Scorpio apologized and I'm confused

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I dated this scorpio for almost 2 years and he just quit talking to me out of nowhere, completely messed me up and irritated the heck out of me. Then a few months later apologized to me for treating me that way blah blah blah. He said that he was sorry for all of it and that he was being selfish.

I was mad as heck just hearing from him to be honest it took me months to finally get over it, because honestly nobody has ever done that to me in my life. Yet here he is doing his best to start again.

I just want to know what you scorpios think about it? I didn't think that a scorpio would ever apologize nevermind going back to that person. I guess my question is whether or not to take him seriously. What would make you apologize and explain yourself to get someone back? What do you think that says about me for him to go out of the norm and try to get me back even if it's just as a friend. I just don't know.
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I dated this scorpio for almost 2 years and he just quit talking to me out of nowhere, completely messed me up and irritated the heck out of me. Then a few months later apologized to me for treating me that way blah blah blah. He said that he was sorry for all of it and that he was being selfish.

I was mad as heck just hearing from him to be honest it took me months to finally get over it, because honestly nobody has ever done that to me in my life. Yet here he is doing his best to start again.

I just want to know what you scorpios think about it? I didn't think that a scorpio would ever apologize nevermind going back to that person. I guess my question is whether or not to take him seriously. What would make you apologize and explain yourself to get someone back? What do you think that says about me for him to go out of the norm and try to get me back even if it's just as a friend. I just don't know.
What are the rest of both of your charts? I have a Scorpio that has disappeared on me before for months. Depends on whether he's worth it to you. Gemin/Scorp is hard but I think can be worth it for friendship and relationships.

And no, if they don't care I think they are fully capable of icing someone out for good. Even lifelong friends.
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Honestly I'm not sure what his chart is I don't really get too much into them because mine isn't completely accurate. Idk if being raised by a scorpio had any effect on me, but I'm similar to them. But my moon is pisces. I'm pretty sure he would be either cancer or leo but I'm not positive. But Idk we have a lot of mutual friends so to the other who said he found someone lol I'm not even on that I would know of it just because we have quite a bit of mutual friends and they're not the quiet kind. That's not what I'm asking anyways I'm just curious bc from what I read scorps hardly apologize. I know the parent who raised me never once apologized in their life lol. So.
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I'm actually surprised that it happened for the first time in 2 years. How many months didn't he contact you for? N what was the explanation he gave you after? If he didn't mean the apology he probably wouldn't have bothered coming back. The thing is, do you want to take him back?
He didn't talk to me for Idk like 3 or 4 months. Also, no he never once did the whole icing me out thing in almost 2 years. I'm just as stubborn as they are to be honest. His explanation was just long and full of apologies and that he was wrong blah blah. Idk it still gets to me I guess. I'm just wondering what would make a stubborn sign that never apologizes - apologize lol. I'm baffled I guess and just wanted to vent it out. Idk if I want him back. I miss him sure, but like a scorpio it's hard for me to really forgive. It's all good though.
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I'm actually surprised that it happened for the first time in 2 years. How many months didn't he contact you for? N what was the explanation he gave you after? If he didn't mean the apology he probably wouldn't have bothered coming back. The thing is, do you want to take him back?
He didn't talk to me for Idk like 3 or 4 months. Also, no he never once did the whole icing me out thing in almost 2 years. I'm just as stubborn as they are to be honest. His explanation was just long and full of apologies and that he was wrong blah blah. Idk it still gets to me I guess. I'm just wondering what would make a stubborn sign that never apologizes - apologize lol. I'm baffled I guess and just wanted to vent it out. Idk if I want him back. I miss him sure, but like a scorpio it's hard for me to really forgive. It's all good though.
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I get it.Umm..is he trying to get back? Coz when I say sorry or give any explanation, it doesn't necessarily mean that I want the person back. Sometimes I do it just coz I feel the person deserved it. And I dunno about other scorpios , but I never had problem apologizing.
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I'm actually surprised that it happened for the first time in 2 years. How many months didn't he contact you for? N what was the explanation he gave you after? If he didn't mean the apology he probably wouldn't have bothered coming back. The thing is, do you want to take him back?
He didn't talk to me for Idk like 3 or 4 months. Also, no he never once did the whole icing me out thing in almost 2 years. I'm just as stubborn as they are to be honest. His explanation was just long and full of apologies and that he was wrong blah blah. Idk it still gets to me I guess. I'm just wondering what would make a stubborn sign that never apologizes - apologize lol. I'm baffled I guess and just wanted to vent it out. Idk if I want him back. I miss him sure, but like a scorpio it's hard for me to really forgive. It's all good though.
I get it.Umm..is he trying to get back? Coz when I say sorry or give any explanation, it doesn't necessarily mean that I want the person back. Sometimes I do it just coz I feel the person deserved it. And I dunno about other scorpios , but I never had problem apologizing.
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Yeah he does, he tries to talk to me all the time, except when he works which is quite often. I never thought of him as a typical scorpio, some traits were obvious but not what he showed me when he just stopped talking so after he did that I just got a whole different view of him and now I just look at him different. I'm not sure what his intentions are, but time will tell.
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I wouldn't give him another chance, he broke your connection and he broke your trust and that hurts. It ruins the relationship when someone just disappears, how will you learn to trust him now?

