why are some scorpio's cheaters?

so me and my scorpio have been broken up for a month now.
and its been weird
(he cheated on me)
but i never showed him i cared about him, so its not all his fault.

and when we broke up we exchanged bad words.
but later on.. i apologized.

he didnt accept it, but later on he text me telling me he loved me.
i told him the same, but them he text me saying "i miss you baby"
and i responded saying "ohh"

of course we stopped talking after that..

so now i found out that he text my best friend trying to "talk to her"
like telling her all these lines he used with me

why would he do this if he knew she was best friend? hes an idiot.
its like, hes trying to make me jealous.. and its not working.

oh and he currently has a girlfriend.


but he used to tell me all these things about how he was so in love with me, but he goes and does this? why would he need to lie.. we never even saw eachother.
i dont get it.

he also trusted me with telling me personal things, so i thought that was a good sign!

can never win with them!!! does he have a venus in sagi? 😉 he knew you'd talk to your best friend. that was done on purpose. does he have a df or just a poor girl who's just a friend with benefits and he's just using?

He's only trying to get you lined up as a back-up fuck. Don't fall for it. And when these types tell you "personal things" they end up resenting you because they opened up to you, so they pull away.

WOFT!

yeah i think shes just a girl he messes around with.
you're right i was making excuses for him, ugh.

and yeah im 17 yrs old.

i dont have self esteem issues.. cause i can honestly say i was out of his league. (something other people told me as well) i guess i just liked the affection he showed.

what does he even gain from telling my best friend these things?

"what does he even gain from telling my best friend these things?" - your reaction and keeps you thinking about him. don't forget they're master manipulators

i'm glad we agreed on something lol

if he wanted to get my reaction, it means he still cares?
im done caring..about him..

i just cant comprehend how someone can be so idiotic.
like why bother!?

why bother trying to manipulate someone?
for amusement?

he think you do. and why are you talking about it😉

because he can

yes

"why bother trying to manipulate someone? for amusement?"

Because that's what immature little boys do. Like the one in grade school who beat the crap out of you on the playground because he had a crush on you. Remember him? Same mentality, second phase.

""Like the one in grade school who beat the crap out of you on the playground because he had a crush on you. Remember him?""

omg, YES! I just had a flashback.


I suppose the one good that came out of it was that I learned how to defend myself...eventually. Silly boys.

I know, right? I'm surprised I still had hair left by second grade. I think when I pushed him off the top of the monkey bars and he broke his arm, he got the message. Man, I hated that kid. He always had a snotty nose too. Friggin' gross. 😛

lmao

even funnier that ^ all rings true for me, lol

Ah, good times... *snort* 🙂

so scorpio's act childish when they get jealous?
that does make sense..

cause when we were together, i remember once i put a picture of a FAMOUS person
and i had a caption saying "hes so gorgeous"
and next thing you know, he said something about hoe amazing this girl was.

i was like you've got to be kidding me.

"so scorpio's act childish when they get jealous?"

BWAHAHAHA!

Just a tad. You know, just an itty-bitty bit sometimes.

*snicker*

hahah i see what you're saying.

Have you googled Scorpio men yet? It will tell you all about it. 😉

all that stuff is so exaggerated and untrue. the only part they got right is that we're so misunderstood.

HAHAHAHA! You funny.

i have, but i dont know which part is true about them.

thats why i was so confused with my ex.
because he told me all these things about how hes never felt like he did with me.. and i thought scorpio's wouldnt say they were in love if they didn't mean it.. so yeah.

tell me away!

Well, if you were distant, as you said you were, he probably took that as rejection, hence the cheating and all the little trying to make you jealous games to evoke a response and see if you cared.

Did you ever tell him how you felt about him? If you did and he still screwed around on you...forget it! He'll just do it again.

what did he take as rejection?
i always tried to get close to him.. i told him i wish we were closer.. and he would just rarely let me in..

i told him that i loved him but everytime we were fighting i was so heartless, and acted like i didnt care.

Cuppycakes I'm sure he cares about you but remember you are 17 and he is young too. That's young love. Girls will come and go in his life and guys will come and go in your life. Until you're both at least 25-26. That's when people grow up a bit more.

yeah, i guess you're right..

🦇

oh and one more thing..
how do you know when a scorpio is being manipulative?

^ you should know. you're a cancer.

I noticed on yahoo answers, and with my experience a lot of them are. But I don't think it's just cause he's a Scorpio, it's men in general. Women have the same problems with Aquarius,Sag,Leo and Libra men. I've always heard men don't really mature and want to settle down until they're in their 30's and I believe it.