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VirgoRagini
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Posted by Andalusia
Posted by VirgoRagini
Melly 😄
what do u think abt d two of us together ?



Well. It depends.

I have some thoughts, but I will need some background information before I give my opinion on the question you asked above.

For starters:

- How did you and your ex come to be together? Who pursued who?

- At what point did you realize the relationship with your ex, as you said, "wasn't going anywhere"?

- What were your thoughts and feelings towards your ex before you started dating? What were they while you were dating? What are they now?
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Melly here you go ..

My ex pursued me for an year before we were together ...
Before we started dating i was not sure of him ... once in the relationship i loved him a lot ... really a lt ... he is a really nice guy ... he loved me so much ... he was really good seriously ... a taurus actually ... too bad we could not work out things together.
We realized we are not marriage type .. we can not get married ... because he wanted some traditional wife ... m a career driven person ..break up was hard ... but we did it for the best ... n i dnt want to get back with him
i still appreciate the person he is ... n i f eel hv spent the best 3 years of my life with him ... i have no regrets in the relationship what so ever
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VirgoRagini
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Posted by scorchedearth
i don't believe that cancer moon will detach that easily. i suspect the chick is just pretending to give up to save face online and will continue to stalk him for a long time outside of the internet. that could just be me though.



yea that is me and i can not help it ... but atleast I now know that this is not good for me ... and I will remember each one of you ... before I try to go back
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Andalusia
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See, that's the thing.. I don't think she actually IS desperate. I think she was never *really* into him in the first place and is now just talking things out ad nausem to get a variety of viewpoints, which she will then either file away or completely disregard, in favor of doing whatever her initial course of action happened to be.

I don't really think she is affected on an emotional level by this Scorp. I think his behavior is probably not what she is used to - and that unfamiliar aspect is intriguing, which she then mistakes for genuine feelings.

I'll bet that she has just "fallen into" most of her past relationships based on the strength of *her partner's feelings for her*; because they pursued and she just went along with it.. Not because she felt compelled to be with them.

At least, that's how it goes with my older sister. And her top two signs percentage wise are Libra and Cancer.
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VirgoRagini
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11 Years

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Posted by Andalusia
See, that's the thing.. I don't think she actually IS desperate. I think she was never *really* into him in the first place and is now just talking things out ad nausem to get a variety of viewpoints, which she will then either file away or completely disregard, in favor of doing whatever her initial course of action happened to be.

I don't really think she is affected on an emotional level by this Scorp. I think his behavior is probably not what she is used to - and that unfamiliar aspect is intriguing, which she then mistakes for genuine feelings.

I'll bet that she has just "fallen into" most of her past relationships based on the strength of *her partner's feelings for her*; because they pursued and she just went along with it.. Not because she felt compelled to be with them.

At least, that's how it goes with my older sister. And her top two signs percentage wise are Libra and Cancer.



That is true .. i had one relation in the past ... and my bf pursued me ...
but I do find people easily who are reasy to pursue me ... n i choose to be with my boyfriend because he liked me a lot ..
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Andalusia
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Posted by Andalusia
See, that's the thing.. I don't think she actually IS desperate. I think she was never *really* into him in the first place and is now just talking things out ad nausem to get a variety of viewpoints, which she will then either file away or completely disregard, in favor of doing whatever her initial course of action happened to be.

I don't really think she is affected on an emotional level by this Scorp. I think his behavior is probably not what she is used to - and that unfamiliar aspect is intriguing, which she then mistakes for genuine feelings.

I'll bet that she has just "fallen into" most of her past relationships based on the strength of *her partner's feelings for her*; because they pursued and she just went along with it.. Not because she felt compelled to be with them.

At least, that's how it goes with my older sister. And her top two signs percentage wise are Libra and Cancer.



And I don't say this ^^^^ as a bad thing!! Although it probably comes across that way because of my unfortunate tendency to word things poorly.

It simply an Extroverted vs. Introverted approach to understanding and dealing with things. Most of us here probably happen to be introverts IRL (well at least I am), which is why we give the advice we do.. Because we only verbalize our thoughts and feelings AFTER we've sorted them out and/or realized how strong they are..

Extroverts communicate in the reverse - by talking about everything as soon as they think it.
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The Lady Scorpio
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Posted by Damnata
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I get the feeling after reading it again that you were either an ego boost for him or he just flaked on you because someone else caught his interest or isn't interested enough in you.



He totally missed out on Virgo awesomeness.

Poor guy...



Not sure, chick seems to be a bit delusional/egotistical.



But aren't we Scorpios notorious for triggering mental illness in women?
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Apparently, Stingers Ladies are notorious for triggering mental illness in men too.
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Damnata
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15 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

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Posted by sadisticdesire
I wanna play!!!

Sun is in 12 Degrees Scorpio.

Moon is in 08 Degrees Taurus.

Rising Sign is in 27 Degrees Virgo

Mercury is in 27 Degrees Libra.

Venus is in 01 Degrees Sagittarius.

Mars is in 17 Degrees Libra

Jupiter is in 22 Degrees Aries.

Saturn is in 18 Degrees Sagittarius.

Uranus is in 24 Degrees Sagittarius.

Neptune is in 05 Degrees Capricorn.

Pluto is in 10 Degrees Scorpio.

N. Node is in 01 Degrees Aries.



WAIT YOUR TURN!

*makes a wish*
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PhoenixRising
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Posted by Damnata
There shouldn't be empty time in your life because someone isn't messaging you. You managed to live your life just fine until now, right?

If it's just a distraction to get over your ex bf, then you're not being honest to yourself. You don't really care about the Scorpio but the attention he gave you made you feel special so now you're going off on that.

I'm a Virgo though, hope some Scorps get in here and reply better than I did.



No need. You replied just fine.
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Damnata
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Posted by GetMisted
Tame the squirrel, you must.



"No," said the little prince. "I am looking for friends. What does that mean--'tame'?"

"It is an act too often neglected," said the fox (READ SQUIRREL). It means to establish ties."

"'To establish ties'?"

"Just that," said the fox(READ SQUIRREL). "To me, you are still nothing more than a little boy who is just like a hundred thousand other little boys. And I have no need of you. And you, on your part, have no need of me. To you, I am nothing more than a fox (READ SQUIRREL) like a hundred thousand other foxes(READ SQUIRRELS). But if you tame me, then we shall need each other. To me, you will be unique in all the world. To you, I shall be unique in all the world . . ."

"I am beginning to understand," said the little prince. "There is a flower . . . I think that she has tamed me . . ."

"It is possible," said the fox(READ SQUIRREL). "On the Earth one sees all sorts of things."

"Oh, but this is not on the Earth!" said the little prince.