Tell him thank you but goodbye.
Yes! He did break all of that. I was so mad when I heard from him a little while ago I swear I had steam radiating hahaha. I have a hard time with trust anyway so that's what I'm stuck on. I don't think I can honestly. I'll always remember. smh.
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I'm actually surprised that it happened for the first time in 2 years. How many months didn't he contact you for? N what was the explanation he gave you after? If he didn't mean the apology he probably wouldn't have bothered coming back. The thing is, do you want to take him back?
He didn't talk to me for Idk like 3 or 4 months. Also, no he never once did the whole icing me out thing in almost 2 years. I'm just as stubborn as they are to be honest. His explanation was just long and full of apologies and that he was wrong blah blah. Idk it still gets to me I guess. I'm just wondering what would make a stubborn sign that never apologizes - apologize lol. I'm baffled I guess and just wanted to vent it out. Idk if I want him back. I miss him sure, but like a scorpio it's hard for me to really forgive. It's all good though.
I get it.Umm..is he trying to get back? Coz when I say sorry or give any explanation, it doesn't necessarily mean that I want the person back. Sometimes I do it just coz I feel the person deserved it. And I dunno about other scorpios , but I never had problem apologizing.
Yeah he does, he tries to talk to me all the time, except when he works which is quite often. I never thought of him as a typical scorpio, some traits were obvious but not what he showed me when he just stopped talking so after he did that I just got a whole different view of him and now I just look at him different. I'm not sure what his intentions are, but time will tell.
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Right.Time will tell.
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I dated this scorpio for almost 2 years and he just quit talking to me out of nowhere, completely messed me up and irritated the heck out of me. Then a few months later apologized to me for treating me that way blah blah blah. He said that he was sorry for all of it and that he was being selfish.

I was mad as heck just hearing from him to be honest it took me months to finally get over it, because honestly nobody has ever done that to me in my life. Yet here he is doing his best to start again.

I just want to know what you scorpios think about it? I didn't think that a scorpio would ever apologize nevermind going back to that person. I guess my question is whether or not to take him seriously. What would make you apologize and explain yourself to get someone back? What do you think that says about me for him to go out of the norm and try to get me back even if it's just as a friend. I just don't know.
What are the rest of both of your charts? I have a Scorpio that has disappeared on me before for months. Depends on whether he's worth it to you. Gemin/Scorp is hard but I think can be worth it for friendship and relationships.

And no, if they don't care I think they are fully capable of icing someone out for good. Even lifelong friends.
Honestly I'm not sure what his chart is I don't really get too much into them because mine isn't completely accurate. Idk if being raised by a scorpio had any effect on me
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i actually have this theory that mixes astrology with freud's incestous/narcissitic erotic love pschoanaltyic theory

and this goes along with it.



