got to have some fun, and yes, when we follow our heart, we do tend to get hurt, . . however, . when you are so far away from each other and he keeps coming back, hopefully, it is for the right reason. As a Scorpio, you probably want to know what he is doing at all times. . .the Aries male as a friend, is loyal to your friendship, never to say bad about you, however, . . .you may find it hard to get any real commitment out of him. Aries need to control things, committing, can sometimes mean, they have to give up control. . .you already know enough to keep the friendship alive, are you trying to escalate the committment ? You are probably smart enough to do so, if he is completely open and honest, . . then, . you may be the one to control your relationship, . .beware, . .if he considers your questions his private business,. . .guess what. . he does not want you to know everything. . .be careful how you approach him, . aries hate to be in a corner, especially if they are afraid to make a committment with someone they are attracted to. They hate to feel owned, and they are not lovers of authority figures or confining relationships.

Stay mysterious, that's my advice. Remember, you have a knack for that. Ask him if he'd like to see how deep ya'll can get without drowning in it.

HI, i find myself in love with an Aries and yes i did say in love. Im a scorp female in every sence of the word. But for some crazy reason we fit perfectly together yes we do have a few problems like he says im a pain in his ass but our sex life is amazing no really just get past the control issues and enjoy the sex believe me fighting then making up is so much fun.

Well Parallax.. to answer your question..for a masculine sign, I'm pretty "soft-and-pink" on the inside.

Perhaps on the exterior, I can come across as aggressive, competitve or stubborn- but are those traits exclusively "masculine" ? Can those traits simply be attributed to the fact that I'm an aries?.. and aries is a masculine sign? I can't answer that definitively.

I will say that my libido carries several masculine traits.. particularly when I'm chasing down a mate. If I want something (or someone 😉 ), I initiate a lot, and I rarely take, "no" for an answer.

I am an aries male, was engaged to a scorpio female. My best friend is a scorpio.

Reading your post sounds like the commencement of our relationship. In my opinion, Aries and Scorpio are very similar in some ways, hence the friction.

For both these signs, caring is expressed via control. They control those who they care about, because they want the best for them.

Unfortunately, the majority of the time, this combination will degrade into a struggle for power. Physically, you will fit perfectly. But this is not enough.

You must be prepared to "let go" for this to work. As we both know, this is not something you enjoy doing.

If it works, it will the most challenging journey you have attempted, and by far the most rewarding.

Good luck.

C

My mom is an Aries and my dad is a Scorpio and they have been married for at least 21 years. They've been through a lot together. My dad is emotionally abusive, and my mom has a quiet spirit but very headstrong. They tended to clash together a lot, especially with my dad being very overbearing. At one point they were even separated when I was about six. But they are together now, probably will always be, and as long as they learn to settle their differences, and find a way to come to each other without all the stress and negativity, their relationship can and does work. It's not an easy one from my say, but anything can happen once you put your focus into it.
That's all I have to say.

Crimson