Scorpio man said?

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yauniboo777
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Read that again! Scorpio's are so honest but word things awkwardly. He told you he likes you soooo much that he deleted his dating profile. He's giving you the choice to accept this and stay or leave. Us girls expect this fabricated movie love when that isn't really how things will go. So we tend to misread what guys tell us. I'm guilty of it and I feel bad when I get emotional over nothing or a perfect answer I didn't read well. Try to reread things to avoid that. Then again, that still doesn't work until days later ?.
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He's playing a mind game to test you and to hopefully get you to fawn all over him and stroke his ego...

"See how much I like you? I deleted my dating profile JUST FOR YOU! But you'll probably just find someone you like more than me. *poutty face*"
He has already vanished once and I enver expected to hear again. Maybe he didnt find anyone else he liked.

What I mean is by load of crap is that I'm not sure I believe the bit about him deleting his profile when he is clear he is not up for something serious with me.

I just wonder if he's told me that so I dont lose interest in him as a casual dating scenario whilst he looks for others.

I got mind fucked by a Pisces not too long ago so I do wonder if that has colored my view.
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He's playing a mind game to test you and to hopefully get you to fawn all over him and stroke his ego...

"See how much I like you? I deleted my dating profile JUST FOR YOU! But you'll probably just find someone you like more than me. *poutty face*"
He has already vanished once and I enver expected to hear again. Maybe he didnt find anyone else he liked.

What I mean is by load of crap is that I'm not sure I believe the bit about him deleting his profile when he is clear he is not up for something serious with me.

I just wonder if he's told me that so I dont lose interest in him as a casual dating scenario whilst he looks for others.

I got mind fucked by a Pisces not too long ago so I do wonder if that has colored my view.
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Whether he did or did not delete is irrelevant IME.

The only thing that matters is that he's seeking to manipulate a reaction from you instead of allowing your relationship to evolve organically.

I can see his mind working by reading his choice of words and how he's essentially prodding you for a response.

He sounds emotionally immature.
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Posted by Quantum
He's playing a mind game to test you and to hopefully get you to fawn all over him and stroke his ego...

"See how much I like you? I deleted my dating profile JUST FOR YOU! But you'll probably just find someone you like more than me. *poutty face*"
He has already vanished once and I enver expected to hear again. Maybe he didnt find anyone else he liked.

What I mean is by load of crap is that I'm not sure I believe the bit about him deleting his profile when he is clear he is not up for something serious with me.

I just wonder if he's told me that so I dont lose interest in him as a casual dating scenario whilst he looks for others.

I got mind fucked by a Pisces not too long ago so I do wonder if that has colored my view.
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I see what you mean. They do tend to keep you on a string until they get their emotions straight. Please play it safe. Let me tell you, after my scorp gave me the option to be fwb or platonic...I picked platonic and he's still there for me. The thing is that this guy said I'm his soul mate on fb because I said something funny and my scorp friend got jealous and liked another funny post I put (mind u, he barely likes my posts). He thinks I didn't notice but I did lol. Play his game. Be friends with other guys but have a safety net so if he questions you about it, then your hands are clean. If you don't want the mind games, it is best for you to move on.
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Posted by yauniboo777
Read that again! Scorpio's are so honest but word things awkwardly. He told you he likes you soooo much that he deleted his dating profile. He's giving you the choice to accept this and stay or leave. Us girls expect this fabricated movie love when that isn't really how things will go. So we tend to misread what guys tell us. I'm guilty of it and I feel bad when I get emotional over nothing or a perfect answer I didn't read well. Try to reread things to avoid that. Then again, that still doesn't work until days later ?.
IMO, He is being confusing when he says that he deleted his dating profile and likes her but she should also see other people
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that was hilarious.

merci for proving me right =)
It was terrible.

JFC it made my own stomach turn just looking at myself.


Oh shat ap. It was awesome


I need a hair cut and to shave.



Haircut lol

Going for the bald look?

No bueno scorp.
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Yeah. Otherwise I look like an accountant with the bald spot I have.

It's a fine line I toe...the Virgo likes it when I look a bit scruffy but I always feel a little better about myself when I'm more..."put together".

