@WateryGem
12 Years1,000+ Posts
Scorpio women value loyalty and emotional honesty. They may be sensitive to criticism and prefer respectful communication. Their reactions depend on personal boundaries and trust levels. It's important to communicate openly and avoid negative judgment about others to maintain a healthy relationship with a Scorpio woman.
I generally don't fuck with people who talk about people-- male or female.
This.
I would lose respect immediately for anyone who talks that way about someone else.
Any attraction I thought I had would be gone.
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I'd be turned off by them....
But what if you didn't hear this or see this until you fell in love or got married?
Question.. I want to know if you think of things this way or not.
Ok, let's say you're dating/engaged or married to someone and you hear them criticize women they have dated or strangers but primarily their exes.
Let's give some examples: they say their ex has the most beautiful face but her body was jacked bc she was shaped like a box. Then another girl, her hands were gross and manly, and her breasts were shrivelled like pancakes, another girl they used for sexual play and made fun of her mustache.
Alright, that's a few of the examples..
What would you do with that info? Would it create insecurities within you wondering what they think inside or would you wonder if they would speak of you that way if things ended, as well?
Just curious how you process things like that. I know how I do..
Insecurity and worry emerging from knowing the commentary? No way in hell.
If anything, the person repulses me.
I would leave in a matter of secs. Not gon be interested to interact with the said person no more coz if he/she is interested on such trivial matters about a person then how can I expect him/her to dwelve deeper into things or at least intrigue me with his/her ideas?
I dont about other scorps but i have seen my scorp daughter call it on people like that before they open their mouth. She would be like ' that guy is an asshole'. i would say 'why do you say that he has been so nice.' Then she would say something like i can feel or he did one tiny thing she just caught. that was enough for her. She would turn out to be right. lol one time i said to her, 'but you trash talk about people.' She said 'but it is the truth.' 😆 she was a teen back during that time. She has learned since then that everyone has a dark side and that you have to decide if it is a dark side you are ok with.
Question.. I want to know if you think of things this way or not.
Ok, let's say you're dating/engaged or married to someone and you hear them criticize women they have dated or strangers but primarily their exes.
Let's give some examples: they say their ex has the most beautiful face but her body was jacked bc she was shaped like a box. Then another girl, her hands were gross and manly, and her breasts were shrivelled like pancakes, another girl they used for sexual play and made fun of her mustache.
Alright, that's a few of the examples..
What would you do with that info? Would it create insecurities within you wondering what they think inside or would you wonder if they would speak of you that way if things ended, as well?
Just curious how you process things like that. I know how I do..
Wouldn't like it.
Like... at all
This is not a decent way of thinking about anyone, this for me would be a warning (scorpio gut feeling) where I would distance myself a bit and assess that person, sometimes people have a tendency to blab and say things that to them wouldn't be offensive but to other people it's a different story. So the main thing that would matter if the situation is that I'm inlove or he's my boyfriend or fiancé, is to see his intentions how does he treat you or other people, has he done or said something that may have caused u to rethink why you fell for him. Also when someone's comfortable with a person or they trust you, they tend to speak their inner thoughts more easily, but depends person to person.
Question.. I want to know if you think of things this way or not.
Ok, let's say you're dating/engaged or married to someone and you hear them criticize women they have dated or strangers but primarily their exes.
Let's give some examples: they say their ex has the most beautiful face but her body was jacked bc she was shaped like a box. Then another girl, her hands were gross and manly, and her breasts were shrivelled like pancakes, another girl they used for sexual play and made fun of her mustache.
Alright, that's a few of the examples..
What would you do with that info? Would it create insecurities within you wondering what they think inside or would you wonder if they would speak of you that way if things ended, as well?
Just curious how you process things like that. I know how I do..
This happens to me often.
Not just men but people will gossip about their friends or lovers.
If they talk to me about them, they will talk to them about me.
But what if you didn't hear this or see this until you fell in love or got married?
It's a pretty bad character trait.
They're going to bash you to their family, friends, anyone who will listen to make themselves feel better about their own actions or looks.
You'll see it sometimes on dxp where women will come in here and bash another looks all over a guy.
Men do this shit too believe it or not. I've seen it happen starting with me being on the receiving end of it. I've walked by crowds of men got stared at hard as a rock and heard gossips about me having a girly face with a big man's body. It happens and everybody of all genders gossips.
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Question.. I want to know if you think of things this way or not.
Ok, let's say you're dating/engaged or married to someone and you hear them criticize women they have dated or strangers but primarily their exes.
Let's give some examples: they say their ex has the most beautiful face but her body was jacked bc she was shaped like a box. Then another girl, her hands were gross and manly, and her breasts were shrivelled like pancakes, another girl they used for sexual play and made fun of her mustache.
Alright, that's a few of the examples..
What would you do with that info? Would it create insecurities within you wondering what they think inside or would you wonder if they would speak of you that way if things ended, as well?
Just curious how you process things like that. I know how I do..