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Don't take him back right now. Make him prove that he's the right guy for you. Start dating other guys too. Might as well as fun and see if you find someone you like more.
Do you think she haven't dated other guys why? She had 3 months!

There must be feelings involved.

Can you date 'other guys' when you are still in love with this particular one?
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I dated this scorpio for almost 2 years and he just quit talking to me out of nowhere, completely messed me up and irritated the heck out of me. Then a few months later apologized to me for treating me that way blah blah blah. He said that he was sorry for all of it and that he was being selfish.

I was mad as heck just hearing from him to be honest it took me months to finally get over it, because honestly nobody has ever done that to me in my life. Yet here he is doing his best to start again.

I just want to know what you scorpios think about it? I didn't think that a scorpio would ever apologize nevermind going back to that person. I guess my question is whether or not to take him seriously. What would make you apologize and explain yourself to get someone back? What do you think that says about me for him to go out of the norm and try to get me back even if it's just as a friend. I just don't know.
What are the rest of both of your charts? I have a Scorpio that has disappeared on me before for months. Depends on whether he's worth it to you. Gemin/Scorp is hard but I think can be worth it for friendship and relationships.

And no, if they don't care I think they are fully capable of icing someone out for good. Even lifelong friends.
Honestly I'm not sure what his chart is I don't really get too much into them because mine isn't completely accurate. Idk if being raised by a scorpio had any effect on me


i actually have this theory that mixes astrology with freud's incestous/narcissitic erotic love pschoanaltyic theory

and this goes along with it.





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uh ok.
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I dated this scorpio for almost 2 years and he just quit talking to me out of nowhere, completely messed me up and irritated the heck out of me. Then a few months later apologized to me for treating me that way blah blah blah. He said that he was sorry for all of it and that he was being selfish.

I was mad as heck just hearing from him to be honest it took me months to finally get over it, because honestly nobody has ever done that to me in my life. Yet here he is doing his best to start again.

I just want to know what you scorpios think about it? I didn't think that a scorpio would ever apologize nevermind going back to that person. I guess my question is whether or not to take him seriously. What would make you apologize and explain yourself to get someone back? What do you think that says about me for him to go out of the norm and try to get me back even if it's just as a friend. I just don't know.
What are the rest of both of your charts? I have a Scorpio that has disappeared on me before for months. Depends on whether he's worth it to you. Gemin/Scorp is hard but I think can be worth it for friendship and relationships.

And no, if they don't care I think they are fully capable of icing someone out for good. Even lifelong friends.
Honestly I'm not sure what his chart is I don't really get too much into them because mine isn't completely accurate. Idk if being raised by a scorpio had any effect on me


i actually have this theory that mixes astrology with freud's incestous/narcissitic erotic love pschoanaltyic theory

and this goes along with it.






uh ok.
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is this the first scorpio you've dated?

have there been more?

and or if this has been your only scorpio relationship did you feel a different energy ( maybe more inense and volatile) compared to other relationships/entaglemnents that you've had?

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Don't take him back right now. Make him prove that he's the right guy for you. Start dating other guys too. Might as well as fun and see if you find someone you like more.
Do you think she haven't dated other guys why? She had 3 months!

There must be feelings involved.

Can you date 'other guys' when you are still in love with this particular one?
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Lol what? We were together for 2 years of course feelings were involved lol.

So what if I had 3 months 5 or 6. I don't jump in relationships like that. I'm a picky mf. I was just starting to get over all this when I got the apology. man oh man.
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I wouldn't give him another chance, he broke your connection and he broke your trust and that hurts. It ruins the relationship when someone just disappears, how will you learn to trust him now?

