Scorpio being serious or just fucking around?

So I recently made my FIRST online profile for a dating site. I was browsing through and found a guy who was kind of my type (looks wise) and I liked what he wrote on his profile so I added him.. oh and he is obviously a scorp btw. We exchanged emails and started talking over MSN Messenger and I sent him a few pics of myself and he sent me like 1 of him. Anyway this was like last thursday night. Since the first time we spoke he was on my ass about giving me his number, adding him on facebook etc etc just being really intense and his like I like you already, I like your looks, personality, sense of humour etc etc and his like im looking for a relationship, bla bla i want you to be my girl etc etc. Just being really intense and upfront so Sunday I logged in again and he was on and I decided to give him my number, he wanted to meet up that night but I had other plans already.. anyway he text me like all day and was saying that he was worried about me because I was catching public transport at night on my own etc etc and he hasnt stopped thinking about me since the first time we spoke and that its sad because after the first time we spoke (over MSN), he'd sign in everyday just to check if I was on, HOPING id be on to speak to him...

So question is... is this normal scorp behaviour? I had a scorp chase me for about 1 month a few months ago but he was definately not as intense as this guy but he DID make it clear he wanted me.. I had to cancel a date once and since then, he completely ignored me for a while but is now slowly speaking to me again....

This dating site guy said he wanted to meet up with me and it wasnt for sex he genuinley wanted to talk to me etc..

Im just a bit weary since its my first time online dating and his being so intense... im thinking maybe its all bullshit? Comments please!

Alrighty thank you 🙂

don is just crazy... ive read some of his ranting and raving and his idiot

AN idiot*

I'd met a few scorpios men online. If they are interested, they will chase you, no doubt about it. So you have one that is interested. Since you are on a dating site, it is what it is. A scorpio man who is on a dating site and "only" wants to meet you to "talk" is lying. It's never just to talk. He wants to see you in person. Period. He may see you before you spot him, which will probably normally be the case. If you pass the "looks as good in person as online" test, he'll introduce himself. If not, you'll get a text saying he can't make it. I don't even think he would call you.

I think ive passed the looks test. I let him add me on facebook because he "wanted to see more pics" and bothered me about it endlessly.

So I added him and then after he was all like, will you marry me, your my girl, my princess etc etc, I want to marry you (I know its all bullshit and im not taking it serious) and his pretty keen to meet up... so I think i'll meet up and see how we go. We already discussed sex and he said he is horny last time he had sex was 2 months ago etc etc but said when he sees me its not to have sex but he wants to meet me.

lol he wont be getting far if sex is all he wants anyway.

And Don, I apologise for calling you an idiot, you did annoy me with your comments but now I see your just trying to get a reaction and your pulling my leg. Fair enough, now i'll know for next time 😉

Amen to what Exo said. Took the words outta my mouth again 😉

Okay I met up with this scorp last night because he was up my ass about if i really wanted to see him i would etc etc (i kind of freaked out at his intensity so i kept cancelling to meet up and making excuses) ANYWAY last night I was like fuck it i'll see him. So we met up, hung out near the beach for a bit, talked, I smoked a cig lol and he was ALL OVER ME. Soon as I saw him he hugged me and had his arms around my waist kept starring at me and while we were in the car he'd give me them sly sideways stares, he kept on saying how gorgeous I was, how hot he thought I was, how badly he wanted me, how happy he was we finally met up, told me about about himself (that he was a baby because he was the youngest of the family and he was always babied), he liked me because i was independant and mature for my age etc etc, told me he was scared because he thought id get bored with him and id think he was boring because he doesnt like going out just likes staying home watching movies or going to mate's places or them going over to his, etc etc. He couldnt keep his hands off me grabbing me everywhere, kissing me everywhere, hugging me, touching me, feeling me, layed down on my lap and kept kissing my hands and biting them and holding them etc etc, i had to basically RIP him off me. Then I told him we had to go (after like 20mins) so he agreed and his like see i like you, you are so mature i gotta get up at 6.30am for work if it was up to me we'd stay all night but your the one telling us to go home because we have work etc etc...

so anyway, all good. text me when he got home. this morning he texts me his like i havent stopped thinking about you etc etc, then his like do you work saturdays?, im like yea sometimes why? and he replies with "dont ask questions woman" so i was like, okay sweet, then u wont get answers to your questions. simple. he replies saying something i dont remember and then im like wat u doing thur or friday? and his like i dont know but im free thur.. so i was like lets go movies? he goes na lets go to urs (he knows i live alone) watch a movie in ur room and hang out, i wont try anything sleazy i promise it would be a dream come true to do that. I was like na i wanna go movies theres a movie i wanna watch. so he replies saying wat movie? go with a friend. then i reply going wats the point of having you around if you dont wanna do shit but sit in my room. then he replies "forget about me then" and i havent replied and dont plan to.

wtf?

Well he knows he aint getting booty off me that easily (I already made that clear) unless he didnt believe me and is trying to push boundaries. DAMN these scorpios and its my first scorp too tsk tsk.

I think he is insecure because since we've been talking his always like do you like me? how much do you like me? etc etc and i was like omg why do u keep asking me? obviously if i didnt like you i wouldnt reply to your texts or have met up with you etc and his like i know but how much? and im like damn u like to be re assured yea? and he goes, yea something like that.

na i dont plan to reply to his text until he gets his act together. He goes to me last night while i was with him he goes "i can tell your the type of girl that i need to watch what i say and how i say it otherwise u'll get the shits" and i go not really, just dont be rude or disrespectful and thats it.

lol thanks for your reply. im not stupid enought to fall for his shit... hence the reason i posted on here in the first place. i know he was talking shit the whole time and didnt believe him at all but i let him talk shit i dont care im not phased. i dont like this kid but i met up with him for the sake of it because he was bugging me about it. i told him i wasnt going to sleep with him, he wanted to come to my place and hang there (on our first meeting) i told him wtf no way i wasnt like that and not to get the wrong idea and not to think he was getting any because he wasnt then he was like im sorry im sorry etc etc. anyway, im not going to sleep with him and never had plans to. im just curious at his behaviour and to see his REAL intentions. when he said "forget about me then" i understood that to be something like reverse psychology so then id be like OMG no okay im sorry u can come over and we'll hang out at my house etc etc and give in to him. im mature enough and smart enough to know when he said that.. that was his intention to get me to be like na okay fine you can come over... well he lost that game with me because i didnt fall for it!

but thank you for the pointers 😉.