Snoopy Scorpio mom

I am 25 years old and everytime I return home for vacation, my mom snoops through my bag and personal belongings. She knows I keep diaries and has read most of them when I'm not about. I actually had to take them with me to work because she would attempt to read them. I have confronted her about it and she claims that she is only in my room because either, a) she was looking for something, or b) she is straightening things out. Of course she won't admit the real reason why she's in my stuff. This has been going on since I was a teenager and it doesn't seem to stop. I'm glad I don't live in her home anymore. My dad doesn't do these things.

Do you Scorpio women snoop? I have read that all Scorpios do. The Scorp I'm interested in (yes, the professor) took my cell phone and eavestdroped on my conversations. My mom does it too. What's the deal? Is this a form of control?

You know thats one thing I've never experienced with Scorpio women and I know a lot of them. The ones I know respect peoples privacy. You really should have a serious discussion about this with your mother.

''You know thats one thing I've never experienced with Scorpio women and I know a lot of them. The ones I know respect peoples privacy. ''

I always respect other people's privacy too.

I don't think your mother trusts you....

It's not about my mother not trusting me. As stated above, I am 25 years old and live on the other side of the Atlantic Ocean and do not rely on my parents for economic support. It's just that every time I go back home, she has to snoop. And everytime she comes to my apartment, she does it behind my back. I have about 8 diaries which I have kept since I was 13 and still do. She read most of them and knows all about my private life (even the very intimate details about me and the professor!) Of course she won't tell me "don't do this" openly, but I know she knows because she indirectly mentions things I said in my diaries and I also see that my stuff is rearanged.

I have to be careful every time she visits. I actually hide my sex toys and all that stuff in a box and put it in my friend's room so she won't see it.

LOL. Maybe she thinks you stuff your condoms in the stuffed animals......🙂🙂

My mom has Virgo rising and Jupiter in Virgo. It may have to do with Virgo influences, but I've seen other Scorpios behave this way.......behind my back!

''I actually hide my sex toys and all that stuff in a box and put it in my friend's room so she won't see it.''

Exactly! I bet she has an inkling that her daughter is a filthy hoodrat...

and she is right! She just needs proof for confirmation.

what would you expect me to do? Leave the sex toys out in plain sight? I do have cleaning service in my apartment as well. Can you imagine the maid finding my rabbit face up on the desk?

I don't pry. One thing I can say, no one has ever complained about me being nosey. And I damn sure don't snoop.


If I want you to respect my privacy, then I will offer you the same courtesy. If you choose to share, I consider it an honor to be deemed trustworthy. No pressure from me.

i understand how u feel lotus..my Ma did the same to us

read diaries... opened letters without consent,any sort... confidential ones...business letters, bank statements, cellphone bills everything.... and she did not put them back into the envelopes, as though it was a noble thing to do

she checked the personal belongings...bags pda cellphones and the list goes on.
when confronted calmly, she Proudly said...not asked but said. . . y cant i



i have Many scorp friends who dont do that n really respect my privacy..
but i know a few who do