Scorpio going to drive me nuts

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I can't get mad at her I know she's just being a Scorpio but she's driving me nuts, why is it with you Scorpios everything is a crisis? She needs to realize the company she works for isn't paying for me to be on her jobsite every day I have other sites I work on or where ever my boss sends me. Get a call got to rush out to her site right away I get there I end up say to myself really this could have waited I had time.

Rushing out to see what she wanted screwed up the rest of my day I wish she would stop being a Scorpio and panicking over the slightest problems its driving me nuts I have everything under control. I know d*mn well what will happen if I snap at her.

Yes this is a bit of a rant she is stressing me out.



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idk what kind of scorps you're dealing with but not everything is black and white for me. my whole life is always about compromise. Maybe it's my ascendant but I'd never just be a black and white type of person. There's much more to consider. and it also takes A LOT for me to "freak out".

I hate people who always have a crisis. It's annoying and stupid. It's like calm ur stupid ass down and deal w the problem yourself. Why the hell do you deal with someone who cant handle a simple issue that she could've done herself? She's useless. No offense. When I flew to New York City alone, my friend from NJ was gonna come pick me up. I told her not to meet me at LaGuardia in Queens...that I would find my way myself so she didn't have to go through all the traffic, AND I DID. No freak out session. Alone in NYC for my second time ever being in that city, and I maneuvered my way just fine figuring out the subway system to get over to PATH trains to NJ without panicking and starting a whole bunch of unnecessary chaos. If a 21 year old can do that by themselves, it's pretty sad that someone else can't handle a little work that they're paid to do without having a meltdown. Geez.

Wandering a major city alone at night (my flight arrived late) vs. office work or any work in general that could've been handled alone. Seriously..lol. How is this woman even holding a job. I have THREE jobs currently and don't make anyone do MY JOB when I get confused. I figure it out myself. And if I'm stressed, I still handle it myself. No one else needs to be involved with what I am assigned and paid to do. Self-sufficiency is the key to success. Maybe you should tell her that.

It's nice you're helping her, but don't let her manipulate you into being her little bitch when she needs you. You're setting yourself up for failure. If she knows she can call you and act like a neurotic mess and get you to do things for her and it WORKS, then she will continue to do it. And you'll continue to not be paid for working on her job site. This isn't just Scorpios or any sign. This is relevant to humanity. If someone knows they can get what they want out of someone else, they will do it and have no regrets because we are living in a very "me"-oriented society these days.
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Posted by TachiMichiko
degenerate, if you have not
been aware of this, he is a
troll who for a whole entire
year has been blaming the
scorpio women for all of his
problems and lack of self
control. so 9 times out of
10, he is stretching the
truth and really wants to
come here to troll. did you
not notice that he lumps
ALL scorpio women based
off of 2 he knows?

so do not get pulled into his
bull. he always puts himself
into a 'suffering hero' position
and all scorpio women in the
worst light he possibly can.
Yes I have noticed his complaints! I just thought he was weak...it seems like he can't discern anything that is clear right in front of his face. Not to mention one Scorp was MARRIED and he was mad about her not wanting him (I think that's what he said - not 100% ), and I was baffled. I would never be a Scorp who would leave my husband (if I had one) for some random guy I work with! I don't get it. Sometimes I feel like his issues are real, but the Scorpios aren't the real problem - HE is the problem.

I think a lot of us Scorpios have our lives together!! I am only 21 and feel more stable than some people at my university! There are people of EVERY sign who may not be fully developed, and just because of the few doesn't mean they are all the same! Agreed 100% 🙂
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She got a talking too about what she did, she knows damn well she over reacted and it screwed up part of my day. Scorpio women are not very good leaders they shouldn't be in a leadership role the two I have experience with think they are good leaders but both of them have failed. I worked under a Scorpio man as a boss for 2 years he had issues I wouldn't call him the best boss I've ever had. Scorpio's crack under pressure when things start changing or moving too fast things turn to schitt real fast your black and white thinking gets in the way.

I have to adapt to change every day I could have a plan in my head how my day is going to go that can all change in 5 minutes of starting work if my boss needs me on another job I have to make a new plan of attack. As I have said before I know how tough Scorpio women are I tried putting the first Scorpio in a high stress situation at my last job she gave up control so fast in a blink of an eye, I handled the situation like a boss.

