Are Scorpios really this crazy?

Ok, so the Scorpio I have been dating is seriously getting out of hand. I left to go to the store to get groceries and about an hour and a half later I come home and see 39 missed calls on my cellphone. This is psychotic!!! And this isn't the first time this has happened. Are Scorpios really this crazy?

yes.

LOL Arian you said "ONLY" 39? Wow, so this is only going to get worse eh?

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Scorps are not crazy, but the people who want them are. Can't blame the gold for one's greed.

At least he's showing you he care, some are distant and i'd rather my scorpio show he cares. I'd take 39 calls anyday.

YES!!! But only 39? Seriously. Scorp males are way more intese than the women. If a scorp doesn't show they care, then they probably don't. Not the way you would like for them to anyway.

LOL I leave it at home so I don't have to hear it ring 39 times LMAO

"Be careful, or you might end up eating those words, Blue Aqua"

lol MsPisces after three years i'm sure i'll never see my scorpio react that way. Mayb because he's older 40,but his philos is the one thats so jealous mayb the one doing dirt. Who knows that could be my scopio playn mind games. I'd leave before ever cheating on my scorpio but i can say the attention that i get from other guys feels good. Just wish i would get that kind of attention from scorp..39 times with in hour? that is a bit much.

Luckystar - I'm an Aquarius. Both sun and moon sign. So, as you can see this issue is really driving me nuts because I like my space. I'm beginning to see that Scorpios are VERY emotionally needy. And the jeliousy/possessiveness is driving me insane.

What are you doing to make your scorp suspicious??

I am a Scorp and I would never do that.

hell yea they are crazy

LOL

calling someone 39 times isn't a sign of jealousy or caring but a sign of borderline psychotic and extremely insecure behavior. i'd be afraid of that guy. does he have controlling issues?

Ok, So I really am convinced that he is psychotic now. Not only has he continued calling me continuously (which I've kinda provoked, I suppose, since I've been ignoring him). BUT I also found a blog online an ex of his wrote about him beating her. They dated two years ago.. but.. if he still has crazy behavior like this I'm sure that it's not a problem that has been fixed.

see, b careful. it's a control issues behavior and not caring. does he try to tell you what to wear and what to eat? i knew someone who went through that. is he much older then you? usually, older men like to date much younger girls because they can control them better.

what to eat?

Ariesgirl - Oh yeah he has some controlling issues. He has never outright demanded that I change anything but he has always tried getting on discussions about things that bother him that I do. What I wear is a good example. He didn't like how I would wear revealing clothes at times and his reasoning was because he didn't like the fact that other men were eye f-ing me. So he tried to get me to at least work with him on it 50/50. And well... that didn't work because he thought I was going to completely ditch my revealing clothes altogether!!! Nope!!! That's when I said, "Well hon, if it bothers you so much how about if I just wear clothes like that when we aren't together?" HAHA That made him freak out. And yes he is a little older than me. He is 26 and I am 22.

pushit - HAHA yes yes yes!!! At one point I just turned my phone completely off. Then I listened to my phone messages and he was like, "Hey hon I'm sorry if it looks like I called a crazy amount of times. From here it will only ring through twice and go right to your voicemail and I have to call a bunch of times to make sure it went through." So yeah, hes in another country right now. Everytime that he calls.. on my end it rings like 4 or 5 times. So, I don't know if he is telling the truth or what not BUT that is just still an insane amount to call.

Sun Scorpio
Moon Cancer
Mercury Scorpio
Venus Capricorn
Mars Virgo

That's my possessive jelious freak right there. My phone is ringing as I post this LMAO!

LMAO! help me!!

pushit - LMFAO! Have we dated the same man or something? I was reading through that and was like... OMG THAT IS SO HIM!!!

Evan_Kahn - Oh you better believe he is a big drama queen... about everything! I remember the nights I'd drive an hour to get to his place after working a 12 hour shift, sit up and watch a movie with him, and then be so exhausted that I'd fall asleep midway through and he would keep tossing and turning to try and wake me up so I'd have sex with him. Annd theeen when that didn't work he would start pacing the floor. And then when that didn't work he would finally wake me up and be like "What's wrong? Do you love me? Hon, why are you sleeping?" It's like DUUUUH I worked 12 freaking hours hahaha.

