Scorpios do you believe there is only one person .

Is there only one person for each one of us... our other half so to say... and it is a matter of luck to find that person. ... and that there are people who never find that?

I totally agree with you DB. that bubble bursted for me a couple of months ago when i actually broke up (not my decision) with a person I thought was my soulmate and was ready to spent the rest of my life with. But i had this decision recently with another person and it made me think that it might just be the dissappointment of my break-up that made me change my mind about the whole "soulmate-idea" ... I was wondering if there is any general arguments for and against that and on what you can base the fact that there is not one and only onle soulmate for each one of us.... Are you basing your belief just on your experiences?

There won't be hard facts on this...there isn't much hard facts on most things...people will use references that can be challenged in its own structure. No one can claim a right or wrong. It's a matter of their own experiences and understandings that will make them lean one way or the other...

I thought so as well... It was nice living the soulmate fairy-tale.. once it is over and you hit reality.. things and beliefs change!! 😢

What signs ( fire , water, earth or air) are most likely to believe in the soulmate idea? (if it is of course likely that different elements influence that)..

Leos, scorps, aries, or geminis (all males) ? which one is the most likely to believe that?

lol...I would say scorpio...we believe it hard!

BUT YOU DON'T.....
It is actually a conversation with a scorp that i had that made me think things over again... He was absolutely convinced that there is only one soulmate for each person... and that some of us may never find it...

Btw DB i just checked the gem board...CONGRATULATIONS!!!! 😉

I have to say though this scorp says the exact opposite things of what is said on those boards about scorps... Scorps are supposed to be very secretive... he is not that secretive at all.... (he has stated that as well)... he says he is never jealous... (scorps are supposed to jealous) ... when asked if he has ever been in love he said "maybe not" at first ..now he says he was... Scorps are not supposed to get easily scared by relationships ... they seek to find that one person that makes them happy.... He says when the relationship lasts over one year.. he wants to break up because he is afraid that the relationship will get too serious... and he doesn't want to get married. Scorps are supposed to want to get married eventually.... He said he would be unhappy in a marriage because he gets bored easily if he sees the same woman every single day.... After a couple of days he says he wants to get married definetely after 33.... Very conflicting things!!! i am starting to wonder if he is not a typical scorp... or maybe he is just messing with my mind..lol!!

the only thing matching a scorp description is that he said that he pays attention to every little detail of a person's behaviour and that he reads people very easily... and that is why he has never got hurt... and that is why it will be very difficult for anyone to hurt him...

haha...no scorpio i knew ever actually admitting to being jealous....you can just tell ..for me anyway

juicy u look gorgeous in ur Pink top 🙂

Undergrad,
From my experiences with Scorp men, I don't know any one of them that have or ever will admit to being jealous. For them, jealousy = weakness, this is a vulnerability...so they will not admit to it. Just pay attention to how he acts, and you will know whether yours is or not.

You have made this comment before undergrad...and I have to say, I don't think I will comment anymore on this scorpio...lol...But I will have to say...ONE MORE TIME...not all scorpios are the same...it depends on each chart...there are common characteristics, however, which is due to the scorpio sun.

I know DB... it was just strange how different he is ...anyway I was not waiting for a comment ...you know i was pointing out the differences... 😉 🙂 Anyway at the moment we are just hanging out sometimes ...so I am not that worried about what he thinks about us etc etc... Bottom line is => it is so much easier to make friends nowadays than work on a relationship 😉

AWWW THANKS ELIZA HUNNI! YOUR GORGEOUS TO IN YOUR PICS!!

"I know DB... it was just strange how different he is ...anyway I was not waiting for a comment ...you know i was pointing out the differences..."

lol...spoken like a true leo


Haaaa!!! I knew you would comment on that.... (couldn't let that go... just like a true SCORP!!!) lol

But don't scorpios fall in & out of love fast? I read that somewhere & that makes me nervous. I'm considering moving for a new life & also to carry on life with the scorp I love. He said he thot I was the one, and I can't help but allow my taurus paranoia come in that he can't possibly know already!

