Are you a virgo with a scorpio girlfreind or ex

curiosity kill the cat what was it like helping me to understand

just wondered what your experience was like successful or not please people don't throw stones

maybe you guys don't like newbies whats going on. OK you could be sleeping not but some are up just trying to rationalize everything. tries to change my picture don't know whats happened.

ok and how are you finding it

see what I mean Virgo men know how to disappear by the time you come back might have made a meddle for the number 1 prize

well I think I saw one of your post and you were saying that you disappeared cause you didn't feel like you were good enough

have no idea what happened to that last message. Anyway you said in previous that you was afraid you was not good enough and was feeling a bit down so hid. you know all you have to do is communicate

this is the third time i've posted just as I was getting started they got deleted

why would a virgo man keep returning after months at a time even though there's no nooky whats the game and when you could have moved on

why would a virgo man keep returning not for sex after months at a time. there could be a chance that the women has moved on. then disappear again drives me made been this way for years both students so at first thought he needed time.

I moved on so many times but he seems to have some kind of control like i'm not sure if I want you but Im gonna keep you there just in case i don't get it. i have moved on so many times and he reappears

Gut feeling unlimitedinfiti i felt so sad when you said you would rather pull out before it gets too serious. that's when you pull away us water signs are not loose we are one mans women very loyal you would be surprised. Unless we feel used and abused like you are ignoring us and disappearing like we don't matter declare your love trust me take a risk. water signs love deep

ok well us Scorpios are more reserved maybe try one next time but don't do the disappearing act if you really like her it will break her heart.

Ok us Scorpios are more reserved maybe you should try one next time but try not to disappear it will break her heart

oh well if she broke yours did she cheat or am i going to far sorry

have you ever pretended not to like a girl but it shows in your actions that's not the case the virgo guy i know has done that

i read somewhere that a virgo man will test the girl to see how far he can push her is that true i know i cant generalize

come on where are you all

fair enough find a Scorpio girl be real with her don't disappear and you will get gold back

I agree with cluelesscancer

what sign was her ex do you know virgo man

how would you know your missing out one you have never tried we are slightly different i have had a relationship with pieces and at times it was perfect and at others .....

I agree that a Scorpio woman as a water sign can be hard to understand but for some reason My virgo man understands me perfectly to a T. maybe that's why he keeps coming back kind of confusing I think its game playing.

in that case maybe I should find a cancer guy. actually one of the best relationships I had and felt secure with no disappearing acts was with a cancer guy. just as I was really starting to fall for this guy who turns up you guessed it the Virgo man WTF but you disappeared i'm loyal what do you want blood noone knew where you was he was hibernating AGAIN. He comes back as like to claim me the other guy says its your choice I make my choice and then Virgo man disappears again your taking the ...... what does he want from me.

but Virgo man don't you want love ok would you not like to let in real love this alone shit is isolating don't you think. And being alone makes you selfish if you have someone in your life.

yeah but do you still feel that way if you have someone in your life. The alone thing is part of the disappearing act and can go on for ages help me out right or wrong

Virgo you are supposed to be trying to help me on my dilemma what to do do you recognize any of these actions. you've helped me a little but I need just an insy more

so does this mean that now your going to be as cold as ice with the next girl you meet or extra super duper cautious.

why did your ex choose her ex over you did she give you a reason and by the way virgo man you have been very helpful thankyou

so when you got back together after she done you wrong you trusted her again but you said she flirted to darn much so what you ended it? by the way you have very helpful and given me clarification.

thank you

No i understand what your saying about the money thing. My Virgo man is bang on the money thing we both are but sometimes I think he watches what I am capable of making and turns the money focus to me. He likes to know what I have been up to and is always trying to bring him self in. but i have always tried to encourage him to make his own success so that we can one day come together what do you think.

Virgo man don't get upset with me did you do the disappearing thing before you got played just wondering don't kick me.

Virgo guy did you do the disappearing thing before you got played don't kick me just wondering

ok like so the disappearing thing is like when you like to be alone sometimes no one hears from you and then your back again like nothing. at this disappearing time you could be for example sorting your life out or taking time out to reflect but you did not communicate to the other person. So the person in your life may think what the .... whats happened to him but your none the wiser and thought you were causing no harm this is the DISAPPEARING act. did you do any of this

Ok well its very confusing for the woman in your life my virgoguy had to explain to me that its when his stressed and he cant handle too much emotional stuff. But the issue is is that the time you take out to disappear is detrimental to the relationship because it is far tooooo long with out communication. it is hurtful for the woman in your life a girl that is not a cheater can end up cheating because she is left alone for an unrealistic amount of time and feels that you do not care. what do you think? she may also think that you have moved on and makes the steps to heal herself.

Virgo guy don't make these mistakes when your older my Virgo is older then you and I have been persevering with him for nearly 5 years. The reason because i also like to be alone and we had an understanding the difference i did not disappear to his extent the difference i made contact by phone to at least see how he was. He would not his DISAPPEARING act meant that he cut off the world including me its has driven me mad. I said to him not that long ago That I was gonna give up on him I told him that we could not go on like this any longer. What do you think. I have dated in between his disappearing acts when I have believed he has disappeared without realizing that months later he would return.I have met some lovely guys but he always returns when I think he is gone for good.

Aquabeauty I was just trying to help Virgo guy things wrong a different perspective that actions even though not intended have a reaction she have been hurt by his that's all. Virgo guy is still trying to understand I am not trying to resolve just trying to help understand there's no malice involved at all. I have enjoyed every bit of this conversation it has helped a lot. I understand that there is much that I do already understand and more that I have learned.

Virgo guy I understand where your coming from I have taken those very steps in aspects of my life so has he that's why we get on. We met at a stage in our life when we had changed direction for the better.I just wanted to make you aware of some of the behavior in case one done when your sorted and you have the life you want and you me that wonderful lady and to me you seem like a gentleman. that you are aware of the disappearing act and do not push the woman that is so right for you away.

I hope that you can reflect and sort the things you need to. get rid of the bad minded people and be free to focus. thank you unlimitedinfiniti good luck on your quest.

virgo goki did you read the whole thing. I am not playing games theres no nooky because he plays games with me. Why should I sleep with you when I have no idea when i'm going to see you again I would feel used well that's just me. I want to feel secure so i would prefer for you to give me some more time im not your ho

there is more to life then the bedroom its the icing on the cake not the be all

there more to life then the bedroom it can even be the icing on the cake but not the be all. I no ones Ho or Toy what is wrong with that its called self respect.

The older a Virgo man gets he can go without ... for a long time which is his choice with no regards to his partner get it now. he may enjoy it but only when it suits him when he is done disappearing what do you take me for.

Scorpios deserve our disappearing acts. You probably did something that messed with his mind.