Weird Scorpio Behavior.

I have found in my experience and to my surprise with scorp men. When they do get involved with you sexually. (So it seems and one has told me) that a part of their emotions go with it, if they like you.

I am also told we scorps express our how we feel for others we like via sex more than other ways especially the men. So he might have a bruised ego because he didn't get any and then again he prolly think you are playing games.

well that blows. he coulda waited a week. scorpios need not get their dick in a knot. I dunno i think when he started acting bizarre and throwing out excuses ( IN THE VERY SAME CONVO HE SAYS HE WANTS TO SEE ME?) i think he was just playin head games and probably doing it to like 5 other girls. he seemed interested though? which hurts my feelings. liar jerks.

it was bizarre and bipolar.

i like how you think ms.pisces

I'm with, MsPisces.


Fuggettabouthim

***i will never give up. i just should've remember to never go near scorpios because they aren't refreshing and direct. its fun at first but jeez give it up and move on***

Actually they all aren't that way. Some are very direct. To a fault even.

***Scorpio men are hard to get into a relationship(very picky) but you could win them (a possibility) with sex if it is mind blowing.***

Hmmm. So is that what makes this scorp friend of mine so insane about me? LOL!!!

***If you want a scorpio man you have to be emotionless. Even in love with another man. Tell them: I want you for sex and only..***

Hmmm, this could be true. They are jealous and want to be number one. However, once they do get caught up into you emotionally, they will never want to let you go.

***Punish them (no mercy) when they are bad boys and praise them (prefferably with good sex)when they are good. ****

Pretty good advice. Keeping it challenging seems to always work. You can't give them wht they want all the time, they will get bored.

touche'

how am i pressuring him?

ASR, you know you wanna go. Go and have fun Geeeze.

if he wants to be upfront and not play stupid games then im down, but i dont like being deceived and spending energy to find his true intentions. i honestly have no idea if hes into me or not. it'd be fun if he was, but this isn't my idea of foreplay.

***if he wants to be upfront and not play stupid games then im down, but i dont like being deceived and spending energy to find his true intentions. i honestly have no idea if hes into me or not. it'd be fun if he was, but this isn't my idea of foreplay.***

Have you ever thought about the fact that he just wants to have fun with you and get to know you? Though scorps are serious in RELATIONSHIPS, which clearly the two of you haven't reached that point. We are careful about our choices until we think we know enough about him? Why does he have to want to be in a relationship with you to hang out and have fun? Why does this have to be foreplay? Why can't it be spending time and having fun? Why make it more than what it is because he isn't where you want him to be right now?

because he'll try to hook up with me as usual and i am pretty into him so it'll jeopordize my emotions if i get into it with someone who is " just having fun" and we can't hang out and not talk about hooking up or make-out whatever and if we keep hanging out i'll turn into his little boooty friend

i mean we know each other.. sorta well but not on an intimate level.. we were friends before

"and probably dating other girls"

What makes you think that?

well because of the world of facebook and myspace i see him conversing with other girls and posting pictures of other girls.

"well because of the world of facebook and myspace i see him conversing with other girls and posting pictures of other girls."

That's his weird and twisted way of trying to get a reaction out of you. He knows you have access to his page and thereby will see all that. So in is mind he's wondering "does it bother her?"

I suggest you ask him if he's dating other people or whether the two of you are exclusive (and ask him in person - his eyes won't lie)

As for knowing where you stand, women the world over go through this with most scorpios they start dating. There should be some sort of support group >> The Scorpio Wives and Lovers Support Group. The answer is you'll never know until he's ready to reveal it in his own time.

Even if you ask, if he's not ready, he'll be evasive and if you push, he'll shut down and then you may experience that phenomenon commonly known as "the push". All you can do is go with the flow.

The quickest way to hook him is to not appear interested or keen. Let him do all the chasing while you live your own life. They tend to move quicker that way, in my experience.

***because he'll try to hook up with me as usual and i am pretty into him so it'll jeopordize my emotions if i get into it with someone who is " just having fun" and we can't hang out and not talk about hooking up or make-out whatever and if we keep hanging out i'll turn into his little boooty friend***

Then if you want a serious relationship, tell him and if he isn't ready, move on. It can be hard, trust me, I know.

*** mean he says he likes me, but hes kinda tip-toeing around the issue and probably dating other girls and thats not cool with me.***

Then tell him and walk away. If he really wants you he will come after you and change his behaviour.

***and queen Scorpio says sex is what gets the Scorpios to really start liking you SO I DUNNO WHAT TO DO ✨**

Uhh, there is clearly a misunderstanding here. I may have said, they show their emotions and how they feel about you through sex. They can have sex with emotion, but it can definitely be casual sex. There are so many other factors to help them decide if they want to be with you besides sex. But, if the sex is good and addictive that gives you big points on that level, but it isn't the only thing.

"haha ok will do. he told me to call him though when i wanted to hang out with him... like hes throwing the ball in my court or something."

Right. Here's what to do. DO NOT catch that ball. Just whack it straight back at him. He's probably told every other girl the same thing. But what we're trying to establish here is whether you are THEE girl.

So if you want to know whether you're not just any other girl to him, let him chase you. DO NOT (trust me on this one)...do not contact him first. At least until you've got him hooked.

And you'll know he's hooked when he literally starts trying to take over the world. YOUR world.

***The quickest way to hook him is to not appear interested or keen. Let him do all the chasing while you live your own life. They tend to move quicker that way, in my experience.***

This had to be one of the things that hooked my scorp friend. I keep busy always going doing something. He sometimes sounded jealous when he would ask what I was up to. He remarks, "you are always going or doing something." My response is, "I have this one life and I shall live it the best I can sir." He got a kick out of that. Jealousy but admiration at the same time.

***And you'll know he's hooked when he literally starts trying to take over the world. YOUR world.***

Newbie this couldn't be more true, and for a fellow scorp (female) this could be annoying... grrr. Wants to know everything about you, your life, your schedule, every aspect of your being and he will began to tell you all his business, what he is doing and where he is going, talk about his family, kids a lot if he has any. Sometimes too much information you may not EVEN be interested in, but it can be cute.

^^^ that sounds just about right.

lol, games.

thanks for the advice, i will not do any contacting.

so scorpio called last night just to see how i was doing. and sent me affectionate text messages later in the night. i still dont trust it. lol

so like when scorpio does pursue you should u run away or submit?

"so scorpio called last night just to see how i was doing. and sent me affectionate text messages later in the night. i still dont trust it."

It's fine if you don't trust it. Just as long as you let HIM be the one to contact you first (as you figure him out). Let him chase you.

"so like when scorpio does pursue you should u run away or submit?"

No you DON'T run away !!! LOL. You like the guy remember— We're only trying to find out if he likes you just as much.

All you do is let him chase you so that when he calls be yourself. Sound excited to hear from him (as I'm sure you'd be). If he wants to take you out and you're free, go out. We're not playing hard to get per se. We're just letting him do all the work. (Hard to get is more, he asks you out and you say no even though you're not doing anything)

Cos this is what happens, he starts telling himself, wow she sounds happy to hear from me, she likes going out with me, so why isnt she calling/texting/chasing me— Then in his eyes you become a mystery he wants to solve, he becomes intrigued and before you know it, wham bam, he's all yours. Just as long as you keep that mysterious nature up in new creative ways once you have him.