HopelessRomanticArian
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Seeking Scorpio Female Guidance to Confused Aries
PLOT: Met on a social network. Developed rapid very close SPECIAL FRIEND status, to lover talk...over chats and emails...phone call was planned after Scorpio gets Blackberry replacement...where both feels they will go with the flow..Both absolutely adored each other. Scorpio encouraged, welcome Aries intensity of feelings and honesty. Aries sent her first half of birthday gift, Scorpio taken back to tears because it touched her to her core. She considers in a short time, and she doesn't understand what this is all about because all signs are there and her level of interest is picky and Aries is the only one who "truly gets her" and same with Aries. Second bday package showed up to Scorpio with a very deep PROSE Aries wrote. Without a word or warning, Scorpio blocks her from the social network. Aries wrote to her how confused she was of the block. Then Scorpio unblocks but doesn't re-add. Then Aries leaves a status comment on a mutual friend that has nothing to do with Scorpio (she is trying to gain favor with this mutual friend, but Aries cannot help it if she got power pull because of her position in life and that person "bows" to Aries)...Scorpio BLOCKS Aries again.
WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON WITH SCORPIO FEMALE—!! HELP! I AM VERY VERY VERY CONFUSED. How can Scorpio do this when I don't see any evidence of drawing the line somewhere?
I emailed her this:
Sending this to your yahoo account in the double hopes of getting read. I'm still not sure how to interpret the disconnection between what we have been sharing or where I thought we were versus the obvious de-friending or blocking. It's caused me to send this email that tried to explain where I'm coming from while still for the most part reflecting how hurt and upset I instinctively became, (and) which I still kind of am, and I apologize...........It's an immediate reaction from someone scared also of being hurt given the intense level of I shared with you.
Unable to disbelieve or deny appreciation of your sincerity, friendship, time, love, from lightness to intensity, sweet thoughtful messages and poetry and all, while feathered by (and more importantly) my own love for you, I just can't help but worry and think about scenarios to explain the disconnection -- from you getting blackmailed to do this, evil people maybe from my enemies influencing you, or fear and what not to explain this.........Whatever it is you're going through, whatever was so hard to share with me at the mome
WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON WITH SCORPIO FEMALE—!! HELP! I AM VERY VERY VERY CONFUSED. How can Scorpio do this when I don't see any evidence of drawing the line somewhere?
I emailed her this:
Sending this to your yahoo account in the double hopes of getting read. I'm still not sure how to interpret the disconnection between what we have been sharing or where I thought we were versus the obvious de-friending or blocking. It's caused me to send this email that tried to explain where I'm coming from while still for the most part reflecting how hurt and upset I instinctively became, (and) which I still kind of am, and I apologize...........It's an immediate reaction from someone scared also of being hurt given the intense level of I shared with you.
Unable to disbelieve or deny appreciation of your sincerity, friendship, time, love, from lightness to intensity, sweet thoughtful messages and poetry and all, while feathered by (and more importantly) my own love for you, I just can't help but worry and think about scenarios to explain the disconnection -- from you getting blackmailed to do this, evil people maybe from my enemies influencing you, or fear and what not to explain this.........Whatever it is you're going through, whatever was so hard to share with me at the mome
Unable to disbelieve or deny appreciation of your sincerity, friendship, time, love, from lightness to intensity, sweet thoughtful messages and poetry and all, while feathered by (and more importantly) my own love for you, I just can't help but worry and think about scenarios to explain the disconnection -- from you getting blackmailed to do this, evil people maybe from my enemies influencing you, or fear and what not to explain this.........Whatever it is you're going through, whatever was so hard to share with me at the moment that the only way was to block me, trust I will still be here, to talk, care, love you like that hard-to-find-special-friend too that I can never thank the universe of too much, for being mine.
In Love, Hope and Contemplation,
XXXX
In Love, Hope and Contemplation,
XXXX
My psychoanalysis of this, she seems...
Psychologically reactive. Flirts for ego gratification. Commitment shy. Scared by my strong messages. Immature - runs and hides when threatened - flight response to stress. A control freak - she wants to control the level of interaction in the relationship. Limited unblock (well, not anymore) = doesnt burn her bridges but intimacy level controlled by her.
