Do Scorps F with People's Minds/Hearts??

I Know you like to find loyalty and truth in someone. Do you though, try to mess with someones heart and maybe make them want you when you are only playing a game? I've heard all over the boards that you mean what you say. Do you really? Or will you mess with someone's heart just to f*ck them up emotionally? Input please—

No reason at all... I'm really simple but stupid sometimes...let my heart rule my head. Just wondering can you answer the original question? Would you do that? Lead someone on just to see if you could?

Is this a question too hard to answer— Did I hit some depth of forbidden knowledge? Are you guys so openly honest but inwardly secret that no one is alowed to penetrate the scorp shell...Hell I just want some honest response...don't want to try to dig tooo deep....

not just words DB but touching too.

Did I offend? Why coffee—

oh i apologize-didn't know you read that

Just flirted to all ends and then I asked her if she was interested and she said no.

Depends..if I dislike the person then I could easily do that without any remorse but generaly I don't make a habit of playing with peoples hearts. Don't like it done to me so wouldn't do it to anyone...I have had this friend for about 4 years..He's cancer..he's been wanting to get into my g-strings for 4 years..he said I tease him..but I don't think I ever did..bloody cancerians..such wusses..

What is there to do? If you read my post then you realize I was good to this person and then they came at me and then said no when I asked. Was I used and abused? Or was somebody scared sh*tless that love was staring them in the face— Can scorps be that way? I mean why lead me if you are being truthful? Then say no?? I don't get it

Ok you guys so I'm a Virgo.... don't play with this tho it's serious to me. She asked to stay at my place, invited me over etc... but it never happened. Circumstances. Called me up ALL the time for hours we talked. Called me every night she was in the bathtub..letting me know she was in the bathtub...WHAAAAAT ISSSS GOINGGG ONNNNN—

Lol @ DB..the cappy has told me he has a soft spot for me...thats right baby..reeeeeeeeeeeeeel them in!..lol..No, I have a lot of respect for him..as and when it happens I am sure he'll be having a lot more than just g-strings on his bedroom floor 😉. I wouldn't ever mess him around, he means a lot to me as a friend..we are taking things reeeeeeeeally slowly..

PWhitton - what is it that this girl has done to you? you don't say anywhere..unless I am missing something..To tell you the truth, the minute I think somethings getting serious, I do start freaking out..its like I love the chase but once the goal is accomplished, its like..right moving on..But I am good now..and don't go for this passionate starts to relationships..thats what messes up!..cos passion dies out then your left with this empty feeling..not nice..been there, done that, got the t-shirt.

Just before christmas we exchanged presents and she introduced me to her son. She brought her pregnant daughter over tomy house and told me how much her daughter liked me. We had that "EYE" contact that keeps flashing up in my memory. WHY DID SHE BACK DOWN— Should I have waited for her to make the first move?

Hmmm..I don't like the sound of this chick. I think any man in your position would think she wanted something more. But I would suggest not responding to her calls or just being your brilliant sarcastic virgo self..next time she calls you from the bathtub and tells you "she's in the bathtub"..just say "and your telling me this because?"..just be a little arsy back..don't be so godamn nice to her..she'll walk all over you!

Miss M this was anything but jus some kind of lust thing. She said her and her daughter would help me with putting up christmas decorations...she wanted to teach me how to bake a certain pie....on and on this one went on about the things we could do together. I bit the bait and she ran.....can't figure why?

DB..far as I know she never did lie to me or deceive me..problem is I can't prove it!!! Drives me nuts.. If I knew that I could let it go Not someone I love to hate...someone who made me interested and ran

Yes DB is right!..Fiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight (as bling would say). We do like a challenge..The more you get us to the point of tearing our hair out..the more we like you..Weird..

I like Virgo's..I have a Virgo rising and I am quite proud of that..Remember with Scorpios..you get the saints & sinners..I am of course the saint 😉 but tread carefully with your scorp friend..she may just be a sinner..not to scare you off or anything..just don't be so "available"..

I haven't communicated in three months...can't help but think of it tho.. It was like we were so damn compatible in every way but never got close before she ran...I'm beside myself with the perplexity. Why flatter me and spend Sooooooooooo many hours with me?? Just WHY??