Tell him thank you but goodbye.
Yes! He did break all of that. I was so mad when I heard from him a little while ago I swear I had steam radiating hahaha. I have a hard time with trust anyway so that's what I'm stuck on. I don't think I can honestly. I'll always remember. smh.
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Please tell me apart from you felt bad he left - is there other issues?
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Have you contacted him during those days?
Nope, the thing is I was raised by a scorp and I don't take being ignored well. So I'll only try to talk with you so many times before I stop. I'm not making myself to look like I'm needing him. What I needed was an explanation that he wasn't man enough to give me until now. But 4 months later? A bit late if you ask me.
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What's his explanation? I bet a lot of people will appreciate your disclosure.

Scorpio dissapearance act is the hot topic for as long as I remember myself here.

Thanks
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I dated this scorpio for almost 2 years and he just quit talking to me out of nowhere, completely messed me up and irritated the heck out of me. Then a few months later apologized to me for treating me that way blah blah blah. He said that he was sorry for all of it and that he was being selfish.

I was mad as heck just hearing from him to be honest it took me months to finally get over it, because honestly nobody has ever done that to me in my life. Yet here he is doing his best to start again.

I just want to know what you scorpios think about it? I didn't think that a scorpio would ever apologize nevermind going back to that person. I guess my question is whether or not to take him seriously. What would make you apologize and explain yourself to get someone back? What do you think that says about me for him to go out of the norm and try to get me back even if it's just as a friend. I just don't know.
What are the rest of both of your charts? I have a Scorpio that has disappeared on me before for months. Depends on whether he's worth it to you. Gemin/Scorp is hard but I think can be worth it for friendship and relationships.

And no, if they don't care I think they are fully capable of icing someone out for good. Even lifelong friends.
Honestly I'm not sure what his chart is I don't really get too much into them because mine isn't completely accurate. Idk if being raised by a scorpio had any effect on me


i actually have this theory that mixes astrology with freud's incestous/narcissitic erotic love pschoanaltyic theory

and this goes along with it.






uh ok.
is this the first scorpio you've dated?

have there been more?

and or if this has been your only scorpio relationship did you feel a different energy ( maybe more inense and volatile) compared to other relationships/entaglemnents that you've had?

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Ok yes he's the first scorpio. No it wasn't like what you would read of the traits of scorpio it wasn't so much different. He was the only one out of my previous relationships that understood me and was most like me. I like my space I don't like clingy crap. I hate people all in my business. I felt that we complimented each other pretty good. We both work a lot, but idk it just worked. Now I just feel idk off about it I guess I don't know how to explain how I feel.
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And you're prepared to be a sucker for the second time?

*facepalm*


No it's not like I've taken him back and just going all jolly about my ways like woo he's back. Please. I don't do well to being treated that way, but closure for me is what I really needed to be honest. I'm here venting basically, just because i was raised by one doesn't mean i completely understand actually dating one.
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Don't take him back right now. Make him prove that he's the right guy for you. Start dating other guys too. Might as well as fun and see if you find someone you like more.
Do you think she haven't dated other guys why? She had 3 months!

There must be feelings involved.

Can you date 'other guys' when you are still in love with this particular one?
Lol what? We were together for 2 years of course feelings were involved lol.

So what if I had 3 months 5 or 6. I don't jump in relationships like that. I'm a picky mf. I was just starting to get over all this when I got the apology. man oh man.
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That's exactly what I said. When someone advising to start dating other people it drives me nuts because what? If I could - wouldn't I already? And if this post made after 3-4 month - you probably couldn't!

Isn't that obvious?

I don't know if you rather to try again - try it. You are the only one who can decide that because you are the only one who knows how intense your feelings for him.

Again it depends what's his reason for dissapearing was.
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And you're prepared to be a sucker for the second time?

*facepalm*


No it's not like I've taken him back and just going all jolly about my ways like woo he's back. Please. I don't do well to being treated that way, but closure for me is what I really needed to be honest. I'm here venting basically, just because i was raised by one doesn't mean i completely understand actually dating one.

Well, in that case, there's no need for this thread. Common sense and dignity should be enough.

