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yesterday was such a crazy night!!!! unfortunately i did not tell him everything but i broke up with him. he came home from work and i sat him down and we had a very long conversation.. to sum it all up i had the courage to tell him that i havent felt a connection with him for a few months now and that ive been feeling that connection with somebody else........ he freaked out, he started yelling, asking me who it was, asking me if it was the gemini and i dont know why but i quickly just blurted out no its not him.. i had the perfect time to tell him but something in me just blurted out a lie. probably because he was already so pissed off and angry. he told me he felt betrayed and that he gave me so much and works so hard so one day we could have kids and move into the house we wanted and im going around falling for other guys behind his back..... he was so mad! so apart of me is like thank godness i didnt tell him that it was his friend and that i had sex with him to. i started crying out of guilt and he was yelling at me that he was gonna call all my friends and my mom and find out who this guy is and kick his ass. when he calmed down i told him that we cant be together anymore because its not fair for us to be together when i fell in love with somebody else. he didnt say anything and went to the room and stayed there. i packed up some clothes and i left to my moms house. im so scared hes gonna find out about the gemini but no one knows except us and no one knows we had sex together either. i texted the gemini and told him what happened and he asked me to come over so i left my moms house and went to his. after a long convo we decided not to tell my ex bf about anything because theres no point in hurting him anymore. we decided to date on the down low and in a few months were gonna come out as a couple and make it seem like we got together months after me and my scorpio split. i know its bad but its best for everyone involved.

i ended up sleeping at the geminis house but we didnt have sex we just cuddled and fell asleep. i woke up this morning to long texts from my ex bf wanting me to go back, wanting to talk it out, wanting to work our relationship out, cant throw away 4 years for this and he mentioned its bad that i have a connection with another guy but its not like i physically cheated so we still have a chance to work things out... oh godness....... if he only knew all the details. i feel so guilty and awful about this whole thing. i did not reply to my ex but my mom called me and told me he called the house phone a bunch of times and my dumb mother said that i left somewhere so nows hes probably even more suspiscious. i dont know what to do next. the gemini told me to stay calm before i left his house in the morning and that things will work out naturally so im just taking it day by day.

what should i reply with to my ex bf's texts? maybe something like sorry but i cant i have feelings for another guy now—?
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Then u said u gone wait few months come out as a couple he gone know it was him...come on now...nobody that stupid u can wait 3 yrs and id put 2 2 together...this is karma. .no good things would come of this i hope the gemini can give u what the scorpio couldn't....most gems i know get bored in rel and cheat anyways...u gone come home one day this gem going have another chic on side just wait. .....this was reason i didnt bother date 2 gems i know they all had girlfriends every last one of them and i forgot about the gem man who was married....




What can this gem give u besides this spark? House home...take care u goals etx....think about this
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Posted by lovely77
This is so sad babe im sorry. Its wrong....i hope u know what ur doing with this gemini....what woukd life b like 4 yr from now. Fhis man worked hard 4 u...what have u done to save ur rel?
its all so bad i thought about comitting suicide : (

he has done so much for me and bought me whatever i wanted from day 1 and has always supported me so i just feel so awful about how this all is going down.....
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This is so sad babe im sorry. Its wrong....i hope u know what ur doing with this gemini....what woukd life b like 4 yr from now. Fhis man worked hard 4 u...what have u done to save ur rel?
its all so bad i thought about comitting suicide : (

he has done so much for me and bought me whatever i wanted from day 1 and has always supported me so i just feel so awful about how this all is going down.....
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Damn..i feel for u...gemini r charming as hell good in bed...but long term marriage hell no...i cant trust gemini men or women they cheaters
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Posted by Impulsv
Call him n tell him ur no good for him. That you did have sex n to forget you

that it was with gem n things just" happened" lol

Finish this because otherwise this man is going to suffer for the rest of his life thinking the one that got away when u don't deserve it. U just to selfish to care
hes a very intelligent man he knows its not his fault i developed feelings for another man...... i told him that..... he just doesnt know the full story and who it is....
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Posted by K_1018
If you're gonna do ho shit, embrace it. Don't cry over something you got yourself into. The logical thing would have been to break up with the Scorpio, then pursue the Gemini. But you slept with your long term boyfriends friend. You and the Gemini are shitty. You may as well let the Scorpio know exactly what you did, because what's done in dark eventually comes to light. Maybe you'll feel better after it, maybe you won't. It isn't you who should be crying though.
you dont understand how hard this is...... the look of disappointment on his face when i told him i fell for someone else was so much for me to handle theres no way i could have told him the hole story.....
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I'd be scared shit less. Oh wait I would never do that cheating to anyone, and would break up out of respect. As I did get hurt myself. And I was nothing but good. So I feel for your ex Scorpio. Not nothing and doing everything right. It will eat at your soul. Til you come clean or pack your stuff and move to another location. And then stay single.
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If you're gonna do ho shit, embrace it. Don't cry over something you got yourself into. The logical thing would have been to break up with the Scorpio, then pursue the Gemini. But you slept with your long term boyfriends friend. You and the Gemini are shitty. You may as well let the Scorpio know exactly what you did, because what's done in dark eventually comes to light. Maybe you'll feel better after it, maybe you won't. It isn't you who should be crying though.
you dont understand how hard this is...... the look of disappointment on his face when i told him i fell for someone else was so much for me to handle theres no way i could have told him the hole story.....
Back away and distance yourself from it all for a few days. Take your mind of it. It might help him too.
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i am. im gonna go to new york and be with my cousin for a few weeks. i have to tell the gemini that i cant just jump into this to early.... i have to get my head together. this is so much. im dreading going back to my ex bf's apartment to get the rest of my stuff and i dont even know what to say..... he wants to work things out because he doesnt know the hole story. how did i get myself into this lord. im living a nightmare.
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first of all i dont appreciate ppl making my life out to be like a joke or a troll.... this is the hardest thing ive ever been through in my entire life and i might not even be able to move forward like this....

