@MrFirebird
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Ok I think I Need To Dump New Scorp NOW!
Should You End Your Relationship with a New Scorpio
Deciding to end a relationship with a new Scorpio depends on your compatibility and how the relationship affects your well-being. Scorpios are intense and passionate, but communication and mutual understanding are key. Consider whether your needs are met and if the relationship is healthy before making a decision.
Saggys .............
do whatcha gotta do
HAHAHA there wasn't even anything written in here!
Ahh I love dxp
Posted by Pecheresse
Why? =/
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I'm starting to think he have no emotional chemistry.
It's been 4 months and it's like there isn't much there.
in 2 more it'll be 6!!!!
6 months!!!
Like you should be really, heavy at that point yes?
I don't know..
Posted by MrFirebird
Tell him you want to run away with me!
Where will we go?
Ah he sent me a txt that said
" Love you sexy "
Hahahah see that was suppose to be a joke. I told him I think it'd be hot if we said it during sex.
He was like yea that be intimate. But like I was half joking. And it I ment during sex.
Ah shit.
Oh well.
lol bless him 😛
^ Lmao.
Posted by MrFirebird
Tell him you want to run away with me!Where will we go?
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^^^ HAHAHA sounds good
Posted by nimbue
lol bless him 😛
He's silly. I just don't know if it'll work
Posted by Pecheresse
During sex he should be pulling your hair, whispering or even screaming your name and telling you how much he fucking adores you. 😉
ewww
Posted by Pecheresse
During sex he should be pulling your hair, whispering or even screaming your name and telling you how much he fucking adores you. 😉
OoOOo yeah 😛
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Yeah dump that Scorp. *nods*
Posted by Pecheresse
During sex he should be pulling your hair, whispering or even screaming your name and telling you how much he fucking adores you. 😉
Oh my 😛 don't you like the I love yous?
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Yeah dump that Scorp. *nods*
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Yea?
Posted by Sagittarius89
I'm starting to think he have no emotional chemistry.It's been 4 months and it's like there isn't much there.
in 2 more it'll be 6!!!!
6 months!!!
Like you should be really, heavy at that point yes?
I don't know..
4+2 does equal 6.
So does 2+4.
No, you don't have to be "heavy" in the space of 6 months.
Sometimes a man and woman are just friends for years, then BOOM!
Married forever.
I think you are putting a limit on yourself in thinking you should be "heavy"
within a certain period of time.
Love is not a game show. Nor should it be treated like a commercial product.
That's something you just don't go shopping for.
i agree that you dont have to be "heavy" in 6 months. but i'll be damned if im indifferent in 6 months.
Posted by DMV
i agree that you dont have to be "heavy" in 6 months. but i'll be damned if im indifferent in 6 months.
She and I were friends for over a year before we got to an emotional physical level.
Posted by DMV
i agree that you dont have to be "heavy" in 6 months. but i'll be damned if im indifferent in 6 months.She and I were friends for over a year before we got to an emotional physical level.
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I might add, I DO understand the indifference issue. BUT.... a painting doesn't necessarily just happen
overnight.... not a masterpiece, anyway.
There's probably two ways: Fall in love and wait for the other to catch up, which is something love will do
or take it slow and let it evolve into love. But remember there is a difference between falling in love
and falling in lust. Both parties should understand and agree to this mutually before getting physical.
one person could fall in love while the other is simply in lust. - that's beggin for a heartache.
was she indifferent though, were you? at least u were friends, so u felt something for one another.
saggis need a mental connection with someone to keep us engaged. there has to be chemistry, mental connection, a interest to be with that person.
i dont suggest anyone faking it till they make it, imo. never worked for me. i think mutable signs do this alot and we end up regretting it.
in 6 months, lets say you told your gf that you loved her and she didnt say it back, but instead she told you "uh, im dont feel that way just quite yet."
you wouldnt be hurt by that? you'd actually tell yourself that she'll come around? that you'd convince her somehow that this was what she really wanted?
dmv: i am with you on this one
i think there is a certain chemistry and a certain spark that you either have or you don't
for me, i need that to be truly happy.
without it, i can be content but, i'll always be wondering.
for me to feel i am with the right person, it's necessary.
