Let go of the control

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Stihl46 on Thursday, October 1, 2015 and has 9 replies.

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Not sure if its control or what it is the Scorpio I'm working with watches me like a hawk the first Scorpio used to do it to me as well. Why can't you Scorpios let go of your control and keep your nose out of things, I can't get mad at her but I'm thinking to myself really I do know what I'm doing.

So Scorps what's it with you and control?

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Posted by Stihl46
Not sure if its control or what it is the Scorpio I'm working with watches me like a hawk the first Scorpio used to do it to me as well. Why can't you Scorpios let go of your control and keep your nose out of things, I can't get mad at her but I'm thinking to myself really I do know what I'm doing.

So Scorps what's it with you and control?

To make snakelike crabs like you whimper

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Posted by Stihl46
Not sure if its control or what it is the Scorpio I'm working with watches me like a hawk the first Scorpio used to do it to me as well. Why can't you Scorpios let go of your control and keep your nose out of things, I can't get mad at her but I'm thinking to myself really I do know what I'm doing.

So Scorps what's it with you and control?

What do you mean? Maybe you are just assuming.. ask her. Scorpios are direct.

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What I mean is why do you Scorpios like to get your nose into other peoples business but somebody tries to do it to you.... This Scorpio I'm working with is always watching what I'm doing and she gets her 2 cents in, all I can say to myself really? Let me do my job. I can't get mad at her I know she's just being a Scorpio the first Scorpio did the same thing constantly you try give them back what they are giving you they don't like it. You doubt their abilities or doubt they can do their job properly is a blow to their self confidence.

As the months go by working with the second Scorpio I'm seeing the same traits and behaviors, different person exact same traits, yes some of the Scorpio traits can be annoying the control issues is one of them.

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Posted by TachiMichiko
you take things too personally.
control is in our nature. it is not
something we do. it is who we
are. it is a part of ourselves. it
is easy to wind you up, i see...
it would best if you give up the
bad attitude and just focus on
your work, instead of constant
reporting on every move scorpio
woman makes. i bet she is not
controlling you, really. just giving
her 2 cents, like you said.

+10000

Our nature

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Posted by Stihl46
Not sure if its control or what it is the Scorpio I'm working with watches me like a hawk the first Scorpio used to do it to me as well. Why can't you Scorpios let go of your control and keep your nose out of things, I can't get mad at her but I'm thinking to myself really I do know what I'm doing.

So Scorps what's it with you and control?

Says he who makes these Scorpio women's every move his sole focus in life...