Psychologically reactive. Flirts for ego gratification. Commitment shy. Scared by my strong messages. Immature - runs and hides when threatened - flight response to stress. A control freak - she wants to control the level of interaction in the relationship. Limited unblock (well, not anymore) = doesnt burn her bridges but intimacy level controlled by her.
she and i "said" we see it beyond the online...we actually made vacation plans. she is just an hour flight from me...I am in high finance and she is a celeb. so...i know we are both "real"...this is what bothered me...because the presents were sent directly to her parents house. we exchanged our numbers, even mobile. so that part were real. it is beyond "online"
The SPECIAL STATS came after the first gift...which made her cry...she is in the same exclusive circles as I am. I am not as "hurt" as you think I am. I am pretty stable about it 🙂 I just need to understand...what went on...it is just so unlike her character...she is doing a movie and I am dealing with some heavy duty governmental stuff, so the writing emails, Skype chats, social network stuff were convenient. It is not all that cyber as you think it is. Something else...
I have found that women who have usually dated only men before can be slightly fickle when dealing with the full lesbian... and there is no offence to be taken from that statement🙂
It just seems like a case of her completely changing her mind about the whole thing and backing off either because it got too full-on for her... or , she just needed to take some steps back and work it out...(but, the former feels more of the case)
Interestingly enough ,, if it were a male, I would say that the chances are he is in his scorp cave, and will emerge in due course... but its not, and she may not...
either way, she seems to have made it clear that shes not participating right now, and Id probably make steps to let it go instead of trying to work out why, as most of the time in these circumstances, people will only really explain their motives when they themselves come to grips with them ..., and even then its pushing butter uphill to get an honest answer out of people these days...(especially in the type of circles you run with)
give it time 🙂 but dont wait around..., I wish you luck,...
It just seems like a case of her completely changing her mind about the whole thing and backing off either because it got too full-on for her... or , she just needed to take some steps back and work it out...(but, the former feels more of the case)
Interestingly enough ,, if it were a male, I would say that the chances are he is in his scorp cave, and will emerge in due course... but its not, and she may not...
either way, she seems to have made it clear that shes not participating right now, and Id probably make steps to let it go instead of trying to work out why, as most of the time in these circumstances, people will only really explain their motives when they themselves come to grips with them ..., and even then its pushing butter uphill to get an honest answer out of people these days...(especially in the type of circles you run with)
give it time 🙂 but dont wait around..., I wish you luck,...
Thanks guys...funny EVERYONE of my closest tells me it is a TIME thing...that this Scorpio found her match and she is overwhelmed...I actually still feel her...2 days ago...I woke up and felt her...and when I logged on the social network, she "liked" a status comment of a mutual friend and it was the exact time I woke up...then at 11pm...I felt a surge of "I MISS YOU" waves overwhelm me...and I cried for 20 minutes or so...and it left...
In my heart of hearts, i don't sense a "disconnection". I do feel she went into some hibernation that she described before...I know the problem is not me...it is her...because she feels something and she may not know how to handle this on top of all the pressures she is in. I just refuse to believe this is how it ends...when she told me I am the only one who truly gets her (and she gets me). Too much signs.
Scorpio-chic...I don't think I am the person she will really want to f*ck with because of my influence in her industry, as I am friends with many of the movers and shakers...and can make or break her career by clicking on a speed dial...so it was never about the money, material influence, etc...we both know, i can find her in Timbuktu. She understands my circles...so I truly feel this is a FEELING issue of whether she wants me for commitment or not...
I am told...that I possibly triggered something...and got to her core...that as a Scorpio made her terrified...because I really can read her life mail...I guess I am deeper than her 🙂 I am 35 with an old soul...i have many 80-90+ yr old best friends.
In my heart of hearts, i don't sense a "disconnection". I do feel she went into some hibernation that she described before...I know the problem is not me...it is her...because she feels something and she may not know how to handle this on top of all the pressures she is in. I just refuse to believe this is how it ends...when she told me I am the only one who truly gets her (and she gets me). Too much signs.
Scorpio-chic...I don't think I am the person she will really want to f*ck with because of my influence in her industry, as I am friends with many of the movers and shakers...and can make or break her career by clicking on a speed dial...so it was never about the money, material influence, etc...we both know, i can find her in Timbuktu. She understands my circles...so I truly feel this is a FEELING issue of whether she wants me for commitment or not...
I am told...that I possibly triggered something...and got to her core...that as a Scorpio made her terrified...because I really can read her life mail...I guess I am deeper than her 🙂 I am 35 with an old soul...i have many 80-90+ yr old best friends.
Oops, sorry Fall&Rise...yes, I came out in 2005, but had female "action and love" before...but full on relationship in 2005 for 2+ yrs (semi-engaged status too)...long distance too...we met in a social network...and became gfs 3 months before we even met...but we spent a lot of chats, emails and phone calls...it was tough because she was still in school and I was all over the place...we were physically together for 2 months in our entire 2+ yr relationship...but as devoted lover, i even wrote her handwritten love notes...she was the one who cheated...but in tons of regret because she said that of all the relationships she's had...i seem to be the most present and closest to her no matter where I am in the world compared to a current relationship she has where they are only 30 minutes apart. She missed my passion and devotion.
