The only woman I've ever liked in life was Scorpio

Hello everyone,

I write here today because I need some advice I think.

I'm a 23 year old man, the only woman I've ever liked in my life was a scorpio woman, I've really never liked anyone else that much.

So... we used to be friends, she had a boyfriend and I think she somehow knew i really liked her, even though I tried to hide it from her.

So once during a party she asked me who did I like, and I said none, she kept askin until I said I didn't like anyone. She didn't believe me but stopped askin.

So a few days later I felt so stupid for not tellin her and worked up my courage to tell her I really liked her.

She said she didn't know what to say since she had a boyfriend, but she "admired my courage" (and yes, it was amazingly hard for me to tell her "I like you", 'till this day I don't really know why though, maybe I was too stupid then or something)

Things got awkward tho, and she stopped talkin to me. We get separated because we got in different classrooms and stop seeing each other altogether.

Months later she sees my messages on FB trying tor each out for her, contacts me through FB and tells me that she thought I deserved and explanation and that she was in a "sick relationship" with her now ex-BF and she needed time, she didn't know what to do at the time and thats why she stopped talkin to me.

I just told her that she needed to forget about me, that I was sure she would find a good man.

She never replied again.

'till this day I haveen't forgotten her, I was... so tired fighting for her, I had other plans in my life (My career), this was interfering so much (at least that's what I thought at the time).

I never knew if she liked me anyway.

Thanks for actually reading my story if you reached this point lol

Posted by Impulsv
I think she did that's why she needed to back away to get her shit together from her ex boyfriend. She reached out explaining why she did.

But are u here regretting what u told her. U can definately contact n offer up the same explanation
U were t ready n work was interfering .

Not possible, this was long ago.

I'm a med student, so is she. She is doing her internship right now, I haven't finished Med School yet due to problems I had to deal with my family at the time.

It's all good now and I'm right on track.

I don't even know, I don't know if she even liked me, she never told me.

Posted by b1tchcrafts
Sometimes I wonder why people want scorpio so much...

While Sag, leo, and pisces are so glamorous...

Lol

if it makes you feel better I've known/seen beautiful leo and sag women, didn't really got to know them tho

Posted by FrenchKpricorn
I can watch this .Gif for hours, like it was the meaning of life.

Between you and me, you are a cap and I'm a cap,

So...
Go and chase here until she said yes, you will look like a freak the 3 first week then she will start to enter in to your game, nothing to lose.

In fact if you don't do it you will lose your balls and potentially the woman you ever loved.

Oh man, this was long ago

Believe me I tried.

I even looked like a freak she probably thought I was crazy.

That's why we stopped talkin, things got so awkward then

Posted by Infinite8

Posted by b1tchcrafts
I would not recommend op to pursue anything.
To be honest if she was really interested in pursuing anything romantic she would go after you.

I wouldn't. And I'm a Scorp. Especially after his last message to her... that was a downer.

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I didn't know what to answer, she never showed me she liked me before.

sure we were friends, but that was all.

I have no reason to fight for her, she didn't care.

I should grab my guitar, write a nice sad song about this, get myself drunk and then forget about it. Move on.

I'm not a scorpio but y not reach out to her? I feel like you need closure. She can only accept you again or not but you living in a world of what if and doubt will keep torturing you.

Posted by Honeybunniie
I'm not a scorpio but y not reach out to her? I feel like you need closure. She can only accept you again or not but you living in a world of what if and doubt will keep torturing you.

I thought she gave me closure when she stopped talkin to me

Even though she contacted me months later, it was just by accident, she said "WOW I never saw this messages before, Okay I think you deserve an explanation"

I mean, is that even a reason to try and get her again?

I did in the past, I did.

I would do it again but I'm not sure anymore, why?

is a randomly FB message sent from her months later, reason enough?

was she really trying me to get her to pursue her again? maybe she was just being friendly or something

yes, go after her! Make her feel special! You have nothing to loose!
she won't pursue you if you tell her to forget about her.
and if you're not sure try being her friend again first..

as a scorp lady myself i actually never really chased someone at the initial stage. too stubborn and self righteous 😉. I need a man to do the hunting.

