Scorpio man confusing me, please help

I don't know what to think, sometimes out of the blue I feel like he overreacts. For instance, I was talking to him the other day, telling him how sad it was making me that I had to he far away for work for a while, he comes back with "so you fall in and out of love easily, WOW". I was kind of surprised by that comment, I implied nothing of the sort! I was saying how I had no choice, and I was going to struggle with being so far! Also, he's teased me about what he is gong to be doing while I'm gone, and it's going and doing things WE like to do together. I get upset, I don't want to be away, but I have to for work, and it hurts to hear him talk about his plans while I'm gone. Why does he do this?

he is probably upset that you are going away. So he is taking it out on you. Just immaturity, that's all...

I don't understand. I'm so sad to be leaving. I'm afraid he will forget about me. Tell me, do scorpion men wait? What are the signs he's moving on? Or found another woman?

if a scorpio loves you... oh he can wait!

I don't know your situation of how long you know each other and why he would be resentful of you leaving. You wrote that you HAVE TO go for work. He normally should understand that, unless he made you an offer to stay and perhaps showed you some firm workplaces in your area where you both live.

It is hard to guess, why he is resentful of you leaving. He is teasing you of what he will do when you are away. He wanted to see your reaction to determine how seriously committed you are to him, which will determine his wait for you. It seems you showed him the necessary emotional response, however, it is always Best to talk these things out. If he had serious intention on seeing others or doing things knowing you will not like, he wouldn't have foolishly told you that. He would have kept it a secret. So it is obvious, he is just pulling your strings.

I don't think he found another woman. Scorpios take their relations seriously -- and mind you... he mentioned *LOVE*!

I work in a business where I travel, so does he. What is concerning he has a tendancy to disappear for a day or two at times, just no contact at all. I go about my business as normal, but in the back of my head I'm thinking, WTF? He tells me he loves me, he gets annoyed if I'm going out with my friends, infact he said this once "fine, I guess your moving on". I was again, not. I don't understand him. Sometimes he's fine if I'm going out, others he acts like I'm totally blowing him off. What is that about? Also, it's ok for women to hit on him, but he gets super pissed off if someone hits on me. I don't play games, I don't flirt with guys, but I am considered pretty. I don't get angry when women flirt with him, sure I get a bit jelous but will tell him, I don't make a spectlcle of myself, neither does he. We are in a long distance relationship, we fly to see each other. Can someone explain this?

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I work in a business where I travel, so does he. What is concerning he has a tendancy to disappear for a day or two at times, just no contact at all. I go about my business as normal, but in the back of my head I'm thinking, WTF? He tells me he loves me, he gets annoyed if I'm going out with my friends, infact he said this once "fine, I guess your moving on". I was again, not. I don't understand him. Sometimes he's fine if I'm going out, others he acts like I'm totally blowing him off. What is that about? Also, it's ok for women to hit on him, but he gets super pissed off if someone hits on me. I don't play games, I don't flirt with guys, but I am considered pretty. I don't get angry when women flirt with him, sure I get a bit jelous but will tell him, I don't make a spectlcle of myself, neither does he. We are in a long distance relationship, we fly to see each other. Can someone explain this?

Congratulations! You have a textbook Scorpio male...lol Nothing to worry about though. Just learn to tune out the blah blah,they have insecure moments. What is your sign, Beth?

Virgo. when we met, it was an instant connection. It still is. I look at him, and my knees go weak. He really is the sweetest, kindest man I have ever known. And his eyes, he has the mist beautiful eyes! I remember one time I was walking towards him, he as talking with his friends, he looked at me, and stopped talking and we literally stared into each others eyes for who knows how long. When the other guys looked at me, I got embarassed, he didn't at all. He just walked over to me and we walked away. I love how he protects me, very generous, has given me some of the most beautiful gifts I've ever recieved. I get embarassex because I can't compete with him financially, but I don't think he cares, I hope not. I never ask him to help me, he just does. I've tried to pay him back and he refuses, that makes me feel kind of awkward, but that is the way he is, very much a gentleman in public, behind closed doors? The best sex I've ever had. It took me a while after we started dating to let my guard down, but he never, ever pushed, then one night,( 3 months after we started seeing each other) well I just couldn't say no, and that was that - WOW is all I can say about that! I know, 3 months is a long time, but I just came out of a long marraige and was not looking for a guy, it just happened. We seem to really balance each other. He's easy to talk to, I get jelous, but I tell him I'm jelous and he soothes me. So, that's a bit of our story.

