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Scorpios and Kissing
Are Scorpios Good Kissers?
Yes, many people think Scorpios are good kissers when they feel real chemistry and trust. In real situations, they often kiss with intensity, hold eye contact, and make the moment feel private rather than casual. If the spark is missing, they may hold back instead of kissing just to flirt.
I am a big fan of kissing it is a big deal to me, and not to brag but I have been told I am a great kisser. Like the others said you can tell a lot in someone kiss, how they kiss your lips, neck, etc.
Now if it is like a fwb type lover then no I typically don't want to kiss, any other time there is really no reason that I wouldn't kiss my bf/sig other.
"When would you not kiss a lover/sig other/bf/gf?"
like refuse a kiss from them or just not offer one?
the reason why i ask is because when i was with my scorp, we kissed like 3 times in 12 months (all in the first month). one time when we first hooked up, kinda sorta open mouth. 2nd time when i kissed him goodbye after our initial hookup; i stood there and gave him 7 long pecks on the lips. and he kissed me the last time during sex, open mouth.
i asked him about it but never got an answer.
i thought he just wasnt a kisser, but i heard through the grapevine that with another girl, he was very much into kissing her.
he wasnt very intimate with me to be honest and then with the sex, i felt like he held back ALOT. it just doesnt make a whole lot of sense for him to love someone who he has so little intimacy with.
Posted by pigeonpie
If they had been eating marmite/vegemite.
OH EW! LOL 🙂
LOL Must be pretty hot if you're wading through garlic infused vegetable sludge. Even if it supposedly keeps mossies at bay. Just hand out a pretty toothbrush or a mint first. Fixed. 🙂
Posted by DapperDon
Oh he's gay
he does dress quite...radically
he did kiss me on the cheek in a bar one night after i brought him a drink. it came as a total shock. he grabbed my face and layed a wet one on my cheek.
Posted by ellessque
I love to kiss. I don't like public kissing....unless it's spontaneous, edgy or really passionate, like perhaps in the middle of a four lane highway during rush hour and the time feels like its standing still. (still waiting for that one) 😛
oh wowzers....that sounds very romantic.
Posted by DapperDon
"he does dress quite...radically"Does that include leopard?
no thank God!
It's all that pink Daps, you should be careful.
Thanks for the info, I happen to be an owner of one. Actually my father wears pink often. He thinks real men do. Looks good on him.
Posted by DapperDon
It is a real man color. Just check the 80s.
I lived the 80s. LOL
Posted by exoskeleton
elle, for some reason i thought you said PUBIC kissing, lol. i don't like kissing in public either.dmv, maybe he's just not a big kisser. when i was younger i felt awkward with the sloppy, making-out kissing. and i once knew a scorp who said he wasn't good at it and didn't like it.
then again, if your guy kissed that other girl a lot and was never very intimate with you, who knows.
i would love to strap him down in a chair and get some answers. but that will be a cold day.
Posted by exoskeleton
lol, mine evades questions also. the fucker.are you two no longer together? not technically, kinda off and on? lol.
yeah im kinda seeing a leo and he kisses all the time.
Posted by scorsagianX
Lol @ "monkey sex" sounds hot!
word
Kissing gets a girl open, often will get a brotha to 3rd base. Opens the flood gates, lights the fire... now all you have to do is put it out.
it is important for intimacy. As a man, I think if you know HOW to kiss a girl... a lot of decisions seem to be instantly made up in her mind after that kiss. Good or bad lol
Posted by DapperDon
Oh he's gay
Lmao that's the response I got from my scorp when I told him my ex leo didn't always want sex. That tends to be his response when any guy rejects sex
Posted by ellessque
I love to kiss. I don't like public kissing....unless it's spontaneous, edgy or really passionate, like perhaps in the middle of a four lane highway during rush hour and the time feels like its standing still. (still waiting for that one) 😛The sag I used to date wasn't big on kissing. however, he did try to steal a real passionate kiss once and it ended up being a little awkward because I didn't see it coming. lol.