Posted by Pecheresse
During sex he should be pulling your hair, whispering or even screaming your name and telling you how much he fucking adores you. 😉ewww
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Posted by DMV
was she indifferent though, were you? at least u were friends, so u felt something for one another.saggis need a mental connection with someone to keep us engaged. there has to be chemistry, mental connection, a interest to be with that person.
i dont suggest anyone faking it till they make it, imo. never worked for me. i think mutable signs do this alot and we end up regretting it.
Of course. No disagreement there.
Posted by DMV
in 6 months, lets say you told your gf that you loved her and she didnt say it back, but instead she told you "uh, im dont feel that way just quite yet."you wouldnt be hurt by that? you'd actually tell yourself that she'll come around? that you'd convince her somehow that this was what she really wanted?
Hurt?
Do you know what it's like to be a long gone Daddy in the USA??
I think he might be BORING.
I hate to think or say that about someone though. That sounds so stupid.
I'm gonna say lack of emotional connection...
Posted by Sagittarius89
I think he might be BORING.I hate to think or say that about someone though. That sounds so stupid.
I'm gonna say lack of emotional connection...
there you go. Lack of emotional connection.
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Yeah dump that Scorp. *nods*
Yea?
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Yea.
Posted by Sagittarius89
I think he might be BORING.I hate to think or say that about someone though. That sounds so stupid.
I'm gonna say lack of emotional connection...
there you go. Lack of emotional connection.
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However...,
A lack of emotional connection suggests that you might be a girl who's been around.
Apologies if that bothers you.
A word of advice would be that you wait to have sex until you are >firmly< emotionally connected
with the other person. You will spare yourself a lot grief.
I'm wondering if you're emotional disconnect has anything to do with the abortion.
wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooow
However...,
A lack of emotional connection suggests that you might be a girl who's been around.
Apologies if that bothers you.
A word of advice would be that you wait to have sex until you are >firmly
The other advice is... tell him the truth.
Be honest with yourself first and then be honest with others.
Posted by Nights22
I dont think you can have an emotional connection at the moment. And Im not just only being dick. You seriously need to work on yourself before you work with another person in a relationship.
mhm...unresolved issues methinks. Only going by her other posts tho, not trying to make assumptions.
We had a long talk about it the other night. I guess he has some issues too. Which I got but I just wasn't as clear as to how deep they went.
Things are fine now.
Posted by Sagittarius89
We had a long talk about it the other night. I guess he has some issues too. Which I got but I just wasn't as clear as to how deep they went.Things are fine now.
Ok I think I Need To Dump New Scorp NOW!
It's the end of the world, and I feel fine.
😉
^ You got it 🙂
lol well as long as things are resolved 🙂
You're still young. My best and lasting relationship started off pretty passionless- it really wasnt until we neared a year that it got very interesting and i realized that i wasn't giving 100% and almost lost him so i reeled him in for good. He said he saw a side of me that he never knew existed. Just a thought- maybe just keep the door open..you never know scorps can surprise you. We are usually a lot deeper than we seem.
Oh yea he is.
Like after we had the open honest talk things got a lot better.
i'm glad you guys worked it out 🙂
Thanks nimbue 🙂
Aww that is way cute Elly, I'm glad you guys are doing well. Yea it just took that push to get it going I guess.
It's pretty passionate now.
We both also sometimes are so practical about things though. But like at the same time I don't mind that. It's better than going too off like with my last scorp.
Plus it's all I can really handle at the moment lol
Scorpio male to Sag female is a bad combination from my observations.
Scorpio male to Sag female is a bad combination from my observations.
The ones at dxp, especially.😛
I personally know a married couple with kids who seem to be having a pretty good relationship. She's a November Sag, perhaps that has something to do with it. 🙂
We are doing fine now stop hatin
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