Heard females tend to be more like their moon sign

So as I begin to learn more and more about this scorpio boy I'm feeling this need to pull away and not keep see him. Even on fb I'm afraid to be online when he's online. My moon's in scorpio so I was wondering if this had something to do with why I'm feeling so anxious and want to pull away.

Or maybe it's the fact that I'm worried I'll get hurt again because I've been in situations where I've been hurt.

Thoughts on females and moon signs?

hmm I see. That makes sense. I just remember reading somewhere that women are more prone to act like their moon signs. Was wondering if anyone else had heard that

Yeah I've done my natal chart.

Moon: Scorpio
Ascending: Gemini
Venus: Cap
Mars: Scorp

Just to add a comment I have heard that is best that a women date a man who sun sign is the same as her moon sign then she can relate to him emotional.

Posted by scorpdiva
Just to add a comment I have heard that is best that a women date a man who sun sign is the same as her moon sign then she can relate to him emotional.

i have heard this 2. My moon sign is fixed and in conjunct with my sun, both in the 5th house. so i can be very much like my moon sign. but ive always felt very saggi like. unless my emotion are involved.

Funny, but when im around my scorp and am very scorpion. i suspect EVERYBODY! LOL

Posted by scorpdiva
Just to add a comment I have heard that is best that a women date a man who sun sign is the same as her moon sign then she can relate to him emotional.

oh. i thought i read it was the opposite (his moon conjunct her sun) but that's cool too. i have a virgo moon. before my cancer bf and i got together this one virguy and i had been scoping each other out hardcore. we're finally friends now. so, even though i have no plans of infidelity on my mind, if things don't work out between my cancer and i then i suppose i have a good back-up 😛

@ninjamu (his moon conjunct her sun) how do you figure that out, I am still new to this horoscope stuff but I am learning about myself and my ideal partner.

That's interesting about dating guys the sun the same as your moon. I've never dated a scorpio before and not sure if this thing with the scorpio will continue, but I've enjoyed the time with him none-the-less. I'd like to know if the sun with moon thing is really true tho o.o

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Posted by scorpdiva
Just to add a comment I have heard that is best that a women date a man who sun sign is the same as her moon sign then she can relate to him emotional.

i have heard this 2. My moon sign is fixed and in conjunct with my sun, both in the 5th house. so i can be very much like my moon sign. but ive always felt very saggi like. unless my emotion are involved.

Funny, but when im around my scorp and am very scorpion. i suspect EVERYBODY! LOL

How do you figure out all that conjunct stuff? Please excuse my ignorance lol

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hey! do your birth chart...

www.cafeastrology.com

or

www.astro.com

Posted by happykitsune
That's interesting about dating guys the sun the same as your moon. I've never dated a scorpio before and not sure if this thing with the scorpio will continue, but I've enjoyed the time with him none-the-less. I'd like to know if the sun with moon thing is really true tho o.o

i can honestly say that a scorpio sun dating a scorpio moon is very interesting. i cant really say that its been a walk in the park.

Posted by happykitsune
hmm I see. That makes sense. I just remember reading somewhere that women are more prone to act like their moon signs. Was wondering if anyone else had heard that

Yes. & I see it in my relationships with other people.
I'm a Leo moon and it shows

Women have always been connected with the moon. Waxing and waning with power, our cycles, flow. Puller of tides, bringers of life. Hippeh, dippeh, trippeh. And wonderful.

i don't really know, though. maybe i am more like my moon.

i'm a leo sun with a virgo moon. while i get along with pretty much everyone, i have posted on these boards numerous times about how i'm not deeply compatible with fire and air signs. other leo sun females tend to annoy me if too much time is spent in their presence. i like them, and i can relate, but they're far too impulsive and loud for my taste. they tend to love attention so much that they seem to go to great and obnoxious lengths to get it. i'm actually very low key. low profile, behind-the-scenes type.

don't get me wrong... i am a stage performer (not stripper 😛) and am heavily involved in the entertainment industry. so that flair, that fire, is very strong within me but i'm also practical and react more logically to situations than my fellow lions who are prone to immediate emotional outbursts. i used to be more typically leonine when i was a kid but i have turned into something almost entirely different.

i see qualities of my whole chart come into play at times. i have an aqua rising and that weirdo, quirkiness is definitely prevalent when i encounter the public. it often shows in my style of dress. when they strike up a conversation they will see my other elements come out. however, when people really get to know me they will see that virgoan part of me (i also have virgo mercury so i communicate like one as well). i'm not sure if it's a natural leo tendency to not have the ability to bullshit for long and engage in mindless chatter. mental stimulation is so important to me in my relationships with others. i get bored quick if we can't engage in deep, meaningful conversation at least half the time. i notice that when i talk with other leos they are usually bright, intelligent creatures that love to dig deep but they pretty much NEVER initiate it.

Dang am I really that vengeful? *thinks* *Shrugs* erm...maybe so...

I mean I will admit I don't like it when I lose control of a situation, and I feel the need to get back at people if they do me wrong because I want to hurt those who hurt me. Idk tho...I'm pretty chillax most of the time. Getting back at people has become more of a sport now than anything, something I do when I have the time and energy and want to show someone I am the dominant female. But I'm often too lazy for such things -.-

I relate to my Pisces Sun most, but if I had to choose between Scorp moon and Cancer rising, it would be the Cancer rising.

"Heard females tend to be more like their moon sign"

I have a Gemini Moon. 😢

I do get the flighty/scatty aspects of it, I get seriously bored very quickly and have the attention span of a goldfish.

The air in me usually finds it pretty easy to detach too, although a Scorpio has tested that somewhat recently.