I think it's just personal preference...nothing to do with sun sign.
oh wow, Elle. Funny you would mention the 'middle of the four lane and still waiting for that'
I had one of those kisses with an ex Virgo man. It wasn't a fast highway, but Toronto's busiest intersection when crossing the street. He was going to take the transit and it happened right in the middle of a 4-way at noon rush, cars, crowds of people, streetcars, cyclists.... and there
TIME STOOD STILL...
Most romantic ever.
😄 :::blinking eye lashes:::
Posted by ellessque
leo *shudders* 😛
LOL.. you crack me up
I will never forget the first real KISS I got from my husband. We had only been dating about two months and we hadn't been intimate yet. We were lounging around one weekend watching TV and I really wasn't all "dolled up" or anything. We started cuddling and then out of NOWHERE he lays this deep, long, hard kiss on me that liked to blew me away. Whew, it was outta this world!!!
"if you wanna know,
if he-ee loves you so,
it's in his KEEEYYYSS!
That's where it is,
oh yeah,
It's in his keeyyyysss!"
awwwwww .. that's so sweet, Pathway 😄
also.. I received these kisses on the nose by capricorn man that I found very sensual. It was shy, but it told a lot to me.
My Aqua ex wasn't big on kissing at all and when we did kiss I always got the feeling he felt awkward/uncomfortable. It did not come naturally to him at all.
The Scorp on the other hand totally into it. Said he loved kissing me and could do it all day long, christ I had to ask to come up for air at times. Great kisser though so I wasn't complaining.
Complete opposite ends of the spectrum.
Posted by nov5male
Kissing gets a girl open, often will get a brotha to 3rd base. Opens the flood gates, lights the fire... now all you have to do is put it out.it is important for intimacy. As a man, I think if you know HOW to kiss a girl... a lot of decisions seem to be instantly made up in her mind after that kiss. Good or bad lol
i agree with this. one day im going to ask him about all of this.
i love the way this Leo kisses me. its nice. its sweet. i can tell he likes me.
Posted by DMV
i love the way this Leo kisses me. its nice. its sweet. i can tell he likes me.The thing I disliked about Leos, I felt like they were like that with everyone. Like all the over-the-top romantic stuff, the passionate kissing etc.. In my early 20's I was with a Leo for 2 years and he did all that extra-extra.. and I did like it, until I found out he was doing all that with someone else too.
Then in 2008 I met another Leo who was the same way. Tried to be real romantic and passionate. I just never felt like it was sincere. I felt it was more rehearsed, like they were putting on a show. I couldn't bring myself to like it as much for that reason.
Hard to explain what I'm trying to say. Everything just seemed very superficial to me.
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no this makes sense to me.
when the leo gave me his number, i asked him how many time has he given his number out to a girl like he did with me. he swore he doesnt do things like that. but i feel everyone is a creature of habit. practive makes perfect.
now that you mention it, both Leos were passionate people.
Kissing...from a Scorpios point of view...Intimate...very much so...a language all its own. Its not a casual thing..but a very passionate thing...a sexual thing one can only manage with one whom lustfully craves and engages in passionately for hours on end....me and this one cancer could kiss for hours and hours...one cannot kiss one you do not love...too intimate for this scorpio...when its right...it just flows...until you just can't kiss no more!!! Hehehe
I get kisses from my scorpio, but only during sex. He usually kisses me right before and during. Any time outside of sex is usually right before I leave and I usually initiate it. Like I've said before tho, he's a ven cap and mars scorp so apparently he holds back a lot. I'm guessing when you say he doesn't kiss you that much you mean he initiates it?
@happykitsune "He usually kisses me right before and during. Any time outside of sex is usually right before I leave and I usually initiate it. Like I've said before tho, he's a ven cap and mars scorp so apparently he holds back a lot."
Yup, that sounds about right. Or as a way of making me feel better when I'm upset along with tight hugging. Or when we are fighting and he just wants it to stop. Or when we meet after a long time but the intent is a bit different there 😉 And its always special.
But all the normal "social" walk in the door, leaving the house kinda kissing is very perfunctory and always initiated by me.
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