update on my ex scorpio bf (Page 4)

Posted by TaurusGal92

Posted by K_1018
If you're gonna do ho shit, embrace it. Don't cry over something you got yourself into. The logical thing would have been to break up with the Scorpio, then pursue the Gemini. But you slept with your long term boyfriends friend. You and the Gemini are shitty. You may as well let the Scorpio know exactly what you did, because what's done in dark eventually comes to light. Maybe you'll feel better after it, maybe you won't. It isn't you who should be crying though.

you dont understand how hard this is...... the look of disappointment on his face when i told him i fell for someone else was so much for me to handle theres no way i could have told him the hole story.....

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Whole or hoe story not hole. Oh wait, yeah that's fitting too.

Things like that happen. The woman fell in love he allowed that to happen he used t joke about her not liking his friend and instead of spend time qith her, he had him as a guest often, then made jokes about her t go to his friends house. There is a film Kiss the Fool. Could be used as a refrence here to a point.

i already made my choice so no need for anymore replies guys

i did the best thing i could do and everything is good in my life now : )

may reality come
ruthlessly murder
your fantasy world.

Posted by Gennie
@TaurusGal92

I'm an Aqua. I will not hold your hand. I will not give you tissues so you can wallow. I don't care what kind of person you are now, because a person can always choose to be better and do better. So even if you suck now, you can evolve to suck less. No, I don't care how broken up you are, because you came on the board to ask for help, your girlfriends are who you eat Ben and Jerry's ice cream with and watch Friends.

So here's your help, if you don't want it, or go sailing into the ether to do whatever the fuck, then I know you arn't serious about everything that has gone down, and being a better person. That's how I identify the selfish ones.

I asked my Scorpio for his opinion, he's got a bit more air than most Scorps so he handles his expressions of emotion without them exploding. That may not be the case for your Scorp, but he said, If you are going to explain yourself, do the man who loved you for 4 years the courtesy and respect of face to face. He may get angry, he's entitled. He may cry, he's entitled. He may start yelling, yup, hes entitled. And yes, out of respect, you should sit there and give him his closure to the relationship. Start from the unhappiness, to falling in love with the other man, to having sex, and realizing you just can't do it anymore because it's not there and no amount of "fixing" will change that. Do not do that in a letter, it's crass, it's disrespectful, and it is the coward's way out.

What you keep preaching to us, about it being the safe way, is the yellow belly, skank-laden, thot-twerking, cowardly, pussy way out. Don't even think about saying, Oh you never been, because I been there, done that, had a crying Cancer for 4 hours in front of me and I just had to suck it up. Anyone can tell you just how much Aqua Moons enjoy being emoted on. (Although at least I didn't lose my mind and fuck someone on the side, but then that's an Aqua benefit.)

There are no "degrees of pain" or whatever millennial bullshit is being fed to your generation. There is JUST pain and how we deal with it. You've already caused pain. Suffering, which is optional to the person in pain, can be managed, and he will suffer less if he understands exactly how it all played out, and WHY he should not look at you like girlfriend material.

You're in that cusp of child to woman, choose to be woman enough to own your own actions and emotions, even when they hurt others, be honest and OPEN to someone whom you have wronged, then be at fucking peace about it and go live your life.

This needs to be reposted again and again and again.

Posted by Sagittarius16b
Things like that happen. The woman fell in love he allowed that to happen he used t joke about her not liking his friend and instead of spend time qith her, he had him as a guest often, then made jokes about her t go to his friends house. There is a film Kiss the Fool. Could be used as a refrence here to a point.

Lie by omission is still a lie, i don't understand why you are encouraging someone to NOT be truthful, it baffles me.

All that does is make it easier for the one lying, no one else. It's complelty selfish in nature.

"Scorpio want love, taurus want sex

This is all about it, and that's really sad."
Yo that's backwards lol. But whatever. I've dated both and both are capable of anything, love, a fling, devotion, possession, friendship...
Taurus annoys me,
Scorpio can entrance me, then destroy me.

Is this another "i cheated feel bad for me" thread?

If so go hang yourself slut. Kbai.

Posted by Impulsv
Well yeah that's all that matters
Her life is good now.

Until that Gem leaves her for a new shiny piece of tail.

Posted by TaurusGal92
its even harder now to tell him the hole story now since he sent me a bunch of texts this morning talking about how he wants to work things out because i didnt physically cheat on him just had an emotional connection with someone else..... cant even imagine what hes gonna say or how hes gonna feel when i tell him i did physically cheat on him, and it was with one of his best friends who i fell in love with : (

i should just move to another country, forget about all of this and live there

He already knows the truth. The mind games have begun. He wants to see your whole character on display now. Get ready for the big revenge. And don't count on that being one quick sting. My guess is that by the end of what's coming, a good portion of your life will feel destroyed.
I'm just being realistic here.