What do you perfer?

Lately, I am being "courted" this is an old term that was used by the gentlmen that has been persuing me. We dated back in 7th grades and I really don't remember everything but he does, we went out on a date two weekends ago and we had a great time so he told me he wants to take his time and just court me. He wants to take me out, buy me flowers, take me places you know just getting to really know each other and taking our time. I Think this aspect of relationship and dating is missing so I am enjoying being courted so ladies which would you perfer?

History: We talked back in 7th grade like I said, back then he was so sweet he wrote love letters made me tapes with him singing on them and etc. Years later like 18yrs he found me on FB and ask me out and then he also ask for my email address and wrote me an long email about courting me. So we have two more dates plan on April 22, 2010 and April 28, 2010 so I kinda perfer this courting I like being adored 🙂

2011... April 2010 must have been a good month for me😉

His birthday is Oct 20,1977 so he is on the cusp

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Libra 27.12
Moon Aquarius 12.19
Mercury Libra 28.23
Venus Libra 4.31
Mars Cancer 27.19
Jupiter Cancer 6.07
Saturn Leo 28.12
Uranus Scorpio 11.11
Neptune Sagittarius 14.12
Pluto Libra 14.38
Lilith Gemini 20.07
Asc node Libra 15.08

This is his chart so when I look at it I see a lot of Air which I have never experience.

Posted by ellessque
you are experiencing the perfect libra in venus. 😄

we are pretty awesome and love the traditional coupling kind of stuff. the romantic drippy sappy crap.

...until you actually get in the bedroom then the "rules" get thrown out the window. LOL

I like that venus in libra it makes me feel adored which I have never truly felt adored ever I think, I have felt loved but there is a differnces when a men is in love with you and when he loves and simply adores you and that feeling is priceless makes me wanna just 😄

What age is 7th grade? This has just recently happened to me too. It's so sweet isn't it? I dated this guy for like...a week when I was 9 and he was 10. He also found me on FB (it's been 12 years since we last were in contact) and he confessed that he had a 'proper' crush on me back then and has never actually gotten over it; he's often thought of me over the years.

He didn't really court me but I think I would have loved that.

It does feel strange being with someone I knew, and only had memories of, as a kid though.

I hope you guys have a great time on those dates!!! Best of luck to the both of you.

Eh. Be careful with those Libra scorpio cuspers. Don't let yourself care too much too soon. You'll get burned when he waffles on you.

Posted by Cadillac
Libras suck and can't make up their minds.

True story

Thanks guys for your opinion and advice on this matter, I am weary of him espically since he is an libra and has so much in his chart. I am taking it slow it was nice to see him but it's still on the friendship level and I didn't get that I want to jump your bones feeling so we will see. I remember dating him at around 11 or 12 and now I am 32 and he is 33yrs old.

So I went on date #2 with the Libra guy friday and everything is good with how nice he is and not trying any funny business he hasn't even tried to kiss me or anything saying he REALLY wants to get to know me again after all these years then that will come later. Right now I think he is cool but there is no sexual attraction between us, also he is a little fragile and I don't know if this is common in libra's but he question things a lot, if I don't call or txt him the next day after our date he will say "Are you mad at me?" "Did I do something to offend you?". He just question everything if I don't response to him and I don't like that, he doesn't seem confident in his self and I know he has self esteem issues from his past and I am trying to be patience with him but I don't know.

Just thought I would post it here for your thoughts........

yeah he doesnt seem confident in his ability to attract you. OR this sounds reminiscent of the problems with the sag....didnt he wonder if he was doing something to upset you 2?

either way, no sexual attraction is a no-no for me. libra is an air sign, notorious for thinking and trying to maintain harmony.

and he has an aqua moon to boot. he probably doesnt know which way is up half the time; those guys think alot 2. his agression style is cancerous or caring. u know??

Posted by DMV
yeah he doesnt seem confident in his ability to attract you. OR this sounds reminiscent of the problems with the sag....didnt he wonder if he was doing something to upset you 2?

either way, no sexual attraction is a no-no for me. libra is an air sign, notorious for thinking and trying to maintain harmony.

well with the sag he said I had a funny way of showing my feelings which I am trying to get better at, I miss the sag so much but it just won't work so I am just letting it be and not contacting him 😢

The libra he thinks to damn much I think, I don't get that I won't to jump your bones feeling which I had with the sagg or perhaps any other men I might be attracted to and that's a major deal breaker. I am trying to be nice, since he is a nice person and I just don't want to focus on the look I prefer.

Posted by scorpdiva

Posted by DMV
yeah he doesnt seem confident in his ability to attract you. OR this sounds reminiscent of the problems with the sag....didnt he wonder if he was doing something to upset you 2?

either way, no sexual attraction is a no-no for me. libra is an air sign, notorious for thinking and trying to maintain harmony.

well with the sag he said I had a funny way of showing my feelings which I am trying to get better at, I miss the sag so much but it just won't work so I am just letting it be and not contacting him 😢

The libra he thinks to damn much I think, I don't get that I won't to jump your bones feeling which I had with the sagg or perhaps any other men I might be attracted to and that's a major deal breaker. I am trying to be nice, since he is a nice person and I just don't want to focus on the look I prefer.