Posted by CappyyLuv30
Are all Scorp moons like that? My ex would be ruthlessly vengeful sometimes and then turn around and say he loved me. I don't get it.

we are ALL like that.

i love you but i cant stand your behavior sometimes. so i act out. the only way i know how, to cause you pain.

Posted by MsPisces.
I relate to my Pisces Sun most, but if I had to choose between Scorp moon and Cancer rising, it would be the Cancer rising.

i do not feel anyting from my Cancer Rising...what do you feel like?

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The air in me usually finds it pretty easy to detach too

I have a LOT of Libra in my chart, and this is what I love most about my libra influence. The ability to detach when it's needed.

Otherwise I would be a mess with my scorp sun (fixed) and cancer moon (clingy) but the Libras bring me balance. 🙂

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I'm air Moon, Mercury and Mars.

I definitely feel more air than water - in fact the only water in my chart is my sun sign Pisces.

Posted by CappyyLuv30
^^ The only water in my chart is in Uranus. LOL kid you not.

I'm all Air/Fire/Earth in that order.

I feel like an air head sometimes. Too much Libra. AHHHH

wow, damn near no water....what are your placements?

My moon is in taurus and like you all said sometimes when I read the description of a taurus it describes me to a T, but with having my sun is scorp and moon in taurus I can be very stubborn and stuck in my ways. Also I did my chart I only have 3 placements of water but I mostly fire..... I am lucky I am mostly fire to help with my slow taurus moon and my always over analyzing scorp sun.

Scorps tough on me too. Right now it's really weighing in on me. Idk if it's the weather or what, but I've been really emotional lately. Even to the point where I'm slightly revealing weakness. Ugh make it go away!

Lucky you. Most of my stuff is in cap. Just happened to have a moon in scorp. >.< Curses!

Im def. more like my moon sign (Saggi) which is also my rising sign. But my sun sign Cancer comes through also. Im a Firey Crab. lol

I was thinking about moon signs and wondering:

Can someone tell me why this combo works so well for us when everyone says the Gem/Scorp combo sucks?

Me: Gemini sun, Scorpio rising, Pisces moon

Him: Scorpio sun, Gemini rising, Scorpio moon

My moon is compatible with his sun, but not the other way around(which is they way I thought it was supposed to be).

Thank you so much, Iceprincess! I'm not great at reading synastry charts, but it looks like those particular aspects don't match. It must be the harmonious moons, or other things lying deeper in the chart. I also wonder if it has something to do with our acendants being the same as the other's sun.

Also google 'ascendant conjunct sun'...idk if your aspects are exactly conjunction, but nonetheless...it is good. the sun person kind of 'looks up to' the ascendant person...similar to when you have a moon/sun conjunction. google this synastry to read more ok. but that is why you guys get better than the average gemini/scorp couple.

cool combo by the way

Sun conjunct Ascendant

You tend to reinforce each other's self-esteem and self-expression. Although this position can produce a sense of competition, it is more apt to denote a very significant spiritual link between two people. This is an extremely strong indicator of compatibility in a relationship.

Moon in Cancer natives have a large potential to be able to get in touch with the feelings and moods of others.

These peace-loving souls dislike superficiality in all of its forms. They are devoted and accommodating. The insecure ones accumulate things in an attempt to feel secure.

When they feel they have been taken for granted (which may be often!), they don't always confront others directly.

One of the most delightful characteristics of Moon in Cancer people is their loony sense of humor. These people can be extraordinarily funny. Their moodiness can baffle others, but their unique outlook on life is something most people can appreciate.

When treated with tenderness and understanding, Moon in Cancer natives return the favor with warmth and protection.

Maybe I'm a man in a woman's body ... so, what is it for men? Mars?

Besides possessing a passion for words, when Mars in Gemini natives get angry or fired up, they use words as their "weapon". Angry words—some of the most incisive and sarcastic ones

It's interesting you say that, because I thought at first that the competition thing didn't apply to us, but, now that I think about it, there IS a subtle competitiveness on his part. I seem to know more trivia than he does (I'm a Gem...we collect information) and it is some sort of major victory for him to know something when I don't! LOL! It also disturbs him if I make more money than he does, but I thought that might just be a man thing.

Posted by QuietSt0rm
I am a scorpio sun with a cancer moon and at times, I do feel a lot like a cancer. (moody, nurturing, emotional etc) I'm a bit softer around the edges than other scorpio women.. it takes a LOT to provoke me, whereas other scorpio women I know are more confrontational than I am.

cancer moons or cancer risings..internalize theie emotions until they explode!

Posted by Marroned
happykitsune, I am no expert but I'm reasonably certain that it is definitely not your Scorpio placements that are causing you to pull away and/or slow down. Generally, when a Scorp is attracted to someone, the opposite is true. We fight feelings of excitement and fascination toward the object of their desire. We tend to become consumed with thoughts about our partner and become information junkies - always trying to glean new info about every aspect of their lives. As long as we are attracted and interested, we are relentless in scouring astrogoly books and sites, or striking up conversations with your 3rd grade teacher and your Great Aunt Mildred for more puzzle pieces.

I think it may be your Cap in Venus that is creating the tension and wanting to slow things way down.

i agree..def the venus in cap.. goes hot and cold at will.

They are their sun sign, but undertone their moon sign.

Just like different breeds of finches belonging to only one species.

If it's true that we should date a guy who's sun sign is the same as your moon sign, then I can't see that happening anytime soon. It seems like scorpio is the one sign I haven't dated/can never get lol.

And my psyche is in gemini... I really don't I think like a gemini lol. Then again, I don't know how a gemini thinks.