So scorpio how real are you? 😛

hello shortyrock...
I agree with what you posted...

Thank you kindly, DB! 🙂
Since we're on the topic of "the one", this brings me to a question that maybe you can answer, DB (or other Scorps for that matter)...
Can Scorp men feel when a girl is "the one" when they have sex with her? This is assuming that they are very sexually compatible. The reason I ask this is because my Scorp asked me if I feel when a guy is "the one" when I have sex with him. The reason I think he asked me this is because HE believes that. I could be wrong....any ideas?

"Sex has a great emotional connection...This passionate moment could make a scorpio feel like he is in love with you...but this feeling won't last long, and the scorpio will eventually begin to question his emotions. In general, a scorpio loves passion. We can make sex very intense, but this is our nature...not necessarily 'love'...This kinda goes with the scorpio's ability to FAKE passion...a partner may feel like her scorpio is in love with her b/c of the passion of the sex."

Thanks, DB! You are grrrrrreat at explaining things!!! I agree...sex is a strong emotional connection, and I never thought of a man being "the one" because he was great in bed! Which is why I found it perplexing when he asked me that....from our conversations, I can tell he's a Scorp that believes in "the one," the concept of soulmates. Not to get too personal here, but during the act there is such a strong connection b/t us; I can tell the way he looks at me that he's feeling the same thing I am. I can't explain it...it's very intense, almost like we are having out of body experiences, as weird as that may sound. The one time when he asked me that question the sex was so powerful....which may have triggered his question about "the one." I just found it curious. I'm now wondering if it's because of what you said...maybe the passionate moment = total bliss at the moment.

You Scorpios and your mysteries! LOL!!!!!!

You Scorpios and your mysteries. LOL!!!!!!!

OMG...u've just thrown a cog in the works...cos like i do...I did...I dunno anymore...

Getting deeper and deeper into my spiritualism...i find that twin souls can come in many shapes and forms...best friends...siblings...parents...children and of course lovers and partners...so like i am in a catch 22 situation!

I do believe in fate and destiny...but like wow gob-smacked!

Yummy, I would like to know more about twin souls. What is some good educational reading on it? Thanks!!!

Yes, so do I! Can you say more on the subject?! I find it very interesting.

JP...where have you beeeeeeeeeeeeen? How are you? laying off the alcohol I hope 😉

Ok Twin Souls...I am new to the entire concept myself...

I Googled the following and found some interesting reading!

"Twin Souls"; "Twin Flame"; "Karmic Partners"

Good luck! Keep me posted!

mwah

At this time...yes I do...and i def. hope I find that one person.
In the future...I may think different...who knows..
all i know is now...all the scorpios I know seem to believe that firmly...so i guess it depends on the experence you have

DB, have I ever told you how much I love you? I envy you in the fact you know the path you are taking right now. My path is still very forked and I'm getting a headache trying to decide on right, left, north, or south. As far as one person, no, I don't believe in that. This big, beautiful world is filled with so many people. I know tons of people in my zip code. But what about Japan? Italy? England? What if there are soulmates, or twin flames, all over? Spending your life trying to find that one soulmate is a fruitless effort. I do believe that there are many people that we are more in tune to be compatable with. We don't always end up with "the one true person". We just try to be as compatable as possible to make the relationship work.

Are you trying to tell me you would pick down? 🙂

I agree with you on the point of making a decision. Life is about decisions. If you don't like the first one you made, make another. Scorpios are about change. You don't like the life you live? Make another. I hate it when people bitch about their job. GO FIND ANOTHER!!! Life is about decisions. There are so many roads to take in life. Travel them all if you have to! There is not one "soulmate" for us. There is not one path to follow. There is life to live and experience. Go find a life and a person to share your life with, period!

us....shut the fuck up...