
Xin
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Posted by hiplove79
Sun - Scorpio
Ascendant - Aries
Moon - Capricorn
Mercury - Scorpio
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Libra
Jupiter - Aries
Saturn - Sagittarius
Uranus - Sagittarius
Neptune - Capricorn
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This is his chart?
Based on the history between you two, how you have responded to him(which is an indicator of future behavior)and his chart, I will make this short and sweet by simply answering to the title of this thread.
And yes that is his chart....
Yes.



Posted by heartless2dayPosted by Xin
Sorry about that. Yes that is his chart. But what makes you think I am getting in too deep is it all the fire and water in his chart? *Suffocates*
something tells me you like your relationships 'light' =)
but you love that danger, dont you? just a wee bit? his chart looks really ambitious and quite the very responsible person. He sounds like a great catch. Up to you and how you feel, really. I mean, the balls in your court.click to expand

Posted by Reconstructing_a_Leo
The Capricorn moon talking: doing the double masters. Maybe ask yourself how much you two have in common. The moon (to me, and many) is as equally important as the sun. This moon/or any strong Cappy influence needs to be respectable, the 4 house garage house, solid finances etc.
Just make sure you want the same things

Posted by caesarkreshen
A sociopath is a sociopath.
Someone has to be a "REAL PERSON" before you can start dissecting their behavior.


Posted by happykitsune
In my experience it's never a good idea to give someone a second chance if they've done the same thing over and over again. But you know emotions get in the way.
I did date this scorpio once who I never thought he'd come back. Then he did and he told me basically the same thing yours did. That school was hectic, he was very busy, he really cares about me. I hung out with him for a while after that except I didn't treat him nicely. I was pretty cold to him and not very nice cus I'd reject kisses from him sometimes. He came on very very strong. But as soon as school started up again he was back to his old self and pretty much ignored me.
Up to you if you want to get into this mess again. Maybe with him being out of school he'll be less focused on school and more on you....then again he'll need to get a career and he'll want to focus on that too.

Posted by Xin
Thank you for your insight. I know. I know you're right. See I am just wondering if he will do it again. I know that actions speak louder than words but I would like to give him the benefit of the doubt I suppose. Yeah he is coming on VERY strong. Just like your story. I mean terribly strong. So it has me doing the whole "side eye" thing and squinting. I did warn him I said "We will see how things go when you start grad school and when things pick up again." Believe me I am very aware that he could pull this again when things get "busy". I told him I said "If you love someone you're NEVER too busy." He didn't give me an answer just "Im sorry".

Posted by happykitsunePosted by Xin
Thank you for your insight. I know. I know you're right. See I am just wondering if he will do it again. I know that actions speak louder than words but I would like to give him the benefit of the doubt I suppose. Yeah he is coming on VERY strong. Just like your story. I mean terribly strong. So it has me doing the whole "side eye" thing and squinting. I did warn him I said "We will see how things go when you start grad school and when things pick up again." Believe me I am very aware that he could pull this again when things get "busy". I told him I said "If you love someone you're NEVER too busy." He didn't give me an answer just "Im sorry".
Wow! That sounds just like what I went through where I told him you can't be too busy if you care about someone and he just said sorry...I even told him we'll see when he starts up school and what do ya know, he went back to his old self. Maybe yours will be different. I just wouldn't let myself get attached until he does start his grad school so that you don't get hurt again.click to expand

Posted by heartless2day
damn you guys lol he's doing a double major. That is HARD. I mean, he's working on a career. Houdini act? He's probably burying his head in books. There's your houdini act.
if you are bored, entertain yourself into something fun and working on yourself. For example, work on your own career, education, and whatever you want to do. He sounds like a very smart, intellectual type of guy, who works hard. What more do you want?


Posted by FireDragonScorpio
men have no concept of timing when they see someone they want. they want it now. like a child in a sweet shop. if they aren't really in a position to be with that person now...unfinished business, intense study, 30 kids by previous partners...then they will most often just make it known they want you, or indeed have you and then continue to string you along until they're good and ready to start something properly. this way, the object of their desire is left in such a state of confusion as to not attempt a relationship with someone else because they're left dangling by a thread, thus ensuring they don't have sex with anyone else.
i think he's just checking in and marking his territory. just give him space and time, but NOT TOO MUCH, for your own sake 🙂

Posted by iheartnerdyboyz
He means everything he's telling you. 😉 He's just not a multitasker, and he wants to give it his all, when he can.
Some Scorpios have the patience of a ...Scorpion, hiding in the corner, waiting at their leisure for their prey to come at them. Those with little air in their charts usually focus on one subject at a time (which is why they have the reputation of being obsessed). This is also why many times, they are successful.
If he's important to you, and you want to be with him, find other activities you can immerse yourself in while he's doing this own things. Don't lose hope. He's thrown some serious plans out there, i would definitely take them seriously. 😉 Good luck.