second of all the ppl who are judging me really shouldnt. i know i made a mistake. i know what i did was horrible and awful. it will haunt me for the rest of my life. but i tried to tell him everything. i tried to tell him the hole story. but when i told him about me have feelings for another person the look on his face was so sad that i just couldnt do it!!! you have to understand what im going through ppl... how do u tell ur bf of 4 years something like this?!?!
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If you're gonna do ho shit, embrace it. Don't cry over something you got yourself into. The logical thing would have been to break up with the Scorpio, then pursue the Gemini. But you slept with your long term boyfriends friend. You and the Gemini are shitty. You may as well let the Scorpio know exactly what you did, because what's done in dark eventually comes to light. Maybe you'll feel better after it, maybe you won't. It isn't you who should be crying though.
you dont understand how hard this is...... the look of disappointment on his face when i told him i fell for someone else was so much for me to handle theres no way i could have told him the hole story.....
Then why did you do it!?!?!
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i dont know : (

i was lonely. the gemini kept coming over to see my bf. i hated him at first with a passion. one night we talked and we just connected. it went on for months but we never kissed, touched or did anything except on my birthday when i got drunk and he kissed me on the cheek. then he came over one day and my bf was at work and one thing led to another and we had sex.
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first of all i dont appreciate ppl making my life out to be like a joke or a troll.... this is the hardest thing ive ever been through in my entire life and i might not even be able to move forward like this....

second of all the ppl who are judging me really shouldnt. i know i made a mistake. i know what i did was horrible and awful. it will haunt me for the rest of my life. but i tried to tell him everything. i tried to tell him the hole story. but when i told him about me have feelings for another person the look on his face was so sad that i just couldnt do it!!! you have to understand what im going through ppl... how do u tell ur bf of 4 years something like this?!?!
pack ALL your things now. and just write everything in a letter... its too late. Just write the letter
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i dont think i have the courage to go back to my ex's apartment today because hes been texting me and not knowing the hole story thinking we can work on this and fix the relationship. im just gonna go to new york for a few weeks and come back and deal w/ this.
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If you're gonna do ho shit, embrace it. Don't cry over something you got yourself into. The logical thing would have been to break up with the Scorpio, then pursue the Gemini. But you slept with your long term boyfriends friend. You and the Gemini are shitty. You may as well let the Scorpio know exactly what you did, because what's done in dark eventually comes to light. Maybe you'll feel better after it, maybe you won't. It isn't you who should be crying though.
you dont understand how hard this is...... the look of disappointment on his face when i told him i fell for someone else was so much for me to handle theres no way i could have told him the hole story.....
Then why did you do it!?!?!
i dont know : (

i was lonely. the gemini kept coming over to see my bf. i hated him at first with a passion. one night we talked and we just connected. it went on for months but we never kissed, touched or did anything except on my birthday when i got drunk and he kissed me on the cheek. then he came over one day and my bf was at work and one thing led to another and we had sex.
you do realise you had 4 years invested to a guy that was building a future.

you gave it up for his friend who would down low dog his friend for pussy.

you do realise that there is other women out there for him to get that pussy?

you do realise that you giving it up to him is an ego boost and it's still early days....do you think he will give you what this scorpio would?

Or was it just lust?
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i realize this but its really not like that..... we never wanted to hurt my ex. i never cheated in my life before this happened. sometimes ppl just meet and theres almost like a spiritual connection and u cant fight it.... it just happens. i slept over at the geminis yesterday and we had a long convo and he feels the same way. we just couldnt control ourselves. we didnt wanna hurt anyone we just fell in love and never wanted this to happen.
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1. You came on here stating you a Taurus with Gemini moon that cheated on a bff of 4 years just for a couple nights of fun. We've heard multiple stories like this.

2. After we told you handle your business the right way, and honestly to the one who deserves an explanation.

3.You then said that Gemini was best and you have to go with your gut. Do it correctly though and you did finally.

