Perfect match

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Nicole99 on Thursday, March 26, 2015 and has 30 replies.

Best Astrological Match for Cancer

Cancer and Scorpio form a highly compatible relationship due to their emotional depth and mutual understanding. This pairing often experiences strong bonds and shared values, making it one of the most harmonious astrological matches. However, compatibility varies with individual personalities and other chart factors.

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There is no better relationship than a Cancer + Scorpio combo. I have been dating with some other signs, but no way... Scorp knows the best, at least for a Cancer. And this does not make the Scorp the best catch for everyone. I mean it can be entertaining to all the other signs, but achieving that higher level is only working with Cancer / I think Pisces are way too adaptable, and easy sign for Cancer and Scorp too.

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Having been with both a Cancer and a Pisces, I can safely say I wouldn't particulary want either again. I tend to find Cancer males (six I've known personally) rather emotionally manipulative and Pisces are too weak and wishy washy, sweet but not strong enough.

Depends on other placements of course but Cancer is definitely off my list.

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@Nicole99
11 YearsCancer

Well Idk, but my experience is that whenever Scorp tries a relationship out of waterland, they always get hurt and carry that pain. It effects their future relationships, because of all the scars that they collected from other sings, who lets say "dont speak the same languages with them by the end".

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Posted by Damnata

Posted by Nicole99
I think Pisces are way too adaptable, and easy sign for Cancer and Scorp too.

Riiiight..

So easy you had zero clue.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/pisces-man-destroys-me-5389404/

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Yes because it turns out that he regretted it, and trying to climb back. But once you are out, you are out. The biggest conflict between us was that he can not get further in his life... Wishy washy as above said.

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@Stihl46
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Too much drama for this crab man, Scorpio and Cancer isn't the best match, after communicating with some Leo girls they are better suited for a Cancer. I'm not a moody cancer I do have mood swings once in a while but I'm fairly upbeat.

It really seems like Scorpio women are never happy I know 3 of them they have all the same un-happiness nothing makes them happy so they try drag their partner down with them.

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13 Years500+ PostsScorpio

Posted by Nicole99
There is no better relationship than a Cancer + Scorpio combo. I have been dating with some other signs, but no way... Scorp knows the best, at least for a Cancer. And this does not make the Scorp the best catch for everyone. I mean it can be entertaining to all the other signs, but achieving that higher level is only working with Cancer / I think Pisces are way too adaptable, and easy sign for Cancer and Scorp too.

Uh, yea there is.

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Hmmm.... I think they are one of the best true. But as a Cancer woman speaking I wouldn't want a full breed authentic Scorpio again... A Scorpio venus, or something else but full on Scorpio? No thanks. All I'll say is becareful, yes the match can be powerful and sweep you off your feet even right away but you're never seeing the full picture even years later w. a Scorpio. Good luck.

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@Stihl46
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From what I've been reading I don't seem to have the traits some Cancer men have I'm stable, I'm not excessively moody, I'm a June Cancer, my rising is Aquarius, my chart has an even mix of water, fire, earth and a dash of air.

Scorpio woman are like Pandora's box once you open it and see what she is really like there is no closing the box and forgetting what you have seen. Once she has shown you her other side of herself there is no returning back to the public side of her. You better be prepared for what will come at you what you know about women will go out the window contending with a Scorp girl.

I think with a Cancer a Scorpio will gain trust with him quicker than anybody else because we are similar with a few differences.

When they say a Scorpio Cancer relationship is a rollercoaster it is the truth you better stock up on barf bags when the roller coaster starts getting intense. Fuck things can change instantly with a Scorpio woman things can be running along smoothly then she gets un-happy picks a fight with me the roller coaster starts again. I'm tired of her being un-happy in her life and taking it out on me she's jealous that I'm happy my life is successful. I'm tired of the tree trunking roller coaster rides she puts me through and I'm not even her BF she does it to me because we are close.

Out of all my female friends none of them are a rollercoaster ride, I meet this Scorpio girl and the rollercoaster rides started. I'm done with the rides I've walked away from her I need my space away from her.

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11 YearsCancer

I have never heard about Aquarius and scorp relationship, but because both of them are fixed signes, i dont even think that its a nice combination. Too opinionated ppl. would be hard to decide who is going to win in the end of a battle.

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Posted by Infinite8

Posted by Nicole99
I have never heard about Aquarius and scorp relationship, but because both of them are fixed signes, i dont even think that its a nice combination. Too opinionated ppl. would be hard to decide who is going to win in the end of a battle.

Two good friends of mine are this combo and they get along wonderfully.

Don't underestimate the power of two fixed signs... There can be an enormous amount of respect and passion that usually doesn't come out as much with mutual & cardinal.

I cannot genereralize and say that Cancer & Scorpio are the best match. Because it's too general of a statement to be taken seriously. But, I will agree with you in my personal experience that ONE specific cancer male is perfect for this particular Scorp female 😉 My husband is absolutely perfect for me.

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I know, and actually I have friends from almost all of the signs, they are all good to improve your personality, but I definitely believe that I am more understood by Pisces, Scorps and Cancers. According to the descriptions Leos would not be my ppl, but I kinda like to hang around them, they are so energetic.

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Posted by flowingwater

Posted by Stihl46
From what I've been reading I don't seem to have the traits some Cancer men have I'm stable, I'm not excessively moody, I'm a June Cancer, my rising is Aquarius, my chart has an even mix of water, fire, earth and a dash of air.

