Virgo Girl Scorpio Guy

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VirgoRagini
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I am a Virgo girl, 22 years. I am sort of beginning to have a crush on this scorpio guy. I was in a relationship for the last 3 years, but I broke up with my bf because we had no future and things were not working out. I did not break up because of the scorpio guy but he was sort of flirting with me before the relationship ended. After breakup I told him that I need some time to get over it and he was fine with it. He kept on texting me a lot ... despite being busy. Once we met and he took all initiatives to meet me alone and talk to me in person. He made me feel special ... and I did get that 'scorpio stare'. We like used to talk a lot, and I had this feeling that he liked me, and because he was really sweet I started falling for him.

Now its been a month and he is ignoring me. He tells me he is busy. I find it hard to believe ... because he always used to make time for me despite being busy. This is crazy because I am falling for him more and more because he is ignoring me ... I find it hard to focus on other things ... I always end up thinking about him. It is hard to believe because guys generally do not do this to me, I mean I am hardly ignored by anyone. He replies to my messages in 2-3 words and really late. He has stopped texting me. I text him sporadically(once in 2-3 days), and he has apologized for not being able to talk to me because he has been busy. However I get a feeling that he has time for all the useless things in life ... and how can he be busy doing the same things so much so that he says I can't think of anything else. This guy kind of liked me in d beginning and that is what made me fall for him. Now I am confused ... should I move on ... should I wait - shall I keep texting him or shall I stop texting him.

Thanks for your help.
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Andalusia
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I get the feeling after reading it again that you were either an ego boost for him or he just flaked on you because someone else caught his interest or isn't interested enough in you.



He totally missed out on Virgo awesomeness.

Poor guy...



Not sure, chick seems to be a bit delusional/egotistical.
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Oh, Virgos.. This sometimes seems to be a theme with us, sadly. :/
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Damnata
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Posted by Rabbit
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I get the feeling after reading it again that you were either an ego boost for him or he just flaked on you because someone else caught his interest or isn't interested enough in you.



He totally missed out on Virgo awesomeness.

Poor guy...



Not sure, chick seems to be a bit delusional/egotistical.



Oh, Virgos.. This sometimes seems to be a theme with us, sadly. :/
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Pretty much.
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Damnata
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There shouldn't be empty time in your life because someone isn't messaging you. You managed to live your life just fine until now, right?

If it's just a distraction to get over your ex bf, then you're not being honest to yourself. You don't really care about the Scorpio but the attention he gave you made you feel special so now you're going off on that.

I'm a Virgo though, hope some Scorps get in here and reply better than I did.
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Damnata
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Posted by Rabbit
Stop listening to all these crazy women.

Tell yourself "This jerk is missing out", then go out and find someone better than some miserable Scorpio guy.



+1

Although this only satisfies the ego and brings no self-awareness whatsoever.

And Virgos need to overanalyze to the point of insanity so that moving on shit coupled with the Cancer placements...ain't happening.
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VirgoRagini
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Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
You are not going to like what I'm going to say 😢

He's lost interest, sweetness. I know it is really wrong but that is similar to what I do. I can go in really strong at first and then suddenly realise that it's not for me, I'll do silly things like try to disappear or become really aloof. It's that freakish libra venus.

It usually happens within the first three months....never longer than that....if I stick around after that timestamp, I'm in it for the long haul.

It could be something very petty that set him off and more than likely really irrational. There is no point to wait for him or try to get him to change his mind....that never works.

If he was into you and then suddenly isn't....that isn't a good sign. not a good sign at all.




strawberry ... any way to get him back ... since i think we will be really good together ... any way to tell him to stop freaking out ...before trying something new (he has never been in a relationship before) ... i know he is freaking out ... but i do not want to run away ... is it possible if somebody stays and tries ... you can change ur mind about them ?
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VirgoRagini
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Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Even if I'm busy.....if I'm into someone....they are the first thing I think about when I wake up and the last thing I think about when I go to bed...and I *make* time for them regardless.

the fact he is using the excuse that he's busy......is lame. he just doesn't have the courage to break your heart.

I know it's totally a cowardice move....I'm sorry 😢



strawberry ... i was the first thing he thought about when he woke up and before he slept ... he even asked me to stay awake with him while he did his work ... because he used to say i give him the 'motivation'.
I have tried asking him what went wrong ... all he says is that he is busy and can not think of anything else at the moment.
Something tells me I should not let him go ... he made me feel really special .. n i should not leave him just because he is freaking out.
Tell me what can i do that can get him back
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Andalusia
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Posted by VirgoRagini
Melly 😄
what do u think abt d two of us together ?