Scorpio Female and I planned a vacation...to see raw beauty of the world...but as time progressed...we just "developed" this connection in our exchanges far beyond our dreams...since this is soulmate category...we both know it...she is supposed to do a Mt. Kilimanjaro climb and dragging me to do it for her charity...
Scorpio Female and I planned a vacation...to see raw beauty of the world...but as time progressed...we just "developed" this connection in our exchanges far beyond our dreams...since this is soulmate category...we both know it...she is supposed to do a Mt. Kilimanjaro climb and dragging me to do it for her charity...
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Scorpio-chic...I don't think I am the person she will really want to f*ck with because of my influence in her industry, as I am friends with many of the movers and shakers...and can make or break her career by clicking on a speed dial...so it was never about the money, material influence, etc...we both know, i can find her in Timbuktu. She understands my circles...so I truly feel this is a FEELING issue of whether she wants me for commitment or not...
"I could make or break your career"... do people still say stuff like that ??
In my defense and the situation...because it seems...some of you think this is just a cyber-fling...this is 2 REAL PEOPLE in the KNOW and CIRCLES. I do not think she purposely "played"...She knows...that if I really want to, I can show up in front of her house...but I am not a stalker...I am giving her space...I am coming now to a conclusion that I just triggered some insecurity buttons...
....but no...I love this woman...I will never hurt her...and therefore, I don't think there were any malice in this...I think she is just going through something she cannot tell me...
the purpose of this thread is to understand WHY a Scorpio would react to someone "deep" that they crave for...
she admittedly, that I am the only person to EVER get her wavelength...and she admitted that she "gets" me too...which I also confirmed to her...
PLEASE...do not take things out of context.
....but no...I love this woman...I will never hurt her...and therefore, I don't think there were any malice in this...I think she is just going through something she cannot tell me...
the purpose of this thread is to understand WHY a Scorpio would react to someone "deep" that they crave for...
she admittedly, that I am the only person to EVER get her wavelength...and she admitted that she "gets" me too...which I also confirmed to her...
PLEASE...do not take things out of context.
Morrissey...YES...I am the person a lot of people fear to piss off...but THAT is not the point of any of this...I am just pointing a fact that I believe is not in the equation of this "separation". Let us just say...that for the movies she auditions for...those same filmmakers come to me to make those movies happen...THAT is just want I meant...SHE knows my influence...again...I am just giving you some perspective that this is not some childish game where we used fake chat names in an unknown chatrooms...we both have all our personal photos...numbers to my office, her agents...etc etc etc...THIS IS A REAL CONNECTION between Scorpio and I...So I am asking you to PLEASE analyze it from that point.
Posted by HopelessRomanticArian
PLEASE...do not take things out of context.
A real connection can exist between two people who clean toilets, and I would show just as much respect, in fact moreso, because I dont get this 'im famous so im special' routine... It wouldnt matter if you were madonna,,. I wouldnt care.
People dont care about fame like they used to,, they are starting to realise that 'people are people' as depeche mode would say... and no different to anyone else...
But I guess thats your world,. and who am I to judge. ,, I guess I just did though didnt I !🙂
Nevertheless...to save you the heartache, I would try to keep on an even keel with this one, and not get your hopes up as disappointment can be quite annoying. When I have been in similar circumstances, I often put myself in the realm that I dont really care what the outcome is. I try to just get on with my life as if it is not even happening, and not expect anything at all. That way, even the smallest thing is a bonus 🙂
Believe me...while she has become the center of my universe...she is not my universe...I am VERY sane about this LOL. I could just be an arse and say yes to all the other offers...
YES...I think we can all agree...TIME is my friend...
and yes...she is getting space from me...I have not emailed nor called...even though I know she got her blackberry back (her people reported to me, lol...and NO, I didn't ask...they just did...because her agent knows WHO I am...guess to make sure that the bridge is not burned...and I am not planning anything evil...I love her).
Trust me...I am being a good girl...and I will wait for her to shake it off...because...this was bad behavior...and the least she owes me is an apology. So I know she will contact me again...I think this is what she told me before about her hibernation periods...
But I am an Aries...LOL
YES...I think we can all agree...TIME is my friend...
and yes...she is getting space from me...I have not emailed nor called...even though I know she got her blackberry back (her people reported to me, lol...and NO, I didn't ask...they just did...because her agent knows WHO I am...guess to make sure that the bridge is not burned...and I am not planning anything evil...I love her).
