@confusedlibra78
12 YearsLibra
After sex with a scorpio..
Do Scorpio Men Get Attached After Sex?
Scorpio men can get attached after sex when the intimacy feels intense, private, and emotionally risky, but they may still act distant afterward to feel in control. Many people notice a Scorpio man may go quiet, watch your reaction, test your interest, or act casual even when the encounter affected him. In real situations, attachment is more likely when he keeps circling back, asks personal questions, gets jealous, or wants more private time instead of only late-night access.
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Y'all give too much credit to us Scorpio men. YOU HAVE THE COOCHIES...and hence the power.
Dick is free.
Hoohas are precious.
Ditch the game playing and go find someone else.
Posted by Libraj
.. I hate playing games...
Then don't.
If you felt unsure where things stood before, sleeping together isn't going to magically change that. Talking does.
You slept together Monday night. It's 3:45pm EST. Find something else to do other than sweating a Scorpio man. Or, I don't know, just call him...?
send him a note and say "just wanted to say hi" and don't expect anything in return ... never expect a response and then you are happy when you get one and hear from him ... expectations are the #1 ruin of relationships ...
Wait what?
I was trying to be trollish smartass...
They love the radio silence eh? I think that's just a scorpion. I looked at the guy of my interest and studied his communications with others...he does NOT frequently respond to people online their posts, or post himself. So I was like, this guy just takes stuff in. That's him. If he says something- he is very compelled...so that is NOT going to change with you or me. This is their character- like you or not. My ex that I had the longest relationship with, also a scorpy, I remember feeling that with him, he was always available to hang, but had some trouble initiating. He loved me but froze me out and we weren't compatible...That being said, they just aren't demonstrative for some reason. A lil bit, but they are feminine signs after all...
That being said, I would not want to be in the position where I had slept with a scorpio man and didn't know where we stood. That is freaking SCARY. You just gave away your power to the sign that loves power plays.....
Regain your power by doing what feels natural to you:
Reach out and be direct about where you stand (or ask to meet and do so face to face)
Go silent and decide what you want and then go for that. It may be to detach from someone who is like this...THINK ABOUT YOU FIRST. I know these guys can be so easy to get hung up on, but for womankind, cut that shat out! I'm working on doing the same...sending you power vibes.
If a Scorpio is silent with you...9 times out of 10 it means they feel you aren't worth their time.
The rational behind that feeling is irrelevant.
They just refuse to expend any fucks on you. At that point in time.
Why do almost every woman on this site do the same thing, have sex and then sit on there hands waiting for him to contact her all the while wondering if she should contact him first. We can be so predictable.
Go out with another guy. I hope this guy wasn't the ONLY ONE guy you've been having fun with. I'm sure you can find male attention from another source so you can keep yourself grounded and out of the desperate for a man zone
If dating (not sexing but genuinely communicating and dating) other men isn't possible then occupy yourself with something interesting and time consuming so you won't feel the urge to chase a man after having sex with him.
No, don't contact him. Sex is just sex. Sex has absolutely nothing to do with developing a real connection that will lead into a real relationship. Sex is body maintenance for single folks, now that you've got your body tuned up go relax and forget him, out of sight out of mind.
And sex with a Scorpio can make you feel like you're in a committed relationship since they are sensual and emotional, but ultimately sex can just be sex.
^ nahhhh. sorry but thats not true. They do it for a bunch of reasons. They are upset, the feel vulnerable. Sometimes insecurity. But god forbid a Scorpio ever admit to any of that....
If you get straight up froze out thats applicable. But a lapse in communication, sometimes they are even busy stalking u online looking into your shit lol...
"Sex with a scorpio can make you...."
All in your head darling.
We have a connection other than sexual. We have a lot in common, he seems interested in what's going on in my life. Though, He recently got out of a relationship before he met me and has been apprehensive about taking things further.. He just goes from messaging me a lot to nothing and back. Just inconsistent and frustrating, but I liked him enough before we even went into the bedroom to focus on his good qualities and what I thought was a good connection.. I'm just new to this dating thing because I also recently got out of a 10 year relationship..
Sex---processing--conclusions--you are in or you are out--if you are in expect the scorp to come back guns all blazing--if you are out, expect to feel like you are wasting your time because you are.