Posted by XinPosted by heartless2day
damn you guys lol he's doing a double major. That is HARD. I mean, he's working on a career. Houdini act? He's probably burying his head in books. There's your houdini act.
if you are bored, entertain yourself into something fun and working on yourself. For example, work on your own career, education, and whatever you want to do. He sounds like a very smart, intellectual type of guy, who works hard. What more do you want?
Oh yeah I know. You are very right. He is a great guy. I'm just trying to figure out what's going on exactly. I understand he's busy with school, but don't come at me slinging the L word around and talk about future events if you know you will be THAT busy. Why start something with me?click to expand

Posted by heartless2dayPosted by XinPosted by FireDragonScorpio
men have no concept of timing when they see someone they want. they want it now. like a child in a sweet shop. if they aren't really in a position to be with that person now...unfinished business, intense study, 30 kids by previous partners...then they will most often just make it known they want you, or indeed have you and then continue to string you along until they're good and ready to start something properly. this way, the object of their desire is left in such a state of confusion as to not attempt a relationship with someone else because they're left dangling by a thread, thus ensuring they don't have sex with anyone else.
i think he's just checking in and marking his territory. just give him space and time, but NOT TOO MUCH, for your own sake 🙂
Yes maam! Thank you for your insight! 🙂
I know I will give him time. Its just at my age these future plans are things I really want right now being in my early 30's. I just want to make sure this isn't some kind of stupid game. I don't have time to waste for him to get his butter together then come around and go "Well sorry bye", and wow Im late 30's you know?
damn girl you have very youthful energy. I thought you'd be around early 20sh, or maybe you have such a young soul too. 🙂
good luck. you'll never be bored with this guy, and will always feel safe. He's probably already dissected your personality /character and likes what he sees/knows, so you're good to go!click to expand



Posted by Sagittarius89
Both scorps I've dated/dating always made/make time for me and they both are extremely intense about what they do.
If someone likes or loves you they will make time for you.
I don't buy into this " I'm too busy for people " bullshit.




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Im starting to think that I might be in over my head. I wanted to post his chart and get some yummy Scorpio insight on it.
Basically what has happened is hes in school right now getting a double masters. He claims he just lost sight of what was really important and wasn't able to give me the time I needed. Even though I never, ever asked for anything. I think maybe he thought I was trying to ask for crap but hell I was definitely not doing that. All I wanted to do was chat.
So anyways this is the third time he came back. But this time he is laying VERY heavily into me. The previous meeting he claims that he is in love with me and even thought about marriage. Of course me being skeptical I squint and throw back some verbal ammunition calling him out about his previous actions. Drag your face through the mud? Yes. The last two times I approached him raging and told him it was over and I am leaving. Guess what I got? NOTHING. A big fat zero. It was almost like he pretended I wasn't even there! Oh and we were never together, because he never even gave me the time. But now? I don't get it? How is it you "love" me but just wander off?
Let's get one thing straight I do NOT put up will bull butter. Either you do or you don't. Figure it the hell out.
But reading all these stories about Scorpio is starting to scare me with the psychotic aftermath.
Here is his chart:
Sun - Scorpio
Ascendant - Aries
Moon - Capricorn
Mercury - Scorpio
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Libra
Jupiter - Aries
Saturn - Sagittarius
Uranus - Sagittarius
Neptune - Capricorn
Any insight? I want to believe he really means it. This past week he has really spread it on thick. Mentioning after he gets his double masters, then off to grad school (within the next year) he wants us to possibly live together, talks about marriage, kids, traveling. Every single day. He even says the L word. Which I have NOT said because I told him I don't trust him yet. Im not about to lay myself out like that. I would like to tell him that but I cannot. Self control. My Venus/Mars are both in Taurus and I am standing my ground.