Trust me...I am being a good girl...and I will wait for her to shake it off...because...this was bad behavior...and the least she owes me is an apology. So I know she will contact me again...I think this is what she told me before about her hibernation periods...
But I am an Aries...LOL
SHE gave me her parents and her home address to send her anything personal...I asked for her office! She insisted to send it to her house!
Geez, Scorpio-chic! It was mentioned IN THE BEGINNING of this thread WHERE I sent this bday gift! She was the one who instructed me to do so!
Geez, Scorpio-chic! It was mentioned IN THE BEGINNING of this thread WHERE I sent this bday gift! She was the one who instructed me to do so!
ok...so it is a Scorpion's way to just...break it off with no warning? i would think people are better raised...and just come out and say "I am sorry but the feeling not mutual."
FYI: She has been hurt 2x by men, she doesn't trust men...she does have walls...when she says "I feel it is so special how we treat other, you truly get me and I get you...and I do have walls, but I have never encountered someone like you...I love talking to you...I feel like I have known you all my life...so I don't know what this is...but it is lovely...I am not scared of this...you say whatever you feel because you have the most special way...you make me so emotional, speechless...your words are so 'magical', and you have such a way that it makes me cry...so beautiful...and I feel so close to you...even closer than my own best friend...i really do believe we were meant and destined to meet, like a special sacred artifact...it takes a lot to interest me, but you grabbed and shocked me to the extent of whether I am dreaming...because...i truly 'feel' you...I instantly recognized your wonderful qualities and I love how you love my smouldering qualities and believe in me...I see that you see what I see in all your photo albums...i see life and passion in your eyes...and you always know how to calm me down...i truly see you as an angel...and i am not a player...i am only truth or I die inside...you are so special to me...and I think you are beautiful inside and out..."---- plus getting lovey dovey pet names of course...
and her emails were very lover talk...then she gets my bday present and PROSE...then BOOM!
I mean, come on! Wouldn't you wonder what the heck happened? It was just so abrupt. In the same week, she blocks (defriended)...then unblocks...then blocks herself from my profile. NO EXPLANATIONS...But here is an interesting thing...She didn't do the same thing to another site where she added me.
I am grown person, and her being 26, she could have used her mouth and say "let us just be friends" if she didn't want me. I told her before I sent that bday that i really like her....when we had that chat about how she feels about me...she equated or in fact, have put me on an elevated status than all the men she's met. She encouraged me all the way...and was talking in the same romantic wavelength.
FYI: She has been hurt 2x by men, she doesn't trust men...she does have walls...when she says "I feel it is so special how we treat other, you truly get me and I get you...and I do have walls, but I have never encountered someone like you...I love talking to you...I feel like I have known you all my life...so I don't know what this is...but it is lovely...I am not scared of this...you say whatever you feel because you have the most special way...you make me so emotional, speechless...your words are so 'magical', and you have such a way that it makes me cry...so beautiful...and I feel so close to you...even closer than my own best friend...i really do believe we were meant and destined to meet, like a special sacred artifact...it takes a lot to interest me, but you grabbed and shocked me to the extent of whether I am dreaming...because...i truly 'feel' you...I instantly recognized your wonderful qualities and I love how you love my smouldering qualities and believe in me...I see that you see what I see in all your photo albums...i see life and passion in your eyes...and you always know how to calm me down...i truly see you as an angel...and i am not a player...i am only truth or I die inside...you are so special to me...and I think you are beautiful inside and out..."---- plus getting lovey dovey pet names of course...
and her emails were very lover talk...then she gets my bday present and PROSE...then BOOM!
I mean, come on! Wouldn't you wonder what the heck happened? It was just so abrupt. In the same week, she blocks (defriended)...then unblocks...then blocks herself from my profile. NO EXPLANATIONS...But here is an interesting thing...She didn't do the same thing to another site where she added me.
I am grown person, and her being 26, she could have used her mouth and say "let us just be friends" if she didn't want me. I told her before I sent that bday that i really like her....when we had that chat about how she feels about me...she equated or in fact, have put me on an elevated status than all the men she's met. She encouraged me all the way...and was talking in the same romantic wavelength.
Has anyone considered that the woman has minor intimacy issues? She suffered from PANIC/ANXIETY ATTACKS when she was 21. She said she managed to heal from that...and just have mild attacks. Her father really hurt her during that time...
All I am saying...my other friends think I may have pushed buttons...and maybe since she is "naked" to me, and this is just going so well...she is self-sabotaging. I knew when I was at her age, I did that.