Well. It depends.

I have some thoughts, but I will need some background information before I give my opinion on the question you asked above.

For starters:

- How did you and your ex come to be together? Who pursued who?

- At what point did you realize the relationship with your ex, as you said, "wasn't going anywhere"?

- What were your thoughts and feelings towards your ex before you started dating? What were they while you were dating? What are they now?
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Andalusia
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Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I broke a virgo's heart once 😭

He was very sweet.....

what set me off?

1) he sang a song from the cartoon south park into my voicemail....something about goats and babies, I was so freaked out I couldn't really understand what he was saying. I hate that cartoon, so as soon as he started explaining himself my eyes glazed over. I told him to never do that again, as I didn't find any humour in it at all.

2) he wore white tennis shoes with black socks and dress pants on our first official date. 😐 I'm not superficial (lol...I'm lying a little bit *libra venus* 🍹)....I just couldn't stop staring at his shoes.

3) he put me on a three way phone call with one of his best male friends and then jumped off the line....I felt I was being interviewed or something. the guy wasn't out of line or anything....there was just a lot of awkward silence.

Yes....very petty, very superficial....very......irrational on my end but it just set off a switch in my head of......just no.

we had been getting to know each other for two months and those three things (three strikes you are OUT) drove the nails in the coffin.

he stalked ME for two months....constant text messages asking me "whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy—!!!!"....it was sad 😢

Virgo sun
Taurus moon
Virgo merc
Venus leo
Mars in I don't remember what



Oh God. It was probably Leo as well. :/
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Damnata
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Virgo chick, at this point I will cosign with scorched and tell you that you never actually had him so there is no getting him back.

However I feel your chart is a tough one and maybe I can pinpoint why. Don't take it as gospel though.

Sun Virgo
Moon Cancer
Mercury Libra
Venus Libra
Mars Cancer
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Aquarius
Asc node Sagittarius

You have literally NO fire in it, so whatever happens you will never go "FUCK THIS SHIT I AM OUT"

Sun in Virgo: Hmm I am picky and I met someone who touches on that? What is this guy about really? He intrigues me

Moon in Cancer: OMG WE HAVE A CONNECTION. SOULMATE VIBE. THIS IS IT (it's at this point where you need to back off and look at stuff again)

Mercury Libra: Hmm..so he's being reticent but...maybe he has work to do..maybe it's the distance..maybe it's the fact that I recently broke up with my ex..who knows..life is full of posibilities

Venus in Libra: Ugh, I am crushing on him..but everything seems so nice, so out of the ordinary, so fairytale like. Maybe if I wait a little longer...I can stare at this for days at a time.

Mars in Cancer: I WILL get him back. Surely he felt this connection and for whatever reason he cannot pursue it now. I will make him see it.

IMO it's the Moon/Mars Cancer with the Venus in Libra who have you seeing things in a blurry way.

Revert back to your Virgo sun.
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VirgoRagini
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Posted by Damnata
Virgo chick, at this point I will cosign with scorched and tell you that you never actually had him so there is no getting him back.

However I feel your chart is a tough one and maybe I can pinpoint why. Don't take it as gospel though.

Sun Virgo
Moon Cancer
Mercury Libra
Venus Libra
Mars Cancer
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Aquarius
Asc node Sagittarius

You have literally NO fire in it, so whatever happens you will never go "FUCK THIS SHIT I AM OUT"

Sun in Virgo: Hmm I am picky and I met someone who touches on that? What is this guy about really? He intrigues me

Moon in Cancer: OMG WE HAVE A CONNECTION. SOULMATE VIBE. THIS IS IT (it's at this point where you need to back off and look at stuff again)

Mercury Libra: Hmm..so he's being reticent but...maybe he has work to do..maybe it's the distance..maybe it's the fact that I recently broke up with my ex..who knows..life is full of posibilities

Venus in Libra: Ugh, I am crushing on him..but everything seems so nice, so out of the ordinary, so fairytale like. Maybe if I wait a little longer...I can stare at this for days at a time.

Mars in Cancer: I WILL get him back. Surely he felt this connection and for whatever reason he cannot pursue it now. I will make him see it.

IMO it's the Moon/Mars Cancer with the Venus in Libra who have you seeing things in a blurry way.

Revert back to your Virgo sun.




That is so me ... i am going back to being the virgo ... no more confusion ... m only focusing on the virgo now 😄 thank u so much ... u really helped
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