Posted by confusedlibra78
And sex with a Scorpio can make you feel like you're in a committed relationship since they are sensual and emotional, but ultimately sex can just be sex.I have heard quite a few married men say they love their wives a lot but the sex they have with other women is just sex...it doesn't mean anything
Not many women i have spoken to say that
The genders are so different with regards to this
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My ex explains it by saying that men can compartmentalize, so that if they are married, that goes in one box in their head, and if they have a mistress, she goes into another box and the two boxes don't touch, lol.
Two boxes can INDEED touch.
It's called scissoring.
Posted by Arielle83
I had sex with mine and then he took me out to sizzler.Maybe get some food.
Austrailia has Sizzler— or Canada? We saw Sizzler in the United States and it was good and very good priced. lol
then we saw "Black Angus" wow!!!
I'm sorry...what?
Sizzler? Good?
Uh, no.
I make better steaks than Sizzler on a half broken gas grill after drinking 10 PBRs.
Y'all are fucking peasants.
Posted by confusedlibra78
And sex with a Scorpio can make you feel like you're in a committed relationship since they are sensual and emotional, but ultimately sex can just be sex.I have heard quite a few married men say they love their wives a lot but the sex they have with other women is just sex...it doesn't mean anything
Not many women i have spoken to say that
The genders are so different with regards to this
My ex explains it by saying that men can compartmentalize, so that if they are married, that goes in one box in their head, and if they have a mistress, she goes into another box and the two boxes don't touch, lol.
Yes! Isn't that such a horrible thing though?
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It is horrible. I guess you just have to find the guy who has integrity and morals. Hahaha! Good luck 😢
Posted by Quantum
Wait what?I was trying to be trollish smartass...
lol
Posted by confusedlibra78
And sex with a Scorpio can make you feel like you're in a committed relationship since they are sensual and emotional, but ultimately sex can just be sex.
so true....smh Ive confused more than a few females unfortunately, but being sensual feels sooo good lol
Posted by confusedlibra78
And sex with a Scorpio can make you feel like you're in a committed relationship since they are sensual and emotional, but ultimately sex can just be sex.I have heard quite a few married men say they love their wives a lot but the sex they have with other women is just sex...it doesn't mean anything
Not many women i have spoken to say that
The genders are so different with regards to this
My ex explains it by saying that men can compartmentalize, so that if they are married, that goes in one box in their head, and if they have a mistress, she goes into another box and the two boxes don't touch, lol.
Yes! Isn't that such a horrible thing though?
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It is horrible. I guess you just have to find the guy who has integrity and morals. Hahaha! Good luck 😢
Well...they are around, but most of them are married or taken.....i aint going there
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No, that's a recipe for disaster and no one should knowingly be a homewrecker
Posted by cherishedlibra
"Sex with a scorpio can make you...."All in your head darling.
thats what I tell them lol its all in your head ...
Posted by confusedlibra78
And sex with a Scorpio can make you feel like you're in a committed relationship since they are sensual and emotional, but ultimately sex can just be sex.so true....smh Ive confused more than a few females unfortunately, but being sensual feels sooo good lol
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Lol, it does. It's intoxicating and powerful and addictive. But, it can really mess with a woman's head.
Posted by confusedlibra78
And sex with a Scorpio can make you feel like you're in a committed relationship since they are sensual and emotional, but ultimately sex can just be sex.so true....smh Ive confused more than a few females unfortunately, but being sensual feels sooo good lol
Lol, it does. It's intoxicating and powerful and addictive. But, it can really mess with a woman's head.
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yes it can mess with a womans head smh...just in case someone takes my responses for arrogance...I didnt say I was great in bed, im probably average IDK, lol but it seems my style of sex, what I enjoy doing, usually makes girls think we are together....
Shoot....just call him. Me personally...i would just take it as you like me....sex passed the test and you decided we get along well...I worry more about when you call before we have sex ( like how often you call...how long it took for you to call me first after gaining my number...thoughts along these lines) If you guys had sex...you've already took the hardest step (well its suppose to be) what are you so worried for at this point? Or did you expect to wow him and have him calling all the time?
If that doesnt apply.....You're both probably worried about looking desperate . Just call...be normal and see what happens. If it makes you feel better..talk to him but let him bring of the magical night....yes?