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aww you miss your saggi. i bet he misses your crazy ass 2. i would put money on it.

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Posted by scorpdiva

Posted by DMV
yeah he doesnt seem confident in his ability to attract you. OR this sounds reminiscent of the problems with the sag....didnt he wonder if he was doing something to upset you 2?

either way, no sexual attraction is a no-no for me. libra is an air sign, notorious for thinking and trying to maintain harmony.

well with the sag he said I had a funny way of showing my feelings which I am trying to get better at, I miss the sag so much but it just won't work so I am just letting it be and not contacting him 😢

The libra he thinks to damn much I think, I don't get that I won't to jump your bones feeling which I had with the sagg or perhaps any other men I might be attracted to and that's a major deal breaker. I am trying to be nice, since he is a nice person and I just don't want to focus on the look I prefer.

aww you miss your saggi. i bet he misses your crazy ass 2. i would put money on it.

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I feel like the feelings are mutal, It's funny I remember the last sweet thing he said to me was that my scent was on his sweatshirt so I imagine him smelling his shirt thinking of me.........

yeah i would believe he would do that 2.

Im a Libra sun and Aqua moon and not sure if that is it, but I can be pretty sensitive. I really hate conflict so if someone is not showing an interest, even if I am interested in them, I will usually just wait it out and see. This can cause problems because I get the "I wish I knew how you really were while we were dating" and people calling wanting a second chance 6 months later... Not cool imo. If your interested I would make it a point to show them in a reasonable way. And yes I can be extremely indecisive, but I also make very good decisions most of the time. Quality over Quantity baby.

I love being courted!!!! My ex's Libra was in Venus and his Sun was Libra as well. He courted me hardcore and I loved evey minute of it. Enjoy!

Posted by lookoutbelow84093
Im a Libra sun and Aqua moon and not sure if that is it, but I can be pretty sensitive. I really hate conflict so if someone is not showing an interest, even if I am interested in them, I will usually just wait it out and see. This can cause problems because I get the "I wish I knew how you really were while we were dating" and people calling wanting a second chance 6 months later... Not cool imo. If your interested I would make it a point to show them in a reasonable way. And yes I can be extremely indecisive, but I also make very good decisions most of the time. Quality over Quantity baby.

Thanks this is good information🙂

Posted by natural25
I love being courted!!!! My ex's Libra was in Venus and his Sun was Libra as well. He courted me hardcore and I loved evey minute of it. Enjoy!

I am enjoying every min of his courting he is as sweet as pie, I just wish I wasn't just breaking up with someone because it's hard to just start liking someone else so soon and so fast.

Posted by scorpdiva
Lately, I am being "courted" this is an old term that was used by the gentlmen that has been persuing me. We dated back in 7th grades and I really don't remember everything but he does, we went out on a date two weekends ago and we had a great time so he told me he wants to take his time and just court me. He wants to take me out, buy me flowers, take me places you know just getting to really know each other and taking our time. I Think this aspect of relationship and dating is missing so I am enjoying being courted so ladies which would you perfer?

History: We talked back in 7th grade like I said, back then he was so sweet he wrote love letters made me tapes with him singing on them and etc. Years later like 18yrs he found me on FB and ask me out and then he also ask for my email address and wrote me an long email about courting me. So we have two more dates plan on April 22, 2010 and April 28, 2010 so I kinda perfer this courting I like being adored 🙂

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Posted by THEKingofLibra
Meh. The Libra in me doesn't really see you as 'dating' material, and you don't really arouse that much sexual interest in me. Its kind of boring actually to pretend to like someone and to court them, yada yada, meanwhile you thinking to yourself 'this bitch is dumb, get me the fuck outa here and lets go watch Mythbusters or something. Kari Byron is a hot Sagi!'. So .. I donno if its a self esteem thing as you think it is, or just 'meh' in general.. Maybe you'll call it indecisive, but I'll call it indifference.

Now if I was a Scorp.. I'd just dispense with this faggot Libra talk, pin you against the wall and fuck your tight little Scorpio ass. Down, boy! No time for this bullshit.

Anyway. I think the guy likes you but if you don't like him quit wasting his time. I'm sure he is used to rejection, just tell him straight up and don't use any maybes in your speech. Solid hardcore straight to the point. And no contact. Of course the best time would be after you two make out cause you know.. female brain is fuzzy that way, analyzes the saliva for MHC complex, determines if the mate is suitable, gets you aroused if its a go, yada yada, vaginal bullshit.

Well the thing is he is very senitive and I don't want to hurt his feelings, maybe if I follow your advice with the last sentence my attraction to him might change who knows. I do however think we will forever be friends we have been knowing eachother since we were 11 years old so even if we don't have a relationship this shouldn't interfere with our friendship that can still exist after all the years.