Should I let my guard down?

So i broke up with this scorpio almost 3 weeks ago. since then, he has texted me twice. saying he's very angry with me (I ignored it) and another one saying that he'll just come over, which I answered back saying not to come.

My question is this, now I am contantly looking around to see if he's stalking me. Havent' seen or heard from him now but I am still looking over my shoulder.
I want to let my guard down and not worry. Sex was awesome, and neither of us could have enough of eachother in the bed. But that's not enough for me to be with him; I want love. So, I have not called him. However, I have a feeling that I'll hear from him again. When I do, I will stand firm.

Question is when can I know that he won't contact me for sure so that I dont' fret about it anymore

when he finds someone new, or miraclly grows up and go on with his life ,although he seems not the mature type.
You said you wanted love..so what made you be with him in first place.

haha, I guess I gave the impression that i want to be stalked.. no, here's why i was fretting.. he said to me many many times that there's no way I can get rid of him. he said that I'll have to say no to him for months and months before he takes that to be my final answer. That's why I was fretting.

No, i dont want to be stalked.

Hyno, I'll be honest, it was purely physical attraction that brought us together. We both knew that as we had talked about that many times. But he has a side that was very hurtful.. like ignornig my B"day, valentine's day and say "oh i didnt know it was important. I promise to do somthing big for this and that" and again he'll raise my hops only to crash it. - the reason this was important was because he kept saying tht he loved me deeply. Yet when it came to showing it, he was colder than ice and very hurtful. So I realized tht I was the only one getting emotionally involved and would keep getting hurt. so I broke it off.

lke ignornig my B"day, valentine's day and say "oh i didnt know it was important.







I don't blame you Aries.

Just live your life and don't return his calls. If does end up stalking you, it will likely be from the shadows.

Aries, it is true that he will probably continue to contact you for awhile until HE SEES HOW SERIOUS you are. Scorp men like controlling every aspect of a situations whether he is serious about you or not. Taking that control from him makes him want to fight for it back. So he will try unless you continue to stick to your guns and he will finally leave you alone.

Very True - you don't ignore an ARies woman! I hated that and was very angry.

so, now, I haven't heard from him since the 29th. but something tells me that i should expect calls anyway.
I will continue to ignore

Get somebody big to kick his ass

haha..i like you already PPG..now go make me a cup of tea.