My sign:
Sun Aquarius
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Sagittarius

Looks pretty uncompatible eh?

he's just being manipulative and very insecure. you can't expect to change for anyone. every relationship requires flexibility but not complete change. aren't aquarius ppl happy go lucky?😉 it's hard for you to be with someone who's that needy and in your face all the time.

yup they are insane....

Scorp's Yikes!! I had one that was such a cheater-never treated me like this...but I was so damn good to him he realized and wanted me back...I could do nothing but go into Aqua. moon asshole mode.

A guy I dated for several years had a Scorp. moon- believe you me he acted the same way...I was a single mom, worked a full time job, and went to school (2) nites a week (4) hours per nite. I had to study, i had housework, I has a son...he would call and call and call and i would turn off my phone after i would tell him time and time again that i was studying- no forget it... he would show up at my door and stick his head in the mail flap and I would have to open the door. then he would go on and on about how'd he'd called and this went on for weeks. I was nice, I pleaded for my space (AND I'M A DAMN CANCER- aqua moon THOUGH). he would grab my phone and look thru my numbers...he would drive 25 miles unannounced to my work when I would honestly tell him a male friend wanted to take me out because we'd run into each other -

and in the end...HE MADE ME FEEL LIKE CRAP for talking to him harshly and for not giving him sex when he begged and pleaded for it- I was so turned off by his immature behaviour that I couldnt have sex with him...hello, mental block...

please, you will never have your life if you stay with this sort of immature controlling person...39 times is so overboard I dont care how much he loves you. that is whack and you know it...he will seriously not respect your space, your time or you for that matter. self serving jerks,,,I know, I was with one. and when we broke up -he made sure I suffered as much as possible.

he started online dating behind my back and told me after we'd had a fight and didnt speak for weeks...he had started talking to this girl...it took him less than a year to find someone else...AND BUY HER...he got rid of his old car and bought a new one (for him, his 2 kids, her 2 kids and her)...marries her in less than a year. he wasted no time finding someone to buy- he couldnt buy me and he tried, boy did he try.

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lammal23 I think you are kind of enjoying the fact that you have him calling you like crazy. Yes, if you ignor him it will only get worse.

If he is abusive run!

moonmadness - Holy crap! Yeah I don't want anything to escalate into that in my life. That is just insane!! I definitely need my space in a relationship. I hate feeling like I am walking around with a siamese twin stuck to my buttcheek. lol

Queenscorpio - No, actually it is pretty rather annoying. I do admit that there is some curiousity in the back of my head if he can break a record on how many times he can call in a day. But other than that... I really don't like to get woken up by my phone buzzing at 3 in the morning when I have to be up by 4:30

lol what ever happened to getting a well balanced boyfriend? Probably all taken already eh?

LOL "39 Missed Calls"
He obviously likes you
Did you get the third degree when you finally contacted him?

What's everyones opinion on the best sign to date?

What's everyones opinion on the best sign to date?

lmao

search a dating website where signs are used to match up all aspects of your chart - if it doesn't exist, start one 😛

get out while you can.. it may be cute how much hes calling now but it will never stop.. and he has history of abusing women! red flags!!

Oi what's wrong with mutables Elena? Lol. Or do you mean only guys? Most of my planets are in mutable signs...*pouts*

And Lammal, i'd be very careful with that one if I were you. Previous history of abuse, as well as calling you that many times is seriously a bit too crazy, even for a scorpio man. A definite red-flag.

It also bothers me that he is not understanding of your work arrangements and sleep requirements, a man that really loves you and cares about you will care about YOUR wellbeing. It doesn't take a genuis to figure out that somebody that's just worked a 12 hour shift is going to be tired and not have much energy. If he was smart (and not so selfish), he'd encourage you to have a short nap (half hour / 45 mins) and cuddle you while you fell asleep, then you'd wake up with a big energy spurt and be happy to see him! Would certainly benefit him as well.

I KNOW SCORPS CAN BE POSSESSIVE BUT HE HAS A HISTORY OF ABUSE.

THAT'S SCARY.

Sweetheart..GET THE HELL OUT while you still can.

The phone calls are nuts BUT in a funny way to me anyway....The abuse history will not stop with you..Please don't have the mind frame you will be the one to be different....