Do's and don'ts

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by AliceInWonderland on Sunday, July 24, 2016 and has 27 replies.

Key Do's and Don'ts When Dating a Scorpio Man

When dating a Scorpio man, be honest and loyal, as trust is essential. Avoid being overly clingy or secretive, and respect his need for emotional depth. Maintaining honesty and giving him space fosters a healthy relationship with a Scorpio.

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@WateryVirgo
10 Years

Your loyalty, morals and strength will forever be tested; your behaviors and what you say will always be under a microscope. The testing will continue until you "fail" ( the failure could be real or part of some twisted logic he's come up with) which is what the Scorpio is waiting for anyway. Self fulfilling prophesies. Self destructive behaviors.

But don't ever apply the same testing to him though...

Scorpio men are emotionally draining, a 24/7 job. The head games are petty and tiring. Only a Cancer or Pisces female has the patience for the bs long term, from what I've seen.

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@Scorpioluver
10 Years

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Don't lie about anything, ever.

Or else he will hold it over your head for all eternity.

He's totally allowed to fuck up though.

So true! Hi Alicia!!!

@ OP, Be prepared to be the logical one cause they are the emotional ones.

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@pathfinder
20 Years1,000+ Posts

Do be confident.

Do be geniune.

Do respect yourself.

Do love yourself.

Do take your time.

Do respect him.

Do love him

Do stand up to him.

Do appreciate him.

This isn't an exhaustive list, but I'm of the mind that if you let the "DOs" be your mindset, the "Don'ts" won't matter as much.

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@fugu2
10 Years1,000+ Posts

say goodbye to privacy

say hey to your new full-time job of loving your scorpy. they demand 100% of your attention at all times.

you get used to it though πŸ˜›

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@AliceInWonderland
10 Years

I am a Taurus.

I had one relationship with a Scorpio before and it was fresh hell.

This new guy has an Aqua moon though so I am not feeling a huge amount of intensity though.

They are all hot/cold head gamers?

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@lisabethur8
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Don't date one with a chart like Gordon Ramsey

Gordon Ramsay is a scorp! ? DAMN.....cooking ....makes sense .... β€”

he's married to a Leo sun. lol

he's 5th house dominant.

Whaaaaaat lol

Maybe she's nutter than he is.... ?

it looks like she wears the pants..lol true or false?

I can believe that ?the crazy psycho attitude makes good tv... most likely once he goes back home she's boss....?

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I think he takes his job very seriously. like most men should though.

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@GuardianAnu
12 Years1,000+ Posts

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Don't date one with a chart like Gordon Ramsey

Gordon Ramsay is a scorp! ? DAMN.....cooking ....makes sense .... β€”

Psycho chef

For real watching him cook gives me anxiety. ..even when he's cooking by himself. ..he looks/sounds coked out of his mind. ?

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A lot of chefs/cooks are coked out, in kitchens across the world. It's a stressful as fuck job, and there are a lot of Gordon Ramsay's working in them.

He's not that bad a guy outside of his "persona" on television, though.

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@GuardianAnu
12 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by starlover
Don't date one with a chart like Gordon Ramsey

Gordon Ramsay is a scorp! ? DAMN.....cooking ....makes sense .... β€”

Psycho chef

For real watching him cook gives me anxiety. ..even when he's cooking by himself. ..he looks/sounds coked out of his mind. ?

A lot of chefs/cooks are coked out, in kitchens across the world. It's a stressful as fuck job, and there are a lot of Gordon Ramsay's working in them.

He's not that bad a guy outside of his "persona" on television, though.

I'm mostly joking..=) just playing on the fact that he's scorp

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My dad watches Judge Judy. Sometimes watching her gives me anxiety lol... and she's a leeb!

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@GuardianAnu
12 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by starlover
Don't date one with a chart like Gordon Ramsey

Gordon Ramsay is a scorp! ? DAMN.....cooking ....makes sense .... β€”

Psycho chef

For real watching him cook gives me anxiety. ..even when he's cooking by himself. ..he looks/sounds coked out of his mind. ?

A lot of chefs/cooks are coked out, in kitchens across the world. It's a stressful as fuck job, and there are a lot of Gordon Ramsay's working in them.

He's not that bad a guy outside of his "persona" on television, though.

I'm mostly joking..=) just playing on the fact that he's scorp

My dad watches Judge Judy. Sometimes watching her gives me anxiety lol... and she's a leeb!

Simon cowell is a leeb too #wtf

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Fuckin' leebs, man.

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@GuardianAnu
12 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by starlover
Don't date one with a chart like Gordon Ramsey

Gordon Ramsay is a scorp! ? DAMN.....cooking ....makes sense .... β€”

Psycho chef

For real watching him cook gives me anxiety. ..even when he's cooking by himself. ..he looks/sounds coked out of his mind. ?

A lot of chefs/cooks are coked out, in kitchens across the world. It's a stressful as fuck job, and there are a lot of Gordon Ramsay's working in them.

He's not that bad a guy outside of his "persona" on television, though.

I'm mostly joking..=) just playing on the fact that he's scorp

My dad watches Judge Judy. Sometimes watching her gives me anxiety lol... and she's a leeb!

β€” I looooooove her though !!

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I think it depends on my state of mind and how harsh she is being. I hate the whole cutting people off thing. Triggering. lol

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@Sunsetvirgo
10 Years5,000+ Posts

This thread is wild.

But back to what you asked.

Honestly, just Do whatever you've been doing. I don't know your situation because you didn't really give us much to work with. But if you're dating him or about to be dating him, then you must be/ have been doing something right.

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@Kemetisinme
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by starwars

Lovers of harmony and peace my ass.

The peace loving, people pleasing stereotype is comical. Libras are hypnotic enigmas behind that easy going appearance (of many). The real Scorpios of the zodiac.

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I often wish I was born 2 weeks later 😒

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Aww don't say that. Being a Virgo isn't that bad.