Ssshh DB..don't be starting malicious rumours!..lol

PWhitton..you aren't to blame here..try not thinking about it. If she likes you, she'll be back. I think it was unfair what she did..but maybe she needed an ego boost or something and you did that for her. I would just carry on with your life now..I am sure she'll be back if she liked you or you meant something to her. How long had you known her, where did you meet?

Met in very strange circumstances..... really stange. I'll have to talk about it later as I have to go. But by the way..can't just go there 'cause I got involved with someone when she said no. I'm in deep Sh*t emotionally. Thank you so much...both of you. I have more to tell but...another time....you guys have a wonderful weekend. LOL

DB.Don't quickly judge w/out facts. If I call or goo over I'm hurting the person I'm With....Don't want that road either

Don't get soft on me missy - PAH!..As if DB..
I think if someone teased me that much and said no, I would have their guts for garters..

That's the way I feel...Guts for Garters....Thanks

Hahahaha...Man I love this board sometimes...

God if I could just have a seconf life and do that to you missy...I'd like to see who wears who...

What is this I hear? a challenge..brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrring it on

Hey SB..the cooooooolest Cap I know!

"Yes DB is right!..Fiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight (as bling would say). We do like a challenge..The more you get us to the point of tearing our hair out..the more we like you..Weird.."

So true - But not so weird when you really think it through, right?

And my answer to the original question would be Yes, sometimes, when we're not being in the least bit considerate.

OOHHHH...PWhitton...I see now...

"flirted to all ends and then asked her out she said no"

This is a typical trait with many of Scorp females I know (including myself)...we tend to love the flirting but many times don't realize we are sending a wrong message...

I am very guilty of that myself....she didn't do it intentionally

Break me in so many ways..DB..I think you underestimate me..Remember I am a scorpion lady..I know your plans before they've even been hatched..lets not start a fight..I do like at this point.

SB...The cap is just fine thanks..He told me he had a soft spot for me, after our meeting..but at this stage in his life he doesn't want to ruin a terrific friendship..so now that we have both told each other that we like each other..we are gonna take our time about it..I know he wouldn't say those things if he didn't mean them..he would die of guilt if he did..I am very fond of him yes, but at the same time, don't want to rush into anythng and ruin a good friendship as he quite rightly said..Nah he's not judgemental..we shall see what goes on..

Right Elliot..how are you poppet? where you beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen?

I've been good MM. This next week I'm going to Mexico and Texas, but I'll still try and drop by here cuz I like you guys.

You made a good point before though, I notice Scorps are drawn to folks whether they can touch them for the better or touch them for the worse. Guess Scorpios just love touching and being touched.

Come on scorps answer the man seriously.

Its deffinately a 50/50 split you know as well as i do the scorpios are vindictive and love nothing more then to play head games especially scorpio girls! But hey scorp men do it too.

Your best bet is to make her jealous, jealousy is something that scorpions dont do well with. Make yourself unavalable and then watch her play into it scorp girls are way more jealous the scorp men. But just so you know she will play you and just so you know she will win, she will win so be prepared to lose. Your best bet is to not date this girl and forget about it. Scorpios love to attain things that they dont or shouldn't have so unless she really wants you its not going to work, you cant make a scorpio fall in love.

On the other hand when scorpios fall in love its a rediculas situation the are hopelessly devoted and that secret shroud that scorpions wear will dissapear revealing what can only be hopeless devotion she will love you forever and will confide in you things that are so special that you will be the only one that knows. A scorpios love is funny they will either love to make you love them or love you for loving them hence the 50/50 avoid the ones that see you as a something to won, the domineering personality does have a dark side i know i played the same trivial games in the pursuit of things that should not have been mine but now that i have found a love that loves me i have left that behind me. I guess what im trying to say is make her love you first and love her in return.

I don't know if we are even capable of loving 100% ..Not sure..some are..But Bittenbyscorpio seems to know what she's talking about..Jealousy is our worst trait..but then we can hide it extremely well too!..If she doesn't really like you in that way then I don't think making her jealous will work to be honest.

Good luck on your travels Elliot..Have a wonderful time..Send us a postcard won't you!..lol..

Thanks for all ur comments. I wasn't with anyone tho till she said no. It's not like I was with somebody. All the time the flirting was going on I was single. I really think she was just trying to see if she could get me interested and then when she did, game was over. I think it's cruel. I also think that it had to be deliberate and not innocent MissM. How you innocently provoke someone for months without "Realizing" it— I only became involved w/someone though after she said she wasn't interested. It makes me scared of Scorps. I thought they meant what they said.

