why he asked: "miss me?"

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Since we broke up, he sends me messages sometime, but I did feel good because he broke up with me. I keep doing good in my life. I got his messages and he asked how is my day and my feeling recently.

I asked him what does he means, he replied: You went away and both were not cool.

I don't know what is he really meaning. Then he asked: miss me 🙂?

I think we broke up already, but why he asks this? I don't know.

Is he playing mind game?
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Posted by tinamaxblack
(previous: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/does-scorpio-man-contact-ex-actively-after-breakup--8908414/)

Since we broke up, he sends me messages sometime, but I did feel good because he broke up with me. I keep doing good in my life. I got his messages and he asked how is my day and my feeling recently.

I asked him what does he means, he replied: I went away and both were not cool.

I don't know what is he really meaning. Then he asked: miss me 🙂?

I think we broke up already, but why he asks this? I don't know.

Is he playing mind game?
It's ego preserving tactic.
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Yes.

Guys who constantly get in touch after initiating the break up are doing nothing but assuring their own egos/feelings. They don't give a shit about yours. They feel bad for ending things and will constantly "check" on you because of THEIR guilt.

Don't think anything more into it. There are no seeeeecret feelings or other fairy bullshit that you want to twist it into because you still have feelings for the dude.

...and stop responding to his messages for fuck's sake. You're broken up.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Yes.

Guys who constantly get in touch after initiating the break up are doing nothing but assuring their own egos/feelings. They don't give a shit about yours. They feel bad for ending things and will constantly "check" on you because of THEIR guilt.

Don't think anything more into it. There are no seeeeecret feelings or other fairy bullshit that you want to twist it into because you still have feelings for the dude.

...and stop responding to his messages for fuck's sake. You're broken up.
well good.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Yes.

Guys who constantly get in touch after initiating the break up are doing nothing but assuring their own egos/feelings. They don't give a shit about yours. They feel bad for ending things and will constantly "check" on you because of THEIR guilt.

Don't think anything more into it. There are no seeeeecret feelings or other fairy bullshit that you want to twist it into because you still have feelings for the dude.

...and stop responding to his messages for fuck's sake. You're broken up.
well good.
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Yes, because that's why you asked, for peace of mind.

Stop communicating with him. It just makes the break up all that much harder to wade through emotionally.
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Yes, because that's why you asked, for peace of mind.

Stop communicating with him. It just makes the break up all that much harder to wade through emotionally.
the worst thing is, some of our projects still not be done yet. That makes money.

I try hard to make myself being professional. Even though I have another job so I don't have more time to concern his mind games.

I just feel annoying why he keep saying this. And I am not in his city anymore. He asks me when do I come back for several times. For work I have to be in a professional way.