"I just told her that she needed to forget about me, that I was sure she would find a good man.
She never replied again.
'till this day I haveen't forgotten her, I was... so tired fighting for her"

the thing i noticed with my ex cap is that he said he was "fighting" for me but i didn't really see it. I need action! Not only words.
My guess is she reached out to you (she could have just ignored your messages, especially after months..) because she cares (not necessarily in a romantic way but at least as a friend), but you kinda blew her off with the "forget about me" line.

Posted by Satorii
Jesus BITCHcrafts, kinda prickly... I'm just sharing my take.

Nothing about how the OP described the Scorp made her come across as a princess and no one is advising that she shouldn't meet him half way.. it never even got to that point, it seems.

And you could be right or wrong about how she feels, but in any event, I think it would ultimately give the OP some peace to follow through and see what happens.

Are you just that concerned about protecting the OP's ego and that's why you're so belittling and discouraging towards him?? Makes perfect sense...

I actually am impressed with everyone suggesting I should pursue her

I mean no disrespect, but this really was long ago (like 2 years ago), she already has another BF lol.

I have moved on, it just didn't happen one way or another.

But I never truly forget, she is and was a memorable woman in my life, that I cannot deny.

I wanted to share my story and see what you people had to say about it.

I'm amused by your answers lol

Posted by b1tchcrafts
Fact of the matter is op is not that confident fantasy man that can sweet talk and get the girl.

Wait what?

Hey you don't even know me or haven't looked at me! how do you know I'm not a confident fantasy man? lol

I'm just kinda aloof and quiet, doing my own thing most of the time.

"I just told her that she needed to forget about me, that I was sure she would find a good man."

This wallowing in romanticized self-pity is so 90's. "I'm sure she would find a good man..." What's that even mean? That you're a bad man and your dick would simply destroy her?!! That you care about her so deeply she's just better off without you.... for some unknown reason?

Posted by enfant_terrible
"I just told her that she needed to forget about me, that I was sure she would find a good man."

This wallowing in romanticized self-pity is so 90's. "I'm sure she would find a good man..." What's that even mean? That you're a bad man and your dick would simply destroy her?!! That you care about her so deeply she's just better off without you.... for some unknown reason?

And what is romantic about that? you're the one seeing it that way.

Not romantic, romantacized. Emo. "You better of without me". Why exactly?! Have you even know her long and well enough to make that statement or are you just putting her on a pedestal?

Posted by tiziani
You told her to forget about you. I don't know how you don't see how simple this is


Maybe you thought she would remember you as the guy that tried sound like he was doing right by her but I agree with enfant, it's corny and as Marquis de Sade said "benevolence is just another sin of pride."

I was not trying to be benevolent or corny, I wanted to forget it all, wanted closure.

What else could I've answered to her?

"Oh yeah well, leave me alone, good bye"

lol

I accept it probably sounds like I'm undeserving of her, maybe wasn't the right choice of words, but that was not the intent.

The fact that she thinks I'm underserving of her or not doesn't faze me.

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Posted by Capricorn808

Posted by tiziani
You told her to forget about you. I don't know how you don't see how simple this is


Maybe you thought she would remember you as the guy that tried sound like he was doing right by her but I agree with enfant, it's corny and as Marquis de Sade said "benevolence is just another sin of pride."

I was not trying to be benevolent or corny, I wanted to forget it all, wanted closure.

What else could I've answered to her?

"Oh yeah well, leave me alone, good bye"

lol

I accept it probably sounds like I'm undeserving of her, maybe wasn't the right choice of words, but that was not the intent.

The fact that she thinks I'm underserving of her or not doesn't faze me.

There were (and are) a hundred better things you could say.

Not focusing on the negative, just saying it's pretty simple to see her again if you want.

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My pride won't let me.

I think I'm more obsessed with her and not in a good way.

It's not love, can't be love.

Don't really know, but I know I've cancer almost everywhere