And to Bittenbyscoprs...I really thought there was something there because believe me I could barley get any work done w/out my cell phone ringing..She called me ALLLL the time, and texted me all the time. Also let me in on all her personal stuff I mean DEEP personal stuff, like being suicidal on occassions and much much more.

And to Bittenbyscoprs...I really thought there was something there because believe me I could barley get any work done w/out my cell phone ringing..She called me ALLLL the time, and texted me all the time. Also let me in on all her personal stuff I mean DEEP personal stuff, like being suicidal on occassions and much much more.

oops posted that twice sorry

Then I think she played you..but she must have a reason for it..there is always a reason behind someones actions..I still stand by what I said..maybe she needed an ego boost..maybe at that time, she needed to feel wanted..

Sometimes however, we don't realise we are actually flirting..I think we are just made that way..Still doesn't excuse what she did..but I would find out from her if you want to know..

Maybe I can do that if I can beleive the answer. I appreciate you're advice. If she needed an ego boost she sure got one. I'm glad tho that I didn't get mixed with someone who boost their ego at the expense of someone elses. Maybe I just got a hold of the dark side. Love you guys..thanks

I've been dealing with a scorpio male and for more than 6 months, flirting, etc. He keeps leading me and as soon as I starting giving , he ignores me. When I ignore him, he comes running.
I also don't understand these games. If you like someone and find a response, let's see if it works, if not why lead them on?
Maybe it's an ego boost like mentioned (or that's what I'm starting to believe is my case).

Hi Bestwoman...I just wondered from your point of view do you see youself hanging on to the hope of this situation or getting too tired of the games to try anymore?

Personal Note: Im A guy miss morals

Back to the subject
"Im Kind of scared of scorpios"

be scared, lol were pretty messed up as a group we really cant stand each other. If you were to put a bunch of scorpios in a room together they probably all wouldn't make it out alive. But seriously scorps are HARD to be with, emotionally but when you crack one such as my girlfriend has it is amazing the love you will get in return. Which is why im going to have to disagree with miss morals again scorps can love 100% and i think that deep down they really want, no need that in their life.

By the way if she told you things like she was suicidal and other really deep things like that and then went cold on you she as either A, lying to see the suck you farther into he masscarade or B, really in love with you and REALIZED that and decided that she isn't ready for that deep a commitment, and because i dont know said chick i couldn't tell you if shes the drama queen type, or a love struck sissy. I'd say its a 50/50 split and because you know her better then us obviously ask your self this question. Does she cause un-needed drama in the lives of others then sit back and watch the puppets fight.

OFF WITH HER HEAD!!

typical scorpio comment.
embrace it juicy

I have never known her to be a Drama Queen but..there's alot I don't know. Just called me out of the blue yesterday. Haven't heard from her in months. Said we had a special "bond" and that she was feeling she needed to call me on a certain subject. We really do have something that clicks on the psychic level, weird..like sometimes we "feel" each others thoughts. Just thought it strange to call after so long. Said for me to keep in touch cause she cared about me. I guess I'm just reading too much into a friendship thing or something. Too confusing for me. I like stuff straight-forward.

ph you gotta be a virgo because the way your anaylzing this reminds me too much of my girlfriend.

Can you believe it my virgo girlfriends going to be a psychologist, what an odd turn of events

typical scorpio comment.
embrace it juicy

i'm a taurus/gemini cusp..lol

MM you are funny.

PWHITON

I don't lead people on nor do I play with there hearts, now I will see where there mind is I call it boggling the mind, (ha ha ha)and I do that because I want to see how intellegent they are, where there head is, maturity, and by me being a thinker, I like to question some people off guard and ask them some way out question that they would least expect me to say.

The people in my life know me they understand me, and they know my personality I am brutally honest when I have to be, I don't like to be pushed into being that way but sometimes you have tell it like it is.

Love, I never play with love. NEVER Love is to important and I value it. If I say I love you I really do, I might not be in love with you but I do Love you and my actions will show it.

I hope that answers your question.

Thanks-glad to hear you don't play with love SL and yeah I'm an analyzer ....can't help it Bitten.

Yep one should never play with anyones feelings..I don't do it cos I don't like it done to me..