Virgo woman seeking insight into Scorp male.

Hi! I've really enjoyed reading all the posts about Scorps and man do most of them ring true to my SO.
He and I have been aquaintances/friends for many years. He (55) divorced, for the 2nd time about 2 years ago and recently (5 months ago) we became involved. As I stated, he is despite being a Sag cusp, very much Scorpio and he and I, I think, are building a very solid relationship. Yes, the absences are tough getting used to and I'm sure my "pointed questions" catch him off guards as well. All in all, though we are really clicking on all cylinders (including the bedroom despite the impression that us Virgos are NOT passionate).

Although, I didn't really need to read it, what I've read here, pretty much confirms that he does love me and he has managed to spill out the words, once. Of course, typical Virgo female that I am, I absolutely adore him and can't imagine life without him.

I've learned very quickly to pay attention to his actions first but never to discount his words. However, this is where I get a bit confused.

His actions are completely in tune with him loving me and wanting a LTR together.
His words, are, all over the board.

Very early on (3rd date) he asked me I wanted to get married. Once I picked myself up off the floor, I asked him "now?" and he told me "no, every." I told him that, at my age (47) I always hoped that it would happen, because that's how I was raised but realized that it was becoming less and less likely. A couple dates later, he comments how 2 divorces was his limit and asked me how I felt about living together. I told him that I would need to think about it.

Since then, he keeps throwing out conflicting comments. One day, he'll make reference to "when we are living together". Then he'll relay a conversation with one of his buddies and refers to me as "just using him for sex". A few days later, he had picked up some stuff out of his grandmothers attic (for his mom) which included a bunch of antique japanese silk fabric. He showed me the fabric (50 yards) and commented how it would be perfect for my wedding dress. And the list goes on and on and back and forth. Quite often, he'll make these conflicting remarks within minutes of one another.

Needless to say, my Virgo mind is downright confused by this and wondering if any of your Scorps could interpret this.

He wants you to move in with him.

and looks like he wants to marry you.

Talk to him bout it.

Do you love him enough to marry him?

When is his birth date?

His birthday is Nov. 22. I don't know time, etc.

Oh, and as to your first question, yes, I do. Suprises the heck out of me because I don't usually fall very fast but fall I did and hard.

My boyfriend is November 20th.

I love Scorp/Sag cusps.

So romantic and charming. Very upfront with their feelings.

You have known him for a long time.

Can you see yourself living with him?

Why not accept his offer?

I really need to read all the responses first. LOL

"He wants you to move in with him."

Actually, it's more like he would want to move in with me. He's currently in an apartment (had to sell his house in the divorce) plus I have a dog, who he has fallen for, even moreso than me. LOL

He's commented a couple times about how he lucked out with not only getting a great woman, plus a house, dog and lake property.

"You have known him for a long time.

Can you see yourself living with him?

Why not accept his offer?"

I've known him for over 10 years. Most of that time he was married so we were just friends/aquaintances (also with his now-ex).

Yes, I can see myself living with him but I guess he hasn't ever really asked, other than in concept. Based on other off the cuff comments, I think he's expecting that we will live together after the lease is up on his apartment (Nov.) but it's never really been stated.

Just last weekend, he commented on how he should start chipping in for groceries since I cook for us so much. I told him that we didn't need to worry about that until we start living together. He seemed taken aback and asked me when, exactly did I expect to see that happening (like I was being presumptious).

"One day, he'll make reference to "when we are living together". Then he'll relay a conversation with one of his buddies and refers to me as "just using him for sex"."



lol, Cjmolly ... that's just boy talk. My husband shit like that all the time when he tells me about a convo with somebody else.

"I told him you just like my boners .. and my money"

It doesn't mean anything, except being male.


Did you say you've never been married?

LOL he's giving you so many hints.

If he wants to live with you.......tell him to move in. That is if you are willing right now.

It's obvious he wants to.

"Did you say you've never been married?"

Nope, never have. No children (unless you include my yellow lab).

Of course, that is not saying that I've skated through my romantic life, unscathed. He asked my about some of that last weekend, and he almost cried from a couple of my tales.