Question of the Day...Need some GOOD responses!

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by krysrenee7 on Friday, March 7, 2008 and has 16 replies.

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Yeah, that's kind of a hard one, even though there are more options than just cheating and lying. But it's like, if they cheat, atleast that's ONE thing they've lied about. But when someone lies to you, you'll never know HOW much or WHAT ALL they've lied to about (including cheating).

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@Hypnotic_Eyes
19 Years1,000+ Posts

"Yeah, but cheating = lying.. Right Hypno"

Cheating=lying but not the opposite..
Offcourse i don't like for someone to lie on me,but if it happens i won't make a very big deal of it,maybe they have their reasons..i call it small lies.
Sometimes i lie because people ask me questions i don't wanna answer.

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

You guys are all right. I guess it just depends on someone's definetion of secretive. Some might say that being secretive just means protecting their personal business & only telling someone what they WANT them to know (which in all cases is not bad), and others might say that being secretive involves telling someone only what they WANT to know, purposely leaving out things that they know if they told their partner could potential ruin or damage the relationship. So you're right, I guess it just depends on how people see the meaning of secretive

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@Hypnotic_Eyes
19 Years1,000+ Posts

"being secretive involves telling someone only what they WANT to know, purposely leaving out things that they know if they told their partner could potential ruin or damage the relationship"

Being secretive means not telling anything they don't wanna reveal,no matter what the results.
My group in university didn't know my mother is Russian for 2 years.🙂