Posted by confusedlibra78
And sex with a Scorpio can make you feel like you're in a committed relationship since they are sensual and emotional, but ultimately sex can just be sex.so true....smh Ive confused more than a few females unfortunately, but being sensual feels sooo good lol
Lol, it does. It's intoxicating and powerful and addictive. But, it can really mess with a woman's head.
yes it can mess with a womans head smh...just in case someone takes my responses for arrogance...I didnt say I was great in bed, im probably average IDK, lol but it seems my style of sex, what I enjoy doing, usually makes girls think we are together....
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Honestly, my former Scorp's technique wasn't that mind blowing. He was just SO into it and SO into me and made me feel like the sexiest woman in the world. He would stare deeply into my eyes and talk to me in Italian. It was unreal, but I was playing with fire as another poster stated, because I knew it wouldn't go beyond sex.
Posted by Quantum
I'm sorry...what?Sizzler? Good?
Uh, no.
I make better steaks than Sizzler on a half broken gas grill after drinking 10 PBRs.
Y'all are fucking peasants.
Some days, I just love you............. 😄
Posted by Quantum
I'm sorry...what?Sizzler? Good?
Uh, no.
I make better steaks than Sizzler on a half broken gas grill after drinking 10 PBRs.
Y'all are fucking peasants.
yeah. at least I am. I don't mind it. i grew up at times starving.
my mother in law, father in law and husband doesn't like cheap food.
Posted by Quantum
I'm sorry...what?Sizzler? Good?
Uh, no.
I make better steaks than Sizzler on a half broken gas grill after drinking 10 PBRs.
Y'all are fucking peasants.
Some days, I just love you............. 😄
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😏
Posted by Quantum
I'm sorry...what?Sizzler? Good?
Uh, no.
I make better steaks than Sizzler on a half broken gas grill after drinking 10 PBRs.
Y'all are fucking peasants.
yeah. at least I am. I don't mind it. i grew up at times starving.
my mother in law, father in law and husband doesn't like cheap food.
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Cheap food =/= bad food
Sizzler = bad food that's cheap
The taco truck parked at Home Depot = good food that's cheap
Posted by Quantum
I'm sorry...what?Sizzler? Good?
Uh, no.
I make better steaks than Sizzler on a half broken gas grill after drinking 10 PBRs.
Y'all are fucking peasants.
yeah. at least I am. I don't mind it. i grew up at times starving.
my mother in law, father in law and husband doesn't like cheap food.
Cheap food =/= bad food
Sizzler = bad food that's cheap
The taco truck parked at Home Depot = good food that's cheap
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I order the lobster. lol 😛
I like the tacos they make in Mexico!!
Posted by Quantum
I'm sorry...what?Sizzler? Good?
Uh, no.
I make better steaks than Sizzler on a half broken gas grill after drinking 10 PBRs.
Y'all are fucking peasants.
yeah. at least I am. I don't mind it. i grew up at times starving.
my mother in law, father in law and husband doesn't like cheap food.
Cheap food =/= bad food
Sizzler = bad food that's cheap
The taco truck parked at Home Depot = good food that's cheap
I order the lobster. lol 😛
I like the tacos they make in Mexico!!
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These tacos are practically made in Mexico.
The west side of Indy is little Mexico.
Huh! Scorpio again and again,,,,
Posted by TheLibraMudra
Just smother him with a bit of Chlorophyll. That'll make him stick around longer after sex.Chloroform
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Maybe she wants to convert water, sunlight, and CO2 to glucose and oxygen?
It is glucose, right?
Posted by TheLibraMudra
Just smother him with a bit of Chlorophyll. That'll make him stick around longer after sex.Chloroform
Lmfao thanks for the save
Some kind of chl
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Chloroform doesn't work on Scorpios. We've developed immunity after handling it ourselves for years.
Like the Dread Pirate Roberts with iocain powder in The Princess Bride.
Posted by TheLibraMudra
Just smother him with a bit of Chlorophyll. That'll make him stick around longer after sex.Chloroform
Lmfao thanks for the save
Some kind of chl
Chloroform doesn't work on Scorpios. We've developed immunity after handling it ourselves for years.
Like the Dread Pirate Roberts with iocain powder in The Princess Bride.