All I am saying...my other friends think I may have pushed buttons...and maybe since she is "naked" to me, and this is just going so well...she is self-sabotaging. I knew when I was at her age, I did that.
I do feel that she did say some sweet things. and that makes it all the harder,, but look at her 'actions' because these are telling you what she is really saying, without having to say it...
The gifts:
a 10 yr old 7 Habits of Highly Effective People...I have an extra copy for some reason neer even had the inspiration to give to my ex fianc?. given to me the SAME AGE as she was when before I entered the halls of the United Nations Security Council by my mentor...(no, I didn't realized until later that I was 25 also when I got it)...put some deep message in that to follow her dreams, reach for the stars, if she ends up in the moon, to give me a holla and I will be waiting with extra oxygen tank...and when she gets to the edge of a cliff, I will be there waiting to push her off the ledge so we don't waste flight time.
Ernest Hemingway's notebook replica to jot down her soul transformations during this new chapter of her life, getting past the quarter life crisis
Book light you pin on the book
Parker pen that hangs on your neck
Moose bookmark
Moose stuff toy--have something to do where I grew up...and turns out she had a modeling gig there recently same time I came back and we just crossed paths (which was a BINGO for me as far as signs go)
Viking Ship necklace to remind her to conquer everything in front of her
Zirconium sparkling heart shaped keychain with the name of the country I am in the middle of it (this is where she mentioned she has been there, and wrote the EXACT NAME of the city I am in too)
Special cup soups since she is on major diet
Berry toddies rich in Vitamin C since she is so stressed and very COLD where she is lately
a cozy blanket she can cuddle up while she watches all her movies as symbol of me holding her because she loves being hugged and I love giving them
a shell ornament of a butterfly from the Orient, handmade to remind her that she is in a cocoon right now, and I see her as a butterfly, so she needs to be patient with her career, etc etc
tiny worry dolls from Guatemala because she worries too much
Angora and special knitted pink socks
Hand warmer you use trekking travels
a purse hanger she can put next to a table whenever she goes out so she doesn't put the purse on the floor...I incorporated this in the symbolic letter (extra from the scroll) saying to never allow herself go beneath her core values and never let her foot touch the grimy influences of the entertainment industry...to stay above it regardless of what the media throws at her, esp when it is lies. that i see thru her beauty inside and to remind her that I will uphold that through all the noise.
a 10 yr old 7 Habits of Highly Effective People...I have an extra copy for some reason neer even had the inspiration to give to my ex fianc?. given to me the SAME AGE as she was when before I entered the halls of the United Nations Security Council by my mentor...(no, I didn't realized until later that I was 25 also when I got it)...put some deep message in that to follow her dreams, reach for the stars, if she ends up in the moon, to give me a holla and I will be waiting with extra oxygen tank...and when she gets to the edge of a cliff, I will be there waiting to push her off the ledge so we don't waste flight time.
Ernest Hemingway's notebook replica to jot down her soul transformations during this new chapter of her life, getting past the quarter life crisis
Book light you pin on the book
Parker pen that hangs on your neck
Moose bookmark
Moose stuff toy--have something to do where I grew up...and turns out she had a modeling gig there recently same time I came back and we just crossed paths (which was a BINGO for me as far as signs go)
Viking Ship necklace to remind her to conquer everything in front of her
Zirconium sparkling heart shaped keychain with the name of the country I am in the middle of it (this is where she mentioned she has been there, and wrote the EXACT NAME of the city I am in too)
Special cup soups since she is on major diet
Berry toddies rich in Vitamin C since she is so stressed and very COLD where she is lately
a cozy blanket she can cuddle up while she watches all her movies as symbol of me holding her because she loves being hugged and I love giving them
a shell ornament of a butterfly from the Orient, handmade to remind her that she is in a cocoon right now, and I see her as a butterfly, so she needs to be patient with her career, etc etc
tiny worry dolls from Guatemala because she worries too much
Angora and special knitted pink socks
Hand warmer you use trekking travels
a purse hanger she can put next to a table whenever she goes out so she doesn't put the purse on the floor...I incorporated this in the symbolic letter (extra from the scroll) saying to never allow herself go beneath her core values and never let her foot touch the grimy influences of the entertainment industry...to stay above it regardless of what the media throws at her, esp when it is lies. that i see thru her beauty inside and to remind her that I will uphold that through all the noise.
No offense or harm that was overkill. I stop reading it. And if I received all that I would have to take a step back to obsorb it all and decide if this is really what I want.