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Posted by yauniboo777
Read that again! Scorpio's are so honest but word things awkwardly. He told you he likes you soooo much that he deleted his dating profile. He's giving you the choice to accept this and stay or leave. Us girls expect this fabricated movie love when that isn't really how things will go. So we tend to misread what guys tell us. I'm guilty of it and I feel bad when I get emotional over nothing or a perfect answer I didn't read well. Try to reread things to avoid that. Then again, that still doesn't work until days later ?.
IMO, He is being confusing when he says that he deleted his dating profile and likes her but she should also see other people
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Out of curiosity, ask him what he means by that exactly. Call him out.
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I did. He saw my face when he said I can keep dating. He said although we are compatible I may find someone more compatible.

He is also horrendously busy at work. All the time. Evenings weekends you name it. He just doesnt have the time.
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Posted by yauniboo777
Read that again! Scorpio's are so honest but word things awkwardly. He told you he likes you soooo much that he deleted his dating profile. He's giving you the choice to accept this and stay or leave. Us girls expect this fabricated movie love when that isn't really how things will go. So we tend to misread what guys tell us. I'm guilty of it and I feel bad when I get emotional over nothing or a perfect answer I didn't read well. Try to reread things to avoid that. Then again, that still doesn't work until days later ?.
IMO, He is being confusing when he says that he deleted his dating profile and likes her but she should also see other people
quite
Out of curiosity, ask him what he means by that exactly. Call him out.
I did. He saw my face when he said I can keep dating. He said although we are compatible I may find someone more compatible.

He is also horrendously busy at work. All the time. Evenings weekends you name it. He just doesnt have the time.
Then just move on. Someone that is in to you will make time and also not say that you might find someone else.

He just doesn't want to say it

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Yep.

I always ALWAYS found time for a chick if I was in to her.

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Posted by Quantum
He's playing a mind game to test you and to hopefully get you to fawn all over him and stroke his ego...

"See how much I like you? I deleted my dating profile JUST FOR YOU! But you'll probably just find someone you like more than me. *poutty face*"
He has already vanished once and I enver expected to hear again. Maybe he didnt find anyone else he liked.

What I mean is by load of crap is that I'm not sure I believe the bit about him deleting his profile when he is clear he is not up for something serious with me.

I just wonder if he's told me that so I dont lose interest in him as a casual dating scenario whilst he looks for others.

I got mind fucked by a Pisces not too long ago so I do wonder if that has colored my view.
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Tell him this:

Ok.

Then delete his arse. Forget him. He's not worth writing a thread about.
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Posted by AliceInWonderland
Posted by Quantum
He's playing a mind game to test you and to hopefully get you to fawn all over him and stroke his ego...

"See how much I like you? I deleted my dating profile JUST FOR YOU! But you'll probably just find someone you like more than me. *poutty face*"
He has already vanished once and I enver expected to hear again. Maybe he didnt find anyone else he liked.

What I mean is by load of crap is that I'm not sure I believe the bit about him deleting his profile when he is clear he is not up for something serious with me.

I just wonder if he's told me that so I dont lose interest in him as a casual dating scenario whilst he looks for others.

I got mind fucked by a Pisces not too long ago so I do wonder if that has colored my view.
I see what you mean. They do tend to keep you on a string until they get their emotions straight. Please play it safe. Let me tell you, after my scorp gave me the option to be fwb or platonic...I picked platonic and he's still there for me. The thing is that this guy said I'm his soul mate on fb because I said something funny and my scorp friend got jealous and liked another funny post I put (mind u, he barely likes my posts). He thinks I didn't notice but I did lol. Play his game. Be friends with other guys but have a safety net so if he questions you about it, then your hands are clean. If you don't want the mind games, it is best for you to move on.
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Exactly! If you have tie to play his game - relax and play it.

I said once I don't even know the name of the game and rules of the game but count me in.

It had been forever. And will continue. Indefinitely. But I rather play than not.

Make your choice and good luck! Just don't freak out on him. They don't like it😉
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Posted by AliceInWonderland
I really like you. I have deleted my dating profile. But I dont want anything to serious right now.

You can keep dating if you like. We are really compatible but you might find someone moreso.

what a load of crap right?
Let's say you said 'I don't want to be dating and I don't want moreso compatible'.

I am wondering how would that go with him. Anyone?