Scorpio woman are like Pandora's box once you open it and see what she is really like there is no closing the box and forgetting what you have seen. Once she has shown you her other side of herself there is no returning back to the public side of her. You better be prepared for what will come at you what you know about women will go out the window contending with a Scorp girl.

I think with a Cancer a Scorpio will gain trust with him quicker than anybody else because we are similar with a few differences.

When they say a Scorpio Cancer relationship is a rollercoaster it is the truth you better stock up on barf bags when the roller coaster starts getting intense. Fuck things can change instantly with a Scorpio woman things can be running along smoothly then she gets un-happy picks a fight with me the roller coaster starts again. I'm tired of her being un-happy in her life and taking it out on me she's jealous that I'm happy my life is successful. I'm tired of the tree trunking roller coaster rides she puts me through and I'm not even her BF she does it to me because we are close.

Out of all my female friends none of them are a rollercoaster ride, I meet this Scorpio girl and the rollercoaster rides started. I'm done with the rides I've walked away from her I need my space away from her.

aww
Scorpio men are roller coasters as well. Only, I care to ride the Ferris wheel when he's tempting the "Ride of Hell" lol usually I do my own thing and that's where the fights start.

It pisses them off like no other, aquas do the "Cincinnati shuffle" he tells her right, she goes left.

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I don't bat for the other team so I don't know what Scorpio men are like I've been told they are moody just like a woman scorpio.

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Cancer guys or this cancer guy has had experience with an Aqua girl they do have an allure to them I can say they are feisty but there are things about them that would drive me nuts. Would a long term relationship happen nope.

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From the Cancer side, I agree with Nicole.

I always said that Scorp and Cap women are the best match for the Cancer men, not sure about the opposite sex though, but from my own experience and from what I have seen, they make the perfect couple.

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Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by Infinite8

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Posted by flowingwater
It's a lot more common than you think because opposites attract. It's an intense energy that can not be explained only by those two signs involved.

Both Aqua and scorp have to be evolved to create a mututal relationship. This becomes a disaster if both parties are immature and not ready to compromise because it can be difficult. If they do work out substantially, it's an awesome power couple and great things can be achieved together. Scorpio is midnight and Aqua is daylight. There are complete opposites CAN but go hand in hand.

I went on a date with an Aquarius woman a long time ago. I was single at the time.

I wanted to run 20 minutes in and I suffered from erectile dysfunction for 3 days after that date. So unsexy.

Sorry, that was just hilarious! LMAO!!

True story.

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lol. i prefer the repulsion more than the groveling. i respect that more from men than the outright pedastal and groveling. i know, it's twisted, but it's true. so this is cool and funny.

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Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by flowingwater
It's a lot more common than you think because opposites attract. It's an intense energy that can not be explained only by those two signs involved.

Both Aqua and scorp have to be evolved to create a mututal relationship. This becomes a disaster if both parties are immature and not ready to compromise because it can be difficult. If they do work out substantially, it's an awesome power couple and great things can be achieved together. Scorpio is midnight and Aqua is daylight. There are complete opposites CAN but go hand in hand.

I went on a date with an Aquarius woman a long time ago. I was single at the time.

I wanted to run 20 minutes in and I suffered from erectile dysfunction for 3 days after that date. So unsexy.

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My laugh of the day. Pretty sure i scared the neighbors. 🙂 you are hilarious!

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Posted by flowingwater

Posted by CopperDove

Interesting observations in this article about Scorpios pairing with other fixed signs:

http://scorpioland.org/scorpios-other-fixed-signs/

This is exactly what I'm talking about, power couples. Scorp ex has a major attraction to air signs. His baby momma is a Gemini and than me, Aqua. He likes the challenge even dated a cancer for a bit but dropped her quickly.
It could be that he has air in his chart, Aqua rising and libra moon.
Honestly I'm glad it's over with, too much heart ache and not enough communication. We can not be near each other at all... The intensity and attraction is enough to light up a city lol

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But it sounds like whomever he dates it doesn't last.
Not all trines are going to make perfect couples.
Especially when there are key placements in air and fire signs.
Besides, he has mostly dated air signs and you said the communication was bad, so I don't get your logic.
He sounds like a man who seeks surface attraction that lead to doomed relationships.
That doesn't say much for him. Why didn't he marry his baby mama or you?
And you can't be near each other because it doesn't work.
Besides "intensity and attraction" what do you have to hold the relationship together?

He "dumbed" the Cancer because if you have spent most of your dating life dating a specific element like fire and air it will be tough dealing with a fellow water sign because the energy is different.
When I date fire the intensity is off the charts, crazy passion and sort of an in over your head chemistry between us that has a chaotic feel to it.
When I try to date a water sign after a fire sign it will be an uncomfortable feeling because a water sign will take me in an entirely different direction that is out of my routine. It will take patience and adjustments that I may not feel I want to be bothered with.

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Posted by TachiMichi

Posted by Nicole99
There is no better relationship than a Cancer + Scorpio combo. I have been dating with some other signs, but no way... Scorp knows the best, at least for a Cancer. And this does not make the Scorp the best catch for everyone. I mean it can be entertaining to all the other signs, but achieving that higher level is only working with Cancer / I think Pisces are way too adaptable, and easy sign for Cancer and Scorp too.

i threw up in
my mouth a tiny
bit. to say there
are no better pairs
out there is very
far fetched. but i
will not say anything
bad about YOUR happiness.
i feel the same way about
my taurus husband and me.

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I said there is no perfect match for anyone, but I wouldn't trade my taurus man for anything in the world.