SHE WROTE ME A SHORT EMAIL 3 hrs ago...(take it in, Scorpio-chic)
"sorry
my behaviour has been wrong.
your parcel was so sweet and all your messages, ive been stressed and blocked out things in my life, i didnt mean it! it all got a bit much, im so busy at the moment, was feeling guilty i couldnt reply and sustain your messages as lots going on,
your a great girl and im sorry for causing you confusion, im at a confused time in my life and its no offence to you.
please forgive this behaviour."
I felt she was writing me today...and she did...
Happy Thanksgiving if any of you are Americans, by the way...
"sorry
my behaviour has been wrong.
your parcel was so sweet and all your messages, ive been stressed and blocked out things in my life, i didnt mean it! it all got a bit much, im so busy at the moment, was feeling guilty i couldnt reply and sustain your messages as lots going on,
your a great girl and im sorry for causing you confusion, im at a confused time in my life and its no offence to you.
please forgive this behaviour."
I felt she was writing me today...and she did...
Happy Thanksgiving if any of you are Americans, by the way...
I was about to say what Scorp_C has just said , but in a different way...
the feelings I get from 'your' lllooooooooonnng poems, LoL and writings,. and and the feelings from 'her' short prose, and even email are telling me that she is being polite, and wants a close friendship with you... but I dont think she is ready for anything deeper than that. Strangly enough it seems like you are the scorp and she is the arie.... there doesnt seem to be a 'depth' in her feelings that match yours for her... and this can be troublesome as I am sure that you have already fantasised her into your life...
thanx for sharing your writings anyway... I know what its like when you really feel for somebody and that emotion of desire can lead you to believe all sorts of things, and read into things that are not there... (we have all been there Im sure!)...My advise to you, if you may, would be tread very carefully around this one..., I wouldnt suggest a continuation of your past prose... but more of an 'open door' strategy. You are there if she wants to take steps towards some kind of close relationships... but you are not going to initiate anything right now..., she has to do the initiating, and if she does.. then you have your answer 🙂
the feelings I get from 'your' lllooooooooonnng poems, LoL and writings,. and and the feelings from 'her' short prose, and even email are telling me that she is being polite, and wants a close friendship with you... but I dont think she is ready for anything deeper than that. Strangly enough it seems like you are the scorp and she is the arie.... there doesnt seem to be a 'depth' in her feelings that match yours for her... and this can be troublesome as I am sure that you have already fantasised her into your life...
thanx for sharing your writings anyway... I know what its like when you really feel for somebody and that emotion of desire can lead you to believe all sorts of things, and read into things that are not there... (we have all been there Im sure!)...My advise to you, if you may, would be tread very carefully around this one..., I wouldnt suggest a continuation of your past prose... but more of an 'open door' strategy. You are there if she wants to take steps towards some kind of close relationships... but you are not going to initiate anything right now..., she has to do the initiating, and if she does.. then you have your answer 🙂
I know I have to tread careful on this one. Thank you. You are right, I feel like I am the Scorpio LOL. Scorpio_chic, I really don't think I did too much "getting ahead of myself" because I have shown it to my STRAIGHT girls and guys and they all definitely think she is/was into me. But, we all can agree, we cannot predict the future and God knows when you are in a Quarter Life Crisis. I also sense that she has a difficult time accessing the depth she needs because of the past relationships she's had. Both treated her crappy. One ended up in some Rihanna stuff, if you get my drift. I can console myself in the fact that for the first time she was treated with respect, admiration and love from someone who is not after her for anything.
So...let me make you all proud that my response to her short email is this (we are both Star Wars freak) and I made sure it is light, because I sense something in her email:
Greetings Princess Leia Organa!
Happy Life Day!
A great leap forward often requires taking two steps back. Destroy the Siths, you must. Fail, you won't. So powerful, you are.
There is no need for guilt. But I accept your apology if your human flesh needs it.
I feel your pains, your loneliness, your sadness, your confusion, your pressures, your stress, your heart every single day and day (and wow, your brain is noisy!) that it is become my burden. I don't like how you are feeling because you are hurting inside, it makes me cry. My people have officially nicknamed me CUCKOO BOSS because I have been in a phunk and have taken 20 minute breaks of crying session and composure. Do you know banging your head on a wall makes you lose 150 calories? 😉
I am here carrying you -- caring and loving you from the distance. I am very much aware and have a good view in the spirit. I am so aware that my physical body is hurting too. I feel you so much that I can draw a map of your brain. Everyday when I wake, when the feelings come and before I go to sleep, I send all the energies and Angels I can muster to you.
Fulfill your destiny. Be good against the living and the Wookies.
O Chosen One to balance all Galaxies with me, wait indefinite with the Force, I will??_because I love you.
May the Force be with you.
