Whirlwind romance with Scorp male....

Ok... So... I've started dating my scorpion man for about a month. He doesn't seem to fit the Scorpio profile completely, but he is extremely passionate (as am I). He has already told me he loves me, & trusts me, and we already are finishing each other's sentences. He says he's never felt more comfortable with anyone before, and we have already met each other's families. He has also been very open with me about anything I ask him. He is a great guy, and I think he has potential to be ?the one? but I get worried about this being such a whirlwind romance that the flame could blow out as quickly as it was lit. His past relationships have been fairly long, but he is normally the ?breaker-upper.? He's already talking about things we can do this winter, and next summer, and he says he plans on sticking around for a while. My scorp and I have so many things in common its alarming! I am not a typical Virgo. I am not conservative, and our? ?passion? seems to be on the same level. I am also extremely straightforward which is something he appreciates. Is it typical of a scorpion to be flooded with these loving emotions and then just get bored eventually? Do most Scorpios want long-term commitments? Are they marriage material?

Thanks!!

DB speaks the truth:

**bow to DB**


Will scorps get bored eventually? Yes and no...

Are we good for long term commmitment? Yes and no...

Are we marriage material? Yes and no...

ITS SOOOOO TRUE....we work either end of the extreme..it could go both ways..

But saying all that...Virgo/Scorpio have been quite successful it appears..

Don't start analysing all this too soon...just go with the flow..If you start thinking down this line, you will start asking questions and this could spell trouble...The fact that your straightforward is always a plus...

I've never really looked into my birth chart, or his... but my non virgo traits: I'm not a complete perfectionist I dont stress out about things like that, I am not a conservative person, and I am extremely extraverted (I'm a all or nothing kind of person) and I always speak my mind. His non scorpio traits so far: he's not a jealous person (I am a professional singer and he actually encourages my work, and doesnt have a problem with people/men coming up to me after a show), he's been very revealing about his life and emotions with me, and he isnt passive aggressive. I guess one of the virgo traits I do have is the analyzation, and I asked him if he ever pictures himself being married (his parents have been together for decades, and my parents have been married and divorced several times to eachother and other people) to get an idea of what he might be looking for in his life and with relationships. He said the idea of marriage freaks him out. He knows I am very straightforward, so I dont assume he was thinking I was trying to set up a marriage proposal, but I felt like i was getting mixed signals from him with the whole planning out things to do together a year away from now, and saying he donesnt plan on going anywhere, and then saying marraige freaks him out. I guess that why I was wondering if scorpios get wrapped up in the passion so fast (to say all of the things he has been saying) and then get bored and move on because they can not make a bigger committment in the end... or am i just being crazy??! 😉

hmmm.. we were talking about goals, and about past relationships and he said they didnt work out. So I asked whe he says "worked out" what did he want them to work out to. thats how that whole topic came up. I didnt call him up and say, "hey!! you ever wanna get married?!" I'm not trying to push anything by any means, but I think its ok at the beginning of a relationship to get a feel for what both people want and what their expectations may be. I hope I didnt make him think anything of that, because there were no lines to really read between.

Virgoblond: "and then saying marraige freaks him out."

Marriage freaks me out too..I have to admit..I think from what you've said, he's pretty laid back and evolved kind of Scorpio..but EG is right, we can't be pushed into anything..if we signs of this, we will rebel..simple. Just enjoy what you have. It seems like early days..in the beginning it does sound as they will give their whole life up for you...but that is passion...it calms down afterwards and thats when you start seeing the real person..and whether they want to stick around etc..

I say stick it out for 6 months at least..you will have a better idea then. Thats if you haven't already done so..

"what did he want them to work out to"...he mostly liked read that as "marriage"...thats why he made a comment like that..

VB, Be prepared for a lot of tears from your side. They just want you to give, give and give.....while they hide. That is the usual pattern.
Sincerely hope that you turn out to be lucky.