4. You broke up and lied and then went to the Gemini
board asked what you should wear. That's games or troll like.
5. Now another one stating you now goofed up and is confused when we're just stating be honest, stay single and think about what it is you need in life.
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Posted by Impulsv
Call him n tell him ur no good for him. That you did have sex n to forget you

that it was with gem n things just" happened" lol

Finish this because otherwise this man is going to suffer for the rest of his life thinking the one that got away when u don't deserve it. U just to selfish to care
hes a very intelligent man he knows its not his fault i developed feelings for another man...... i told him that..... he just doesnt know the full story and who it is....
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Agree. Once you come clean about this you will feel a little better and so will he. Once I know the person I was with did something horrible that is all I see and there is not turning back.
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But then again how dangerous is he, like could he snap and become dangerous then yeah don't tell him.
he can get very mad and very violent..... the betrayal is gonna make him want to fight the gemini and i dont want that to happen.... and i dont want him to feel the hurt from being betrayed by his gf and one of his best friends : (
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Posted by ElleDuMonde
She didn't tell the scorp the entire truth out of pure selfishness.

If she felt confident about the gemini to begin with....she would have had no issue telling the scorp...look, I treetrunked him, I like it, we are through.

No, that didn't happen.

She would rather have the scorp hanging on forever, or at least until she knows the gemini is the real deal.

As far as I am concerned, that is the worst betrayal one can do against me.

If the gemini doesn't work out, which I am confident that it wont, don't take the scorpio back no matter what....because he will make it his job to get back with you....for the sole purpose to destroy you. You think you are an emotional wreck now? Just wait.

You will get everything you deserve in this life. Everyone does.

The only thing you can take away from this is....always be honest to a scorpio....anything less than that and you are treetrunked.
you are a horrible person for seeing me that way and saying that. it has nothing to do with selfishness! i didnt tell him because even though im not in love with him i still love him and i would never want to hurt him like that and tell him the horrible thing that happened : ( i cant put that pain onto him. that man has done so much for me and we were so in love at one point. we've been through so much together and i hate that all of this happened and i dont want to break his heart any further. maybe its best if he never knows.
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Hm no longer your bff though and Gemini has not asked you to be his gf or even mention. So right now everyone is single doing whatever really.

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yes the scorpio is my ex now and me and the gemini are dating.... we made it official yesterday but i feel like i made a mistake by jumping into that to soon. : ( maybe it was a bad idea. i need to get away from everything for a few weeks.
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Posted by 2Moon
OP,
I tried to support you, but you are annoying me now.
stop fucking wasting your time here on dxp and go do your things in the real world.

you know what to do...
im so scared to face the world after this! i havent even told my mom and i have no one to talk to about this so i came on some dumb zodiac forum to get peoples opinion and everyone is bashing me for being human and making a mistake.
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She didn't tell the scorp the entire truth out of pure selfishness.

If she felt confident about the gemini to begin with....she would have had no issue telling the scorp...look, I treetrunked him, I like it, we are through.

No, that didn't happen.

She would rather have the scorp hanging on forever, or at least until she knows the gemini is the real deal.

As far as I am concerned, that is the worst betrayal one can do against me.

If the gemini doesn't work out, which I am confident that it wont, don't take the scorpio back no matter what....because he will make it his job to get back with you....for the sole purpose to destroy you. You think you are an emotional wreck now? Just wait.

You will get everything you deserve in this life. Everyone does.

The only thing you can take away from this is....always be honest to a scorpio....anything less than that and you are treetrunked.
you are a horrible person for seeing me that way and saying that. it has nothing to do with selfishness! i didnt tell him because even though im not in love with him i still love him and i would never want to hurt him like that and tell him the horrible thing that happened : ( i cant put that pain onto him. that man has done so much for me and we were so in love at one point. we've been through so much together and i hate that all of this happened and i dont want to break his heart any further. maybe its best if he never knows.
Why doesn't he deserve the truth, if you really loved him?
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because its gonna break his heart for life
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If you're gonna do ho shit, embrace it. Don't cry over something you got yourself into. The logical thing would have been to break up with the Scorpio, then pursue the Gemini. But you slept with your long term boyfriends friend. You and the Gemini are shitty. You may as well let the Scorpio know exactly what you did, because what's done in dark eventually comes to light. Maybe you'll feel better after it, maybe you won't. It isn't you who should be crying though.
you dont understand how hard this is...... the look of disappointment on his face when i told him i fell for someone else was so much for me to handle theres no way i could have told him the hole story.....
Then why did you do it!?!?!
i dont know : (

i was lonely. the gemini kept coming over to see my bf. i hated him at first with a passion. one night we talked and we just connected. it went on for months but we never kissed, touched or did anything except on my birthday when i got drunk and he kissed me on the cheek. then he came over one day and my bf was at work and one thing led to another and we had sex.
you do realise you had 4 years invested to a guy that was building a future.

you gave it up for his friend who would down low dog his friend for pussy.

you do realise that there is other women out there for him to get that pussy?

you do realise that you giving it up to him is an ego boost and it's still early days....do you think he will give you what this scorpio would?

Or was it just lust?
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Bingo
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its even harder now to tell him the hole story now since he sent me a bunch of texts this morning talking about how he wants to work things out because i didnt physically cheat on him just had an emotional connection with someone else..... cant even imagine what hes gonna say or how hes gonna feel when i tell him i did physically cheat on him, and it was with one of his best friends who i fell in love with : (

i should just move to another country, forget about all of this and live there
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