Your Kryptonian Jedi,
Yoda
So...let me make you all proud that my response to her short email is this (we are both Star Wars freak) and I made sure it is light, because I sense something in her email:
Greetings Princess Leia Organa!
Happy Life Day!
A great leap forward often requires taking two steps back. Destroy the Siths, you must. Fail, you won't. So powerful, you are.
There is no need for guilt. But I accept your apology if your human flesh needs it.
I feel your pains, your loneliness, your sadness, your confusion, your pressures, your stress, your heart every single day and day (and wow, your brain is noisy!) that it is become my burden. I don't like how you are feeling because you are hurting inside, it makes me cry. My people have officially nicknamed me CUCKOO BOSS because I have been in a phunk and have taken 20 minute breaks of crying session and composure. Do you know banging your head on a wall makes you lose 150 calories? 😉
I am here carrying you -- caring and loving you from the distance. I am very much aware and have a good view in the spirit. I am so aware that my physical body is hurting too. I feel you so much that I can draw a map of your brain. Everyday when I wake, when the feelings come and before I go to sleep, I send all the energies and Angels I can muster to you.
Fulfill your destiny. Be good against the living and the Wookies.
O Chosen One to balance all Galaxies with me, wait indefinite with the Force, I will??_because I love you.
May the Force be with you.
Your Kryptonian Jedi,
Yoda
Oh and guys, I don't want to sound weird here...HER AND I both do not want commitments right now because we are so into our careers...All I am after is the love. LOL. I have stopped dating like most people do since I think it is pointless. I just use my cunning interviewing skills. I know what I want and need in my life now that I am able to size up someone from 5-20 minutes.
I know her head is not on commitments. Mine neither.
It does hurt me that I am the only one she could talk to and she can't right now, because I am the topic. I wish she knows that she can talk to me and I am fine if she just wants friendship. That is love. You let them go. But at the core of our relationship is real solid intimate friendship and I value the fact that she feels closer to me than her own best friends. She is the same with me.
My plan here...is to wait...and you are right, when she does come back, then I will have my answer.
Definitely will let you know how this story pans out.
I know her head is not on commitments. Mine neither.
It does hurt me that I am the only one she could talk to and she can't right now, because I am the topic. I wish she knows that she can talk to me and I am fine if she just wants friendship. That is love. You let them go. But at the core of our relationship is real solid intimate friendship and I value the fact that she feels closer to me than her own best friends. She is the same with me.
My plan here...is to wait...and you are right, when she does come back, then I will have my answer.
Definitely will let you know how this story pans out.
AND...she unblocked me again...and she is back on Skype...good signs to start at least. I am giving her space. Don't worry, Scorpios. This Arian respects that and not just bangs the doors. But thank you very much for everyone's input. I used this medium because we can all learn from our mistakes and use it for wisdom.
My apologies if you thought I was quarreling with you...guess the Arian steam. But no, I am grateful. Thank you for listening to this little drama. I must admit, I have been such an overachiever all my life that the romantic relationship part, ie. relationship is rare. I dated and was a player. But only had 1 that I truly allowed in my heart and she ripped my soul.
So...this is where Scorpio and I also understand each other. Again, there were too many things she said to me over live chats and emails that I don't think it was all platonic. What I do know...she doesn't know what to call us...and I am not really into labels either.
My apologies if you thought I was quarreling with you...guess the Arian steam. But no, I am grateful. Thank you for listening to this little drama. I must admit, I have been such an overachiever all my life that the romantic relationship part, ie. relationship is rare. I dated and was a player. But only had 1 that I truly allowed in my heart and she ripped my soul.
So...this is where Scorpio and I also understand each other. Again, there were too many things she said to me over live chats and emails that I don't think it was all platonic. What I do know...she doesn't know what to call us...and I am not really into labels either.
LoL... I thought that email you sent was a tad full-on, to put it mildly,.. but never mind..., its done now..
Look... everyone has been hurt... I thought that people had 'stopped' using that excuse as a tree-up... its so tired... "Ive been hurt before"... well join the other 600000 billion people on the planet then..., (or how ever many people there are)...
Funny.. I like the way you write here much better than the way you write to her... its just lighter and more fun; Especially the way you say, "I dont want a commitment right now, all I want is the love".... lol I like that!
I know what you mean about not wanting a relationship because of your career... and you have probably been told this before, but if you meet the 'right' kind of person, then it will work..., it will flow.. career or not. We cant let our careers rule our lives because they are not even a tiny particle of what we are and why we are here... they are our money orientated gig... easy to let them take over, but I feel that we should always strive for a balance... (thats the libran in me 🙂)
Look... everyone has been hurt... I thought that people had 'stopped' using that excuse as a tree-up... its so tired... "Ive been hurt before"... well join the other 600000 billion people on the planet then..., (or how ever many people there are)...