So, you all in the know on Scorpio men, what do you think? Do you think I need to worry while I'm gone? I would be so hurt if he cheated, if he does, how will I know? I worry because he has alot of women after him. And, it's going to hard to be so far away for 3 months.

Posted by Bethann
Virgo. when we met, it was an instant connection. It still is. I look at him, and my knees go weak. He really is the sweetest, kindest man I have ever known. And his eyes, he has the mist beautiful eyes! I remember one time I was walking towards him, he as talking with his friends, he looked at me, and stopped talking and we literally stared into each others eyes for who knows how long. When the other guys looked at me, I got embarassed, he didn't at all. He just walked over to me and we walked away. I love how he protects me, very generous, has given me some of the most beautiful gifts I've ever recieved. I get embarassex because I can't compete with him financially, but I don't think he cares, I hope not. I never ask him to help me, he just does. I've tried to pay him back and he refuses, that makes me feel kind of awkward, but that is the way he is, very much a gentleman in public, behind closed doors? The best sex I've ever had. It took me a while after we started dating to let my guard down, but he never, ever pushed, then one night,( 3 months after we started seeing each other) well I just couldn't say no, and that was that - WOW is all I can say about that! I know, 3 months is a long time, but I just came out of a long marraige and was not looking for a guy, it just happened. We seem to really balance each other. He's easy to talk to, I get jelous, but I tell him I'm jelous and he soothes me. So, that's a bit of our story.

Nice! What else could you ask for? You should print this out and post it on your mirror or something, so when you start to feel insecure you have a reminder of how wonderful this man is. Lucky lady!

Posted by Bethann
So, you all in the know on Scorpio men, what do you think? Do you think I need to worry while I'm gone? I would be so hurt if he cheated, if he does, how will I know? I worry because he has alot of women after him. And, it's going to hard to be so far away for 3 months.

Love and trust go hand in hand, you cant have one without the other. So if you truly love him then you will trust him. You are making assumptions based on nothing. Ok so he has a lot of women wanting him. So what! If a man wants to cheat he dont have to wait for you to leave town. I dont care the sign. Trust him. Not all men are dogs.

I think your right, I do trust him, he's never given me a reason not to. I think I'm getting uptight about leaving.

If anything the love that you have for each other will only grow stronger.

Thank you for such support. It's very much appreciated.

Bethann are we the same person? You're a Virgo (just like me) and my boyfriend is a Scorpio too! All the things you stated sounded just like me. I agree with every single sentence that you wrote about your boyfriend, mine does the same exact thing! It's almost scary reading this. We too are in a long distance relationship and it's hard to trust him but I do because I love him. But he is flirtatious and it pisses me off. Like you, I only have eyes for him and I don't do extraneous flirting with other men because he can get so jealous and because I don't want anyone but him. Why do Scorpios do this unnecessary flirting? And why do they get upset when you do the same with other men? He's very adamant that he's not a cheater and never has been but his flirting makes me wonder. I could just be insecure but when you're in a relationship, you don't play with your significant others insecurities. Maybe that's just me, who knows? I've told him that I get jealous when he flirts and he tells me that I'm the one and that I have his heart. But anywho, it's reassuring to see someone in the same boat that I'm in with the same concerns.

He's just voicing his discontent and trying to make you feel guilty for "abandoning" him. Just keep in regular contact with him while you're gone, especially if he goes silent for a bit. When he does that (and he will) it's just a test to see how committed you are. If you pass that one, this relationship sounds pretty promising! He seems to really care for you. 🙂