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Inconceivable!
You're not using the right amount - its a science.......... It works 😄
Posted by TheLibraMudra
Just smother him with a bit of Chlorophyll. That'll make him stick around longer after sex.Chloroform
Lmfao thanks for the save
Some kind of chl
Chloroform doesn't work on Scorpios. We've developed immunity after handling it ourselves for years.
Like the Dread Pirate Roberts with iocain powder in The Princess Bride.
That sounds like a steaming pile of bull shit
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I'm resistant to drugs and other chemicals. That's why I don't go to bars. It costs too much to get drunk.
Posted by TheLibraMudra
Just smother him with a bit of Chlorophyll. That'll make him stick around longer after sex.Chloroform
Lmfao thanks for the save
Some kind of chl
Chloroform doesn't work on Scorpios. We've developed immunity after handling it ourselves for years.
Like the Dread Pirate Roberts with iocain powder in The Princess Bride.
Inconceivable!
You're not using the right amount - its a science.......... It works 😄
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You keep using that word...but I do not think you know what it means.
I'm fact I bet @GetMisted needs like...6 hooker boobs worth of coke just to get a buzz.
Posted by TheLibraMudra
Just smother him with a bit of Chlorophyll. That'll make him stick around longer after sex.Chloroform
Maybe she wants to convert water, sunlight, and CO2 to glucose and oxygen?
It is glucose, right?
Yes!
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Wasn't sure if it was glucose or not but I was too lazy to Google it.
Posted by Quantum
If a Scorpio is silent with you...9 times out of 10 it means they feel you aren't worth their time.The rational behind that feeling is irrelevant.
They just refuse to expend any fucks on you. At that point in time.
+10000000000000000000000
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Well said.
He texted me on Saturday, almost a week later and said he's been filling in shifts at work. I'm just going to let him contact me and arrange time together and if he doesn't , I'm moving on.. ain't nobody got time for that. .
So far, since I started not initiating contact he's been texting me, I'll reply with short answers and he'll take forever to text me back. Although I've been purposely taking forever to text him back. It's hard to suppress the urge to invite him out, but I'm handling it ok. This is just really new to me, I've never been in a situation like this before. I'm straight forward, when I like someone I want to spend time with them, so this has been frustrating, but he has enough qualities that I enjoy and admire for it to all be worth the games and testing.. It's hard when patience is not one of your virtues!
I'm trying, it's difficult for me because I've never been through this before, most of the men I've been with have been completely straight forward.. although he did tell me he has a hard time putting his feelings into words, not sure if this is a cop out or not.. Anyway.. I can only be patient for so long though before I walk...
After sex with one...... I feel like I needed to dip my wang in bleach.
So now he's been texting me back replying to things I tell him I'm doing as if I asked him to go.. I'm just replying to his texts of telling me what he's been doing, telling him what I'm up to. It's like he assumes that me telling him what I'm doing is an invite..what's this about? He still hasn't asked me out again..
It's getting harder to be patient. I didn't reply to his last text because I wanted to see if he would initiate a get together and he still hasn't. I'm keeping myself busy, but this sucks. I just hope he doesn't think I'm no longer interested and is just stepping away...
So I asked him out for coffee and this was his reply
" I would like that! This weekend was exhausting and I could use some good company"
I feel like I just got friend zoned
Help me out here, my judgement is clouded..
I just keep over analyzing. He told me he has a hard time putting his feeling into words...
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I had a similar experience with a Scorp man and I'm in my late 30s as well. He'd be totally into me, then radio silence, then totally into me, then radio silence. Turns out the radio silence was usually him being with another woman. Maybe it's the same guy, lol!
I've heard Scorp men will play the field until they find "the one". Until then, they play games. I hung in for a long time and am finally out of it. Maybe this guy is one of the good ones, but Libra to Libra, being the communicative, non-game playing sign that we are, do you really want to play this game with him? I know the sex is off the chain, but can he fulfill everything else you need - security, no games, open & honest communication, etc?
I would also warn against trying to play the sex game. He will always win and you will just end up feeling lonely and confused after each wonderful encounter. I personally prefer to have someone who's into me all the time, not smothering, but someone I can be secure in their feelings for me. The up and down, push/pull isn't worth it.
Good luck!!