Whimsy
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Scorps and Suckin' Friends
That's the way I picture Scorps- if you're great at reading people it seems like you'd be great at choosing friends wisely.
The title really drew me to this thread....lol....
(other than that I have no comment)
I noticed the double meaning after I had written the title, but I left it because it was amusing!
Haha 🙂
lol @ the title. Whimsy, you married me 😛 I am also a scorpio boar. I think that in some cases this is true.. my 'best' friend didn't come to my birthday.. (I forgave her because she saved my ass in nursing school when my DV ex was stressing me out so bad I couldn't get my work done) and then what she did with the Libra/Sco. One other friend did some really shitty things to me also, that was a long time ago.. When it comes to friends, I am usually a very good judge of character. Not so much with potential mates.. I seem to suck at that like you wouldn't believe.
I don't know what it is with him. He gives people infinite chances to redeem themselves and lets himself get disappointed over and over. Do you, as a boar, find yourself being way too nice to people? I'm a boar, too, and I sure do.
Posted by brianafay
The title really drew me to this thread....lol....
lol, i kinda perked up a little when i saw it too
Whimsy, it's because Scorpios don't really know how to make friends, and for this reason is why they constantly lose friends. Some Scorps have long-lasting friendships .. but, this is primarily due to the other person overlooking the Scorpio need to have numbers.
To a Scorpio, their definition of people in their life (to include their family members) is about drawing a line in the sand, and how many of these people are on their side of the line. Whoever is on their side, they like .. whoever is on the other side, is their enemy.
So, naturally, if a Scorpio only has a person in their life because this person is a number to them ... then the Scorp never really made that connection with them in the first place.
Hope that helps you to understand why he fails at making friends.
To a Scorpio, their definition of people in their life (to include their family members) is about drawing a line in the sand, and how many of these people are on their side of the line. Whoever is on their side, they like .. whoever is on the other side, is their enemy.
So, naturally, if a Scorpio only has a person in their life because this person is a number to them ... then the Scorp never really made that connection with them in the first place.
Hope that helps you to understand why he fails at making friends.
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