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lol then theres no need for your input, theres all kinds of posts on here. Didn't think my feedback was going to be so popular. lol. Simple question and answers not even relating to the post. smh. good job.
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Don't take him back right now. Make him prove that he's the right guy for you. Start dating other guys too. Might as well as fun and see if you find someone you like more.
Do you think she haven't dated other guys why? She had 3 months!

There must be feelings involved.

Can you date 'other guys' when you are still in love with this particular one?
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Lol I totally dated a lot of guys when I wasn't over my ex but didn't feel a romantic connection with any of them
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Don't take him back right now. Make him prove that he's the right guy for you. Start dating other guys too. Might as well as fun and see if you find someone you like more.
Do you think she haven't dated other guys why? She had 3 months!

There must be feelings involved.

Can you date 'other guys' when you are still in love with this particular one?
Lol I totally dated a lot of guys when I wasn't over my ex but didn't feel a romantic connection with any of them
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So you give your advise why?
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Don't take him back right now. Make him prove that he's the right guy for you. Start dating other guys too. Might as well as fun and see if you find someone you like more.
Do you think she haven't dated other guys why? She had 3 months!

There must be feelings involved.

Can you date 'other guys' when you are still in love with this particular one?
Lol I totally dated a lot of guys when I wasn't over my ex but didn't feel a romantic connection with any of them
So you give your advise why?
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Because there's always someone better out there. Always
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Don't take him back right now. Make him prove that he's the right guy for you. Start dating other guys too. Might as well as fun and see if you find someone you like more.
Do you think she haven't dated other guys why? She had 3 months!

There must be feelings involved.

Can you date 'other guys' when you are still in love with this particular one?
Lol I totally dated a lot of guys when I wasn't over my ex but didn't feel a romantic connection with any of them
So you give your advise why?
Because there's always someone better out there. Always
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Bull crap!

You haven't found romantic connection you said...
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Don't take him back right now. Make him prove that he's the right guy for you. Start dating other guys too. Might as well as fun and see if you find someone you like more.
Do you think she haven't dated other guys why? She had 3 months!

There must be feelings involved.

Can you date 'other guys' when you are still in love with this particular one?
Lol I totally dated a lot of guys when I wasn't over my ex but didn't feel a romantic connection with any of them
So you give your advise why?
Because there's always someone better out there. Always
Bull crap!

You haven't found romantic connection you said...
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lol I'm super picky though! Like probably too picky
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Don't take him back right now. Make him prove that he's the right guy for you. Start dating other guys too. Might as well as fun and see if you find someone you like more.
Do you think she haven't dated other guys why? She had 3 months!

There must be feelings involved.

Can you date 'other guys' when you are still in love with this particular one?
Lol I totally dated a lot of guys when I wasn't over my ex but didn't feel a romantic connection with any of them
So you give your advise why?
Because there's always someone better out there. Always
Bull crap!

You haven't found romantic connection you said...
lol I'm super picky though! Like probably too picky

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However you dates bunch of guys while in love with another one? Shut up!!!
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Don't take him back right now. Make him prove that he's the right guy for you. Start dating other guys too. Might as well as fun and see if you find someone you like more.
Do you think she haven't dated other guys why? She had 3 months!

There must be feelings involved.

Can you date 'other guys' when you are still in love with this particular one?
Lol I totally dated a lot of guys when I wasn't over my ex but didn't feel a romantic connection with any of them
So you give your advise why?
Because there's always someone better out there. Always
Bull crap!

You haven't found romantic connection you said...
lol I'm super picky though! Like probably too picky


However you dates bunch of guys while in love with another one? Shut up!!!
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lol I'm not in love with my ex anymore! This was years ago. I've been single since 2011. Continued to talk to my ex for years after that. Went on a lot of first dates. Nothing lasted more than 2 months. Finally broke this off for good with him. And since then there's been 2 caps that lasted 5 months. I'm still talking to and hanging out with cap #2..... so he will break the record at least lol