Funny.. I like the way you write here much better than the way you write to her... its just lighter and more fun; Especially the way you say, "I dont want a commitment right now, all I want is the love".... lol I like that!
I know what you mean about not wanting a relationship because of your career... and you have probably been told this before, but if you meet the 'right' kind of person, then it will work..., it will flow.. career or not. We cant let our careers rule our lives because they are not even a tiny particle of what we are and why we are here... they are our money orientated gig... easy to let them take over, but I feel that we should always strive for a balance... (thats the libran in me 🙂)
I do agree...that when Ms. Right comes, it should flow...this is why I said what I said, "I just want love"...and go from there. I didn't ask her to be my gf. In fact, when the time is right, I just want to get on the courtship. No need for dating esp when I already know her darn "soul" and life issues lol. Why go to the mundane coffee meet? I do that for business and need 5-10 minutes to check on synergy.
Why not just go straight on vacation like we (my Scorpio and I) planned and hang out like best friends. That is just how I roll, why spend nonsense time. I am a business person. I size up competitions and colleagues every single day (castrate some, lol).
She has amazing qualities...unfortunately, at this point, my closest friends think her behavior is bipolar. Goodness. BLOCKS...then UNBLOCKS...then BLOCKS...then UNBLOCKS...I still love her though. I wish someone would get a damn manual how to understand women. I seriously think I was born in the wrong body because I think like a man...I am somewhat disconnected.
I strategize and if there were poll numbers, data generated stuff about her...in my line of work I could get psychological profile, or even request from her government...so tempting...but that would be wrong in my personal religion of LOVE. LOL. I am beginning to seriously think whether I should just let my handlers find me my wife...have them submit folders for my review...and they screen, etc. Even make a reality series later. ROFL!
So tempting...but I am such a hopeless romantic...I cannot go to a dinner date and say, "Well, Ms. So and So. Thank you for coming. I like your dossier. You pass all the sane requirements that I need in my life. Shall we move on to the next phase of meeting your parents?"
Love sucks.
Why not just go straight on vacation like we (my Scorpio and I) planned and hang out like best friends. That is just how I roll, why spend nonsense time. I am a business person. I size up competitions and colleagues every single day (castrate some, lol).
She has amazing qualities...unfortunately, at this point, my closest friends think her behavior is bipolar. Goodness. BLOCKS...then UNBLOCKS...then BLOCKS...then UNBLOCKS...I still love her though. I wish someone would get a damn manual how to understand women. I seriously think I was born in the wrong body because I think like a man...I am somewhat disconnected.
I strategize and if there were poll numbers, data generated stuff about her...in my line of work I could get psychological profile, or even request from her government...so tempting...but that would be wrong in my personal religion of LOVE. LOL. I am beginning to seriously think whether I should just let my handlers find me my wife...have them submit folders for my review...and they screen, etc. Even make a reality series later. ROFL!
So tempting...but I am such a hopeless romantic...I cannot go to a dinner date and say, "Well, Ms. So and So. Thank you for coming. I like your dossier. You pass all the sane requirements that I need in my life. Shall we move on to the next phase of meeting your parents?"
Love sucks.
F&R ... these people are my CEOs and personal advisors. They are already in the pay roll...all they will need to do is coordinate and plan strategies just like any business ventures we do...have the HRA LOVE HUNT BLUEPRINT so to speak...they want to do this as precaution and preparation...should I decide to run for high office...in the next few years...they want to make sure I have the right partner next to me...I know...almost sound robotic...but as far as amount goes...there is no limit...if I say yes...all I need to do is sit back and be on the receiving end. All will be handled....
@Emerald Gem FYI: I wasn't "BANG"-ing on Scorpio_chic. I believe I have thanked and appreciated everyone for the generosity of their time (you may want to scroll back in that message and soak it in). You also need to lighten up. I have been honest here...and my apologies if you also don't get the humor added...this is my world. Not my fault you don't understand. BUT be civil and not be vindictive.
My apologies for misunderstanding what you mean, Emeraldgem. Too much going on when I typed that. No, I misunderstood your usage of BANG. Gets confusing when you are multi-lingual and have your day filled with multi-lingual and multicultural dealings. But there is wisdom in everything everyone on you have said. I am taking it all with a grain of salt.
Bottom line I am learning from you all: SIT BACK, LET TIME PASS, and SEE.
Thank you again for your input.
Bottom line I am learning from you all: SIT BACK, LET TIME PASS, and SEE.
Thank you again for your input.
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