My ex boss who has decades more experience than me dropped it on me said you can handle the situation he chickened out he wouldn't even answer his damn phone typical Scorpio running away from problems.

Now I'm contending with another Scorpio it can be frustrating at times.
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Cancers don't crack under pressure we can get really miserable and bitchy when the pressure is on but we never fail. The pressure I had at my last job was intense at times I knew I was pushing I'm pretty sure I was lucky to wake up in mornings my body was giving signs I would have either had a heart attack or a stroke. You have management telling you if you don't do it you will get fired I should have told them to phuck off. I did way too much for my bosses it is why my ex Scorpio boss is under pressure I did a lot for him he dropped the ball a lot.

The current Scorpio I'm working with worries about minor stuff I think to myself holy schitt if that's what you are worried about what happens if its something major. At my last job if I made a bad decision it would have cost my division I worked in around 1000 dollars per hour in operating expenses even thou management would make 10,000 dollar whoopsies but because they are management they didn't get reprimanded for it I made a mistakes I got threats from management.

I have to shake my head when the Scorpio I'm working with is panicking, really? Is she craving some drama in her life so she blows the most minor issue out of proportion. I don't need that drama crap in my life if she would let go of the control the company she works for hired the company to take care of that part of operations.

I'm not this current Scorpio's boss I work for a separate company and I'm enjoying it a lot to be just an employee I don't have any major decisions to make I go to work do my job and go home. The Scorpio I'm working with is stubborn as a mule she has p*ssed off people in the company she works for, she leaves me a lone for the most part.

The first Scorpio I worked with was on a mission to always prove me wrong even though I was right it would drive me nuts she would be trying to constantly re invent the wheel she wanted to do it her way. My way had a lot of short cuts but the task always got done, sure I never followed the rules all the time but rules are meant to be broken. She also p*ssed off every employee she worked with hmm I wonder why Scorpio women like rubbing people the wrong way to get people p*ssed off at them.

I do know Scorpios are not as tough as they appear you act tough but you are really not. I'm very aware how sensitive Scorpio women can be so I watch what I say I never raised my voice at the first Scorpio her and I never screamed at each other I will do the same with the Scorpio I'm working with now. You Scorpio women seem to have a bit of addiction to drama you can deny it all you want but in my experience so far working with two Scorpio woman drama is involved and I don't start it. I'm very aware that Scorpio women are proud of their accomplishments so you should recognize what they have done. Scorpios are good organizers you give them something to organize and plan it will be done properly.
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Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by Stihl46
She got a talking too about what she did, she knows damn well she over reacted and it screwed up part of my day. Scorpio women are not very good leaders they shouldn't be in a leadership role the two I have experience with think they are good leaders but both of them have failed. I worked under a Scorpio man as a boss for 2 years he had issues I wouldn't call him the best boss I've ever had. Scorpio's crack under pressure when things start changing or moving too fast things turn to schitt real fast your black and white thinking gets in the way.

I have to adapt to change every day I could have a plan in my head how my day is going to go that can all change in 5 minutes of starting work if my boss needs me on another job I have to make a new plan of attack. As I have said before I know how tough Scorpio women are I tried putting the first Scorpio in a high stress situation at my last job she gave up control so fast in a blink of an eye, I handled the situation like a boss.

My ex boss who has decades more experience than me dropped it on me said you can handle the situation he chickened out he wouldn't even answer his damn phone typical Scorpio running away from problems.

Now I'm contending with another Scorpio it can be frustrating at times.
Scorpios are excellent under pressure, actually. It's one of our best traits.

Almost all of the ER physicians I know are Scorpios.
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Hmmmm.....maybe I should find reasons to go to the ER...... JUST JOKING!! I hate needles ~shudders~
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Posted by TachiMichiko
There we have it.
You just admitted
that you are judging
ALL Scorpio women
off of the two you fell
out with. Sou. I did
not know that two do
represent an entirety.

