Scorpios silent in sex?

I miss my on-hiatus Scorp and I was remembering how quiet he was in bed whereas I was screaming and moaning all over the place, which seemed to get him hot. I remember reading somewhere that the best way to seduce a Scorpio was by not using words - I'm fucking it up, but I can't find where I read it anymore - and that most Scorpios are almost completely silent during the act. I remember a couple times we had phone sex and I couldn't tell when he'd, um, finished, because I couldn't hear anything except heavy breathing. Is this typical of Scorpio guys? Of Scorpio women?

"whereas I was screaming and moaning all over the place,"

LOL...yeah, I literally bring the house down. He just smiles with satisfaction.

silence = boredom

talk to me...swear at me...use me.......

The quiet moaners and heavy breathers are a turn off. Clenching up and riding it out in silence doesnt do it for me. I wanna hear and feel you, knowing we accomplished something together 😉

That is the Virgo style

My old gf used to live in the upstairs apartment of a house. The lady renting the downstairs was a screamer! She'd go through a dry spell for awhile, then all of a sudden start bringing her latest hump home at night. We'd entertain ourselves with glasses placed on the floor and our ears pressed against them to amplify the sound! She'd be moaning for a half hour or so.

Honestly, and this is the Virgo side of me speaking, I always had issues with letting go while over at that apartment if the neighbor was home. I couldnt get over knowing that she could just as easily listen in on us as well as we could her. In fact, I was sleeping over one night, and my gf left for work in the morning, and I slept in. I assumed that the downstairs neighbor had also left for work. So I non-chalantly let one rip, and I heard her double over in hysterics directly below the bedroom. She must have been sitting there in silence reading the paper or some such thing and heard it loud and clear. Mortified I was....

by 'let one rip', I was not referring to an orgasm.....

Wait, what? I probably did get one in with the girl before she left assuming that the neighbor was not around 😉

The convo between you two went to 'lost in translation' it seems...

I know what TB meant.

F*A*R*T: there I spelled it out for FA

LOL, your orgasm has left you in a daze it seems 😛

I gotcha. 🙂

A scorpio will let you hear them moan when they want you to hear them moan.

Its up to them.

Sometimes they do it when they aren't even having intercourse!

Hearts of gold!

I don't think it is out of left field.

The person who posted this was talking about a male scorpio of whom she just entered a relationship with. I would assume he is still testing the waters. There are times when it can be a control/safe thing.

Same goes for the women of this sign. Its up to them. Obviously i'm generalizing, but I think that anyone who enters this or any other forum about astrology understands we are making blanket statements about the sun signs.

OH wooopss

This guy is "on-hiatus"....even more of a reason to try to keep control.

I don't think it is about earning. As SG said " depending on how SAFE they FEEL they are".

You don't understand it because that idea has never crossed your mind. That is why you are an aries. A RAM not a water bug.

I totally understand this concept. Sort of like second nature. Don't diss it because you don't understand it, Just accept as is. As something different from you.

Yeah, kick them. You may get some noise!

Isn't the reason we are here to talk about the sun sign and how to get him to make noise?

Again, don't diss it because it is foreign to you, that to me is a sign of ignorance. You can't even accept an opinion of something you don't understand.

"Sex is about being vulnerable and open...and as an Aries, I understand that. I don't think a person should give of their bodies if they aren't really ready to give of their hearts at the same time or they aren't at least prepared for some exposure and vulnerability. If you can't be open during sex, then when else can you be open?? I mean really, it's just going too far."

I agree with you. I didn't say hiatus scorp was ready to be vulnerable. Obviously he isn't! HIATUS!

Now I do see where you are coming from. I was referring to the scorpios who aren't in that position yet, of being ready and vulnerable. Thank you for clarifying.

Both my parents are scorpios....

I'm Eternally damaged!

They were both grey lizzards.

Then one of them decided to rise.....

That parent has been happy ever since. But moved on to another scorpio!!!

The other one is crazy. Grey lizzard.


My girlfriend is a scorp too.

Most of my friends are cancers and pisces.

I like mature caps, but I guess that goes for any sign!

The immature are for entertainment!

Just talk to him during sex. Ask him how it feels.

What's the problem?

I don't do sounds, like a turned on radio but, screams of passion "escape" from me, like a guitar played.

lol, yes. Thanks. 🙂

I got the impression too that Scorps are silent lovers Scorpio girls can be nonchalant and quite.

Scorpio vibration is also slow all night long and then a sudden climax after uhhhh so much pent up energy.

Very typical types are like its a control issue but I don't know if typical types like to show a lot of noises but at night in the bedroom in the dark I think that Scorpios are mostly letloose this is the one time or one place when they really let out. But the quietness is just another form of control probably related to self centeredness and well the good thing is concentration power which is good for both the partners I don't know for certain as I;m not a Scorpio sun but I don't think that Scorps mind if their partners make noise but typical Scorpio types don't let out like that bekorxk most of the time they are concentrating. Scorpios are cold man even th girls, I was at Walgreens yesterday and I saw this 6'1 Scorpio with a hot bod and she was show casing all her curves! but the whole time man she was totally ambivalent to any attention Scorpio girls can be like this dress provoc show all the curves but be completely disconneted from their blatant sex appeal. They are rigid and ambivalent like that I smiled at this one and then she pretends to talk on her cell I should have just gone straight up to her and asked if I could keep her number. The contradiction is that Scorpio will survey their surrondings and Zero in on any one they like.

My Scorp talks to be a lot in bed. He loves hearing me moan.

Sometimes I wanna beat the crap out of him because it's so good.

After I had the baby I have been a major horn ball.