Scorpio + Scorpio...do I move on?

A brief background...

I was visiting my friends on the west coast and ended up meeting this Scorpio guy. We got along effortlessly well and ended up spending a good amount of 3 weeks together. I make time for him on my last night in town and stay over at his place; the next day we give each other a long, sincere hug...the kind of hug I've never felt before; just embracing, resting our heads on each other's shoulders and taking in the moment in complete silence. It felt like forever but probably lasted a couple minutes.

Anyway, it's been over a week since I left and thoughts of him keep making their way into my head. We've talked everyday through text ever since...mostly casual stuff; of course, some sexy talk, too...we're both scorps after all.

A couple nights ago I manage to bring up how I wouldn't mind seeing where this could go and he responds with the practicality of the circumstance...I live east coast, he lives west coast.

I understand where he's coming from but that doesn't mean I don't think it's worth a shot.

So, do I keep things casual with this guy? Or as sweet as he is, do I let this one go? I'm a Scorpio so I tend to go to the extreme ends of decision making 😉

Also, I didn't tell him, but I'm actually moving to his city in a year. I feel like I don't want to share that info because I'm a romantic and feel as though that info shouldn't play into this? Idk

I appreciate and advice!

I've had relationships with scorpios (im scorpio too) in the past and its the worst decision I'd ever made lol

But who knows maybe yours goes better

Posted by ScorpPisces
A brief background...

I was visiting my friends on the west coast and ended up meeting this Scorpio guy. We got along effortlessly well and ended up spending a good amount of 3 weeks together. I make time for him on my last night in town and stay over at his place; the next day we give each other a long, sincere hug...the kind of hug I've never felt before; just embracing, resting our heads on each other's shoulders and taking in the moment in complete silence. It felt like forever but probably lasted a couple minutes.

Anyway, it's been over a week since I left and thoughts of him keep making their way into my head. We've talked everyday through text ever since...mostly casual stuff; of course, some sexy talk, too...we're both scorps after all.

A couple nights ago I manage to bring up how I wouldn't mind seeing where this could go and he responds with the practicality of the circumstance...I live east coast, he lives west coast.

I understand where he's coming from but that doesn't mean I don't think it's worth a shot.

So, do I keep things casual with this guy? Or as sweet as he is, do I let this one go? I'm a Scorpio so I tend to go to the extreme ends of decision making 😉

Also, I didn't tell him, but I'm actually moving to his city in a year. I feel like I don't want to share that info because I'm a romantic and feel as though that info shouldn't play into this? Idk

I appreciate and advice!

It's gonna be like dating yourself lol if you don't mind that then proceed.

I keep hearing that...about how Scorpio + Scorpio is a challenge. Ive usually never been attracted to a fellow Scorpio enough to ever entertain this.

I guess where my real question lies is...

Is this guy even interested and just too scared to put himself in a difficult situation like this? Or was it a fun, yet, emotional fling?

Posted by ScorpPisces


A couple nights ago I manage to bring up how I wouldn't mind seeing where this could go and he responds with the practicality of the circumstance...I live east coast, he lives west coast.

Sounds like a "No" to me.

He's not willing to put in the effort that you seem to imagine is possible.

I get what you are saying.

It's confusing for me because he'll keep messaging me how he misses me and wishes I was able to spend time with him.

Posted by ScorpPisces
I get what you are saying.

It's confusing for me because he'll keep messaging me how he misses me and wishes I was able to spend time with him.

That certainly is confusing. You may want to address his apparent "no" with him and ask what does he expect to come of this. Or, does he think you all can make trips to see each other from time to time? Right now, based on the brief time of getting to know him, you can categorize him as a romantic interest. Is it worth it to visit a "romantic interest" who states that a relationship is basically impractical?

That's a great question!

From my perspective, I'm moving to his city in a year and will be taking trips every couple of months there, anyway.

He doesn't know that; it wasn't something to come up in our time together.