This is not the cancer
board. Go there and
troll about how great
you and your sign is.
Idiot.
He can't go to the Cancer board. I took away his Cancer card. He's been banned, and I decided he's a Virgo. To the Virgo board with him!
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In all honesty its depressing being around a Scorpio when she has her mask off, as a Cancer man I can feel the vibes from people always have always will. The two Scorpio women I know are not that different it just seems like there isn't that much positive in their lives you look at the negatives than positives. When a Scorpio has her mask on you would never know what is going on in her head, phuck they portray they have no care in the world they are happy. She takes the mask off, okay put it back on, nope as I said that never happens once you've let a Scorpio get comfortable with you and be themselves.

It is not my imagination I can sit in the Scorpio's office and she's talking to people face to face she's smiling she's cheerful soon as those people leave that all changes. The first Scorpio did the same thing there is a lot of schitt you Scorpio women hide from the world.

The first Scorpio her favorite answer to when I asked her if she was okay is "I'm fine" she would be giving me that look later on she would start blurting out what is annoying her and it wasn't me.
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Do yourself a favor stihl46....Stay away from scorpio women.....Although they are sexy as hell, even the ugly ones (not sure how thats possible lol) they are all crazy.....all of them....i know a few at my job...in my family...Some are out-going...some are a bit loud, quiet, whatever the case may be, but at the end of the day, they are all crazy...too crazy for some poor Cancer guy...lol Let another sign like Virgo, taurus, gem or aqua deal with this madness
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Ok...admittedly, in the workplace the Scorpio women I know did handle a lot of shit, but they grumbled and complained (within earshot of me) allllll of the damn time! Then I'd hear them talk to staff in gentle and controlled tones. I heard the griping ALL of the time. I'd just giggle to myself. My guy does the same thing...quiet and controlled mask, but I get the knowing eye roll or annoyed wide eye look that the "other" SHOULD have gotten...IMO. lol

Yes, he's trolling a bit, BUT it doesn't mean that he's completely wrong or delusional. Even a broken clock is right twice a day. You know?
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Posted by MsTeeq1974
Ok...admittedly, in the workplace the Scorpio women I know did handle a lot of shit, but they grumbled and complained (within earshot of me) allllll of the damn time! Then I'd hear them talk to staff in gentle and controlled tones. I heard the griping ALL of the time. I'd just giggle to myself. My guy does the same thing...quiet and controlled mask, but I get the knowing eye roll or annoyed wide eye look that the "other" SHOULD have gotten...IMO. lol

Yes, he's trolling a bit, BUT it doesn't mean that he's completely wrong or delusional. Even a broken clock is right twice a day. You know?
Grl, he been posting exact same thing for like two years. With different people. Same posts every time. He was fired from his last job because of inappropriate behavior towards a woman, which he then tried to spin as him being the victim/hero (yeah both at same time). He's just cycling through this new job with the exact same posts and behaviors as a year ago.

"Me Cancer man. Me genuis, me psychic intuitive scorpio whisperer master. Scorpios stoopid. Me save scorpihoes. Scorpihoes cry in front me my glory and wondrous ways. Scorpihoes betray me. Me fired. Scorpenises trick entire work/job/peers. Dey release great mistake. Dey grovel and whine about grave miscalculation for me's betrayal. Me get new job. Scorpihoes at new job!!!11! Me Cancer man. Me genius..."

So he's about right on track. He's really more a slightly intriguing plaything for the scorp board to poke at now.
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the only time I complain at work is if I have a really bad day and customers were acting outta control. even then I don't even need to complain, because I have seen how people truly are so I mirror their behavior. This one girl told me I sold her a phone "knowing" the Sprint towers were down and that I sold her something I knew wouldn't work. I responded, "no sorry, I'm not a meteorologist nor do I have magical powers to make the cell phone towers back on. There's no possible way I 'knew' your phone wasn't going to work." It was storming really bad and she was off the chain saying "you knew it wouldn't work" lmfao. hilarious. honestly I laughed about it for a good hour after she left. I didn't even complain. Work is normally very fun for me even when people are acting reckless, but there are the occasional bad days of course.

I think everyone complains about work sometimes. Especially if you work with the public. That's kind of normal. I mean, the mumbling and grumbling WHILE working is kind of pathetic and I feel bad for you guys having to deal with that, but that's nothing I've really ever done....so idk....lol..

My thing is how he's trying to say she's so negative yet he is being SO hypocritical. "bet my boss won't put me on the new job site". Negative statement. Negativity attracts negativity and that's a fact. Negative people exist in EVERY sign....not just Scorpio. That is my point.